well, in a previous question i asked, i asked how i tell a friend of mine(M) that i heard something about him.
well i told him last night, and everything fell apart. he told me the truth, and the truth was what i heard. i wanted sooo badly for it to be a lie. and i just freaked. and at the same time, another guyfriend of mine (B) was getting pissed at me because i lied to him. he just happened to be next door so M and i walked over to where he was because i needed to talk to him. he totally ignored me. i chased after him and apologized countless times and he stil wouldnt listen. so i got the vibe he hated me and stopped in my tracks, turned around, and walked back to where M was. i was too upset to talk to him, so i left his house and didnt even say bye. he didnt say bye to me and didnt even wanna ride in the car that took me home.
and now M is not calling me (mostly because i told him not to. but he needs to realize that i only said that because i was about to start bawling my eyes out,...which i did when i got home last night) and i have calmed down. right now my emotions are some weird mixture of depressed, hurt, and alone. and i just need to talk to him. i just want to be near him. but he lives so far away and i still cant drive. and besides, hes gone today.
how do i let him know that i dont hate him for what he did, that it just hurt me? and how do i let him know i want him to call me?
well you cant..just say something liek that and then exepect to anywyas call...guys take that as you actually mean that trust me i know ...you dont wait tilhe call you..beaucse the turht is he wont ...so you call himhe wont pic but leave him a vioce messege and tell him everything....you need. or have (M) tell him or something or somebody....send him messges on facebook/ myspace aim/msn messengers anything but his not going to make the move first..you need to let himknow and thats when he realizes ..tell him everything right now you told me..(and eveyrhone else...that you wanna to be near him and your not mad at what he did you were just hurt....tell him if he likes you or even care sa little hell undertand..and he wont care nad just let it go..trust me ive been thgough this kind of guy gets mad and hates you stuff lol
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just a simple question. what is cheating. cause honeslty i don't know. i mean i know sex and kissing is but..is there more to cheating than physically? cause sometimes i feel like i might be cheating on my boyfriend even though i've never done anything sexually with anyone else.
well no....cheating is chaeting...its mostly physical contact...i think it IS just physicall contact
if your just talkign to a guy ( No flirt)
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ok my boyfriend lets call him nick really loves me and i really love him too. ok we told each other that we loved each other about a month or two after we started going out. we have only been goin out five months and we have already had sex it was his first time but not mines. im 14 and he is 15 i just want to know if im moving to fast because i have also put him over most of my family but i also dont have the best family either but thank you and i will appreicate any advice you have to offer.
im 14..to and i had sex more then once..and i had the saem b.f he was 15..and he never had. sex..but i never had sex wiht himm lol went out for 8 months ..so no i dont htink your moving fast beacuse i love you after a month of dating ..dunno that might of bee kind afats..but if uve been togethe rfor 5 months then sex is ok =) and your family i dont think you should out him before your family though beacuse b.f come nad go but fmaily no matter how bad or good stays....ythgough anhtyhing..so mabby you should put your family first =)
xox y.b good luck!
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What are the bases?
For like making out and fingering and oral and what else
and what bases are they? Ex. First base
Well i was always taught that is went like this....
1st base- kissing (only)
2nd base- makeout (tounge) hehe
3rd base- hooking up (handjob/blow job/fingering/ feeling up ..etc..)
4th base- homerun--sex !! hhaa thats what ive been told
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i cant see my best friend ever again. except school but were going to different schools next year... so never again and if she goes some where, i cant. we're in the same group of friends and i can never go with them. my mom always screams and yells at me on how much she hates her. all because she made my neighbor and my mom get in a fight over stupid shit, and she says shes disrespectful but shes not. the last time my mom saw here was like a month or two ago. my mom says so much bad stuff about her and she ends up thinking its totally worse or something thats not. i say anything about it and she yells at me then i end up pissed off and cryin for the rest of the day. well my friend is the only person to really understand me. we get along so good and she really did save my life. i used to cut and was in really bad depression and she helped me threw it. then my mom comes and screams at me and it gets worse. the only reason i feel like shit and got into depression and everything is because of my mom. i lost all my old friends they didnt understand me at all they would avoid me and im in so much trouble for that to. and how i act she blames my friend and she blames her for EVERYTHING i do which has nothing to even do with my friend. my mom blames her for me gettin depressed and likeing all the gothica stuff and style and so much that HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MY FRIEND. my moms making me loose the only person i really care for and i live for and she helps me and i started loving life for a while till my mom said i was seein her to much then my life went straight down to hell. my friend is the ONLY person to understand me i love her. im crying my eyes out so bad right now even me and my mom got in the biggest fight because i saw her today and got so happy. i just feel dead i hate my life so much now but if i say anything about this to my mom or a counselor it will only get worse. i did tell my mom all this well yelled it and thats why im screamin and cryin so hard right now. i dont no what to do. im 14 female please help me its serious.
WOW reading this i was in amzemnt...i have a friend like that...actually im the friend lol her parents dont like me for what ever reasons....but i think no since your scared to talk anybody about it..the only thing is...its going to be hard..dont bring her....just bring your friend home...and sya mom im done just for one in your life listen to me i want to telly ou somethin.and explain everything to her..there is no other way to seolve it besides to get them together and make your mom see that everything she blamed he for has nothing to do with you r friend...and tyr to make her understand htat your friend is everything to you and she is the only perosn that meakes you feel right....beacuse if you dont do this she'll just keep always blaming her and it wil never stop..just make sure you dont get her pissed....of and i know its harder done then said but thats the only thing i cant tell you to do ..yea shell be pissed of that shes in your house but just be like shes not leaving......and i need you to see somehting mom...and shes your mom she should undertand...i wish you the best i feeel for you =) dont cry eveyrhtin gis going to be ok =) wish you both luck
xoxo y.b Good Luck!! and remmber nothign is ever more important thena you only besat friend and your mother.=0 you can choose between then so you must ry to have both
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k soo i hooked up with the guy i like over spring break Mike & i gave him a handjob & he felt my boobs up. & i realized afterwards that he was just using me.. he just wanted to see my boobs. he said he had to go to work & we cna finsih tommorow.. & later & when i asked him if he wanted to hook up again on myspace he said he had a g/f. & before that he told me that he didn't like anyone.& i knew he was lying. & on top of that i asked for his number & he gave me a fake. & i cusssed him out on myspace. & then at school, i told my friend colton that i hooked up with him i told him how that guy used me.. & he told his friend carolina & she's friends with the guy i hooked up! & i think she told him.. because when i came home i got on myspace & he deleted me from his friends so yeahh. & i realized why. & he's mad at me & i don't know what to do.. pleasee help me!!!
First calm down ....and take a long breath its not the end of the world..alothough it mgiht feel liek it ,,,but its nt lol..so let me get this straight you basically hooked up with this guy and you thoguht he used so you told somebody qand then thye told somebody and then he got mad beacuse you told..ok well the only hting is you need to add him back on myspace and oif he doesnt except his deffntly mad.so after that try to talk to him in school and if he doens tt lak to you ask one of your really good friends to talk to him or write hima anote and apoligize for what you did ..and just you were hurt by it..and that you didnt mean...anything
xoxox y.b Good Luck!
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Hi. I am from Ireland.
About a week ago my boyfriend and I were just fooling around. I was only in a bra and underwear and he in his boxers. I gave him a handjob and he came on the side of the bed in a towel about a foot away from me. He put his boxers back on and we lay together on the bed. Our hips weren't touching. I didn't think much of it.
We both washed our hands and went to eat. Later he rubbed my vagina over my underwear and I didn't really think anything of it until later that night.
I don't know when my next period should be, so I can't take a home pregnancy test.
I am wondering wether or not I am pregnant and what the chances are that I am.
YOU NOT!! no way you can be thorugh your underwear not much can get in ..if you no what i mean its not possible,,unless you guys had sex but you didnt so you cant be thre is no chance you are..u both even washed your hands ..turts me there no way you dont need to worry =)
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I like this guy. We get along pretty well, I'd say we're friends, but we've never talked in an intimate setting before. I don't even know if he likes me, really.
He does make a point to talk me fairly often though. It's always the same question "Did you do your Calculus homework?" (the class we have together) He knows I didn't do it, because I never do, but yet he always asks, lol. Sometimes he looks at me, I think, but I can't be sure.
Anyways, I'd like to get to know him a bit more, and most importantly, find out if he likes me or not. A mutual friend of ours is having a party in three weeks, and I think/hope he's going.
Idk, honestly. I'm confused. He doesn't have a screenname. We've talked on Facebook before, but I don't think he gets on often. And I can't just blatantly ask for his number.
Well dont just ask for him number lol..try gettign to know him in diffrent ways and rust me there are alot of ways. one you can ask around about what he likes....and then have diffrent conversations not only about calculus ...and even that is good..ask himt to help you...in it and then after you guys are done just i dont no walka round or somehting and chill then you guys can really just talk about anything ..beacuse there is nothing thats goign to distract you ...and you guys would have plenty of time...you can ask him whats kind of girls does he like and what are his interets and those questions wil lead to tother questions and then you can soon find out what you need to know
xox y.b good luck!
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14/f
ok so i have this one friend who i've been friends with for about three years. last year we became really really close. we did everything together. but before i can finish *that* story, i have to tell you THIS story:
ok so just recently this year i became really close with my two cousins. one is scene and the other is emo.
Well it looks like shes is the sam eposition as you were in *scared oof emo people* but im not saying that its weird...beacuse i have alot of emo friends my slef.but i didnt change into one..and there is nothign wrong with that only i guess she didnt expect that beacuse you used to be really good friends with her..and i guess shes just missing the old you..not sayin you have to change but im saying mabby you should tak ehee rout with all your friends nad convinve or show her that emo poele are just people that liek the samethings as regular peole and only that they all have thier own diffrent interests..who knows she might be like you =)
xoxo y.b Good Luck!
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im a 15 year old guy.
i recently came home drunk and my mom called the ambulence (wasn't even really needed). After talking to my mom about my grades and me not going out for awhile (so i already felt like shit), I go check the mail and I got a bill for $730 from the hospital (she thought it would be like $150 max). I havent told my mom about it yet and i dont know how im going to. I dont know how im going to pay that bill, my mom sure as hell doesnt have the money and i dont either. I feel like im really fucking up my life, i just keep getting deeper and deeper in this shit and i want out. I keep getting caught ditching school (which im not going to do anymore). I used to really be a good kid but in the past 6 months all that has changed. Every time i mess up i think it cant get any worse and then it does. I know if i keep going down this path my life will be trash, and i dont want that I want a fresh start but I know I won't get one, so i really dont know what im going to do.
WELL FIRST YOU should think about this carefully..and your right you dont have that kind of money and probably neither does your mom..and i doubt that your insurence wil cover this..but you should tel your mom.but before you you do try to collect like mabby 100$ or how much you can and say mom here i know i meessed up badly but im gonna work on eveyrhting ..its your mother she will underatnd ....so with the apologie yougive her the money and say here mom i got as mich as i culd and im really sry...tel her about how you used to be and that your gonna try your hardest to become that good boy you were...trust me it usually workds..my friend did the same..well sorta haha
xoxo y.b Good luCk!
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OK soo my bf broke up with me a while ago for alot of reasons but mainly because of the long distance relationship we were in.It hurt me because I really liked him and though he liked me the same and all his promises etc but I finally got to agree,its not easy too be with someone you only see once a year.I was starting to get over it(well i though so)until I heard he was back with his old gf who lives in the same country as him(whitch he left 4 me).My true problem is that now my parents decided to send me where he lives(in 6 months)we havent talked since the day we broke up though he said he would've continue to call me. so he doesnt know about my parents decision yet...
WHAT AM I GONNA DO??
PLEASE HELPPPPP!!!what should I do when I get there/or now??
CALL HIM GURL!!!! and tell him that your coming there if he liked you alot hell be soo happy but its kind of weird i know but just say your coming...or txt him its must easier to say in a text then on th ephone bu tyou deffntly have to tell him...no matter hwat you do Tell hiM!
XOX Y.B GOOD LUCK!
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ok so me and this guy reallllly like eachother
and we say iloveyou to eachother and stuff and were pactically going out but the only thing is that he doesnt live that close and like hes perfect in every single way
what he says and stuff keeps me smiling soo much
and he tells me im beautiful and we call eachother baby and he tells me im his princess and angel and all this cute stuff and i call him my teddybear
but lately ive been thinking all this is just a lie. and i dont want it to be nad ive been really down casue like he will go out and stuff and tlak to me later in the night and like everything would be perfect at night before we go to sleep but then its like all my worrys are gone but then it comes a new day and im stuck here thinking hte same thing
like on myspace his friends that are girls will says hes sexy and be like mwuah i love u and stuff and i dont know if i should tkae it seriously cause two of them have pictures with him and one of the girls has her name nad then in parenthesis i love you hunnie and her mood is loved.
yesterday i told him ive been sad cause i think im losing him and he said htat im never losing him adn that we will be togehte forever
i dont know if i should confront him or like what to say if i do. i dont want him to be mad at me or anything but i feel like i might be getting played.
someone help me and tell me your opinion.
thanks
HOLYY SH!t your excatly like me..liek im reading this and i have theEXCT same thing like no joke same with i love yous and lives far away exactly one in one....i feel the excat same way that im losing him and that his always out a.dn im here and we can never see each iother an dits like ok this cant work...but i dnt htink his playing you he wouldnt waste his time with you a giurl that lives far away ,,,,,when he has everyoen else would he?? nO duobt it so he must liek you for sure.and i dont think its love....beacus eu dont see him you just talk to him over the ocmputer and phone..so do i u sau i love he says it back..but your worried that everything sig ing to be bad..its not nothng iswrong with this..ebeaucse if yopu guys each othesoemtimes you will misss each othe ralot and always have somehting to tlak about when u fdo each other..and there wil be laot of kissing haha si just let it go wiht the flow i no btohers you and all but trust me he wouldnt waste time with yo if he didnt liek you =)
giv eit time ..
xoxo y.b HOPE i helped =)
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So i'm pretty much the typical good girl but i've recently been talking with a guy in my english class who is the opposite of me. He uses drugs and skips classes, and there are many rumors going around about him all the time.
I didn't expect him to be a frequent reader of philosophical novels... we discuss ayn rand and many other topics in our english class and i'm kind of falling for him.
the thing is, all my friends hate him. i love my friends a lot and i wouldn't want to hurt them by getting too close with this guy.
what can i do?
sounds like the *bad Boy* type haha it normal..to fall for guy like that ..he must be gorgeuos haha...and his your typical high school bad boy...why dont you try getting to know him alot better,,,,and tel yor friends when your ready...or atkeast one of your most turstworthy friend..if there your friends theyll understand..you and why you like him and mabby they wont like him but they wont hate him and if he falls for you then you can proove al your friends worng..and they wont hate him.so just try my advice get to know him and see if his not like the actually typical bad boy ------>>> uses girls , has sex and then walks out...
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two months, and i used to really like him. i had liked him for almost a year and then once we got together (maybe after a month or so) all of my stronger feelings for him just faded away. i was positive that i was in love with him when we were just friends, but now i can barely stand him at times. it seems like i can't even flirt with other boys and that sometimes bothers me. i feel like i was waiting for just so long and then once i finally got it, i wasn't into it anymore. this has really been bothing me because i don't know if i should break up with him or just wait and see. i'm his first "official" girlfriend and i'm afraid i'll crush him if i break up with him. please help me!!! what should i do??
you said you van barely stand him at times..you at times.. so he must not always be lke that..and i think mabby you should just wait and see if you change your mind beacuse its normal for people that have been dating to feel like ewww i dont like him anyhmore i dated a guy for 6 months or 8 not sure and all the time i wuold be like omg i hate him i shold break it off. but i knew that if id id i wold miss him sooo much so i never did and the feeling went away when me and him where together and happy.sop jjust wait and see and if nothing changes then ou can lie to yourself just let em go..its life [eople reak up and come together so yea he wil be reallu cryshed but eventually he'll deal but for ow give ahcnabe another one...and try talking to him if thats possible and your not scare dbaout it
=)
xoxox y.b Good Luck ! (p.s. tell me how it goes )
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15/f i havent had a bf in such a long time and when i had the bf i like him and as soon as i dated him i started feeling uncomfortable and stopped liking him so immediately broke up w/him...
now thers a good guy for me and i know hes good and thers nothin wrong w/him except that hes not exactly that hott but hes prett sweet but ii feel like thers jus somthin wrong w/him so i dont like him... whats wrong w/me?? im soo picky cause every guy thats good for me i dont like!!!
babes nothing is wrong wiht you thats one. I ave the same problem..im to picky..always was and still am haha..but the thing is u might think his cute or what ever.but not like him its normal...trust me i was the same. but once you meet a guy that like your type and makes you feel good that picky feeling will go away.but it may come back through the relationship liek through some things you will se about him
but you shouldnt break up withhim..ive been with my b,f for about 1 yea ina half..i sujest you dont o gout with any1 try to have fun untill someone you really liek shows up t
x0x0x y.b Good LUck!
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hi i really need help with makeup! i dont know how to apply eyeshadow! i want it to be noticable but not too much or anything. i just dont know how to put it on so it looks good and frames my eyes.
also what colors are good for me? i have light tan (olive) skin color, medium brown hair, brown eyes, and i wear a lot of pink and blue clothes. thanks! and i kinda like to match my clothes with eyeshadow but arent kinda supposed too cause it looks strange to wear pink and have green eyeshadow on doesnt it? thanks so much and i will rate! :)
wow your excetly like me..i match my clothing to and i wear alot of pick and blue..so my make up is cute so im going ot give you my make up beacuse its not much sounds hardand weird but i get sooo many compliments.. you wer oink so try tis put pink on one side of your eye near the nose start with the light form your nse ...then fade the pink slowly in to black..so your make up comes out half your eye is pink and th eothe rblack..it sounds weird...but its not its just makes your eyes *POP* beacuse if you match one color ...into black or even white it gorgwuos trust me...try it you can put any color but you can only mix into white or black nothing else.
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can anyone give me makeup tips?? :]
soo i have darkbrown long straight hair down to my waist, very very white skin and really darkbrown eyes almost black actually and quite long eyelashes. so what kinda makeup goes well with that kinda type? and also what colours should i wear? cos i wanna look really kewl but i only use eyeliner and foundation. and i'm also more of a 'colourfull emo' if you can say that lol
so i'm not into too girly things. more rockish i suppose. and i usually wear really bright colours!?
helphelp please :)
xxx
you sound really pretty so if you lke a rockish kinda of look...try doing like i do a pink eyeshdow..or somthing light...pink, white, redish,, all colors wuld work for you.
.ex: try like me having light pink on the bigging of your eye near the nose that side....then put like a darker color like black,...or what ever your wering..but mostly black goes with nayhting...and also white goes anything ..so make it llike pink into bleck...trust me i get soo many compliments. on my make up so it basically half pick and the other sdie of your eye is black..it sounds weird but trust me looks so pretty ..so try it out...make it blen one into anohter. =)
X0x Y.B good LUCk!
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does anyone know how much it is approximately to get moles and birth marks removed?
mabby around 1000$ beacuse my relative got a mole removed and they charged her 1500$ for the whole thing..i guess it depends on which doctor and where you live
xoxo y.b good luck!
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im a very quiet person and im not gonna be the first one to say hi to anybody.... but latley i feel like i want more friends then i have i only two main friends but they also have another set of friends that i dont really connect to and so sometimes i feel left out :( but i dont tell them i just dont talk to them i want more friends that i can hang out with and that will actually talk to me and not use me or lie to me.... so any advice?
looks like your related to one of old friends...very quiet to but she had her go mommnets..join a club.. or getting involved in sports or conversations between people. you might not want to say hi first or never do.. but its a good time to start your going to need it later in life.. i suggest you start small. with someone you but not really like the gruop of friends your amian friends hang out with..let htem see who you are let them notice that your there and that your not invisibale =)...you have to try it its the only way give it a chnce just beaucse youll talk donest mean someone is gonna kill you haha..so just calm down and give it all you got trust me just sayin hey whats up can lead to a converstaion....as they startgers are just friends you havent met yet =0
xoxo Y.B good luck!
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I haven't been good at math because I have a really bad foundation due to bad teachers! I'm a junior and I am in algebra 2. I'm taking summer school for the first semester though..
I don't like my class because:
the book is so choppy. Bad examples.
The teacher's tests are much harder than the homework. They're so different.
I really don't think I can survive trig! I don't want to take it, but I'm going straight to a four year and hopefully/most likely getting a scholarship for track.
Is there anything else I can do? if I don't take it, will the colleges really turn me down? All my other grades are good.
ok well im a freshman..and im taking algebra 2...also so i no how hard it is...yes the examples are confusing teachers are no help but theres always ways to find out hoe to work it all ask aorund toyour friends im sure there explain better...ask your family go to the library and look up books ( barns&nobles) great place to get a book on algeb. 2 ...online is also a good place so try it out it helped me alot =) and you do track im doing track 2..but only freshman and im good at it so i mite be heading towards a scholarship myslef soon..and trig..its nothing it takes time to learn of course but if you have time dont spend it on the computer. myspace, or phone take the time to learn what you learned in class that day...Colleges do look at your mathmatics skills do and math is the subject you get tested on alot..so yes they might turn you down...but it also depends which college...ahrvard if your plannaing deffntly will princeton...yale ..theese are some top colleges ..but if yor plannign to go to a non-expensive one then they will look but you might still get it..your best bet try learning it no it gets alot harder on the way...=)
xoxo Y.b Best wishes!
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