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My name is Hai Anh pronounce it like HI-ANN..and I am freakin;' AMAZING and AWESOME...that is about it.

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hope i helped!


Ok..I really really like this guy soo much, but we've only hung out 4 times, one all night..and we talk online & on the phone alot..but I don't KNOW him KNOW him..like i dont know how too explain it.. He's cute, SOO SWEET, and funny, well, he's perfect for me...and he tells me he loves me so much and everything. Today he said if we were older he'd ask me too marry him, which scared me..and now I just feel a LITTLE weird..bc I love him, but I don't know him well enough to marry him. But I really do feel he cares about me...but another thing is that he's older than me...and he's had sex, and I haven't and he walsy says "baby you don't know what your missing.." and "i wanna make this sumer one you won't forget ;)" and i'm thinking that he wants me too have sex with him..but he's told me that he doesn't want too push me into it, but he does it slightly...I don't know..

Any advice???

Lots of love & noise
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Ok..tell him that you feel uncomfortable..and maybe he will back off a little. If he doesn't he IS pressuring to you no matter how much he denies it or doesn't show it. Please think it over. I hope I helped.


Hi,this is CarterGirl, neways I just wanna know is this love. Me and my boyfriend Ken have known each other for like a year now. We started out as best friends, then it seemed like when we wanted to date it was wrong timing. Then we just was like what the heck let's jus do it. Then we started dating, I knew from the first day I met and talked to him It was going to be more than jus friends, well I think I love him (sorry so Long) I can't eat, sleep, Ish, without thinkin about him. He calls me like every hour of the day just to say he loves me, we talk late in the nights, he comes to see me, and always brings a lil token of his love. He is caring, lovin. In my town I am considered one of the Dimes and Descent. i kno he doesn't just like me for that, we have ups and downs, we have stuck out all the obvious, lies, the rumors, sometimes I compare us to my mom and dads relationship which is lovable. But I want to kno is it really love I mean I will do anything for him, He treats me not only like a gf, but a friend, lover, sister, cousin Please Help\
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That is LOVE. It is...your very lucky to have such a perfect boyfriend and relationship. If he hasn't told you that he loves you, maybe you should say it..but don't freak him out. I believe that is truly love. I hope I helped.


I used a semi permanent hair color, pink, on my already lightened blonde hair. The pink turned out looking really bad, and I dont want to wait a month to get rid of the color (plus i need to look for a job, and that color wouldnt look very professional) I have no money, so going to a professional, even just going out and buying a 10 dollar stripping solution, is unfortuatly, out of the question. Are there any at home remidies to get rid of it? Ive already tried washing my hair with clarifying shampoo 6 times, and it really hasent done much. Any help will be much appreciated! (link)
Try re-coloring your hair with that new hair color stuff that stays in from 6-8 weeks. It washes out too..but it comes in different colors. The box is orange, you can buy it from your local store. I hope this helped.


OK this girl I've known for a long time hates me for some reason. I was crushing on her boyfriend and they broke up. We've been in many a fight and I want to be friends with her but all she does is call me a bitch or a cunt. This has been going on ever since I've met her. How do I get her to stop and maybe be friends with me? HELP (link)
Tell her that you want to be friends with her, and if she doesn't want to be your friend...that is HER LOSS. Don't feel upset. There are people out there who are dying to be your friend, you don't have to waste you time with people like her. I understand how you want to be her friend and make her stop being mean to you for absolutely no reason, maybe she will understand. Give it a try, if she still acts crazy that's just who she is, and you are you. No worries. I hope I helped.


ok sorry if this is long but its complicated.
So i like this boy in my class and i have since 4th grade. were in 8th grade now. now during the grades up we have fought kind alot and had to go down to the office once ( clals me flat) but others times liek in 4th grade he gave me this valentine thta siad i lvoe you and and kept insiting we were oging out but i was so young i just didn no. So now yesterday i had a pool party
and we totally connected, he wa sso sweet and he kept insinting i was his partner in chicken ! So i went home, went online and he has a girlfriend! I have one more year left and i think aobut him every day and i just wnat him to liek me too!!


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Tell him how you feel or you both will never know what your future may hold. You don't know what may happen! He may like you JUST AS MUCH. Please, talk to him, tell him how you feel, but don't scare him away. Remember HE DOES have a girlfriend..but it's better to let him know. See what happens after. I hope I helped.


sigh, why does life suck so much? Literally, i've been backstabbed and bullied on when i was a kid in grade school, first year university now... I still can't learn to trust and am so paranoid around people. Um, i'm in a situation where I hate relationships, how troublesome they are, where I feel like I want to be with some girls but the feeling of being crushed... again ...prevents that so I stay alone, and remain alone just considering people as friends and being close. Sure it's a blast but the whole thing drives me insane. I don't know, like a lot of the girls i've actually had some feeling for, before it develops I always push them away, finding how who they like or encouraging them when they think they've found someone (if they're a good person) :/ ... though I laugh, smile, and joke about these things, I really don't want them to go and it always drives me insane. This is killing me so much and not to mention my friendship with a few people is failing horribly. Again I feel betrayed and destroyed, I just got backstabbed again which just KILLS. Yeah well what to do, how can I learn to trust again? This feeling is so heavy on my heart it makes me suffocate and kills me to the point I find myself shaking my head and going crazy. (link)
Yes, I know EXACTLY what you mean. If you push everyone away, and you never open up to people, and especially to girls whom you are close to and who you have feelings for, they might have feelings for you too! But you'll never know if you turn away from them..you know what I mean? Just talk to people...keep your friends close, and enemies closer. There are people who care and like you, FOR YOU. There are good people out there...you might find that "special person" if you open up to people, you will. I hope I helped.


ok this guy that is a friend of mine that i love ( we are planning to hook up once we find a way to meet up with each other more often...) but anyways my best friend told me that i should be callin him all the time and talkin to him all the time. basically give him some space.. and like sometimes when he says he is going to call me back and he doesnt do it then i dont call him until he tell me to or he calls me. is that a bad thing?? but right now he feels like i have lost interasit in him. which isnt true at all i still love him and i want to be with him what should i do?? i dont call as much as i used to because i want to give him some space you noe..but he says he wants me to call more and talk to him more because he loves talkin to me but i dont know what to do.. i dont want to losse this guy. please help!!! (link)
If you love talking to him, and he loves talking to him, TALK TO EACHOTHER! You give him space..and if he NEEDS IT, NEEDS IT, he will ask! Please talk to him for me! Before he thinks you don't care, or you don't like him. And we don't want that to happen! This guy likes you and wants to be with you! Follow your heart..you should tell him you havn't been calling because you thought he needed space, he will understand. Spend time together and talk. It will be what you both need. I hope I helped.


Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help? (link)
This isn't your fault. People should like you and accept you for who you are not for who you aren't. If your nice and your not mean to them, your day will come. It will and that is a promise. I don't want you to feel lonely. You can be more social..that's probably one of the reason people may tease or take advantage of you..make friends, if you open up and not be shy, be yourself..if they don't like you..that's their problem. You are somebody special...not everyone knows it yet. I hope I helped.


I know i'm a dumb ass cause I don't do anything about it really... and this moral thing seems like an excuse. LIke everyone else I carry on with my life ignoring these things. These things i'm talking about are the people constantly dying around the world. Mainly all the bastards killing people, rapists... pedophiles, robbers, thieves, molestors, child-killers... parents who beat their child for no reason, people who harm other people for no reason... ugh these people, I want them all dead and I also ask why God would allow such an evil to exist as this kind. My answer to this is what i've heard before, God does not interfere in our lives, he cannot perform miracles all the time and just come down and slay all those people. So therefor God created everything and merely watches us, and when we die, we return to him. So I continue to thank my blessings and all the good thigns and good people in the world, but i've stopped really believing if I pray to God for good things or to help the O-zone layer or enlighten people it will happen. What's the point, he cannot interfere in our lives, he chooses not to and its understandable considering he's God. Anyways-- my morals are breaking. I find myself going crazy especially those bastards that make my life miserable. In my high school and grade school there were these people that constantly tormented me for no reason, even made me snap and start getting violent in grade school... then burst out in tears on my first day in a new school, new city. I'm believing to not give a shit about whether what I do is wrong or not, i'm tired of this fuckign bullshit about jail or w/e i'll kill the cops then myself for all I care as long as I take down my enemies and as much of those wretched bastards in the world. I know i'm possibly not capable of such a thing as this mass murder, i'm not that strong, but seriously i'm going crazy with all this shit and all these social problems, friends backstabbing, relationships gone wrong, physical illness is consuming my life as well now and possibly cancer, but that's an uncertainty. I don't want to die with a frown, and hating the world which has destroyed me. My family knows nothing because everyday im smiling and happy, my true friends know nothing because im always smiling and happy. Im the energetic bastard that runs around like he is on crack, willing to try new things and cracking up jokes 24/7 yet it hurts so fucking much especailly the fact that i'm unable to truly trust people. This girl.. I can't get into a relationship with her, I want to, but everytime I think about it I always feel wrong. My dreams, if involve her, I remembre them all they usually involve us being together and her cheating on me, or something happening of that sort. I cannot rest in peace and it would be best if I had no exist because this is just killing me so much, it hurts, it hurts so. Yet I cannot kill myself, for one reason and one reason only, not only have I not made up to my family whom I love and cherish as my treasure. I haven't done so well in school, of lack of motivation and sheer laziness but that's changing slwoly. I want to impress my family, live up to their kindness and efforts to raise a good successful child, and make them proud and happy before they meet their end. To make money and settle any fees they have and just make their lives good, to have children and hope they do not share the same wretched fate as me. Oh woes me, I am wretched in the inside, my mind? It dreams of death and perverted incidents with some of my friends whom I care about and want to be with yet I cannot bring myself to admit my liking to them. Destroy me, free me, yet if that is so I will never be able to repay my family for being the only people who I can assure trust in. If they were to fail me as well.. I don't know what I'd do. (link)
Wow, I hope I can make this make as much sense as possible. There are people in this world who care about you, and love you FOR YOU. I know that sounds cheesy and untrue like who knows what, but it is the truth. I promies you it is. When your sad and you feel like nothing, think of the things that make you happy...things that put a smile on your face, things that make you feel like nothing else matter, also, think about the people, that loves and cares about you, the people you would die for, think about it. It takes time, it does, and it is hard. Please, just remember that if people are you friends, they will accept for anything in this world. Friends are those who come to help you when the world steps out. Don't be ashamed or scared...your just you...I hope I helped.


okay my friends and i, i think we are pretty tight. we have fun in school in all, i don't exactly have friends that are the sleep over at each other's houses type. but this summer its weird. okay they always say hey i'm bored we need to hang out sometime and when i say always i mean..always. well, everytime i ask them if they want to do something they kinda hesitate in talking almost as if they don't want to go and since we can't drive *we're 15* they procrastinate in asking they're parents. every once in awhile we get out and they're okay then but its when i'm asking them. do they really want to hang out when they say 'lets hang out'? why do they hesitate and kinda stop talking when i do mention something we can do? it doesn't make sence? HELP! (link)
Maybe it's because you may never ask much or bring up the topic much, maybe their hiding something from you, just talk to them about how and why they act that way. I hope I helped.


Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
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Woah...I believe you. Anyways...I have had a friend like you that was in the exact situation with a girl the exact same also...and what I told him to do was LET HER KNOW WHY SHE'S SO INCREDIBLE, SHOW HER YOUR LOYALTY, TRUST, HONESTY, and EVERYTHING you have to offer this girl, which is THE WORLD. You are more than she could possibly ever ask for. I know she will see who you are and what you are too. Let her know why she's different from all the other girls, and let her know why your different from all the other guys..it will work. Show her. What ever it may take. I hope I helped.


ok im 14/f and im going to high skool next year and i would like some exersizis (sp) for my arms legs and i wana get abs by the end of augest can u plz help i rate high (link)
I do crunches, sit-ups, push-ups, and run a mile a day, drink water, eat more portions of less food. It works I promise.


okay.

i asked my b/f what he wants, and he always says, whatever you want, and we have been doing w/e i want, i keep asking him and i ask him so much he gets mad, i mean, does he even care? please help me...i will rate SO fucking high.
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Okay. I will try to make this make as much sense as possible. I bet at first it seemed like your boyfriend was being caring, and wanted to be nice and do what you wanted to do. Then of course you probably got bored of doing the same stuff, or feel shelfish or not being fair, right? But no, you were just doing what your boyfriend "wanted"...Why he says "whatever you want" is because he probably doesn't care very much what you do...and he gets mad because HE DOESN'T CARE. But just tell him he shouldn't get mad at you for CARING ABOUT HIM, ok? I hope I helped.


It gose:
Isn't any one tryin to find me
Won't sombody com take me home
It's a dam cold night
tryin to figure out what right
won't you take me by the hand
take me some were new

this lil part is stuck in my head n it really bugging me.
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Avril Lavigne-I'm With You Album-Let Go


heyy advicenators. i just recently looked in the august 2005 teen people magazine with the blonde lindsay lohan on the cover and i found these red kabbalah string bracelets on page 68 under the article seeing red britney spears, lindsay lohan, and ashton kutcher have them on. i like them and i was wondering where can i purchase one of them for me? i`ll rate a 5 to anyone who DOESNT suggest e-bay. thanks in advance. love always ashlee (link)
hey! well actually I was shopping the other other day in the mall at random stores and they definitly have them at local stores in little packages! you could ask the clerk for help but I'm sure you will see it in the jewelary section or on the diplays. i hope i was helpful.


What is cum?
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cum is sperm




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