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Age: 14
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i am 13 years old and in seventh grade (female)
all the girls in my grade wear eyeliner except for me. My mom won't let me. (i asked her one time over the summer) what can i say to her or do so that she will let me wear it? (link)
At 13, wearing eyeliner would give the wrong impression to people. Waiting is probably better.


alright, i am in need of help. im probably soundingg really prude of whatever you wanna call it, but i need help with kissing. my boyfriend wants to make out and everything and i dont care. ive never made out before, but i want to. he hasnt either, i just want to know if anyone has any tips on how to be a "good kisser" and what guys like. ive never done this before so im really nervous. please help?! (link)
girl girl girl.. oh please!! You have nothing to worry about, my guess is if he has never made out before, he is just as nervouse as you are and he doesnt know what to do either. The only way of getting better at kissing is with practice! I remember the first time i made out, i was terrified, i was nervouse of what he was going to think, if he was going to think i am a bad kisser, and he never wants to kiss me again. But honestly if he really liked you he will not care if you are a good kisser or not, he just wants to be with you, and i doubt the thought, shes a bad kisser is going through his mind when you kiss. And my guess is, you will be great at it. most girls are =)

hope i helped!

good luck!


i am abuot to be 14 this month. i go buy bras at target caus im to shy to ask for one yet. and i havent started my period

how long before i get my period happneds?

should i wear a pad everyday just in case?

how do i tell my mom about the bras and period?!?! (link)
No need to feel embaraced, its a part of a girls life, we all have to go through it at one point in our life. I know it might be a little embaracing going and picking out your first bra, and telling your mom you started you period. But trust me, she will be more than happy to help you every step of the way, and no need to feel embaraced to tell her, after all you are 14 and i am sure she knows its going to happen very soon. My guess, you should be expecting it soon, within the next 5 months. And about wearing a pad everyday, no. The first time you have it, it will be very small and you will know you had it in time and be able to go take care of it. And if you start at school, dont feel embaraced to go to the teacher and say you need to go to the bathroom, its a girl emergency, my guess is, they have been a teacher long enough and they have gone through experiences with it. if its a girl teacher, they will totally understand and it may be a guy, and they will understand to, they probably have wifes and they understand. And as far as the telling your mom part. How i told my mom I wanted a bra was we were shopping and i just walked over to the bras and was like i want one, =) its as easy as that. And the period, just be like. mom i started my period i need some pads.

hope i helped!


Alot of the time, I start to like guys after I find out they like me. I feel like this is wrong or cheating them somehow. I mean it kinda feels like I only like them because I like the attention of having them like me. Is this ok? does anyone else do this? (link)
I do that.. and i dont feel it is a bad thing, and no you arent cheating him. the way it works for me is. when i find out a guy likes me i start realizing more things about him and get to know him better and then i start to like him for the right reasons not just becuase he likes me. Maybe this is your case also. just be true to yourself and him.


how can i figure out if a girl likes me for sure? i know the most obvious way about it would be to ask her, but i would much rather try to find another as it is a co-worker, so i want a stealthier way. (link)
k well i am a girl. and if i like a guy, i make it pretty obviese, one thing you could do is ask one of her friends, becuase girls tend to talk alot about the guys they like with there best friends. Try looking for the hints. like does she hit you, does she laugh when shes with you, does she smile at you when she sees you in the hall. And liek you said, you could ask her, but most girls wouldnt come right out and say yes i like you.

well hope i helped


Oh no! i have a problem. this boy asked me out like a week ago and he is seriously...like so in love with me. the problem is that i dont think i really have such deep feelings for him. and i cannot break up with him because he keeps on telling me he keeps getting hurt by girls..and that i make him so happy and you know things that would make it impossible for me to break up with him. So any suggestions on maybe how to get myself to like him more?? Or even what to do?!THANKS i need it. (link)
If he loves you as much as he says he does, he wants you to be happy. and you are not happy with him, and he will understand that.


Me and my bf make out all the time but i always have my hands just like to myself idk what to do with them..... anybody have any ideas of what i can do? (link)
You could put them around him and hold him close to you....

you could play with his hair.... thats really hot...

you could just put them around him like your hugging him, just add in the making out part. lol

hope i helped


Okay, I have a bestfriend named Maddy, and another bestfriend named Gina. Whenever I hangout with Gina, Maddy always gets jealous...but Gina doesn't like Maddy...and its really hard for me. HELLPPP! (link)
I know exactly how you feel... my best friend Laura, her best friend is Katie and me are like enimies and we do not get along at all, and its hard for laura to hang out with both of us, so she just has to make time for both of us. And for you, ya sounds like Maddy has a bit of a jealouse problem, I would tell them how u feel when you hang out with Gina Maddy gets jealouse. And make time for both of them, maybe have a weekend with Gina, then a weekend with Maddy... and make it so none of them feel left out.

Hope I helped

-Ali


HI um...I'm a 13 year old gurl((GOING 14)) and I'm dating a 17 year GUY his the best boyfriend a girl can ever ask for his sweet romantic AND I LOVE HIM SOOOOOOO MUCH well the point is that our anyversary is comming real soon is going to be A YEAR sense we've been dating YAY MY B-day well I want to get somenthing really special and well one of the things that came to my mind was SEX he has never really pushed me into anything but well his a 17 year old dude thats one of their main "goals" and well I don't know wat to do....I NEED HELP plz should I DO THIS?????? (link)
He may be 17, but remember you are only 13? you might have been going out for a year, but that doesnt mean anything. If you are really ready to face the consiquences of having sex and you as an individual are ready, then you can, no one is stioing you, people might tell you not to, but it is yor descion. I am also a 13 year old girl and, i have a boyfriend and he is ready to have sex, but i will not have sex with him because i am 13, just because i wont have sex does not mean i dont want to, because i do, i just know the consiquences and know how to say No to myself. You may love him but dont go rushing into things, you are 13 and you might think you know what love really is, but as a 13 year old girl myself i can honeslty say, i have no idea what love really is.

Hope i helped-


13/m

ok so i've been trying to ask this one girl out at school, but i just can't work up the courage to ask her. . . . i thought about aim or email, but she doesn't have either, so i have to ask her in person, and i'm kind of a coward when it comes to this stuff. . .

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Most guys are having the same problem, my advise to all of you is, dont be scared, build up the curage to ask her out in person, it shows that you arent afraid and that u do have the courage. Most girls want to be asked out in person. I am a 13/f and when a guy asks me out online or in a note or on AIm it kinda turns me off.

Hope i helped.


Does anyone have ANY type of pimple medication that will make them go away quickly [a day or two]. Anything will work, either something I can make or buy.


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If you go to your doctor they can prescribe you an acne medicine called "Duac" topical gel, which is a cream you put on once a day and with in 2 days i could already tell a difference. But this medicine is expencive and i dont mean 50$, it is 130$ but if you have ensurance you will end up paying about 30$, but if you are not willing to pay that much money i would advise you, every night before you go to bed just simply wash your face off, and if wanted face wash.

Hope i helped.


I would really like a boyfriend,
just to love and be loved in return.
I'm just lonely, and everyone says,
you'll fall in love eventually.

Eventually .. huh? aghh, I'm just sick of being alone.

I mean does anyone actually get my point.. of how i wanta boyfriend, i want to be in love?
ahghh what can i do? is patience the best answer?

dont give me some mean/smartass answer please.

thanks.
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I know exactly how you feel. Some girl's just have the need to feel loved, and you are one of those girl's. But you sound a little too much interested in getting a boyfriend than living life single and haing fun. Have fun being single while it last! And to anwser your question is patience the best anweser? Yes dont rush things because people who rush things are the ones who end up having nothing.

Hope i helped!


i like this guy but he has a girlfriend but it would be hard to date b/c we really dont live close to each other....would show i do????

love is hard (link)
My advise to you is just let him be. Dont push him into liking you. Give him time with his girlfriend and if things dont work out with them then maybe its because of you. If you are presuring him into liking you or bugging him about it, i'll tell you one thing, thats a way u will loose him for good. Just let him be and wait and see what the future brings, maybe while you are waiting for this guy you will find another guy that is better and lives near your area. I know for us girls its hard to let a guy go and do this, but some things just need to be done wether you like it or not, and thats life, sorry to break it to you but its true.

well i hope i helped.

-Princess Mia


i am 16 and i am a girl.i like girls but i have a bf. i like his sister. what do i do? (link)
I wouldnt keep it in too much longer. Dont stay in a relationship you arent happy with. If he really cares about you he will understand. The longer you wait to come out and say it, the harder it will be.


how many times have you kissed a girl before? (link)
weird Q

-Princess Mia




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