|
| |
|
Ok, i have this friend, well, she's kind of my friend, but not really. she likes me, but i dont like her. she's really annoying, and kinda mean and rude to ppl, even adults, and it gets on my nerves. For example, my sister had a friend over when i had her over, but my friend wanted to watch a movie that nobody else wanted to watch, and she wouldn't let us watch anything else, she literaly too kthe movie away from me and put it in, makin my sister and her friend leave the room. Isn't that kinda rude? What should i do about it? (link)
|
Well I have a friend who is the same... this girl was swimming in the river and she got caught in the dam and died.. her mom was sitting right behind her at the movies and she said why dont we go swim by the dam.. it was really mean.. all I do is try to ignore her.. but sometimes you
just have to tell her.. if she gets mad at you give her time to cool off. In the end if she is your real friend she will take what you say seriously and wont be mad.. but if she stays mad at you then she is not worth the embarrassment... right back to me and tell me what u have done..
-Kaydee
|
|
Okay i have a little problem here. Okay my best friend likes this guy. And she really likes him, and in a way i kinda like this guy also. But from what i hear, that guy kinda likes me. And would never go out with her. I mean i really like this guy, and so does she!. And i don't know wat to do, i don't wanna lose my best friend over a dumb guy! Kaydee help me please!! (link)
| |
hey.. umm.. thats hard lol.. I would just sit and talk to ur best friend about it, but dont mention he doesn't like her because you dont want her sad lol.. if your best friend will be mad at you for going out with a guy then dont do it.. friends are better than guys.. Once ur friend is over that guy she wont prolly wont care if you are going out with him.. Thanks a lot.. good luck.. email or im me -Kaydee
|
|
I would 1st like to say that I have never drank through my pregnancy, I know that is very bad. But my question is If you are 40 weeks pregnant and have a small amount of wine like 2 oz. Will it harm the baby or make you go into labor? (link)
|
I dont think it will... but if I were u I would check with a doctor right away...
-kaydee
|
|
ok, i have this boyfriend which i love very much and hes moving to california in 30 days and im thinking about breaking up with him because i think it would be better to not see him b4 he goes so i wont be as devistated s i would be watching him leave in front of me so should i break up with him or not? (link)
|
if u love him miles shouldn't make a difference..
-kaydee
|
|
i wrote a question earlier today picking in between parties. i picked to stay home with my boyfriend. he came over, and he was drunk. he's always a little mean when he's drunk. we got into this huge fight about nothing and we broke up. i started bawling and he said i was overreacting. i haven't stopped crying since 11:30 and i can't stop. i feel worthless and stuff because everytime we fight, it's my fault. what can i do to get over him because i won't stop having feelings for him? and what can i do to stop this feeling of worthlessness? please help me. i can't stop crying (link)
| |
Awww.. I am sorry.. I read ur ? before too.. if he is that big of a dick i think u should just get over him.. I know it is hard... Maybe later when he gets sober he will know how much he has lost.. try talking to him later about it.. sorry hun.. -Kaydee
|
|
this question dosent really go under friendship..but there was nothing else i coul put it under...anyway..i got a dvd player for christmas and i have some good dvd's like napolian dynamite but i get sick of it if i watch it alot and the day after tommorrow but that is pretty long and finding nemo but that aso gets kinda boring... the only movie that i enjoy watching is my favorite movie ever...sweet home alabama...i dunno what it is about that movie but i never get sick of it...does anyone have any other movies that are good and they never get sick of? cause i would really like another movie to watch! lol =) (link)
| |
Well I dont know what kind of movies you are into but Mean Girls is a really good movie.. idk what else.. -Kaydee
|
ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
please help!
(link)
|
well same thing happened to me.. we all just were at a party and made out with eachother.. if you know you were doing it to experiment then thats what you were doing but if you actually feel bisexual or a lesbian than thats who you are.. but if you dont know just think about it.. dont regret doing any thing ......... good luck
-Kaydee
|
|
I moved to a new school in the 8th grade and i am now on 9th. I had really good friends but i let them go becuase they werent popular and i kno its sounds really dumb and shallow but thats how i used to think i really want to become friends with the popular girls and they arnt liek snobby or anythign they can keeo secrets and they r just as good as real friends. But i dont know how to become good friends with people anymore. (link)
| |
ok..I am not going to call u a bitch or w/e but I think I am doing the same thing... I am popular and my friends r sometimes a bitch to me.. I have other friends but they rn't as popular, but treat me better... so if u just wanna talk im me on texasluvinboy or email on kaydeeurbaby@hotmail.com -Kaydee
|
My husband and I of 1.3 years of marriage got into a huge fight yesterday and he hit me several times, twice in the head. He kicked my butt real hard, threw something at my leg or my arm-can't remember which over something that was really stupid. I did say somethings I know I shouldn't have like I didn't love him, hated him and wanted a divorce. But does my saying those things warrant him hitting me? And that wasn't the first time. He normally hits me real hard on the legs when he gets real mad or he feels I've pushed his buttons.
Last night, he went to a motel with his son to get away and he would not talk to me at all. I didn't even know if we were going to be together. I was hurt and upset about the whole situation and did something real stupid. I filled out one of those eharmony personality profile things. I didn't chat with anyone or nothing like that. I just did it, don't know why. I was depressed and I did pop a lot of pills as I have tonight to try and sleep. None of it his an excuse. He found the eharmony thing today when he came back and now he won't have anything to do with me. I love him and want to work it out and I know I have to change also, not just him. All the times he's accused me of doing things I never ever did, I guess I just filled out that eharmony thing out of spite. He has called me a slut and a whore and that I'm so big now vaginally wise that no man could do me any good. I have apologized for filling out that personality profile. It was dumb of me. How can I save this marriage and convince him that I don't want anyone else, PERIOD. I love him and want to work this out more than anything in this world. Help me please. (link)
|
Oh my god
sweetheart.. I am soo sorry.. If I were you I would let him just go with his son and take a break from everything.. maybe if he gets a way for a while he will find out how much he has done to you and he will miss you and come back.. and with the break you should just sit down and think about things.. when he comes back try to sit down with him and talk about everything.. if he is still abusing you then a legal seperation or a divorce would be the best way to go.. if you need someone to talk to email me or im me sometime...
-Kaydee
|
I'm contemplating having the bariatric surgery done. I'm 140lbs over my "ideal" weight... and the diabetes and other probs are too much to deal with for the next 10 years. I've been this same size plus or minus 20 lbs for longer than that...and I have hated being heavy... now we have insurance that will cover it!! I think I need to do it... Just wanted to see where you stand on the issue... and see if you're supportive of the idea.
(link)
|
Wow.. your taking a big risk but I really think you should.. If it will make you feel happy then yeah do it.. good luck
-KAYDEE
|
|
i have alot of friends and stuff, but iv just started to realize that they might not be as true as i thought. i love them but i hate them, they just seem not to care anymore. i also have people calling me a whore and a slut and stuff like that wenever i walk by because my "friends" tell them stuff thats not true. how do i avoid something like that..and how do i know if my friends are true? (link)
|
I am having the same problems.. I feel like I dont have any friends any more.. but there r some out there that dont do that shit too you.. im sorry :(
Kaydee
|
|
hey i need help i really dont know what to do..ok i liked this guy lets call him bo and my best friend knew that and she knew we were talking and she told me the other day that they were talking i was like whoa and she told me that she was going to tell him she liked this other guy better lets call him dru.well we had a party the other night and she was with bo and she left with him then the dru came over and he was pissed cause she wasnt there and she came bak and found out that he was ther and she started crying then the bo left and my friend and dru cuddled all night long ...then the next day after she told me that she was going to tell bo she liked dru instead i read her awaymessage and it said i love you bo i was like u stupid hoe and she told me to get over him and then i was talking to my other friend and she told me that my best friend was going out with dru but when i talked to her bo was over at her house...i dont know what i should do i mean she was my best friend and now she has the guy i liked (link)
|
Oh my god.. if that was your best friend I would so tell her to f*** off.. Friend's dont do that.. but if you really think that she didn't mean it then call her or ask her to meet you at your house and just talk about it.. good luck Im sorry :(
-Kaydee
|
|
To get down to it, I'm a 15 year old girl and a 22 year old guy likes me. I've known this guy for a few months and have become really good friends with him. I didn't know he actually had a crush on me till a few weeks ago. This guy is really nice, very sweet, he always cares about me. He always wants to know how I feel and how he can make it any better. He calls me practically every night. He trusts me and I trust him. We've talked about our feelings for eachother... I used to not think of him as anything more than a friend, but now I think I am starting to like him more. We see eachother at least once a week, usually with groups of other friends but I have been alone with him a couple times, once to his house. He has never tried to pull anything on me... he respects my boundaries, yet he shows he still cares. My parents don't like that I even talk to a 22 year old guy on the phone. If they ever knew I wanted to go out with him, they'd freak. I'd like to give him a chance, but I don't know if it's worth hiding from my parents and the fact that he's so much older than me makes the possibility chances of it working slimmer. Any advice on what I should do? (link)
| |
umm I know exactly where you are coming from.. im 14 and a couple months ago I was having a relationship with a 25 year old... we broke up a few weeks ago after my mom found out and called the police on him.. i always felt that I had to lie to him because he was so much older.. it was kinda uncomfortable.. If he is a good guy I think u should totally go with him.. but its a big risk if you wanna do it you have to be ready for it.. good luck -Kaydee
|
|
