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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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hey everone ok well i have this friend and she's mad at me /c i told some people about this guy she told me abuout.. and ya we're not friends nmore.. and she lives across the street from me!!! omg now her friends r making fun of me.. and today one of them wuz making fun of me of how i walk... and ya my mom thinks im friends w/ her still and i can't tell her that we're not friends nemore over some stupid guy!! cuz she'll get really mad at me!! so what should i do? pleese help me!!!

hey, well dont tell us this stuff, tell her! have a talk with her and tell her that this isnt how you want your friendship to end [ if it ever does = ) ]. cait♥♥

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18/G.
I am in anal sex since few months and feeling quit normal. we do this atleast three four times a week.Is there any health risk involve in anal sex? Pls. reply.

hey, im assuming 18/g means 18/f. well there is a heath risk. you can still get stds and stuff. cait♥

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I RATE!
My hair is long (almost half way down my back), dark browny redish, layered and slightly feathered at the sides, straight parted down the middle. I dont have a fringe its grown out but the hair that would of been my fringe (at the very front) comes just above my shoulders. My hair is kinda fly away.. like it sticks up at the top quite a bit.
My face is long and upside down egg shaped (oval) and is kinda chubby. Looking at my face from a side view its kinda wide and round

s considering all of the above my question is.. Im going to a party/gathering for my brothers football team awards thingy :S and i need some nice but simple hairstyles

Picture examples also highly appreciated. I RATE!

hey, if you have a big face [ not making fun of you ], then big hair looks the best on it. having poofier hair compliments the bigger face types. try scrunching or crimping your hair. put in a stretchy headband and leave your hari down. fi that doesnt work do half up half down. cait♥

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well, theres this kid i know and a lot of people make fun of him, but im not friends with him and i dont stick up for him (buti def. dont include myself in the making-fun) but yeah so this kid tries to laugh with the kids so that he dosent seem weak or soemthing so he just goes along with their making-fun and idk ..you can definately tell that he isnt happy about it..i can see it in his eyes.. he has lots of cuts on his arm..and i think he cuts, and even though i dont like the kid myself, i dont know what to do because i definately feel bad for him so im not sure what to do...any advice will help thanks =]

hey, well there isnt much that you can do for these types fo people. just offer your help and say like oh if you ever need anything im here for youu. cait♥

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I hate everything I see in malls and department stores. I don't want to wear any of it. Sooo, I've decided to stop griping and start making my own clothes. Unfortunatley, I don't know the first thing about sewing. NOTHING. I enjoy going to fabric stores, i'll think, oh maybe I'll use that one day, and I have all these designs in my mind. I just don't want to walk into my first sewing class looking like an idiot because I have the cheap, wrong, low quality materials I need. Any suggestions on what I should pick up, any brand names I should be aware of, any tips for a beginner would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance.

hey, here is a site that i think will be helpful. http://sewing.about.com/od/beginner1/ cait♥

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I had an answer to a question I answered deleted. Can anyone tell me why?

hey, to every question that is deleted there is almost always a reason why. if there wasnt then go to the FAQS of this website. cait♥

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Recently I have developed a crush on a co-worker who is three years younger then me. However the fact that he is younger isn't my problem. My problem is he seems like he likes me for more than a friend but I'm having trouble telling. He's friendly with everyone but he seems different with me. He grins alot when I talk more so then when he talks with someone else. I have notice him looking at me but when I look at him he looks down or away or sometimes he'll give me a big grin. He has touched my hair a couple times and he acts really goofy with me. His ex girlfriend works with us too. But she isn't an issue because they haven't been together for a long time. Plus she thinks it's cute that I like him and she has a boyfriend that she loves. Anyways I explained to her the things he does and she thinks maybe he does like me. I just need more then one opinion on this. Another thing is when I left work one day I was standing outside the window waiting for my ride. When I turned around he gave me a goofy grin and waved at me through the window. I never notice him looking at any of the other girls that we work with like this. He'll play around with them but in a different way then with me. Please any help is appreciated.

hey, im 99.9% sure that he likes you! make the first move. give him playful hints that you like him. cait♥

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Well here is my problem.

I'm eighteen years old. I have a really awesome boyfriend. Prior to our relationship we were best friends so everything is sort of honkey dorey there.

We'll call him "Todd" Well, Todd recently moved out of his parents house.
He got a job at a factory and a car dealership. Aside from the fact that he has no time to spend with me now, he has no car because he can't afford one at the moment.

Now I have no problem helping him out, and neither does my family.

Then Todd started carpooling with my sister to work (they work at the same place).

Now really I have no problem with that either. But now, he comes over to my house, opens the refridgerator gets something to eat, my mother packs him and my sister a lunch, he uses the phone with out asking, and the internet. My dad dotes on Todd; Todd sometimes asks if my dad can pick him up, my mother takes him to go get his paycheck, and now he's using my sisters car during the day!

I feel a little used!! I have never asked his parents for anything much less really visited with them.

I know he needs to get on his feet, but this is making me very upset. He knew that when he moved out of his parents home that he would be trying to make it on his own and now he's just overtaking my family it seems.

I don't neccesiarly want him to walk all over town, but come on he knew the stakes when he moved out.

My parents are charmed by Todd, my mom says "Well it's normal for the boyfriend to be closer to the girl's family.." but I am feeling used and abused. He hardly gives me any attention anymore yet he feels it's OK to do this with my family.

Am I over reacting? I don't think it's fair at all.
How do I discuss this with him without hurting his feelings or making it an arguement. I care deeply about him, but this has got to stop.

Thank you

hey, nope your not over-racting at all! i would have a talk about it with him and your family. mayeb talk to your family about finding him an apartment and finding used old cars too. cait♥

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Okay, I went to my doctor and was prescribed with "Levlen ED"

I want to startusing it now, but i was told to startwhen i get my periods.

I havent had my period for about 5-6 weeks now and i hadnt had sex since january but recently had it on the 19th of this month, i also had sex last night and he thinks the condom broke.

Is there a way i can start using the pill now without having to wait for my period to come? I know if i fell pregnant from a broken condom its not going to fix it, but i just want to start using this pill so my periods get in order :<

im extremely confused and i dont know what to do :<

hey, wait until you get your period. there is other products out there to help you with pregnauncy. ask your gyno for advice. cait♥

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Ok just so you know the other day i went and got a brizalin wax and they gave me this cooling cream to put on well later that night me and my Boyfriend ended up having sex. that night just so you know we had alot of sex. and well the next day we went to the beach and now he's still wearing the same pants in the water and then went to the pool and swam and then went back to my house and chilled well my question is the next morining he texted me to tell me he had some red rash down stairs and that i would want to get checked. well i'm going to the docters today so i am but could it have been him wearing the same pants and having them dry on this maybe irratate his skin or the cooling cream b/c i checked my self and i don't have anything wrong down there. so.... just want to know what ya'll thought. Thanks

hey, it could be from the cream. but im not sure. still get checked. the both of you. cait♥

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last summer i met a boy in a chatroom ... yes i know chatroom. I use to go in them all the time when i was bored and whatever play around i guess anyways i started talking to this kid, and over time i actuallu started to like him. I never seena picture of him at first so i know i liked him for him and not what he looks like. We kinda dated ... ughhh sounds gay i know i know. Its not like i cant get a guy in real life, i can and i do but i always end up thinking about him. I've seen his picture only a month ago and hes alright! not cute or anything but i still love him. His personality is wonderful and i cant get enough of him, but the whole idea of meeting him from online makes me feel like a geek! i dunt noe. I had a boyfriend before i met him and i was in love or at least i thought i was. i already knew what i wanted but now i want him!! is that weird??? And i know hes not a fake!!! he has a myspace and has ALOT of friends on it from his school and we talk on the phone?? do you guys think its weird .... do you think its possible to be in love with someone you hardly know but in a way you do!!

hey, well be careful. this happened to me before except i met the kid on myspace. we talked on the phone and on AIM. he could have been completly fake .. but luckily he was real. no its not weird to love soemone that you just meet and hrdly know. cause i did. i know exactly how you feel. cait♥

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I was wondering if anyone can give me advice on activities to do with my 8 year old daughter this summer. All she seems interested in is watching TV or playing with her cousin, who is 10. We read together at night but usually she falls asleep right away. I've tried to get her interested in cooking, but I'm not much of a cook myself. Can anyone give me some ideas?

hey, maybe take her to the beach with oen of her othr friends. socialize her with other kids. try asking her what she wants to do ; instead of deciding for her. cait♥

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im suppoed to make a pamphlet for the constitution that basically "sells" the idea.in other words im supposed to give facts about the constitution,make it creative,and try to get people to agree with the constitution.but my question is,i dont know how to make a creative pamphlet,how should i make it ?

hey, fold a paper into threes. then on the front put a picture of it and write the constitution. in all of the inside jsut write basically the pros and cons of it. also add pictures to each section. dont just use regular text. be creative and use colors and differnet styles. that wordart on microsoft word is good to. on the back just basically close the pamphlet. cait♥

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How long can you las to take the next day pill?

hey, its 72 hours. cait♥

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Ive been best friends with kay for 3 years and recentlyy she started dating jay. Now Jay is an amazing person,Cute resepectful loyal hard working funny and intellegent. And Kay whom I love to pieces is the EXACT opposit now dont think im beig mean she really is she quit her first job after a month.Anyway i guess my question is what should I do?

hey, dont do anything. its her relationship. dont get in the way of things. let her make her own descisons even if there bad ones. she isnt five and she def. doesnt need your guidance. let her fail or suceed by her descison making. cait♥

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I am 14/F and last night I found something that I think is a sore "down there". Should I be worried?

hey, well if you have been sexually active before i would go get it checked. if not then you have nothing to worry about. still even if you havent had sex but took part in things related to sex still get it checked. cait♥

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I am a teenage girl with a boyfriend. What do I do if I see him with another girl?

hey, just privately talk to him about it. tell him hwo you feel and dont hold back any of your feelings. cait♥

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Im 14 9th grade and im homeschooled. The local high school is having the prom. I feel really left out especially when prom comes around. My mom wants to homeschool me through high school, but I know I dont want to be. My question is can someone help me to make my mom feel more comfortable with going to school? Homeschooling is great but I just want a little experience at school. (And I want to go to prom!!) Help! Thanks

hey, well explain to your mom that you dont want to be homeschooled anymore. also taht you want some sort of experience in real school. also people from other schools can ask you to go to the prom. so just get friendly withpeople from other schools. cait♥

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I want to go on a crash diet, yea its bad for me but w/e iDc. SO my meals everyday would consist of:

Breakfast: Some sort of fruit
Lunch: A small snack maybe a sandwhich or something of that sort
Dinner: Maybe a bowl of rice and some meat. or just anykind of plain meat.

That way i get some of the pyramid into my daily meals.. So tell me if that is good enough or not

and no i will not be throwing up any of this food. im not belimic or anorexic.

hey, i think that thats fine. except the breakfast kinda scares me. maybe try fruit and one of those 4 mini waffle things. cait♥

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ok so their is this boy we can call him j and i REALLY like him. i am thinking about going out with him but my parents would freak out because hes mixed (white and black) and im white. their not racest or anything. they just disagree with me going out with a black/mixed/any race other then white person because they think that putting mixed children situation is wrong. i of coarce STRONGLY disagree! i think that it shouldnt matter what race you are. so as i was saying i want to go out with j but should i really go agenst what my parents say AND not tell them im going out with j?

what should i do??

please HELP!

hey, well if you feel comfortable lying/hiding it to/from your parents then go out with him. but if you feel the need to tell them then just have them meet him! cait♥

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