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I met this guy last weekend at a place where everyone in my town hang out. we hit it off really well and started dating a couple days later. everything was going really great but then i found out from a few friends i have in the grade above that he did ectasy oxy cotton ect. i definetley am not into drugs, i called him and told him i never wanted to see him ever again. he started crying and said i havent cried this much since my mom died of coursr i felt awful so i agreed to have him drive over to my house and we could talk i told him that i thought we rushed into going out and that i couldnt be with somebody who does drugs i want to be a dancer in high school and i cant be associated with drugs. he also told people that we were going to have sex on our one month anniversary. which made me furious because im not like that to know a guy for like 5 days and agree to that. i broke up with him and now hes threatning to kill two of my friends that told me that he did drugs. hes physco..he drives past my house twice a day and it freaks me out he says we will be together no matter what and he'll stop at nothing to get me even if he has to hurt people that we are meant to be together im really scared and i dont know what to do.

I think you should just really call the cops.
Tell them that hes threatening to kill yurr friends, and that he does drugs and its emotionally abusing you. i know, you probably dont want to do that, but tell them! it will help you ALOT! he can get arrested, and thrown into jail, that dirty little scum.

hes probably a rapist, and a pedophile. and thats a serious thing, that scum deserves to be in court.

CALL THE COPS AS SOON AS YOU SEE THIS.

xoxo all the best luck to you!

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okayy i really need advice asap. okay so theres this girl who now goes to my school this year & shes a sweetheart and were friends. Were not like super close but i love her to death. So theres this guy at my school that is just gorgeous & i really like him. We hung out and all that & i really connected with him. Well when i came home i found out that the girl that i'm friends with went out with him for about a year off and on. She was upset with me and cried so muchh. Like she told me she doesn't want to be friends with me anymore cause it hurts her too much and she thinks i don't care about her. i talked to her and all that but she decided not to be friends. When one of my friends get mad at me, like everyone does and i'm so scared of that. I know your gonna say well then their not real friends but idk, just bare with me lol. anyways - Well the guy i like says he really likes me & don't even like his ex girlfriend anymore but shes still head over heels for him. I offered to stop talking to him and shes like NOO i don't wanna make your life shitty, please just get to know him & leave me out of it. I really don't know what to do. When i hung out with him the other dayy, i didn't wanna leave. Hes so cute & sweet and ahh i just like him alott. So what do i do? The girl i was friends with said shed get overr it eventually but i don't want the whole world hateing me because of this. For one its not their business and two, i can't stop who i likee even when i didn't know they datedd. i'm so shooken up over this situation. My best friend is also friends with this girl and i'm so afraid she`ll turn on me after she said she really wouldn't. I'm so scared. And i feel so bad that i did this to the girl but i don't know what to do. should i stop talking to him? should i just let her get used to it, or get over it ? Just give me advice on what you would do if you were in my place. thnk you so much.

Wow, this is hard, I think your just going to have to go for it, if you're friends go against you, screw them.. their not true friends! Since you're friend gave you permission to go for it, do it!

xox, i couldnt really help much, ive never been in that situation.

if you need more help, inbox me love

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How long can you take videos on the LG Chocolate?

if you go to options, you can have all the memory you have left on the phone, but if you dont, 15 seconds.

Go to the video screen
--> options
--> Time limit.
--> memory.

i believe its like that, my phones in my room.

good luck :]

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What exactly is dry humping?

Dry humping is when two people rub their bodies against each other--often moving their genitals together and simulating the motions of intercourse without actually having it. People can be partially or fully clothed or not wear clothes at all. It's also called dry sex.

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it reallt takes me down the toilet when people tell me im not cool or im ugly or sucpicous odor arrises from me. i wanna show them that i am cool and cute and whatever. what can i do or say to them that will make them be like wow that girl is sweeeettttt.

Well, I agree with the coloumnist below me, It's true! Some people will always not like you, some will! Just be yourself and dont be fake, im just telling you that, some of my friends were fake, and they learned the good'oll way.

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what is a good cheap mp3 player or a website where everything is very cheap... thanks

Well, Apple sells the ipod shuffle clip! its $79!

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my cable got cutt of like 3 days go just my luck! so i only have the local channels! i have been dying to watch highschool musical 2 and now i cant see it. what should i do? i cant go over a friends or family hosue just becuase my mom said no. can i watch it online? any links anything? oh and youtube isnt good for this help me please!!!

You can probably try downloading it with limewire.

www.limewire.com

xox good luck

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I can't read far away such as if I'm in the back of a room in a classroom, I can't read the chalk board. I can define the color, but not the words. I can also see shapes at a distance, but not words. I sometimes have a hard time reading street names. Also, if there is words on the television and I'm far way, I can't read the word because it's a blur. Am I nearsighted and what happens when you are?

You might need reading glasses, go to your local eye doctor to work this out.

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i'm pretty skinny.
i wanna gain weight on my legs, is there anyway to gain weight on my legs anything i can eat or do?

do some workouts with machines with leg pushes or just.. run, itll add muscle.

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14/f

I really want a new look for my hair for the new school year. Its medium length and its light brown with red highlights easy things to do would be great so it wont take that long before i go to school.

Why don't you try a new haircut?

like side bangs or something..

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okay my boyfriend broke up with me and i cried a lot, i was really hurt and then when i told my friend about what happened she was really shocked and sad and then she keep asking me if i was okay and she gave me a a lot of tight hugs and she said call me if you need anything and when we were chatting she sended me a couple of RnB love song that relates to me and also she send me a card online saying feel better and cheer up and she told me shes gonna buy me a chocolate when ill see her soon and after that she came to my house and bought me a chocolate and gave me a hugs what do you think about my friend?

I agree with laura, she seems like a nice friend, you know it, so obviously, there was no point in posting this question.

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I feel really dumb for asking this, but its a question I need to ask someone.

I don't know how to dress my body. I'm not a style challanged, I actually get dragged along with people because I'm good at putting together outfits but I'm horrible at finding things for myself.

I'm 5'10" and about a size 7 in my waist. I have larger breasts, not huge, but too big for a button up shirt. I also have a rounder bottom and muscular thighs because I'm very active. I also have hips, so tight shirts look odd. People always tell me I should be a model because I'm tall, but I can't pull of clothes. I feel disgusted with my body because I always feel like I'm too large for clothes sold in the clothes I enjoy shopping at. I'm an individual, and I have charisma, and I'm tired of dressing in too big jeans and blah tshirts because I can't find anything else.

I just need styles of clothing, or stores that I could find clothes at for people who are shaped like me. Tiny waist, but curves, tall, muscular. I'm just so darn frustrated. Advice?

abercrombie and fitch

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any cute outfits for back to school shopping?
links?
please actual outfits
not store websites!!

Well.. If you go to

www.abercrombiekids.com

They give you a suggested outfit.

Or

www.abercrombie.com

I'm not sure what sizes you are, so i can't really help. Abercrombie is always a good, popular store. and its not expensive!

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On a diet, can you eat a lot of fruit?? I tend to eat fruit & fruit products. Grapes, strawberries, jellies/jams [no added sugar], juices [orange & apple 100% juice], etc. Can I continue with this or no?? Also, I eat a lot of breakfast foods. Cereal, oatmeal, whole grain breads, whole grain english muffins, pasta & rice, etc. I also eat a lot of lettuce, carrots, & tomatoes. For snacks I have 100 calorie packs occassionally or chewy bars [100 cals, 2g of fat]. Am I on the right track?? Thanks!

I agree with the person below, if your going to eat bread, limit! try it to be like, wheat or whole grain. [wheat subway sandwiches are really good.. bmt's] once and a while, treat yourself!

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hey i always am told by people how gorgeous i am but i can never find myself to actually believe it. i mean if im so pretty how come i dont have a boyfriend.

eek. im in the same situation, it sucks =[ but, you just gotta flirt. eek. this sucks, i cant really help with this becasue im in the same situation.

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i made out with this guy the other night. i met him at the beach and we became pretty good friends. it was a really sloppy kiss and he slobbered all over my face. it was my first time, but not his. however he was definitely not a good kisser. so, then he goes and tells my one friend that im a bad kisser and that i have a peach fuzz mustache or something like that. what's up with that? now i don't know what to do. i'm really mad at him, and it sucks because now the next time i see him at the beach and all his friends, im gonna be mad at them. i don't know what to do. any advice?

I don't really understand you're question, but if your asking what to do, tell your friends he was a bad kisser himself too. and that he was a really sloppy one, and just tell whoever he tells, and be like hes lieing and that stuff, because no body is a bad kisser unless if their sloppy. and if you were such a bad kisser... why did he continue?

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i've lost all hope. i am now going into 10th grade and i started to get really bad acne in 7th grade. i tried everything. after that i used proactive and that didn't work. i finally convinced my mom to take me to a dermatologist. i've been going there for about a year and a half. my face is still the same. it's been really upsetting for me. it's hard to look people in the eyes because i feel so ugly and that they are staring at my acne. the dermatologist prescribed 2 pills a day, a morning cream, and a night cream that i do use like i am suppose to. he has put me on stronger stuff, still does not work. i feel like i'm going to look like this forever and leave scars and everything. i'm not sure what i am asking, has anyone else gone through this? any advice? i would really appreciate it, it's really depressing me. thanks in advance.

Well, when you wash your face, dont wash it with you hands, becuase your hands gather oil from your acne and spread it, so use a wash-cloth.

did you try proactive? my sister went though the same thing, she used proactive, and it worked! you should try that.

xox. if you need anything else, just message me :D
- Laura

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Well, Lateyly I have been having tired issues, I am always tired, All I wan to do is sleep. I go to sleep round 2-3 am and get up at 1 30 ish, and I find it hard to get up at that time even. Throught the day I find it a chore to do simple task that I should not feel tired. My mom thinks I am anmic, meaning I dont have enough iron to keep me going, Does anyone have any other sulutions as to what might be wrong with me?

limes disease ?

its a tick or something, i had it, and the same thing happened to me. go to a doctor.

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for cheer tryouts we have to do a dance to the remixed version of dum diddly by the black eyed peas.
it's not on itunes or any other place i could find, could somebody PLEASEEEEEEEEEE find it for me?
i need it ASAP!

You can download limewire... they have it i searched.

or.. is this it?

http://youtube.com/watch?v=LnkHRyDoBrc

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Does anyone know where I can find a second picture code for myspace ? Like to upload a picture under the default picture on myspace ? Please and thankyouu!

you go to

www.tinpic.com

Take the link choice after you upload the photo of your choice.

put this code under your picture


good luck :D

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