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hey well my prob is...well i think im starting to like my bestfriend's ex. like she's told me that she wouldnt care who he went out with but she still would want to know whats going on with him and all. she doesnt know i like him or anything i want her to know but i dont know how id tell her. and like I have a boyfrend and i dont wanna break up with him. her ex seems to be flirting back with me and all he has a g/f but shes kinda cheating on him and he doesnt know. i wouldnt know if he would wanna go out with me, i have a boyfriend that i love till death and i dont know how to get rid of the feeling that i like my bestfriend's ex. so yeah what do i do

its things like these that i guess you have to think about wuts more important and the guy you like kinda sounds like one of those guys that look really gud and is very sweet but thers still a little part of him thats kinda "screwed"!!! tell ur friend and maybe sumhow the both of u can help each other get over him! :-P

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I'm 15 years old + a virgin. My best friend has had sex with her bf. My boyfriend isn't a virgin, either. I feel so left out since I've never done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. I'm so curious about it, but I don't wanna do it unless I'm totally in love and I'm ready. I really wanna know what it feels like. What should I do? I dont wanna be known as a little virgin girl for not doing it, but I've never been some1 to give in to peer pressure!

honestly I really don't think girls the age of 15 are having sex... for all you know they could just be saying that cuz they wanna follow the crowd. But I say wait.... follow what you believe in and you'll be happy.

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I met this guy at a lacrosse camp.. I thought he was really cool and everything and we were flirting and he asked me out and of course I said yes.. after that week I haven't seen him but ive talked him on the phone.. hes a total Jock and always plays sports.. sometimes i think he likes his sports better than me.. I really like him and I know he likes me too but I want to see him.. is that being selfish? should I explain it all to him?

No its not selfish and you should tell him that you want to see him and maybe you guys could go out on a date and during the date explain to him how you feel bout the sports thing cuz after all sports is always going to b there... but your not always going to b there and hopefully he'll realize that.

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i have a friend who is really pretty and really popular...she could practically get any guy she wants. Whenever i have a guy who in interested in me she goes and flirts with him and he ends up dumping me and going for her. What should i do to let my friend know that this hurts me badly?

Your friend prolly doesnt even realize shes doing this and probably isnt doing it to hurt you! But just tell her about what she did and that you actually really liked this guy and had a chance with him but she took it away.

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okay me n my boyfriend have been together since .. november 13 andhe went to this party tonight and the last party he went to he let a girl flash him and stuff so should i be worried if he sed he was sorry ??

if he said sorry and meant it... you guys should b fyn. but just be on the look out i guess you could say! =)

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On the last day of school, these mean popular girls came up to me and started to pick a fight just for the fun of it. I got a little emotionable. Now next year I dont want that to happen again. What should i do to avoid that?

~*AhHhHhH*~

Don't let it get to you they're prolly a bunch of snobs that have no life besides make fun of other ppl (which is really pathetic by the way). You'll learn to not listen to them and realize they have nothing better to do....

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k soo ..i kissed my best friend and i want to do it again but he gut a girll who is older than him ..but i dont like her that much..but still..its funn..and i think i like him..do i keep doing it?

before you kiss him again... tell him about your feelings toward him.

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okay, so here's the situation..in 7th grade i used to be how do you say it..the ugly duckling..then in eighth grade my body matured and i was still unhappy with myself..then people started complimenting me and i have had no trouble finding people to do stuff with..not meaning sex but...yah know..i just don't know what to do ..because as much as i want a boyfriend im soo used to my usual thing..i don't know what to do..what if i cheat on that boyfriend..or what..is it like wrong not to have boyfriends..becuase i don't think im ready for a relationship..maybe in time but i mean right now im not gunna settle down ..but is it wrong or what?

Well you do waht you wanna do... don't follow the crowd cuz thats gonna lead you no where! But I think you should come to realize that you've become a beatufil teen and things like having a boyfriend go through everyones mind but yea do what makes you happy. =)

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my 2 friends like this guy that i just started to like. should i tell them that i like him too?

yes tell them for sure cuz if you don't they may start gettin all jealous and upset that you didn't tell them sooner about your feelings towards the guy.

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ok im going out with this guy that i was TOTALLY in love with for a while i digged him so much and i was completly HEAD OVER HEELS for him but now i just dont like him anymore...we never talk and its not working out. its so hard though because hes been my BEST friend since 5th grade and now im in 9th im SO scared if i break up with him itll ruin our friendship thats so strong...what should i do?!?1 :(

Tell him how you feel after all u cant b in a relationship with a guy you don't like anymore... jus tell him the truth and I'm sure he'll understand and you'll come to realize that the both of you were just meant to be friends.

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Do you know of any sites where I can post my pictures for free?

picturetrail.com

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I went to this camp at this school n i met this really cool girl and everything and we had a lot of fun and we even ummmmmmmmmm did stuff in a place but newayz, i don really like her n she didnt really like me but we were thinining about a relationship so i guess we do like eahc otehr to a point, but theres this other girl that i am really into and i have no idea how she feels i mean we've talked about it but it never ends well and i havnt since the other girl since tuesday and i don rememeber her # so what should i do??

Well I think that if you really do like this other girl -- you need to find her number (somehow) and well about the other grl that you met at camp just see how it goes and if the topic of having a relationship ever comes up again just try talking about it a lot more and find out what the both of you really want to take your friendship onto the next level.

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is it possible to snog without tongues? just using your lips? if so, how?

lol yes it is... just without the tongue (lol keep your tongue to yourself!) ;)

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I went out with this guy for a month n 3 weeks I was happi but this is what happened we went out beofre but I dumped him to go out w some other guy which I didnt n abotu a month later my ex got a new gf n it did make me upset bc I did still like him so later his gf dumped him bc she kissed his friend then two days later he asked me out again n I said yes but this one day he had a girl over at his house "just friends" that is n he told me that she was their bc she was waiting for a ride but the thing was when my bfs friend got their we all hung out then he left n she went w him, when she was suppose to be waiting for her ride then another day we were in his room n hes liek are you a virgan n I said yes n then I asked him n hes like no I just did it w one girl n I was like okai n was about to talk about some other stuff until he started talking about the girl he fucked n told me her name n all, wat bf tells his gf wat the girl who he fucked name was? Last my friend called me one day n we were talkin then she told me my bf went to her house w his 2 friends n my friends friend was their (kati) n my bf was saying " i love you kati dont leave me kati bc I love you" then I called him to ask wat that was about n he said he was "fooling" around but I dont see why his friends werent doing that too then n later he told me "shes was just my friend on the first day i got to school" which is soo not true then hes like "I dont give a fuck if you beleive me or not beleive ur friend n not me" So am I like totally OVER-REACTING or WHAT SHOULD I DO? someone pelase help me I dont wanna be w the wrong person n not know it thank you...

it seems to me that the guy that your with is a complete @$s and i don't think you are over reacting because im sure every other grl would react the same way and well i think it's about time that the two of you go your seperate ways... for good -- you shouldnt be treated like this.

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hey.. i just need some advice on sex.. me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now but im not sure when we'll be ready to u know.. do it.. can u please help and just tell me when u think the right time would be? by the way, your VERY pretty i love you smile.. im sure you get that a lot hahaha.. yeah well i'll let you go plz respond!!

xoxo-
shelly

Well sex is a special thing and it's really up to you when you think the time is right.. dnt rush things if you don't want to.

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Where are good places to meet nice wholesome friendly guys besides school..cuz all the guys at my school like the sluts

try the mall or like maybe through other friends

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A girl just moved in across the street and since its summer I'm the first person shes met. We've hung out once but now she wants to hang out everyday. The problem is shes really annoying and I really don't want to hang out with her. I feel bad for having to make up lies about why I can't go over to her house. But is there anyway I can give this girl a hint?

Maybe after awhile she'll get better but if not... try to help her make some friends in your town and maybe she'll start seeing you less!

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how can i meet cool guys at camp? and how can i get them interested in me?

All you need to do is just talk and hang with the guys and just try to find guys that YOU are interested in... and to get them to like you, just act like urself and that one special guy [or guys ;)] will come to you!

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how can i help my best friend through a really tough breakup?

Just be there for him/her... what your best friend needs is someone to be there for them during a tym like this.

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im 14/f and i REally like this boy he is soo cute, and we alway stare at each other, i know he likes me to,and im older then him by 2years.is that bad?im just 2 shy to tell him how i feel.HELP MEH!!!

To other people it may be bad and it's definitely going to be a harder relationship with the age difference, but you guys can maek it work just try to talk him when you two are alone or maybe in "secretive" so you can really tell him how you feel or maybe even on IM.

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