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Last night I had a party because my parents were away. This guy that my friend has a crush on was there and we both made out with him multiple times while she was there.
After she left we were both lying on the floor together and started making out again. Then it started to get a little more serious, and he put his hand up my bra. We went into a bedroom and continued to make out more, and then he sucked on my breast, and then we made out more.
Afterwards I felt horrible and guilty and bad. I talked to my friend and she asked me what happened after she left so I told her that we made out and left out the second part and she wasn't pissed. The problem is that she's going to be hanging out with him and he's probably going to tell people, and it might get back to her.
Do you think I should tell my friend?
I think you should tell your friend before she hears it from someone else. And trust me, it'll really hurt her if she does hear it from other people. I know it's going to be hard to tell her, but you have to. *goodluck*
How lond does weed stay in your system. because iwant to apply for this job but there doing a drug test and i dont know when to take the application. i smoked yesterday.
thursday January 20, 2005
It takes about 2 to 3 weeks for it to be totally out of your system, lol. *goodluck*
There is a guy I like at school and today, when the last bell rang, i saw him walking in front of me to the busses. He turned around and looked right at me. I was thrilled, so when we got out of the building, I watched him get on the bus and he looked at me 2 more times. does this mean he likes me? i need advice from both girls and guys to get different views! THANX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yeah, it could mean he likes you. That's one of the things guys do to get your attention. He's too shy to actually get the nerve to come up to you and talk to you, so he gives you cute signals. *goodluck*
my mom is sick n its getting really bad n shes in the hospital...
ive been told by my sundai school teacher to keep on praying no matter wut n its been a long time since i started n...nothings happening...
im getting really impatient n starting to think that God doesnt love me.
wut should i do?
^$SiCknSaD$^
Never think that. God loves everyone! Bad or good, he still loves you! You just have to remember there are like a million more people out there in the world that need him much much more. How about kids that are poor and have no parents? I'm not trying to say your situation isn't important, it is. I really hope your mother get's better. I know how it feels, my dad got really sick last year and died of cancer. It really hurts, but always remember God will be there for you, but if you loose hope and faith. That's not right. You have to be strong for yourself and your mom. Miracles happen. God will do his job on his time and not on yours. Be patient. *goodluck sweetz*
i have trouble getting boyfriends. i mean all my friends tell me that im outgoing, funny, and pretty..but its like the boys dont see those qualities in me. i mean i act no different around boys than i do girls but its just wierd. and whenever a guy does like me i feel like he doesnt really like me because my self-esteem, when it comes to guys, isnt very high. what should i do?
First of all, you shouldn't have low self-esteem because you don't have a boyfriend. I'm sure there are a lot of guys interested in you, but are intimidated by you. Maybe their too scared to come up to you. You said your outgoing, funny and pretty! Why should you have low sef-esteem? Walk around confident because guys don't like girls that aren't. Maybe you should make the first move, or you can wait. Good things do happen to people that are patient. Eventually that right guy will come (they will sooner or later)...So don't put yourself down. There isn't anything wrong with you. *goodluck*
I went to my gyno a week or two ago becuase i have had irregular periods for about 5 years so she decided the best thing to regulate my periods and help with my acne, was to put me on the pill..so today i started my period which means tomorrow (since its sunday) will be my first day to take the pill..anyway my question is...i have heard from many people that the pill since it deals with your hormones and such it causes you to gain weight..i am very self contious and a little heavier than i would like to be as it is now..so will it cause me to gain inevitable weight??????? please does anyone know????
I take the pill and it really helps with my cramps, periods, and helps get rid of stupid pimples. Now, people have said that it does make you gain weight, but I've been taking it for 2 years and I haven't noticed any weight gain! Maybe it differs from people to people. Some gain weight and some don't...Try taking it and if you notice any change, ask your doctor if there is anything else you can take instead of the pill. *goodluck*
okay here the thing. im making my xanga page and i have this site i go on and put cool effects on my websites. well the one design is where you can make a box pop up when the person who visits your site enters and leaves. I was just wondering when you copy the link for it, where do you put it in the xanga site? I rate 5's
I think you put it on your "personal message" section (if there is one) because usually that's where people put up codes for their pages...*goodluck*
theres this girl that has been following me around since 7th grade she never talks or when she can you can't hear her.I dont like feeling like I have a shodow its emberassing when I talk to people and they try and talk to her but she just wont talk. Its the most annoying feeling so thats why i dont even enjoy lunch anymore id rather go to my next class. even if i say to someone "i need to tell you something in private" and walk away she still follows me. Shes the shyest person EVER and i would feel bad hurting her feelings. BUT I CANT TAKE IT ANY LONGER. pleaseee help i'll rate 5's
thanks
Whoa...That must be really annoying. I understand you don't want to hurt her feelings, but what else can you do? You have to tell her the truth. Say it to her nicely, and if she still follows you, your going to have to be more aggressive. Or you two can be friends and try to boost her self-esteem, or whatever issues she has. Invite her out with your friends, make her be more social then maybe she could make friends on her own and leave you alone. I don't know if any of this will help, but I wish you good luck!
this girl is having her sweet 16...and im not invited but the rest of my friends who dont even talk to her are. I was just asking...do you think when i have mine i should invite her? or should i not invite her.
I know it might suck but I would say, invite her. Be the bigger more mature person. Who knows you two might end up really good friends if you get to know eachother and on the plus side, you get one more present!
i dont have a ton of friends (maybe 6 or 7 really close ones - my best friends) But the other day, they told me i was really clingy and that they need some space. I didnt want to say anything but i got realy upset. I dont try to be clingy at all! And i realized they were right but i dont know how to stop! Im one of those people who cant sit home on a fridy night bi themselves and be happy! Im so depressed alll the time and i dont know whats wrong with me! And they say i make them depressed and sad b/c i am..It just feels like no one likes me! How do i get them to like me? What do people do that gets annoying?? I need to know what i am doin wrong =/ thanks..
First of all, these "friends" of yours aren't really your "friends". I know this hurts, but what kind of friends are they if they don't stick by you when your depressed? They should be helping you not ditching you. All of you need to have a serious talk together. They could tell you what they don't like about you and you could tell them what you don't like about them. And if all of you make an effort to change, then those are your real friends. If they don't, they could be the reason why your so depressed!! *goodluck*
i'm 16/f. is it okay to date a guy that's younger than me? i like this guy but hes 2 years younger than me, i'm a junior...hes a freshman. Thanks guys!
Yeah, if your comfortable being with someone younger, then go for it! But watch out, guys mature wayyyy later than girls.
ya i know this is such a lovely question.. but i need help. i get these little arm pimples.. i don't know if they're actually pimples but they're little zitlike things and white puss comes out of it.. what are these? where did they come from? and i have scars from them.. how can i get them to go away?
and back acne.. i have scars from that too, and i get all these pimples on my shoulder, i can't get them to go away and the scars too? any good meds you can reccommend? please help me !
I heard you get back acne from shampoo residue...I guess everytime you wash your hair, you have to make sure you really rinsed your back before getting out. I know this isn't really helping much. Go see a dermatologist and good luck!
I am dating a guy.. and hes going to a private school next year... and we really love eachother.. but the private school hes going to isolates him.. right now were not even at the same school.. hes in one highschool in our town and im in the other.. and were fine.. but next year im not even going to be able talk to him at all.. because he even has school on Saturdays.. :-/ I dont want to lose him..we have been best friends for 3 years and we have dated on and off in the past and were dating now... im afraid hes going to get over me and move on.. and i don't want him too.. i really love him alot.. and he loves me too.. but theres no way we can be together next year.. should I just get over him now and move on starting now.. or what?
sorry its so long :-/ any advice would be well appreciated.... I'll rate :)
If both of you really want this to work out, then both of you will find time to see or talk to eachother. You could ask to talk til 10:30 on the phone? Since you'll be one year older, your curfew should go up to! Does he have to spend the every sunday with his mom? Or dad? Or can he sacrifice
HEEEEEEEELP!!!!!PLEASE!!!!!
ok ok....i submitted a question about my bestfriend that i made out with and that i have gone out with a million times...blah blah blah well after i did that he asked my out on halloween and we ahve been going out for 3 months now...but i got kicked out of my private school and im goin back to public school w/him and he thinks that i will dump him now becuase i will just go out with sumone eles and the only reason i have been going out with him this long is becuase i didnt have anyone to go out w/ at my old school and he almost started crying...i told him he was CRAZII and that i love him more than anything...but i dont rele trust myself i mean i know i love him but... i have already talked to a few of my ex boyfriends and i already know that i am gunna have to fiight to b able to turn them down becuase one of them already asked me to...does that mean i dont love my boyfriend????
Of course that doesn't mean you don't love your boyfriend. It's okay to still talk to your exes, but your exes have to know that your with someone now. They have to know that the only relationship their getting from you is friendship. Otherwise, that would be unfair to your boyfriend.
i'm forteen and i have never really had as serious boyfrined. Is there something special to look for in a guy? How do i know if hes the right one??? help please
At 14, I hardly doubt you'll find the right one. Only you will know if he's right or not, because you'll feel it.
my boyfriend cheated on me with another girl .. we have been goin out for 2 1/2 monthes now .. he says he loves me, but i dont see how you can cheat on somebody you love. he didnt have sex with the other gurl, but they kissed. so i then broke up with him and that same day i broke up with him he kissed another girl .. im so confused. should i stay with him ? i mean we are both only 15 years old . so maybe it was just hormones. but do you think he loves me. he treats me really good, hes boughten me a gold ring and big teddy bear when i was sick he
You can't really ask a total stranger if you should believe him or not. What you should do is talk to him. I'm sure he does care about you and has strong feelings for you. But if your going to be together, he shouldn't be kissing other people. He did it once, it's okay..But if he does it twice, don't take him back because he'll keep doing it, thinking you always going to take him back. This relationship can work. You two have to have a talk and start all over fresh and new. Remember though, a relationship will never work out if there's no trust. Tell him that!
(sorry for the length) Ok my boy friend and I have been together for roughly seven months. A week before we started going out we would stay up till like 4 or 5 in the morning talking with each other. Now he seems to be more interested in a comnputer game than in me. When we're both online at the same time he doesn't seem to want to talk to me much. Well a few months back his friend sent me this conversation they had about me and it really hurt me because my bf said some very hurtful things about me. I asked him aobut it and he had stayed home sick the day that conversation occured and was on a lot of medicne and he blamed it on that. After I read that conversation I thought my heart broke. I want to tell him that I love him and I want to know if he feels the same way about me, but I'm kinda afraid of what his response would be. What should I do?
Afraid of his response? But, sweetz if you stay in an unhappy relationship, it'll hurt you more. Trust me. You really need to talk to him....Find out if he feels the same way about you. If he doees, then he should be giving you more attention!!! You have been together for 7 months, I'm sure you two could talk to eachother....*goodluck*
Ello, i was wondering if you knew how i could get a background that DOESNT mess up my site. Thanks a bunch
~Brina~
Try www.Migentepages.com. It's a site where ppl have their own pages and stuff...But if you look carefully around, there are pages for ppl that want backgrounds and images(it's for anyone). I always go there, they really have good stuff!! *goodluck*
hey! i saw your advice page and i thought you might be a good person to ask. first, whats the difference between a blow job and head? and how how do you give them. i am totally ready,i have done everything leading up to it, thanks in advance! good luck with your career choice :o)
**Thank You**A Blow job and Head, are the exact same thing. They just have different names...Okay...First thing to do, is take one of your hands and place it on his balls, (I know you might think it sounds weird, but that actually feels good for them). Make sure you hold them firmly with one hand. Use the other hand to stroke the penis (going up and down) and then....Use your tongue and just suck on it like a lollipop...The tip of the penis (the head) is super sensitive. So lick around that a few times!!! It might seem confusing because you have to do so many things at once, but really it isn't...Use something to practice on...I really hope I helped..If you need more info or any adivce, just ask! Good luck!! Hope you enjoy it! :)
I dont know if i should dump my b/f becuz he likes another girl but whenvever i ask him who he likes more he always says yes to me that he likes me more....should i dump him???¿¿¿
No, I don't think you should dump him over that. Your bf shouldn't even like another girl (more than a friend) except you. That's so disrespectful, but in another way it isn't because he obviously chose you and is with you, so he likes you!