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My best friend changed and know she's mean.
I am a 16 year old female. I used to be best friends with this girl Lea. Lea became friends with this other girl Helen. All of a sudden Lea became really mean and she constantly picks fights with me. Helen has definately changed her because she is mean. Now, Lea taunts me by saying "I have more friends than you" when she actually only has 3. I have a great group of friends. She accuses me all the time of starting fights when I don't. A couple of people are now on her side because she tells them mean things I said to her. Lea thinks it's ok to get mad at me but it's not ok when I get mad at her. Now she tells everyone I'm rude so now everyone is against me and on Lea's side. I don't do anything wrong! Of course I am going to stand up for myself if someone starts arguing with me. And then Lea will repeat an insult to me that I already told her. She can't even think of her own insults. I have great friends and Lea is attacking them too. It's like no one is allowed to fight back at Lea. It's not fair!
What should I do to make Lea stop picking fights with us?
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Don't be friends with her anymore. Or stand up to her and say what's your problem why are you trying to act all cool.. Don't even talk to her and ignore her. Talk to your other friends and tell them your side of the story then together you could stand up to her if she does anything to you =]
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Wow. Lea sounds like a real piece of work. Just leave Lea alone. She isn't really a good friend if she's that annoying. I htink you should try to just avoid her. Whenver she picks a fight with you, be nice to her. After awhile when she gets tired of Helen she'll come around. But remember, with life, what does around comes around so be careful what you say or do to her. Hope I helped ya!
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Yes, you should tell her to stop being rude and picking fights with you. You should probably tell Lea that you wanna stop this fight and that you and her should talk alone, just you and her. I understand what it's like to loose a friend because another person came along and made it horrible. You should definitely talk to Lea without Helen and talk somewhere that is not any place to be bothered at. Well, I hoped I helped you as good as I can help and I hope this gave you some great advice. If you need any advice or questions, just message me back.
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