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Moving in together
My boyfriend and I are moving in together soon. Any tips on how to make it work well? Thanks!
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Discuss the bills,and who pays what evenly.Everything will fall into place!When you move in with someone you learn A LOT about them..Conflicts will emerge possibly,or possibly not.I wish you the best.
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Sit down and discuss how and when the bills will be paid. Are you paying some of the bills and he's paying others? Are you both splitting each bill 50/50? Are you both working and able to afford a fair share of the living costs? Are you both on the lease/rental agreement?
Discuss household chores and purchases. Who will clean what, when, and how often? Who is buying food, when, and how often? Will furniture purchases be made together? Will there be pets?
What about your schedules? Do you have similar work/school schedules or will one of you want to sleep while the other is up and about? Does one of you like to have people over constantly while the other prefers a quieter environment?
Why do you really want to live together? Are you considering getting engaged/married? Are you just trying to save money? Do you simply spend lots of time together already and it just makes sense? Are other people saying you should move in together?
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Dont be the only one to do all the work in the house and dont be supporting him
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