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Gender: Female
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Age: 14
Member Since: September 11, 2005
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ALright well im a girl and im 15 and im about 5'4" and i weigh 90 pounds. i dont have an eating problem or disorder. do i seem underweight? thanks (link)
Ya that is pretty underweight. Just be sure to eat 3 healthy meals a day and everything will be fine.


what you would do if somebody you dont know, says she is 14 and sent you and email found out your full name? (link)
Well it might not be a big deal but dont give out anymore information about you and dont talk to this person at all. Hope everythings ok.


i would really appretiat it if you take the time to read this.. because im in tears right now..all i want is my best friend back. okay so me and this girl (we'll call her chelsea..) chelsea have been best friends for years.. closer than like anyone.. we hung out like almost every day. never got sick of each other, and had the best times. but then she got this boyfriend from a different school. and started talking to him constantly and i felt left out a lot. and then she has ditched me a lot.. like ive caught her in a million lies. so many.. she wont stop.. and i wasnt talking to her like a week ago.. but then we started slowly talking and today we were laughing and stuff together.. then i find out she went with her boyfriend to dinner with her and her dad and hung with him all night.. whenever me her and my other friends were supposed to hang out.. so tonight when i got home i found out she went with him.. and she started to lie.. but then she told the truth that she was with him.. i know she went to his house because her dad told me. so she immediatly admitted that.. i dont know what to do. im so sick of her lieing to me. i burst into tears after talking to her.. please help me.. i really need it. thank you SOO much for reading this//and helping if you do.. (link)
Just give her some space right now, she will soon realize what shes doing to u and she'll really miss u. Plus guys come and go but true friends last forever.


Ok, well I kinda like this kid Anthony at my school..but i don't really know him ..well liek we're not friends..but he's becoming friends with my friends. The other day when I wans't at school he was asking about me...and now my friend is trying to hook us up. She talked to him and he said, "i want to get to know her, before i ask her out." Well alot of people have gone up to him telling him I like him..when I told them to stay out of it...so i was thinkin what I would say is: Hey I know you've been hearin that I like you..but i dont really know you, so do you wanna go to the movies with sum people this weekend? so we can get to know eachother...Do you think that is a good idea.. my friends say he'll like the fact that I have ballz to talk to him and ask him to go to the movies. Do you have any other ideas of what I could say...please anything would help, b/c I dont wanna cum off as a total ass!! x0 (link)
no i think your friends are right he will find it sexy that u have tooken the first step in trying to get to know him, so say what u planned and it will work like a charm!


My AIM is screwing up. It will let me sign on, but it takes forever for my buddylist to load. Then when it does i cant look at anyones profiles, I can aim them but what it will do is, When i send what i want i press enter i have to press it again and then it will remain with what i just said and wont like put up the box where you can see what you said and wait for a reply (sorry if that was confuseing).Also it always signs me off when i have PERFECT internet resception. I cant undownload it and than download it again. Because i dont know my password its just saved on my computer. What could i possibly do to make my aim all better again?

If it helps the weather outside is kinda gloomy and raining and thunderstorms. Could that have a effect? I was thinking that but it was being like this yesterday as well. And it was sonny and warn out!

PLEASE HELP!!
Thank you (link)
Restart your computer,maybe it will be better


Well, i'm 14/f and my best friend is a girl and my age. We've experimrnted a couple of times this early year. She ended it in july this year (2005)cause she wanted things back the way they were when we didn't experiment and were close soul sisters (as we call ourselves to each other). I never got to say my total feelings about the whole thing. She says at times that she wishesi could be her girlfriend but in this world it isn't logical. I can't help, but want to kiss her and hold her passionatly. She's about to go on a cruise on Christmas eve this year and the i finally want to show her how i feel so the last day when i spend time with her i want to before a walk out the door i wanted to say this: I want you to so much be with me, but unfortunatly in your logical world that's not possible. Then i would hug her and kiss her softly on the lips and rush out the door. i just wanted to leave her with a thought in her head as she was on the cruise to let her know finally how i feel. Should i go for it?? PLLLLZZZ HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!

~queencece~ (link)
Yess! that sounds sooooo sweet!!! tell me how it goes!!! BaLLaHoLLiC11


how do you get backgrounds and stuff one your myspace?
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www.whateverlife.com

**Thats a great place to get premaid layouts which are the coolest thing since mexican beans!


Hey does any buddy no how you like write two lines on your myspace but they kinda over lap each other?

thanks a bunch ash (link)
Yah, go to this website......

www.whateverlife.com


it helps u with every kind of code u could this of including the one your thinking of!


ok to guys out there plese help, would it sound all clingy and stuff if i asked my boyfriend if he loves me more than he loved his ex?
please help
rate high
xxx (link)
The question is, do u really need to ask yur bf this? It might cause him to think you dont trust him. I would better stick with not asking him!


i've been having a really off week, and today was the worst ever for me [i'm a guy btw]. i guess you can say that everyone knows me, and i'm not too bad company. today was really bad for me, I felt depressed. a lot of my guy friends noticed right away something was wrong, because i'm usually the one to make the first weird comment or try to make a joke out of things - but i do know when to stop. anyways, teachers too noticed, and everyone said that it was noticeable that something was wrong with me, and that it made them feel bad too when i was around. is that normal, like does that usually happen to you guys or with your friends? its not like i'm thinking about giving up on life, but any suggestions to get my mind off of it and feel better- talking about it hasn't seemed to help... thanks - will rate good. (link)
Well as we grow up we have more stress and u need more sleep and life just plain old gets harder..i have the same problem. Just try and relax, get more sleep. Dont let what other people effect u just try and be u!


I have really curly hair so I straighten it twice a week just about. Is that really bad for my hair. Like i know that its bad to straighten your hair but how bad is that?? I have some straightening stuff thats my sisters that i use before i do it i guess it supposed to help... (link)
Well if u know only do it twice a week its not as bad as if u do it every day like some people. Also if your hair seems to be effected by it there are some products you can buy! hope i helped...drop one in the inbox! XoXo


ok ballahollic...heres the thing...i used to always be really quiet in skewl, and i pretty much just talked to my friends. but this past summer, i changed sooo much!!! i became A WHOLE LOT more social. but now that i'm back in skewl, everyone expects me to be the quiet girl again, so i dont kno how to show them i've changed...help!!! xoxo (link)
Ok well if you've changed then it will deffinately show, just remember to be yurself and everyone will tell that u have changed! hope i helped! thanks for the question! ask me anything anytime! X to the O!


Well I have a new boyfriend and my best friend is acting really weird like she’s saying that I am a leaving her for him but I m not!! What the hell is her problem? Why is she saying this I mean he’s a new boyfriend and its that honeymoon stage where your excited aand she doesn’t understand and I hate the way she’s acting like today in the library I she wanted me to go to her class for 10 min. and I was with my boyfriend and I said no because that’s stupid why would I go to her class when she’s acting like this? Im really getting annoyed with her. Please help!! (link)
Well she probly feels yur replacing her with yur boyfriend, maybe u should try and hook her up with someone. But also make sure you spend time with yur best friend and show u still care.
friends before men


ok when your in i fight with someone and they say your over...is that liike another way of saying "your done" as in im gonna fight you??or does it mean something else??
please help
i rate 5 for anything resonable (link)
its mean that yur guys relatoinship or friendship is over, give them time it will probly pass


Everyone's asking questions about cutting. Do they mean that they're literally taking knives and cutting their flesh? If not, what do they mean then? If so, why the hell would they do that? It makes no sense. (link)
When people get to depressed they sometimes cut there wrists so they can feel pain.


i have a bf, and i dont really like him i went out with him mainly because hes really nice and i thogunt y not give him a chance. but i also like this other guy and he likes me. he told me friends he thoguth i was cute and he wanted to make out with me. but he has a gf of 2 yeats. but i really like him, and i want to make out with him, but people have been callin me slutty because htye said that if i make out with the guy i like, thats being rude to my bf, witch i only lik as a friend, but i dont want to brake up with him yet, bucz i want to see if maybe my feeling change. (link)
Okay you need to brake up with your boyfriend, cause your playing him. Also you need to talk to the guy you like because if he wants to be with you then he needs to break up with his girlfriend....Well i hope i helped, good luck!
X to the O


what do i wear? the invite says "dressy casual"?
13/m (link)
Don't come in like sweatpants and a sweat shirt but dont come in like a suit. Wear maybe like a nice collared shirt and nice jeans (ones without like holes and stains) Hope i helped!


im 16 male
ive got a great friend shes a girl and shes going through a rough time with her boyfriend who is also one of my friends. Hes starting to lose interest in her and she suspects he likes somebody else who ironically is another friend of mine, well shes really depressed and i wanna know if theres anything u guys can tell me i can tell her to try help her feel better or maybe questions i can ask her to make her realise something for herself, ive helped alot so far cheering her up when i can and making her feel good about herself because she suspects its because of her looks or something about her which i denie because i do sorta like her(and its true she's gorguz), well i h8 seeing her like this, so any suggestions?
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well i think you should tell her you like her because maybe she likes u too and that would get her mind off of her boyfriend. hope i helped!
X to the O


i just found out my best friend is pregent, she is about 5 to 6 months along and is due in january and she is going to make the kid call me aunt because we are so close, like sisters. i feel totally shocked because she is only 17 while she is gonna marry the guy, i know its gonna be hard for her, and im just not sure what to do for her right now, i just need some ideas because i am completely in shock. (link)
Okay well first off im sorry this happened to you, just remember people make mistakes and im sure she regrets it. But you gotta be by her side and support her through this because she most likely need someone. Also i would take the aunt thing as an honor, that must mean you are a very good friend to her! Well my advice is to just support her through this be there when shes pregnant and after the baby is born!!!
Hope i helped and good luck!


So how does this whole thing work? Im always giving advice but I just joined here! How do I know people can find me to ask questions? (link)
Well you have to wait for them to come to you to ask the questions. There are 2 ways...

1} Give advice to alot of questions so that people realize you give good advice, the more you give the more people see yur name and they will ask you questions.

2} Tell your friends about yur advice column...tell yur friends to tell there friends and so on. That way when yur buddies have problems they can come to u!

Hope i helped, and good luck!




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