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What does it mean if you keep dreaming of a person? (link)
yeah bliz is right, you dream about whetever you think/hear/smell/see etc.... the last thing before you go to sleep, even if you dont notice it, its to dow ith your sub conscious, dont worry it just emans that you're thinking about them when you ahve 'alone' time x


i'm 16/f.
i want to loose some weight, not alot, but some. and i want to get toned. i found a workout in seventeen that i've been doing for maybe 2 days. and i've kind of added my own moves.

i was wondering this...i've already decided to drop soda. which i know you can drop a TON of weight just by that. but what if i ate kinda small portions of healthy stuff? would that make me unhealthy? i was thinking like..oatmeal for breakfast or something, or some toast. and then rice cakes for lunch at school, or one of those cambells soup at hand things. and then have some kind of healthy dinner. would i basically be unhealthy? would it slow down my matabolism? (link)
If you eat regularly and well then you will not do any bad to yourself, try and regulate your eating patterns and have smaller bits in between meals x


Ok. So i'm joining the military soon and i need to lose 6 pounds to join. I have 5 weeks to do so. Sounds easy right? Well it's not. I've been on weight watchers for 2 weeks and i haven't dropped a single pound. I haven't cheated on this diet and it used to work for me before but now it's not. What am i doing wrong? I'm female, 5 feet 1 inch and 145 pounds. Please, I need good advice. My time is running out! (link)
Stress doesn't help, if you want to lose weight and you have been on a diet, make sure you are regulating it and the times that you eat. Late at night (as you prob know) is not the best time to eat, but just relax and also your metabolism might've slowed if you are cutting down on the amount of food that you did eat before. So, sosrry to not help that much but if u regulate your diet as much as you can then you should be fine :)


Does any one have good dramatic duet scripts for 2 girls. No lesbian pieces please. Even a book that I can make into a script is good it just needs to be reAlly dramatic. (link)
um, well im not sure if its what ur lookin 4 coz well, i dont know how old u r but theres this one called 'sparkleshark' which is a duologue about a girl who likes this geek and is a bit of a geek herself and her 'friend' is popular and a bit tarty and she is trying to make her popular by stopping her talking to this boy she likes


anyone know the print screen keybored shortcut for my compaq laptop ? (link)
it should be at the top, above backspace maybe a bit further on but if u wanna prink a webpage it's Alt+R


14/m

I really want to get my eyebrow pierced but I am worried.

What do you think about a guy who has an eyebrow piercing? Hot? Not? Gross? Nothing? Anything?

Oh and if a guy gets his eyebrow pierced which one should it be? Does it even matter which one?

Thank you ladies!

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OK, im 14/f first, left eyebrow
second: it varys fro girl to girl, a boy in my year got his done and for most it didnt go down too well, however i liked it and some of my friends did 2. Don't worry tho about what anyone else thinks, go with ur instinct :)


Auditions for "Curtains" the musical my high school is doing are coming up and I'm looking for some good monologues. I've looked online for some monologues from the show and have had no luck. =/ I'd be happy with any female part in the show, but I'm especially interested in playing Carmen Bernstein. If anyone knows of any monologues from the show or from another source that would be good to show Carmen's personality as well as any other character, please tell me! (link)
http://www.10-minute-plays.com/monologues/phone_arts_mono.html

I used this monologue for an audition it's from 'Phone arts' by L.B hamilton its a good one to show potential...hope this helps ;)


I'm really nervous. I feel like something serious is wrong with me. For the past few weeks I've been feeling extremely dizzy and lightheaded. It feels like the start of a panic attack, where I feel 'out-of body'... but it's not a panic attack.. I don't know a better way to explain it.

I have a lot of weird symptoms:

-shortness of breath at times
-constant bags under eyes, no matter how much I sleep
-at times an unquenchable thirst, to the point where I can swallow water, and as soon as the water goes down my throat is dry again
-tender and stiff muscles
-fatigue/sluggishness
- emotionally irritation

and these ones scare me a lot:

-cloudy head - it feels heavy or like I can't think straight, almost like there's a weight inside of it, it feels foggy or something
-I've had quivering on more than one occasion, to the point where my hands were shaking like crazy and my legs/knees were shaking so much that I couldn't stand.

- I feel out of body.. Like the beginning of a panic attack. I'll start shaking and feel like I'm not really here, like I'm floating or hovering or something... only I dont believe its a mini panic attack, I feel like something is seriously wrong with my health.

I got my blood drawn about a week ago and everything came back fine, I recently had a staph infection on my leg but it's been better, and nothing in my blood test indicated it was still there.

I've felt this maybe a few months ago a work and I had to go home early.. the next day I was fine.. but now for the past few weeks it's been back, on numerous occasions.
What could be wrong with me?

Has this happened to anyone, if so please let me know.

I feel extremely dizzy as I type, and I'm laying in bed.. it's way worse if I stand up. It's making me very emotional because it's affecting my daily life.

Please help.
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hi, i have been through the same thing at some point or other when i got this though, i had started to loose weight, but also one of my friends who is very skinny and doesnt get any fatter when she eats experienced the same thing-im not 100% sure this is to do with weight but it could play a big part in it :)


Hi, do you remember the game we use to play in elementary school. It was like oragami, there were colors, you choose a color and spell it out while opening and closing the oragami game, them you choose a number , you count the numbers than your choose another number and open up the pocket and it would say something to do, or a fortune, something was writting on the paper before being made????? WHAT is that called, and how do you make it (link)
yh fortune tellers, and it is hard to explain how to make then but i'll give it a go
ok:
1. get a square piece of paper
2. fold each corner into the middle, so the points touch in the centre of the paper
3. then get each corner and fold it into the middle of the other side
4.repeat with the other three corners
5. on one side you should have four squares, out your fungers in these
6. write what you want on them
thats the best i can do :)


I'm aiming to loose weight by the summer, I've started to do sit-ups and a few other things a couple of times a week. But, my mum told me that its not my diet that I need to change. Just recently I've been eating more fruit though. So, I just want someone else's opinion about my diet?
Normally for breakfast, I don't have that much time in the mornings, I have either cereal or toast with a cup of tea. For lunch I have a sandwich, crisps and a nutri-grain bar. I have a variety of things for my dinners, from pizza, pasta, chicken veg and potatoes, curry (not very often). I have an apple or a banana as soon as I come in from school and maybe some grapes later on after dinner if I get hungry.
So, is this alright? Is it just exercise I need to concentrate on? I think maybe I need to make minor changes in my diet, but I'm not too sure? :/ (link)
about the diet thing, the only thing i can really say is: dont eat at times other than mealtimes, if you get properly hungry between meals, only go for fruit but you sound like you're doing a great job by yourself :) keep at it and good luck!


OK...so my cheer squad wants to do a dance to Kung Fu Fighting. And we found out there is an actual dance...the kung fu step...to that. BUT...it's impossible to find. My question is: does anyone know anywhere that I can find it? Like a video on the internet or something? It would really help us out. Thanks!!

***side note***I don't really need vids of kung fu STEPS....just the DANCE named "The Kung Fu Step".

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is this ok http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7KS4Mh18U-s&feature=PlayList&p=897CA55780582D30&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=6


Hi!
My dad's turning fifty and my brother and sister and I are trying to create a video for his birthday that covers his life, ups and downs, and has some bits and pieces of people talking about him. sort of like the documentaries you see online... I am not too sure how to go about this and was wondering if anyone had any ideas!

Thanks :) (link)
you could try using photos of him on windows movie maker, but you could also try filming yourself and ur bro +sis in one of his favorite locations/places, just having fun yrselves. From my experience, parents love to see their children having fun, so if you can incorporate you and your siblings having fun in the same movie that involes him then im sure it would make him happy. XD


Like for movies, tv shows, etc.

Can you give them to me?
Thanks in advance! (link)
I was recogmended www.starnow.com by my drama school. To apply you have to have an account which costs money.


How could you be nice to people without them taking advantage of you? (link)
Its a case of 'treat them how you would like to be treated'. I wouldnt go in with the attitude that you're gonna be used or taken advantage of. There will ALWAYS be someone else like you. Try to notice if you think they are taking advantage of you then speak to them about it. :)


My boyfriends birthday clashes right with Valentines Day. Therefore I want to make it extra special. I'm borrowing 2 heart shaped cake pans. My boyfriend loves yellow cake w/ chocolate icing. I on the other hand wanted to make a red velvet cake with cream cheese icing, and decorate the both of them.
I just really needed some designs. They can have names on them or anything. Something really romantic and cute. This is our first vday together, we've been together 6 months!
& I really wanted to make it special. Unique. (link)
You could try having his favorite cake, with his favorite colour icing, then do all decorations with your favorite colour or icing choice. As for things to say, don't use something someone else has thought of, think up something that applies to you two, or the way he makes you feel... good luck!


well, i'm 15 years old and JUST started my period today I know not normal! most people start at like 12 or 13. But I bleed through today at school... and i'm superrr heavy and I heard with pads it's really easy to bleed through and tampons, I would wear them but i'm to scared to put one in, i've heard it hurts the first time you put one in.. WHAT DO I DO!?!
:/
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yeah i agree with sunshine, make sure you start off with pads and when you feel you're used to periods and arent afraid of them coming on, try using tampons. If you are worried about bleeding through, try using a thick night-time one and just change regularly, you will start to get used to it after a while. Dont worry about your age, some girls dont start until 16. Trust me.


There's this guy that told me he likes me...Can we call him Mike?

We text a lot & we joke around all the time with each other

Mike was just texting me and we were talking and suddenly he started swearing at me totally randomly...like calling me a fucking bitch...and then he would send a message like "ahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahah" and then go back to swearing at me.

Um what's the deal? I couldn't tell if he was being serious or joking, because everytime I would tell him to knock it off he'd say "fuck you bitch"

.....
Thanks. (link)
Maybe this guy was with someone at the time the texts were sent and didnt want him to know or someone else could've had his phone. Maybe you should see how he acts towards you at school/college or next time you see him. If hes really friendly ask him about it, but if he acts kinda coold towards you, there's probabally a story behind it all-sorry i couldnt be of more help :)


I found out today that my ex-boyfriend from a couple years ago was invited to the same small new year's party as me. I haven't been able to stand being around him since we broke up, and every time I'm in a room with him, we end up fighting. I would love to hear anyone's suggestions as to how I can work through these bad emotions. I really don't want my new year's eve to be ruined by negative feelings for one person. I get really worked up every time I even think about being around him, though. How can I stay calm? (link)
if you just stay with your friends but tell them about your fears of an argument, they can help keep you two seperate, or warn you if things start to heat up. Just be as friendly as you can but avoid long conversation


i do alot of paintings on big canvases. i want to try something new, so does anyone have ideas of what i could paint using only four colors (including mixes and lighter/darker hues). bright hot pink, light blue, light aqua green and light medium purple. it does not have to be naturally thoes colors i can make anything them. any and as many ideas as possible would be greatly appreciated. i usually just do flowers or birds or some scenery. 15/f inspiration, any ideas, thanks!!! -blacksxeroses (link)
you could try doing a big scribble then paint using different teqniques inside the gaps


so, i've had a flaky scalp for a while now. and i've tried every single possible dandruff shampoo possible, nothing works. even selsun blue. like i said, I'VE TRIED IT ALL.

but the weird thing about my dandruff, there isn't much flakes so much as there are egg looking things. but i KNOW FOR A FACT i don't have lice, because i've had lice before. and i would have been itching really really badly. but i don't know how else to explain the stuff in my hair.

does anyone have any at home remedies that i could do? for someone on a budget? thanks. (link)
I had this before, i know you've said that you've tried everything but i found that herbal essences and Dove conditioner (every other wash) is a good remedy :)




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