I want to ask someone a question, like anyone, about something, but like.. i dont know who to ask.? can anyone help me out? it will be like super long. & will take you awhile to read. i gurantee it. if i include it all. but like,youd also have to be realllyy really good at answering questions like always get 5s because to me, its like really important, & its messing everything up in my life. & i just have to fix it. soo, is anyone willing to help me? or no anyone on this site who will?
you can deff. ask me :)
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my school is having a crazy hair day in a few days
What are some ideas??
besides the ones everyone does, hair on top of head, dy hair, ect ect.
take a cup and put it on the top of your head, then take your hair and pull it up over and then but a pony tail on top of the cup. hah its totally "crazy" ahah
or tease it. but take your brush and instead of brushing up brush up...it'll make your hair pretty naughty though, but its pretty crazy too.
Also you could take all the clips you have and put them all through your hair.
You take pipe cleaner and brain it into your hair or something and then you can style it ANYWAY you want. haha i hope i gave you some ideas
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Any good myspace layout sites please!
www.whateverlife.com has lots, or just go around to differnt sites, and better much all of them should have links to sites.
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How can I get exercise when I can't run because of the weather, can't ride my stationary bike anymore because it broke...? Things I can do around the house? Fat-burning, calorie-burning things? HELP!!!
running up and down the stairs
doing sit ups
doing push ups
...any kind of excerising were your just sitting/standing still
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I started eating a little less and excersizing a little more. I still eat some junk food. I mean, I barely thought this diet thing would work. But now, since about a week or two ago, I have already lost 5.5 pounds. Is that too much? I guess I'm the kind of person that needs to eat alot. Should I eat more? Or is this too much? ...
well the heathy amount to lose per week is 1-2 pounds. but it kinda depends on how much you weigh now too
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ok well me and this girl used to be really good friends!! the last year in 7th gr ( im in 8th now and 14) she spread a rumor about me and started stuff between me and alot of my friends! so i decided not to hang with her anymore!!! we've had a lot of fights after that too and we've been very close to fighting 4 real!!!! but now i kind of over it and at a party the other night she invited me to a barbque of hers next month! I donbt know if i should forgive her or what to do ??!?!?!?!!! please HELP!!!!
well as you mature you realize who real friends are, and how stupid fights not really mean anything anymore. Go to her party and have fun. Maybe even talk to her and tell her that your over all that shit, and you want her back as a friend. I fight a lot with my one friend, but were bestfriends, and those fights just bring us closer and closer each time :)
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Hey im a 13/f and i have a boyfriend that is almost 14 and he is like the sweetest guy ever. and i love him to death !! But We bolth have this thing were we wanna kiss eachother but we dont know how long we should or how intament it should be so can you help me??? should iit be a peck on the cheek or like lip locking ? we wanna lip lock but yeah can you help??
Aww thats soo cute you both want to kiss eachother. But your first kiss should jsut be whatever you want it to be. Just kiss eachother and whatever happens happens :) have fun
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i went to the movies with my boyfriend and i knew he wanted to hold my hand but the problem was is that my hands sweat a lot sometimes so i was kind of nervous for him to hold my hand. but we never did he just put his arm around me. but my question is what can i do or put on my hands to make them not sweat?
thankss
i pretty much have the same problem, my hands are sweating like 24/7 and i hatte it. But i really don't think theres anything to do about it. sorry hun
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so theres this guy and we sorta got really close over winter break and we made out and stuff and then all the sudden he stopped talking to me.. i found out that my friend told him i liked him and to back off because i did. well, he listened to her and doesnt talk to me much and idk i sorta do like him but not enough that it even shows, but i still want to be friends with him.. and i try to have online convos with him but they just seem akward so i guess... what can i talk with him about.. like what are guys interested in talking about with girls.. or how do i get into like a really flirty convo with him?
haha wow. thats really stupid of your friend to do. But idk i say talk to this guy and be like look. ok idk what my friend told you..blah blah blah. and then be like i just feel like you've been giving me the cold sholder now, and we barly talk. Just confrom the cutie about it and say what you think/feel
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Hey Everyone, I have the later version of a MacBook.
Yesterday I downloaded the newest verison of iTunes and last everything looked fine. This morning I open up iTunes and EVERYTHING, even my purchased stuff is gone, and it was about $400 worth of stuff. What should I do,could it be hidden somewhere?
Well i'm not to 100% if this will work but try going into My Computer. and then go to like shared Documents, Music, then just maybe look through there. It should be in there some where. But i'm not sure. But it shouldn't have all got deleted. Its probably is hidden somewhere. But if done of this works, i'd recommend calling itunes and they could probably tell you what to do, or what happened
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alright so i gave my friend my myspace password. i dont go on it all that much anyways so i didnt care if she was on it or whatever. but i go on it today and read my sent messages and she has been messaging people left and right and flirting with them! its fucking ridiculous! like okay, i'm not really mad at my friend because she is just a sardonic bitch all the time and thinks shit like that is funny. i get it. i would think it was funny too. im more concerned with dealing with all these people later. what?? do i confront them? its so embarassing omg. :(
ohh don't worry about it.
First of all i would change my password, and tell your friend that was really stupid and rude of her to do that. But then jsut tell the people that she did message that it wasn't you. Nohting to big. hope everythign works out :)
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i got 200 dollars from my grandparents for my birthday, and i have absolutely no idea what to spend it on! i want some unique ideas pleaassee. thank you!
also please DO NOt tell me to save it
you have $200 and you can't think of somethign to spend it on!?! omg umm clothes, jelwery, ipod, itunes cards(if you download music, money for that) phone, umm omg theres soo many things :)
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okayy so I am absolutely in love with this boy. He is my best guy friend's best friend. We've hooked up once before. After that night we talked for a little bit and then we just stopped but me my best friend her boyfriend(who is my best guy friend) and him all still hang out and me and him still talk. Im falling soo deep in love with him but he doesn't know. I am so afraid to tell him that i like him because i just know he doesn't feel the same way about me. Im scared of rejection. Any way I can get around this or over it? I have to see him every weekend and I dont wanna feel awkward. Please help! thanks!
i know that your scared of rejection, and it does hurt and really suck. But are you sure he dosn't feel the same way?? has he told you that he dosn't like you? Just tell him how you feel, b/c maybe hes having the same problem that your having. Maybe hes also afraid of rejection and too shy to say anything.
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I have no personality. It kinda sucks 'cause that means I don't have lots of friends. How can I gain a great personality? I'm very shy, so that doesn't help at all. What are somethings I can do, say, and talk about with other people to make them think I have a good personality? Please help. =[
Well i don't want to sound stupid. but just be yourself. If you want to be more outgoing then try to be a little more outgoing. I'm kinda shy myself and at times i get really tensed up, but then also i can get pretty outgoing. Just be yourself and don't try to be anyone your not. Just live a little and have fun :) (and everyone has some personality so don't worry about it :))
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I'm the leader of a VERY important clique (its the best clique in the school) anyway one of the people in it walked away to join a dif. clique I dont want her back I need to find a new clique person to replace her how do I find a new person?
Don't take this in the wrong way at all.
but you have to be kidding me. "your the leader of a clique." Please be your own person. ANd you should have to just find someone to "replace" her. WOW GROW UP. But like i said don't take that in the wrong way. But just be your own person and don't try to be anyone your not, ot make other people do that
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hi i know this is really long buti just need to know!! im 16 and a soph in hs..i like this girl that im really close friends with alot and ive told her before how i feel and she said she just doesnt want to risk our friendship...i told her i would never let that happen but she said she didnt kno and now she has a senior bf of about 4 months and i really care for her..ive tried other girls but none compare to her..thers just something about her that keeps pulling me back...should i tell her and risk getting her away from her boyfriend and maybe with me or do i risk it and have the possibility of ruining a chance of her...ps we are supposed to hang out this comming weekend so should i do it now or after we hang out or when we hang out..thanks so much in advance
well i would tell her how you feel most deffentaly. When you do it? well i say after you hang out. And if shes still going out with that senior then i realize it'll be a lot harder. but you should just tell her how you feel. and spill out everything. If she still says she dosn't want to ruin the friendship, then tell her your willing to put that on the line, b/c you know taht having her will make you soo much happier. But also tell her that you don't want it to ruin the friendship neither. But i know how it is to kinda be in the spot.
&& while i said just tell her..you also have to think of what you really really want. A friendship that'll last forever, or being more for possibly a small amount of time?
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Hey. For my sweet sixteen party I'd like to have a slideshow showing pictures of my family and friends. The thing is, I really want some good songs that would go with a slideshow and are meaningful. Maybe about family or friends or growing up. Good songs too. So my question is, does anyone have any good ideas? Thanks so much in advance =).
the only one i can think of is something like Eve 6 Heres to the Nights. Its a cute song, but its kinda slow.
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Alright so you answered my question before about the guy I like who I haven't talked to much. Well today, thank God, I talked to him! He is on the track team and so is my best friend (they don't know each other though), and so is one of my guy friends. I had time to wait around before my lacrosse practice so I talked to him for a few minutes. We were just joking around, and I felt comfortable with him again, good, haha and he's just so adorable.
So this could happen more often - any ideas what I could do to strike up some conversation? I don't know why but I don't seem to handle questions like "how's school?" or "how was your day?" very well. haha. And I heard he might have a girlfriend. But his facebook says single. lol not that I should rely on the internet but I don't know what to do.
Since I'm not like totally in love with him at this point if he had a girlfriend I would still want to try to be friends with him because he's a great kid. But I don't know what I should do for now. I don't really have any way of knowing without making it totally obvious - and I don't want to just be like hey what's up are you single? Haha so any help? Thanks!
haha I have the problem too...guys just pretty much suck talking to if you have a crush on them :) but i would say just ask stupid little questions like hows school. but you don't handle those questions very well, so i would say umm. idk just talk about stupid little things like that totaly sucky h/w project you have (well if you have same classes?)
but for finding out if he has a gf or not, thats pretty tuff. Find a friend that sorta knows him or one of his friends and ask them to ask if they know if hes single or not? You don't have to ask if he has a gf, b/c that sounds werid, but something like hey are you single! is soo totaly more cute!! haha
But umm if you ever find out what to say to a guy tell me too :) haha
I have an ex thats now saying a YEAR later that hes never stopped loving me (by the way hes the one that broke up with ME) so its all kinda werid. && i never really see him, so we never really talk, only on aol every once in a while...ahha it just ALL SUCKS
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so i like this guy...and we're kinda friends...like we talk online and stuff...but his computer broke...and i we were messaging yesterday..but idk..in person we barely ever talk...and i want to get closer to him and i know that i have to talk to him in person..but i just don't know what to say...i mean like even online and messaging..he ususally doesnt start conversations and he doesnt usually sound too interested...like one word answers..so how can i get closer to him? and if i talk to him in person..what should i say?
well ask if he would liek to hang out, then you would have to talk in person. && think about it sometimes you just don't have anything else to say, so you just say stupid one word answers.
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this is the conversation i just had with my boyfriend.. i dont know if he was just really stressed or like if i should take it seriously? help!
me(10:55:21 PM): what
him (10:55:28 PM): I dont know whats wrong... I cant stand this
me (10:55:34 PM): stand what
him(10:56:14 PM): School, life
me (10:56:21 PM): yeaa i know how you feel
me(10:56:34 PM): i have like soo much work to make up still from wen i was sick like a week ago
him (10:56:55 PM): There has to be an easier way
me (10:57:06 PM): what is that supposed to mean
him(10:57:23 PM): And no you dont know how i feel
me (10:57:33 PM): okay then whats wrong?
him (9:58:07 PM): i i cant stand it
him (9:58:15 PM): i think im going crazy
me(10): i know what you mean though
him (9:58:34 PM): this has to get easier
him(9:58:53 PM): for the past half hour ive been thinking of ways to kill myself
him(9:59:00 PM): maybe itd be easier
me (10:58:57 PM): **** shut up
him (9:59:15 PM): i cant stand this
me (10:59:11 PM): stoppp
me (10:59:14 PM): thats not funny
him (9:59:26 PM): its not
him(9:59:32 PM): im crying right now
me (10:59:42 PM): it it just because you have a lot of work to make up?
him (9:59:52 PM): no
me): then what
him (10:00:00 PM): i dont know
me(10:59:55 PM): just like school in general
me (10:59:58 PM): or like something else
him (10:00:15 PM): i hate how so much is always expected of me
him (10:00:20 PM): and i can never do it
him (10:00:36 PM): i hate how everytime i finish something
him (10:00:39 PM): huge
him (10:00:52 PM): that i obsess over forever
him(10:00:56 PM): theres another
me (11:00:52 PM): yea
him (10:01:06 PM): thing just like it
him (10:01:08 PM): and
him (10:01:17 PM): i cant deal with it anymore
him (10:01:34 PM): i feel like i cant make it through life like everyone else
him (10:01:55 PM): and i dont know what to do
me (11:01:56 PM): thats really weird
me (11:01:59 PM): because like
him (10:02:08 PM): i just
him (10:02:19 PM): i jus want it to be easier
him (10:02:24 PM): i wana be an actor
him(10:02:27 PM): they dont do shit
me (11:02:22 PM): i was saying something 2 my mom about that today
me (11:02:23 PM): hahah
him (10:02:34 PM): but i cant do that
him (10:02:39 PM): im not good enough
him(10:02:41 PM): i hate it
him (10:02:55 PM): i dont want to have to worry about everything all the time
him (10:03:10 PM): i just want to relax
him (10:03:20 PM): i hate life
him(10:03:51 PM): i mean
him (10:03:54 PM): all of this
him (10:03:56 PM): work
him (10:04:02 PM): i ts for nothing
him (10:04:12 PM): i want it to stop
him (10:04:20 PM): but then i think
him (10:04:21 PM): wait
him (10:04:29 PM): i have another 8 years to go
him (10:04:38 PM): and the i cry some more
him (10:04:52 PM): and wonder if itd hurt to hang yourself
him (10:05:11 PM): please
him (10:05:18 PM): dont tell anyone about this
him (10:05:39 PM): hang yourself
him (10:05:45 PM): i meant myself
me (11:05:55 PM): **** stop
me(11:05:58 PM): seriously
me (11:06:43 PM): sry it took me so long to answer
him (10:06:56 PM): its fine
me (11:06:52 PM): i was doing something
him (10:07:03 PM): please dont tell anyone
me(11:07:02 PM): about what
me (11:07:05 PM): ?
him (10:07:18 PM): what ive been saying
me (11:07:26 PM): youre not seriously thinking about that right...
me (11:07:27 PM): ?
him (10:07:40 PM): i dont know
me (11:07:38 PM): **** come on stop
him (10:07:54 PM): it would be so easy
him (10:08:01 PM): and id be in a better place
me (11:08:00 PM): thats so weird.. because today i felt like the exact same way.. but i didnt think about killing myself....
me (11:08:04 PM): its just stress
me (11:08:15 PM): okay just think about how in a week its gonna be spring break okay
me (11:08:20 PM): and you wont have anything to worry about
him (10:08:43 PM): ok
him (10:08:44 PM): ok
him (10:08:50 PM): im gunna see you right?
me (11:08:48 PM): yeah
him (10:08:57 PM): ok
him (10:09:02 PM):alright
me(11:08:55 PM): of course
him (10:09:06 PM): i feel better
me(11:09:03 PM): okay good
him (10:09:15 PM): ok
him(10:09:28 PM): now i have to stay up all fucking nighht
me (11:09:26 PM): why
him (10:09:38 PM): because ive been putting this shit off all night
him (10:09:40 PM): all week
him (10:09:44 PM): and
me (11:09:37 PM): yea i know how you feel
him (10:09:47 PM): omfg
me (11:09:43 PM): what
me (11:09:52 PM): ?
him(10:10:03 PM): I HAVE SO MUCH TO DO
him (10:10:04 PM): dsfsgalhk
him(10:10:04 PM): ad gsj l
him (10:10:05 PM): s;nroaV UAK
him (10:10:06 PM): LDF'DFL' K
him (10:10:08 PM): FOJA
him (10:10:12 PM): i hate life
me (11:10:19 PM): **** relaxx everythings gonna be fine
the **** is his name that i starred out. =]
he said a lot of other stuff too but thats just an example and i was trying to calm him down and tell him all the good things about life but i dont know if he was serious or not.. because i doubt he would ever do that to himself. i think hes just frustrated.. what should i do?
if it helps im a frosh in highschool
thanks. =]
oh p.s. later he said...
me (12:52:42 AM): are you sure ur okay?
me(12:52:46 AM): you really wouldnt do that right?
him (12:53:30 AM): Lol right im sorry for scaring you
me(12:54:10 AM): are you sure you wouldnt?
him (12:54:34 AM): Yess go to sleep
umm wow thats really scary to think about. I think he was just stressed, and well all crack every once in a while.
But if he didn't trust you then he woudln't have spilled it all out on you.
I'm sure taht he was just extremely stressed and jsut broke. We all do that though....we reach that point where we just can't stand life anymore. you can't tell me you've never felt like that before?
but yeah idk thats a really scary sittuation and that sucks that he kinda put you through that, but if he didn't trust and love you then it wouldn't have been you that he spilled to. and acutally lukcly you were able to talk him through this hard time, and calm him down.
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