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When I masturbate, one muscle on the right side of my neck hurts really bad, to the point where I have to stop. Why is this, what can I do about it?
Could it be that you're straining your neck when you're masturbating? Maybe tensing up your neck muscles when you're enjoying it and you don't realize it? If you're laying down when this happens you could try supporting your neck with a pillow. If you're sitting or standing you could try to make note of when you feel this pain in your neck and relax a little so you can focus on more enjoyable things.
Hello, I am a 17-year old female and I'm really feeling my boyfriend. I think that he's the one. I was thinking about having sex with him but I want to go to clinic first. I haven't had sex but he has. So I want to make sure that everything is okay before he puts it in me.(LOL) But how should I go about setting up an appointment for the clinic? Are they free? Thank you in advance!
If you go to Planned Parenthood or a similar womens clinic they are either free or very low cost. They are listed in the yellow pages (the online one too) and you just call the branch nearest you and explain that you want to set up an appointment. They usually have evening and weekend hours so you should not have to miss school. They'll take care of the rest and they will not alert your parents or call you at home unless you tell them to. They'll examine you, do any sti tests, answer any questions you have (they've heard everything so don't be embarrassed), provide you with birth control, and show you how to use condoms properly.
i started the pill (othro tricyclen lo) and ever since i started (this is my 2nd pack) i've been really dry down there. is this normal? and what can i do to fix it?
Yes it is normal to have vaginal dryness when you are on the pill. I have been on the pill for years and have experienced this myself on occasion and it is very simple to fix. Contact the doctor that wrote the prescription for you and they will be happy to recommend a product that you can use to fix this. Normally it is just an over the counter cream, but if it is a severe problem you may need something that can only be prescribed. If you are sexually active be sure to use plenty of water based lubricant to avoid any scraping or tearing.
hmmm, not sure what subject to put this under..
but if you're seventeen, dont have a drivers license,
how do you get in a movie that requires you to be seventeen?
You just need a valid ID that shows your picture, full name, and age. That can be a drivers license, state ID (also obtained through your local DMV), or a school ID. If you do not have a valid ID you will most likely have to have an adult buy the tickets for you.
i still really like my ex, but he hates me.
any songs for that, haha?
Songs about a guy that hates his ex? You could try these:
"Hate (I Really Don't Like You)" by Plain White T's
"My Friends Over You" by New Found Glory
"Chicago is So Two Years Ago" by Fall Out Boy
I need you to tell me some good FREE virus blocks, and virus scanner programs. I have a good paid program..but the year is over, my dad hasn't got round to re-newing it..so I am quite worried about my laptop since there are no virus blocks, and I use LimeWire.
thanks!!
I second the vote for Avast, I have it now and it is wonderful. I tried AVG and Zone Alarm and both let viruses through on my computer, blech. Norton and McAfee just didn't seem to do anything.
How can i get rid of razor burns
When i shave i get these red dots and i hate them is there a way i can get rid of them ?
Before you shave make sure you exfoliate the area with body scrub. Now you may have to experiment a bit when it comes to what to shave with. I found cheap conditioner or shampoo works best for me, but others prefer shaving gel or lotion. When shaving I'd recommend a twin blade razor, any more blades and the razor burn is worse in my opinion and a single blade just doesn't get all the hair. Once you're done shaving wash the area well, pat dry, and apply hydrocortizone cream. You can get it at any drugstore for a couple bucks and a generic brand is fine. You can use the cream daily or as needed and you should notice the razor burn is greatly reduced or gone completely.
I know it, & its on the tip of my tounge.
*$&WETUj its piiisssssssssing me off.
all i can think of is
" cause I know that I am better off alone "
slj
sd;gjsdjg;
helllllllllpp !
There is also a song by Alice Deejay called "Better Off Alone" it's kind of a dance tune.
Alright, im 17 years old, and a female. I want to go on the pill...Ive had the same boyfreind for two years and we have had sex. Though we are careful and we use a condom everytime, i would feel better if i was on the pill. however, my mom doesnt think that i should go on the pill, or at least she doesnt want me to until im older. i also want it to help with my period, which is always insane to deal with and its 7 days long every 25 days.
is there any way that i can get birth control without my parents ever knowing?
If there is a Planned Parenthood in your area (or similar women's clinic) they can give you pelvic exams, std screening, condoms, and birth control for free or very very low cost. They will not contact your parents at all.
ok so i've(im 20) had a crush(he is 20) on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend(is 19) whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he said he knows what im capable of and he likes u. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP
ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused
First I'm sorry that I didn't get your message sooner and hopefully nothing horrible has happened between now and then.
Let me see if I understand this. Your crush used to date your sister. Your crushes best friend likes you. Your crush won't go out with you because it'd be weird due to having dated your sister. Your crush is also sending mixed signals to his ex gf who is not your sister. Am I up to speed?
Assuming I understand you correctly this is what I call a high drama situation and you don't need it. Mature guys don't mess with your head saying they'll sleep with you, but won't date you and they certainly don't send mixed signals to ex gf's. You don't need to waste your time or energy on your crush, he isn't seriously interested but probably wants to keep you around as a plan b. Plan b is not good. That means you aren't good enough to be plan a, number 1, the top slot, his girlfriend. You deserve to be someones number 1.
Secondly, your crush used to date your sister! The unwritten dating code says thou shalt not date thy sisters ex bf! I don't care how much she says she doesn't care, one day she will and you 2 are sisters and have a bond way better than risking over this immature guy.
As for your crushes friend that likes you, be very careful that you are not leading him on. His feelings for you may eventually go away, especially if you don't return them but be certain you don't take advantage of him. Good friends are hard to come by, don't ruin this friendship by being selfish or cruel.
Ok I think I covered everything. If you need any more help let me know.
Good luck!
My boyfriend and I are moving in together soon. Any tips on how to make it work well? Thanks!
Sit down and discuss how and when the bills will be paid. Are you paying some of the bills and he's paying others? Are you both splitting each bill 50/50? Are you both working and able to afford a fair share of the living costs? Are you both on the lease/rental agreement?
Discuss household chores and purchases. Who will clean what, when, and how often? Who is buying food, when, and how often? Will furniture purchases be made together? Will there be pets?
What about your schedules? Do you have similar work/school schedules or will one of you want to sleep while the other is up and about? Does one of you like to have people over constantly while the other prefers a quieter environment?
Why do you really want to live together? Are you considering getting engaged/married? Are you just trying to save money? Do you simply spend lots of time together already and it just makes sense? Are other people saying you should move in together?
My boyfriend is very close minded. He is totally against drinking, smoking, drugs, dying your hair, peircings, tattoos, etc. He freaks out when I say I want to do any of these things, especially without him. What can I do to make him more open minded?
Well lets see here. Drinking, smoking, and using drugs are not good for you and your boyfriend is not close minded for not wanting you or anyone else to do those things. He is simply concerned for the health and well being of those he cares about, including himself. Tattoos and piercings can be safe if done by a professionally trained person following all of the appropriate safety and sanitation guidelines. Otherwise there is a risk of infection and worse damage. Dying your hair probably has the least risk and a professionally trained stylist will do a test patch to make sure you don't have an allergy to any of the chemicals.
Could it be that your boyfriend doesn't want you to alter your appearance with tattoos, piercings, or colored hair because he loves your appearance just the way it is? Perhaps you should be asking yourself WHY you not only want to drastically alter your appearance, but WHY you want to fill your body with harmful substances such as drugs, smoke, and alcohol. It could also be helpful to speak with a counselor about this as well since something else may be going on that you wish to cover up. Covering things up never fixes the problem, it just makes it worse.
does anyone know any songs about a friend who betrayed you or backstabbed you... who totally forgot about you once she got a boyfriend.. anything like that???
i would really appreciate it
You don't mention the type of music you like and I suppose many songs can be interpreted more than one way, but how about:
"In the End" by Linkin Park
"My Immortal" by Evanescence
"My Give a Damn's Busted" by Jo Dee Messina
"We Used to Be Friends" by Dandy Warhols
"Why Do I Feel So Sad" by Alicia Keys
"The First Cut is the Deepest" by Sheryl Crow
"Blurry" by Puddle of Mudd
"Bitter End" by The Dixie Chicks
I am starting to get close to my limit on my credit card and it doesnt seem I will ever be able to pay it off without making money somewhere else. Does anyone know of a way I can work part time online or do surveys to make money? Anything that will get me about $200 extra a month. I hope someone out there can help me. Thanks for your time.
You could also check out craigslist.org
They have a gigs section full of temporary sources of cash like filing, copying, entering data, cleaning, etc.
what do you do for a teacher who wrote you recommendations? write a thank you note? ..anything else? chocolates? lol
A thank you note/card is always nice. If you really want to you can always include an inexpensive gift card to Starbucks since they have a pretty decent variety of goodies to choose from.
I normally don't mind having scars. They heal and fade on their own for me after a couple years. I'm a total klutz, so having scars on my legs isn't a big deal to me. Problem? I recently burned my face with a curling iron, and I really don't want a mark that big on my chin for the next two years.
My dermatologist told me that Mederma is a waste of money and time. Are there any other treatments I can do, and has anyone had any luck with Mederma? Absolutely anything is very much appreciated! =]
Aloe Vera is great for treating burns especially if the wound is open. You can either break off a piece of an Aloe Vera plant or get the gel form at a local drugstore. Once the scabbing stage has begun you can use vitamin e oil or cream to reduce scarring and discoloration.
I have a question about asking for letters of recommendation...
I am interested in applying to graduate school, and wanted to know a couple of things about the whole letter of recommendation process:
a) if I am not in the same city as my previous university, what would be a good way of asking a professor to write me a letter? Email, phone, etc.. and also, what would I need to mention to them?
b) I want to apply to multiple programs- is it generally acceptable to have the professor submit a letter to an office in the university, that will send out photocopies of the letter out to each school? Or is it necessary to have the professor him/herself send out a copy to each and every school I apply to?
Thank you!!
Do call the professors you want to write recommendations for you. Once you have spoken to them you can explain that you will send the materials they need via email or snail mail, that way they will be watching for them.
If you want to apply to multiple programs make sure the professors writing your recommendations know this. Give them the info needed for each program all at once. Often they can write one letter that addresses everyones questions and just change one line. For example: "Dear American University Engineering program, it is with my greatest pleasure to recommend John Doe to your program. Blah, blah, blah...." They would simply change the "American University Engineering program" to make sure each program is properly addressed.
Also be sure to send thank you cards to each person writing you a recommendation. Sure professors do these all the time and it is an expected part of their job, but a thank you goes a long way.
so me and my bf are gonna have sex soon... Im 16, and i dont wanna go on the pill becuase I dont want my mom knowing.. ANYWAYS. I was just wondering, we wanna be REALLY safe, so a condom FOR SURE and we dont wanna have sex when im like about to ovulate u know.. so whats the best time? and also. he wouldnt ejacualte in me... how safe are we?
There are alternatives to the pill. You can get on the depo provera shot, but you do have to make sure you get the next shot on time (I think they're about 3 months apart). You can go to any Planned Parenthood (or other women's health clinic) and obtain this for free and without them telling your parents. They will even supply you with condoms and instruct you on how to use them.
Also the pull out method isn't reliable. It is best if you use condoms AND another form of birth control such as the pill or depo provera. Of course the absolute safest thing is to just not do it at all.
How can I make some money besides babysitting, or selling cans or something.
Any ideas? I'm just seeing if there's anything else a 14 year old can do besides selling cans and all that & babysitting.
THANKS!
Have you tried asking your parents? Depending on what they do for a living there may be teen appropriate jobs that you could do for a few hours a week. Other teens mow lawns or help neighbors (especially elderly ones) around the house. You could also check the career center/counseling office at your school. Often they know of teen friendly jobs.
Umm i dont know how to put this but are maroon 5 racist because i was listening to 1 of their songs at my friends house and it sounded like they said the rude word for negro???
Please put my mind at rest because i really like them but would stop if they are...
The song goes sumthing like
the weather gets cold outside
and youve got nobody to love
ooo ooo
....not exact but if you recognise it???
thanks xx
That song is called Harder to Breathe and I couldn't find any racist remarks in it. Of course if there is a more explicit version available that I haven't heard they might use racial remarks. I really hope not cause I like their music and feel those negative remarks are unecessary.
Here are the lyrics I found:
How dare you say that my behavior is unacceptable
So condescending unnecessarily critical
I have the tendency of getting very physical
So watch your step cause if I do you'll need a miracle
You drain me dry and make me wonder why I'm even here
This Double Vision I was seeing is finally clear
You want to stay but you know very well I want you gone
Not fit to fuckin' [CD cover says: "funkin'"] tread the ground that I'm walking on
When it gets cold outside and you got nobody to love
You'll understand what I mean when I say
There's no way we're gonna give up
And like a little girl cries in the face of a monster that lives in her dreams
Is there anyone out there cause it's getting harder and harder to breathe
Is there anyone out there cause it's getting harder and harder to breathe
What you are doing is screwing things up inside my head
You should know better you never listened to a word I said
Clutching your pillow and writhing in a naked sweat
Hoping somebody someday will do you like I did
When it gets cold outside and you got nobody to love
You'll understand what I mean when I say
There's no way we're gonna give up
And like a little girl cries in the face of a monster that lives in her dreams
Is there anyone out there cause it's getting harder and harder to breathe
Is there anyone out there cause it's getting harder and harder to breathe
Does it kill
Does it burn
Is it painful to learn
That it's me that has all the control
Does it thrill
Does it sting
When you feel what I bring
And you wish that you had me to hold
When it gets cold outside and you got nobody to love
You'll understand what I mean when I say
There's no way we're gonna give up
And like a little girl cries in the face of a monster that lives in her dreams
Is there anyone out there cause it's getting harder and harder to breathe
Is there anyone out there cause it's getting harder and harder to breathe
is there anyone out there cuz its gettin harder and harder to breathe