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Well you see me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and we weren't aloud to kiss. I finally found out I was aloud to kiss and I told him. He keeps talking about making-out next time I see him but I don't want to rush into things. I have a feeling its because his brother keeps telling him to kiss me and things like that and he wants to be like his brother and make-out with his girlfriend all the time. I don't know what to do, please write, I'll rate!

-Nerveous (link)
JUST TELL YOUR BF THat you ARENT REady to kiss, OR ask him if he just wANTS TO KISS YU BECUZ HIS BROTHER TOLD HIM TO andif he sAYS NO IT IS BECUZ I LOVE YOU THEN THat May mAKE FEEL BETTER

SINCERLY asklANE


Anyone have any ideas on how to throw a party when your parents arent home, and what can we do? and not get caught And have fun!? i rate!!

-Andrea (link)
WELL IM PPL OR TELL THEM at school tell them thAT are throwin A Party AT athe movies or some other plACE BESIDES YOUR HOUSE BECUase the pARENTS WILL FIND OUT THat you hAD a pARTY FROM OTHER Parents or some other wAY TRUST ME TELL PPL at school wAT TIME and WHERE TELL THEM to not tell there pARENTS THat they ARE JUST GOIN THERE WIT SOME OTHER FRIENDS

SINCERELY asklANE


hi. my name is nicole n im 14. ok so heres the thing. i am like in lve with this kid named robert. like in love in love n ok i dont think i will ever have a chance with this kid cuz likehe is in love with this girl even tho he seys he isnt. so like i think i kinda gave up on him n started lik in this kid chris. which is horrible cuz like my best fuckin friend likes him. i have no idea wat to do cuz like i dont have a chance with either of them n i dont wna get my heart broken again.... (cough lke alan n ian)
HELP lol (link)
you dont hAVE TO NOT LIKE SOME1 BECUZ YOUR FRIEND DOES , and the other guy just tell him you like him he mAY NOT KNOW and turn over to u you never no until you ASK

SINCERELY asklANE


ok ive been getting all these achs in my neck and legs all the time, and i dont know how, i do play sports but they arent from that. can anyone tell me whats wrong? thanks
*marielle* (link)
IT MOST LIKELY GROWTH PAINS YOU are just growing

sincerely ASKLane


What is the average height for a 12 year old? (link)
5'`1


I've always been one of those people who got along with almost everyone. LAst year there was a girl that really didn't like me and I didn't know why. I still don't. Everyone thought she felt threatened by me, they said I had more friends or I was more punk, i dunno anyway. She's been starting rumors about me like I'm a satan worshipper???? Weird huh? What do you think I should do about her or say to her? (link)
confront her AND TELL HER TO STOP TELL HER THat you would like her AND YOU TO BE FRIENDS NOT ENEMIES IF SHE STILL KEEPS DOING IT GO TO THE PRINCIPal or your pARENTS I MEan do people ACTUally belive these rumors if they do it is A SERIOUS PROBLEM BECUase no1 should worship the devil so dont tAKE IT LIGHTLY

SINCERELY asklANE


What is the best way to visually tease a guy? I don't mean like taking off your clothes... I mean like seduce.(I know this is a weird question, but I want to see what people say.) (link)
stART BLOWIN LITTLE KISSES at him or kiss the AIR a lil, stART SWOOSHING Hair AROUND RITE INFRONT OF HIM AND alwAYS Have A BRIGHT SMILE around him

sincerely ASKLane


Hey..I wanna call my ex bf and ask him to hang out..like go to a movie or something. Hes a nice guy and hes single..he flirted with me last year..when i call him what should i say? im pretty sure he wont turn me down..so im confident..just start me off? lol thanks

(link)
just ssAY YOU MISS HIM and wANT TO Hang out with him sAY HEY IDO U WannA GO TO THE MOVIES WITH ME THEN JUST SEE WHat he sAYS and stART a convo

sincerely ASKLane


My boyfriend is leaving for Tennesee tomorrow and im really depressed about it. He's moving in with his mom and I probably won't see him much anymore since I live in Illinois. I spent the night with him last night, and im doing the same tonight, but im wondering if there is any way to make his leaving easier on me. I really love him, and i dont want him to know how upset I really am.

Is there any way I can ease the pain of him leaving me?

**we're going to try a long distance relationship, but it still won't be the same as having him here!** (link)
WELLL I THINK THat it would mAKE IT Easier on you if you tell him thAT YOU are upset ABOUT HIM LEaving becuASE YOU LOVE HIM SO MUCH , SO TELL HIM HOW YOU DONT Want him to go but you know he hAS TO , JUST TRY TO FIND SOME`1 WHO Makes you hAPPY INSTEad of your bf who is moving

sincerely ASKLane


okie well i go to this camp n im 13 the oldest kid there n there is a camp consler who is 18 he is going off to colledge n befor camp ended i always talked to him n we got to no each other relly well n well he is soo awesome at camp he use to pick me up n like beat up on me not like rele mean he would just put me on the ground n sit on me n stuff like that n i rele like him n yea thats kinda a big age gap i tell himi love him like luv ya kinda stuff but is it grosse that i like him??? or is it oki

i rate well (link)
i hope you ARE A GIRL WELL I WOULD JUST TELL HIM THat you like him becuASE YOU May never see him AGain


ok i have a job interview on monday...its my first job (im 15)...does anyone have any advice?! im so nervous! (link)
BE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF TELL YOURSELF YOU WILL Have this job

sincerely ASKLane


Well their is this guy that I have know since I was like 6 or older. we have always seen each other and I have always had a crush on him. he is like 20 turning 21 in feburary. I am only like 15 turning 16 in october. Is it bad for having a crush or like maybe a thing wit him even if he is a lil older then me? I like him so much but I don't know if my parents would like that he is older and I am so young for him. When we see each other too. we have so much stuff to talk about together and we are happy when we see each other and It hurts me when other girls hurt him. I don't want to do. well thank you Jenny,16,female (link)
well if he is in college i think yiu mAY BE TO YOUNG and if he isnt tAKE a shot AT HIM BECUase if he is in college he is gonnA BE FLIRTIN WITH ALOT OF PPL

SINCERELY asklANE


O.K. my family members and all sometimes say that I'm annoying, I have also heard it from some friends, I am 13 years old but I act like I am 5, I try not to but I guess its a habit and I can't help it! Have any tips? How can I not be 'annoying'?

*I RATE* (link)
dont tALK as much dont go into other peoples business AND TELL THE PEOPLE IF YOUR BEIN annoyin to sAY SOMETIN TO YOU,

SINCERELY asklANE


Ok i am 5'9" tall got brown hair and brown eyes and i aint fat but i aint like realli skinny. anyways i am 13 yrs old (almost 14) and i get alot of attention from guys when i am in a confident mood. but even when i look realli cute sometimes but i am not confident it seems like they dont pay attention to me. Do guys like when girls are confident in themselfs? Are guys more attracted to girls when they are confident? PLEASE HELP! (link)
thye like girls when they ARE NOT OVER CONFIDENT BUT DONT DOUBT THEMSELVES and being cute reALLY REally helps

sincerely ASKLane


ok well my so called best friends all hate me now and i feel like tha world has turned its bak and everythang and cant trust en1 cept my bf and he has really helped me alot wit all thi sand he trusly is tha only 1 i can talk to enmore and my bff r gettin more mad bekuz im alwayz talkin 2 him or with him but thats only kuz hes really tha only 1 there 4 me enmore wut should i do?? kuz ive tried talkin and ive ever sed i wuld sacfice luv 2 save our friendship they wont let me and everythang but nuttin is workin wut should i do??????
-Lost..Confused..Sad- (link)
WELL FIRST ask your bff " s why they ARE Mad AT YOU THEN SIT THEM DOWN APOLOGIZE and do ALL YOU Can do to mAKE THEM NOT Mad AT YOU anymore then explAIN TO THEM THat you hANG OUT WIT YOU BF all the time becuz they werent there for you


sincerely ASKLane


well im 13 and my boyfriends 16 going on 17 and his aunt that lives upstairs from came down and tolled me that he had a girlfriend and his juss playing with me.. and then earlier i let him go up my shirt because i trusted him ALOT and everything so when i found out i was a surprise because he tolled he dint have a girlfriend but his not the kind of person that would seem to bee doing sumtting like that because his really nice and den just about everywun sayed he had another girl friend and everything and i really wanna hear it from him and crap because i really really like him and shyt so i dunno what to really do.. to belive everywun else or wait till he comes next week to see me and ask him and i juss dont no anymore if im going to dumo him or not because everywun wants him and shyt and i have him AND I guess some other bitch does too..



what should i doo

p.s he comes every week to see me bacuse his in job tec. and its very very far so he stays thier overnite.. till friday and his like in highschool he sould be a senior but he satyed back 2 times (link)
ok ASK HIM YOURSELF IF HE Has A GF JUST FLat out ASK THEN SEE WHat he sAYS

SINCERELY asklANE


I want to ask this guy to prom for next year!! I know it's ealry but I want him to go and I even i don't go with him i just want to dance with him!! What should I do?? A lot of ppl think that he is gay but i think he's metrosexual like ryan seacrest!! A lot of other girls are gonna ask him if i don't ask in advance!!
HELP ME!!

*4evainLuv (link)
if you wANT HIM SO Bad go for the gold

sincerely ASKLane


Should i have sex wid my bf for like our 1 year anniversary i mean it would be a nice present!! and i dunno ppl say im to young (i will be 14) but i kno pplz who r younger than me and have already done it i mean its not like he iz juss some guy he iz the love of my life and he means the world to me and i feel that im comfortable to have sex wid him but should i wait till im like 16 or juss do wat i feel iz right?!?!? thanx

-x- unknown -x- (link)
DO NOT Have sex with him you ARE TO YOUNG EVEN IF YOU THINK HE IS THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE DONT

SINCERELY askLane


hey i am just curious, the new song "I Miss You" by Blink-182 always gets to me when ever i hear it..i like just start crying!!! what does that song mean? or like what does it talk about?? i cant understand what the message it is sending is but it chokes me up! thanks! (link)
YOU PROBably need to see some1 thAT YOU Havent seen for A WHILE BECAUSE U MISS THEM

SINCERELY ASKLane


im a 14 year old male teen soi use tthe comp alot.my mom and dad r always tryin 2 c wat i do on the comp. they almost neva give me ne privacy on it. in fact rite now im on a crumy laptop in my bed and every1s alseep. 2day they say me talkin 2 som1 on AIM that they didnt no. they kept bitchen bout how i broke their trust or somethin and now my dad is gonna take aim away 4ever off all our comps!!! som1 plz help me and tell me wat i shud do!!! (link)
ok i understAND HOW YOU FEEL COMFRONT YOUR Parents ABOUT YOUR PRIVacy tell them they shouldnt worry ALL THE TIME I Can hANDLE THINGS MYSELF

SINCERELY asklANE

P.S. JUST TELL THEM WHat you wANT THEM TO KNOW WHICH IS I Can hANDLE THINGS BY MYSELF




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