Well, I'm just a girl. Nothing special just a compasionate girl who loves to give advice. I love to help people and advice is a great way to go about that.
I love to sing and play guitar, and my friends are my life. I love my parents, and my two cats. My hero is Slash, the guitarist from Guns N Roses and currently Velvet Revolver.
I also participate multipul sports, but my main are Volleyball, and Cheerleading. I am a Christ follower for life, and Jesus is the reason for every breathe I take.
Feel free to ask me questions because I take joy in answering them.
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(M, 24)My girlfriend broke up with me recently after a 3 year relationship. She brought up moving in together and engagement regularly, I wanted the same, I loved her very much and wanted to spend my life with her (she knew this). However, I was paying off loans and did not have the money to take that step yet. She knew that I would be done with them in 2 months and could then proceed. We were all set to go on a trip together with friends which had been planned out for a few months and she was really excited about it. She had just started a new job and had been there a week, I noticed her not talking as much as before. We talked and she said she may not want those things anymore. By the end of the weekend everything seemed fine considering it ended with her suggesting more places we could live as well as saying she loved me and acting normal, 5 days later she calls me at 2am after a night out with her co-workers, I had been waiting all night to drive out and see her she tells me that she doesn't have the same feelings for me and it's over and she wasn't going on the trip even though it was days away. She said when she was out a co-worker kissed her and she felt something and a bunch of little issues had built into big things and she was unhappy (I didn't see at all nor did my family and friends especially considering she was one to tell me exactly how she felt). I was crushed and have no idea how it just ended so quickly after everything we shared and seemingly being so in love and excited about the future. Is this a work infatuation? Does she still have feelings but is pursuing other things on impulse? Why would she call me her soul mate and best friend days before and then end things? Was she just giving lip service in saying all this to me even though she appeared to be sincere in her feelings? I apologize for the story but I am really hurt and clueless about the woman I thought I would spend forever with and who appeared to want the same up until now. Thank you (link)
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That's so awful! Now, you need to talk to this chick. She seems to be VERY confused. You have to consider she could have been under the influence of acohol and her senses weren't acting normal, thus when this co-worker kiss her she could have began to feel something that wasn't really there. I hope my feedback helps you and goodluck.
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I really want to get healthy, my problem is; I don't know where to start...
I just need some advice on supplements/vitamins & minerals - and/or food that would significantly help me.
If anyone knows a great way to get healthy and feeling good everyday, please, inform me about certain things which could help out.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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Start small. Begin with taking long walks, and slowly building up to long runs. Or begin lifting small weights and build up to heavier. Vitimin D is what I take and it promotes hair and nail growth. If you take a type of Prenatal pill it has Vitimin D. Prenatal pills can be taken if you are or aren't pregnate. Hope that helps you!
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Okay, so I play guitar and drums. My problem lately is actually sitting down and learning new songs. I'm not officially in a band, but I am playing musical instruments, so therefore; I have to learn new songs on a weekly basis. If I want my dream to come true, then someone has to help me out! I need advice on music to learn; Like: Rock 'n Roll, Jazz, Funk, Blues, Classic... ANYTHING!! As long as it's good!
Peace! (link)
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"Check yes Juliet", by We the Kings was the first song I learned. "Smoke on the water", by Deep Purple is uber easy. "Everything's Fallin' Apart", by Zebrahead fun but challenging. You can find the tabs on ultimateguitartabs.com .
Also on the drums situation, "Ocean Avenue", by Yellowcard has a decent beat and for more challeging drum parts try some Dragonforce songs. "Through the fire and the flames", would be my first recomendation.
Hope that helps you out.
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what does it mean when a guy texts you, and you respond, but then he doesn't text back?
he has a girl. and he knows i like him.
what do i do? (link)
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Well, If he has a girlfriend and isn't responding to reply texts, that probably means hes confused about you too. Try not to come on too strong or the situation could get worse. Don't immediately text him back, wait awhile. I hope that helps some!;)
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I've had an iPod video for a long time, and for christmas i got an iPod touch. I always have $100 Bose earphones, and i've had them since september. I've used my iTouch atleast once everyday since christmas, usually while running on the tredmill, but also in cars and stuff. everything was fine with my earphones,and i was using my bose earphones in my laptop to watch something. then i put them back in my iTouch and was listening to music, when i realized that music was only coming out of the right earphone, and the left earphone was almost compoletely silent. this has happened to me before, but eventually with both earphones, and i thought the problem was the bose earphones so i bought new ones. but now i wonder if my iPod is the problem? although the first time this happened i had an iPod video instead of an iTouch. what can i do to fix this on my own? i can't ask my parents to send it back to get repaired or take it to a store to get repaired because i'm already on my 2nd pair of bose headphones and they're soooo expensive, and also i JUST got my iTouch they would not get it fixed if i broke it ALREADY. so please someone tell me what i can do? thanks. (link)
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Restore you Ipod.
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Okay so here's the deal... I'm fourteen, girl and I'm a freshman in highschool. I recently started dating a sixteen year old boy, sophomore. He's great and what not and weve been dating for a little over two months. The problem is this... Our town sucks. Haha, like really. There is nothing to do besides see a movie or go bowling. Weve done some fun stuff, like midnight sledding and guitar hero fests, haha, but its just hard to find exciting stuff to do around here... And the past few times weve hung out its just been chilling in one of our basements watching a movie. So its gotten pretty dry (not the relationship, the relationship is great) were just kinda bored... any ideas?? (link)
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This is what me and my friends do in our small town: Going to Walmart to do absolutly nothing productive and act like fools, Going to the movies seeing a horror movie and screaming at random times, Just driving around, Telling jokes, Playing football, and hanging out at our city's lake. Hope that helps you out a little!
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I'm like bipolar about this. I love being in relationships and seem to always be looking for one that I think will last a long time but once I'm in one after about 3-4 weeks i get bored with the person and either dump them or end up cheating[I'm working on that though cause i know cheating is wrong]. When I'm single though i get very lonely after a while even if m talking to someone. Even now I've been single for about a month now and I'm lonely. I really do want i long relationship but I don't what usually happens to me to happen yet again.
advice please:) (link)
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Ummm okay, it sounds to me like your looking for love in all the wrong places. I think you need to figure stuff out with YOU before you date anyone else. If you become bored with the person your dating try to remember what it was like before when you first met them that attracted you to them. Hope that helps ya!:)
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I have medium length (should length) hair and its pretty thin.
I straighten my hair everyday and today my usual straightener broke. I'm looking for a new one. can anyone give me any suggestions?
I'm looking for these qualities-
1 inch
Ceramic
Rounded edges so i can curl hair too
No more than 30 dollars
thank you!!!!
also if you can tell me which size (1 inch, 1 and a half inch etc.) is a good size for medium length hair. I want smaller somewhat tighter curls. Not big curls (so that means no 2 inch straighteners) (link)
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Hm...I use a CHI but that is deffenitly NOT under 30$. My advice is to try ebay. Or just google it. That might help, good luck!
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I am a 16 year old female. I used to be best friends with this girl Lea. Lea became friends with this other girl Helen. All of a sudden Lea became really mean and she constantly picks fights with me. Helen has definately changed her because she is mean. Now, Lea taunts me by saying "I have more friends than you" when she actually only has 3. I have a great group of friends. She accuses me all the time of starting fights when I don't. A couple of people are now on her side because she tells them mean things I said to her. Lea thinks it's ok to get mad at me but it's not ok when I get mad at her. Now she tells everyone I'm rude so now everyone is against me and on Lea's side. I don't do anything wrong! Of course I am going to stand up for myself if someone starts arguing with me. And then Lea will repeat an insult to me that I already told her. She can't even think of her own insults. I have great friends and Lea is attacking them too. It's like no one is allowed to fight back at Lea. It's not fair!
What should I do to make Lea stop picking fights with us? (link)
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Wow. Lea sounds like a real piece of work. Just leave Lea alone. She isn't really a good friend if she's that annoying. I htink you should try to just avoid her. Whenver she picks a fight with you, be nice to her. After awhile when she gets tired of Helen she'll come around. But remember, with life, what does around comes around so be careful what you say or do to her. Hope I helped ya!
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i seriously think i'm starting to get depression. the last few months have been insane. my boyfriend of 2 years dumped me (his love faded?), my friends never invite me out anymore and when they do they're using me for a ride or something, i never get invited anywhere anymore, when i try to make plans with people they ALWAYS bail on me or never even call/text me back....and the thing that sucks the most is that i didn't even do anything, to anyone. i'm a genuinely nice person and it sucks to know that noone likes and respects you. i'm up every night crying and i just don't know what to do anymore...i'm not going to kill myself but i don't see the point in living if it just makes you cry every single day. (link)
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Wow. Sounds like you've got a load on you. My advice; Let it out girl. Don't keep your emotions inside or things will just get worse. Talk to your friends and ask them whats up. And that boyfriend, move on honey! If his 'love was fading' he wasn't the one. One of my favorite quotes is something I found online and it reads: "Nobody is worth your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry." If he was your #1, your perfect guy, your solemate, the jerk wouldn't have acted like he did. I don't really know your situation perfcectly but thats my advice from the point of view you gave me to work with. I hope that helps you out and things get better.
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F/17. I dated this girl who I met in my freshman year starting in September of sophomore year. Now, I'm halfway through junior year. We fell in love over the course of an English project in which I was playing the role of her husband. Well, things blossomed and we officially began dating. But her mom and everyone reacted badly, and things fell apart. I was totally devastated but came to terms when we decided to be together secretly without the title. But a month ago, her friends set her up with a boy and she really liked him. Now, they're dating and she's losing interest in me. I'm still so in love with her and she assures me she's not leaving but I don't know. What can I do to get through this? Is she finished being with me? She does everything for me. She buys me necessities, feeds me, etc. I need specific instructions on what I can do to get through this whichever way it plays out. I have the tendency to be unable to cope well, and have self injured in the past, I don't want to go back to that. I also have separation anxiety where she's concerned. It's really strong. My therapist just doesn't help. Sorry this is ling, but can you please tell me what to do and how? Thanks. (link)
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So, it sounds to me taht this girl is going through the '"I'm tired of pretending...I don't really think I loved him anyway'" stange. Come on BOY! You gotta prove her wrong! Do to her what she's doing to you. Grab one of your good girlish friends and pretend to start something with them. Let 'her' catch you hugging or holding hands. Be subtle, because if she sees you kissing or making out it might make her a little too mad...after that I promise you if she loves you at all then she will realize she doesn't want to lose you and be all yours honey! I hope that helps you out!
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