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Q: Can breakage of the hymen show signs of having sex?
*No, it cannot. Many people think the only thing that breaks your hymen, is when you have intercourse. That's not true, you can break your hymen from the simplest things. Such as playing sports, inserting a tampon and even riding a bike. So no, it does not show any sign of having sex.

Q: I posted questions in December and have received answers however, since I have not received any more answers should I keep the questions on this site or delete them.
*Yes, you should keep all of your questions. If anyone wants to answer your question in the future, they will be able to. I have read, that Advicenators recommends keeping your questions.

Q: Ive seen the previews for "epic movie"
any one know the rating?
i heard its rated "R"
i hope this isnt the case!
*No, it isn't rated "R" it's rated PG-13. So you have nothing to worry about, enjoy the movie! :)

Q: My friend got onto my myspace and blocked several people, is there anyway to unblock them?
*If I might add, I would definitely change my password and give it to no one -- especially, this "friend."

Luckily, there's a very simple and easy way to unblock all of the people who were blocked: Once you are logged into your Myspace account, click on "Account Settings." You should see and click on "Blocked Users." On the right of each blocked user there is an "Unblock User" option, click it. And there you go. :)

Q: Do you think it would be a beter choice for me to go onto the pill before I lose my viginity or should I just use a condom? and what are the chances of me getting pregnant if I just use a condom? thanks.
*I definitely recommend you getting on birth control before you have sex. The condom can break, and even though no birth control is 100% effective it is much safer to take it, wait a month and then have sex with a condom -- and if it would break you would be protected. Instead of maybe, something happening before hand and then you have a huge chance of being pregnant.

Q: ok. i should be on the period like RIGHT NOW. but i'm not. i haven't had sex or anything but it's late. can someone explain why. thanks.
*Assuming you are a teenager, this is completely normal. These are irregular periods, in which I have and many others do as well. So there is absolutely nothing to worry about -- it's normal. Honestly, even some adults have irregular periods.

Q: ok, I was just wondering, does ANYBODY understand french on this site? Cause I am french and it somtimes takes me forever to translate my questions into inglish. Hope that this sounds well.
Je peux parler seulement un petit français mais assez continuer une conversation. votre anglais est impeccable. le bon travail ! ! !

i think that's right...lol. i can understand a lot of french though.

Q: oh my god og my god oh my god please anyone help i cant even type my best girl friend just committed suicide last night, i'm freaking out. i just heard this morning, she lives two streets away from me, i'm 16/m. she's 15/f. wow i really dont know what to say shes my only friend that ever listened to me and actually cared and i feel like im one of the main reasons she killed herself. she had tons of problems, and lots were with ppl i talked to and stuff. i duno what to do, oh my freaking god. i cant believe this. please help i seriously think i was the main casue of her wanting to die
i know how you feel , i really do . i had a friend that killed herself and i mean we had been friends for about 14 of my 16 years . i thought it was my fault too. what you have to realize is that it wasn't your fault.you guys were best friends. you didn't cause her death, she did.you weren't the cause of it. she wouldn't want you to think that it was.keep her in your heart and mind forever and don't worry wheather you caused her death or not because you didn't.

Q: what does "(sp?)" means :S sorry i just don't seem to get it lol
"(sp?)" is an abbreviation, for spelling.

Q: Ok, I got an Itunes gift card for christmas and I scratched out the number and everything. Now what do I do to validate it? Do I have to go to a website or somethinggg? Help!
*Yes, I have gotten one of these, you can click on your iTunes, or if you do not have it installed, you can download it here: http://www.apple.com/itunes/download/

Next, go to "Music Store" and click on "Redeem" which you will find under "Quick Links," on the left side. Once you have done this, you will be directed to a page, where you can type in your code, and there you go. Have fun!

Q: what are some side effects of birth control? i know it probably changes from person to person, but what are some.. thanks
a lot of side effects include:irregular menstrual bleeding
nausea, weight gain, headaches, dizziness, and breast tenderness
mood changes
blood clots


it can also make you infertile but it does vary person to person check with your doctor to see which one has the less severe effects.hope i helped.

Q: does anyone have any tricks or know anything about helping the bags under your eyes? mine are really big.

thanks
*Hi, here are some different remedies that I think will be very helpful -- http://www.care2.com/channels/solutions/self/929
http://www.pioneerthinking.com/eyes.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_164_conceal-dark-under-eye-circles.html

By the way, the best thing I have found for these, is Vitamin E Cream. It works wonders!

Q: 15.female.Texas.

I'm 15, freshman, still havent gotten my frist kiss! Ugh so frusterating! But in this area like 50% of people havent gone out wit someone yet or kisses someone. Is this weird? and makes me frusterated! Wat can I do?
*No, of course, it's not weird. In fact, this is perfectly normal. There is absolutely nothing wrong, with not having your first kiss yet. In my opinion, it's not something to rush into or share with just anyone. Your first kiss will come when the time is right, and it will be special, don't worry, your time will come. :)

Q: Im getting a hair cut tomorrow and I want to look really different. This is my hair right now:


http://i10.tinypic.com/49b0t28.jpg


& I want to know any ideas you guys have for styles that would be good. I would love pictures, too if you can provide them. Celebrities or whatnot. :] Also, that picture was taken a few months ago so my hair is longer + the bangs are down to like my shoulder (I always wear them up.) I dont want my hair short, please!
*Here are lots of hairstyles, to choose from: http://hairstyles.free-beauty-tips.glam.com/index.html
http://www.2hairstyles.com/
http://www.1001-hairstyles.com/
http://www.beautifulhairstyles.com/

Q: My friend has an iPod.

He wants to know how to get a song from a CD to his iPod. Everytime he puts the CD in, it just comes up as a movie.

Step By Step Please. Thanks. :]
*Step 1 - Put in your cd, while you have iTunes already running. If you do not have iTunes, you'll have to install it, here: http://www.apple.com/itunes/download/

Step 2 - On iTunes, your cd should play there. A window may pop up and say, where would you like to open the files? Choose iTunes.

Step 3 - Once the cd is working on iTunes, right click on each song, and you'll see "Import." Click on "Import" and it will import the song.

Q: what are some websites that you visit often? like for me they would be myspace, this one, and mugglenet (lol).

what are they for you?
i go on mugglenet, myspace, advicenators,myjellybean.com(i have an advice column there)um..i go on deviantart.com,and i'm usually on yahoo messenger.i also go to fashion sites.

Q: this might sound stupid, but is there really any difference between running on a tredmill and running outside or something?? since its winter, it's so much easier running on my tredmill. what are the differences??

thanks!!
the difference between running outside and running on the treadmill is well you're going somewhere when you're running outside. i don't think that there are any differences.lol

Q: what are some signs of depression?
*Hi, there are many signs of depression. These are the signs of depression, and I have included many sites for you.

http://www.nimh.nih.gov/publicat/depression.cfm#ptdep3

http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/depression/definition.asp

http://www.clinical-depression.co.uk/Depression_Information/symptoms.htm

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/depression_signs_types_diagnosis_treatment.htm

Q: Okay what does the word Volem Te mean?? and what language is it??
*This is spelled "Volim Te" and here is the meaning from the Urban Dictionary:

"Of or pertaining to the expression of love. As in 'I love you'. The feeling between T and R.

Croatian Language derivative."

Q: Is there a way to put music that is already on my computer on my iPod nano without installing itunes??
*No, you'll have to install iTunes (if you do not already have it). Because it is affiliated with the iPod, being as it's apart of their company, you have to use iTunes.

Depending on what downloading program you're using, you can usually drag and drop your music files. Or in some cases, you can open "My Documents" or "My Music" and all of your music will be in one of them. Then, you can click "Open" and your music file will transfer, to iTunes.

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BarkersBeauties
This advice column is by two people -- Ashley (me) and my best friend, Chelsea. We're both here to answer all of your questions, whatever they may be! We'll answer anything, you want/need to know.


Ashley: Hi, everybody. I have another advice account on this site, and I've been here on Advicenators for a while now. I love helping people, and I want to continue helping them in this advice column.



Chelsea: hey ya'll . i also have another advice account on here. i love helping ppl as much as ashley and i will always do my best to answer your questions.rememeber, neither i nor ashley will ever judge you . we are here to help and as i always say, two heads are better than one!!!

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