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Crush on a Co-worker...Need Advice.
Recently I have developed a crush on a co-worker who is three years younger then me. However the fact that he is younger isn't my problem. My problem is he seems like he likes me for more than a friend but I'm having trouble telling. He's friendly with everyone but he seems different with me. He grins alot when I talk more so then when he talks with someone else. I have notice him looking at me but when I look at him he looks down or away or sometimes he'll give me a big grin. He has touched my hair a couple times and he acts really goofy with me. His ex girlfriend works with us too. But she isn't an issue because they haven't been together for a long time. Plus she thinks it's cute that I like him and she has a boyfriend that she loves. Anyways I explained to her the things he does and she thinks maybe he does like me. I just need more then one opinion on this. Another thing is when I left work one day I was standing outside the window waiting for my ride. When I turned around he gave me a goofy grin and waved at me through the window. I never notice him looking at any of the other girls that we work with like this. He'll play around with them but in a different way then with me. Please any help is appreciated.
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He definately likes you. It may be up to you to make the first move. I would make a guess that he's really shy and possibly not sure that you like him. Good luck and have fun.
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It does sound as though he likes you as more than a friend and in my experience, guys only do things as intimate as touching your hair when they like you.
A lot of people advise against getting involved with someone in the workplace. Normally, I agree but I worked with my other half when we first got together so I'd be a hypocrite if I said that!
The bottom line is that if you really like him, you ought to do something about it. However, if you have only recently developed this crush, give it some time first. Crushes have a nasty habit of disappearing suddenly and if he really likes you and you go off him, you might really hurt his feelings. My advice is that when it comes to office romances, you should only go for it when you are certain of your feelings because you don't want to cause an ice atmosphere in a place you have to go to every day!
Give it a few weeks. If you still really like him or you feel your crush developing into something serious then go for it. You never know what might happen!
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Aww....even though I'm only thirteen, I know this guy likes you. =] That's really cute. Ask him out.
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hey, im 99.9% sure that he likes you! make the first move. give him playful hints that you like him. cait♥
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Go for it girl
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