*tasha*'s

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okay so i was at my cottage and this guy was like chillin with me and my sis and my cuzins and so we were chillin and my sis was beggin 4 his sn!! i wasn't even really interested but he gave it 2 me secretly!! doe sthis mean he likes me?? or does it mean he wants to be friends??

sounds like hes interested!but i dono...if you do like him then i'd check in on it...by talkin to him.Since ya have his sn then I think you should just be like "hey do you like me?" do it in person or just do it on aim!Its EASAY to ask guyz that on aim!Talk to ya lata..

xOXo tasha

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I have almost clear skin, but I get really large zits ever so often, and i try so hard i use everything to get rid of them, i even have proactiv but sometimes it doesnt work too well. Is there anything, (ive tried the clean and clear stuff in the silver bottle) that works good for getting rid of somthing that big before it takes over my facee!!!=(

Okay..i used to have some acne and now I have like NONE except i have one right now but its really small and i'm gonna take care of that tonight w/ the stuff. But okay have you tried any clearasil stuff? I use clearasil Ice Wash and then i also get Clearasil Ultra..Clearasil Ultra guarentees that your face will clear up in 3 days and hten it keeps goin.my skin is lookin pretty good!So good luck!

xOXo tasha

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i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18

Girl..you need to talk to that boy and tell him to make up his mind.Does he wanna be w/ you or not? And if so ask him when.Because I don't think you wanna wait around for a couple YEARS of your life and then find out he is in love w/ some other girl. So communicate w/ him.Talk to him about it. GOOD LUCK! (tell me what happens k?)

xOXo tasha

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Okay...I know a lot of people ask what they should do if they're bad dancers and mostly they're told that they just need more confidence and that they can't be THAT bad. The thing is, I'm REALLY bad, and I'm not just saying it. There have been dances at my school and whenever I go I feel really stupid when I'm out there dancing because I know I suck at it. My boyfriend wanted to take me clubbing once and I had to make up an excuse because I didn't want to embarrass myself! Is there any way I can improve without taking classes? Or is it something that you sort of have to be a natural at? I don't want to have to avoid dancing situations forever! (okay, I'll stop with the drama) Anyway, any advice would help. Thanks!

Hey!Ask your friends for tips and stuff if they're good...watch music videos to and copy what they do on there!THAT HELPS!!GOOD LUCK! hope everythang works out!

xOXo tasha

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I have been talking to this kid Rob online for a while now and we like eachother.. and were both from the same state and... my cousins friend Jack who is also my sorta friend i have been around him alot is Robs best friend.. and thats how we started talking.. wehave never met but we want to sometime... should i meet him.. i mean i know were the same age.. and i know hes safe since hes Jacks best friend....

what do I do..


and do u think its bad that i sent him a pic of me?

Hey!Since you know hes your age FOR SURE and everything than ya i think its ok to meet him.Take some friends tho...maybe JACK!You can take JACK just in case. :-D well I also don't think its bad you sent him a pic...people alwayz send peeps tehy dont know pics! GOOD LUCK!

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I've decided that I want to give my EX another chance.. But whenever I talk about him.. everyone in my family starts sayin that I don't need him and that he's not worth it..I haven't changed my mind on giving kevin another chance.. I just wanted to know if anyone new how i could get my family to forget about the things that kevin has did to me and how i could get my family to like him...

*~Needing help~*

Okay..if the reason you broke up w/ him is a dangerous reason (like he beat u,raped you,etc) then your family is right...i dont think he SHOULD get a 2nd chance. But if its somethin else than WHO CARES what ur fam. says. Do what your heart tells ya! GOOD LUCK! MAKE A GOOD CHOICE!!!

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I am only 15 and I already have a kid and pretty much my life is ruined.I hate bein a mom at 15 it really sucks.The father of my child is wonderful though.He helps and supports my child as much as he can although both of our lives are pretty much over.I can't stand gettin up every 2 hours to feed her.I really regret getting in bed with the father.It was the stupidest thing ive ever done.I now hate my life.I have a beautiful baby but a messed up life.I ruined my life to fast.I should have waited till I was older and well now I just don't know what to do.I love my baby very much but im just not so sure that i can handle raising a child along with going to school and working to pay for the expences of my child....Plz someone help me.I really need to know what to do.I don't wanna give it to an adoption center but that might be my only choice.I really need some advice so someone plz help.

Desperate for my life back and confused!!

Hey!Maybe you should ask your parents for some help...and ya kno im sorry to say this but your probaly still gonna have to work cuz its your child ya kno?you made that decison. And I really don't think putting her up for adoption should be a option.My uncle did that and he regrets it so much. He was a father at 16 and now he doesn't get to see his baby till shes 18...and she lives in like Maine or somethin and he (my uncle) lives in AZ. So just be careful and make the right decision...remember its your baby. GOOD LUCK!

xOxO tasha

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Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up?

HeY! I think as long as shes not flirting w/ him and everything then you'll be okay. Just make sure you know about everything thats goin on cuz you don't want her cheatin on ya.But if she does...don't take her back cuz like i've seen so many guys that end up takin back girls that cheat on em and then they cheat on them AGAIN! So good luck w/ her. Hope everything works out okay..{drop one in my inbox to tell meh how it all works out k?}

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I'm 17 years old and I was friends with my boyfriends sister before I started going out with my boyfriend. I never really hung out with her that much or anything and I got to know her brother through parties. Blah blah blah. We have been together 9 months and now she is saying things infront of my friends that arent true. Such as last night infront of my friends she said "My Mom said your ditzy" I got so embarassed so I said something to my boyfriend like how I dont want to be at his house when his mom is there because I feel like an idiot because I haven't gotten to know her too well she works a lot. My boyfriend got mad and said his mom woudl never say that and calle dhis mom and she denys it and he called hsi sister flipping out and she is saying that it was said. I dont know what to do because I feel like I caused a whole big problem and I feel like I can;'t show my face at the hosue because one of them is lying and its embarassing and everything. Any suggestings??

I think you should definetely just stear clear of there house until this whole problem is resolved...Hope everythings okay...

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i love my boyfriend.. or ex boyfriend i should say, very much. so as of right now, i am waiting for him and i have been for about 3 months or so now. i know its unfair to me, but he has told me numerous times that he loves me and that eventually he would get back with me. we were together for a pretty long time and he decided to end things because he wanted to go out and have fun.. and also bc i moved, although, not a very long distance at all. we still spend time with each other now and then and we still keep in touch.. and he assures me that he isnt seeing any other females. but well, i was wondering, if he loves me like he says he does, then why is it that hes not with me now?

I think you should definetely stop waiting...why did he want to go out and "have fun" w/ out hooking up w/ other girlz...hmmm i dono but that just seems a little suspicious to me. I think you should go and try to find other people too! Cuz like if he ended it just so he could HAVE FUN then maybe he doesn't wanna like stay w/ one person. Thats how it sounds. So who cares just go and have fun yourself too!
GOOD LUCK!

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Hey! im moving into a new house in september. my room there is much smaller than my current room so i will have to change all of my stuff! I was wondering if you knew any sites that gave cute, creative, classy, unique, crazy, or pretty ideas on decorating rooms. I am 14, soon to be 15..and obviously a girl. I am kinda a 'do my own thing...be different' kinda girl. I want a room like nobody elses. Do you know of any ideas for decorating it? Or any sites that could help me out? Please respond quick..i am moving september 20th!

Hey!Try pbteen.com they have tons of cute stuff!hope i helped. GOOD LUCK!

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I was at the beach last week walking around bearfoot. Now my feet are pealing like crazy and look just awful. Is there anything I can do for them?

Lotion Lotion Lotion. Thats never happend to me but I did get a sunburn once on my back cuz i went to waterworld w/ my school from 9am to 5 pm and I didn't put ANY sunscreen on...I just put lotion on like 24/7. If you keep the lotion on there it moisturizez ur skin and keeps it health and NOT dry. GOOD LUCK!

xOxO tasha

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I have some trouble getting a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I've only had 3 boyfriends where my friends have had a bunch more! It's not like I'm trying to compete, it's just weird! I mean, people tell me I'm pretty, but I don't think I am. I also know I'm not fat but not thin... and I have a lot of friends! I don't really know what's wrong with me! Can anyone help?

Hey!I've had the same prob. I learned it was cuz I wasn't putting myself out there.Letting boys KNOW that I was single and looking. Be more flirtatious maybe. Who cares if girls call you a flirt. You gotta do what you gotta do. Just don't flirt w/ other girls bf's.lol. Well Good Luck! (still be yourself though!)

xOxO tasha

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Some times my pubic hairs kinda hurt when i pull them, so i yank them out and they have this sort weird sticky white thing on the end. after i pull them out it doesnt hurt there any more. this happens every once in a while and i yank em because if i dont it hurts to touch there. anyone know waht these are? i call them evil hairs.

I have heard about that so much from school friendz!!*YEA WE TALK ABOUT WIERD THINGS!* lol but i guess there in-grown hairs :-/...sry i dono what to do to get rid of them :( GOOD LUCK THO!

*tasha*

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Okay well Im 16 years old and I dont know who my real father is. I know his name is Jim and he lives in west virginia. I dont like asking my mom because everytime I ask she gets this look on her face and trys to change the subject as if she were mad or something. I dont want to make her upset or mad but it feels like theres a wholllle other life that i dont know of! I mean its not one of those things where "she doesnt know who my dad is" she knows but wont talk about him. But there are days where I am completey upset cuz I just start thinking of him even though I dont know who he is."does he even know about me? does he not love me? was i not what he planned on having?" so many questions! Now the TRUE question is when im 18 should I ask my mom then go and try to find him or do you think it happend for a reason?!?! should I just let it go and live with all the pain? im so lost and heart broken. i mean i survived 16 years without a true dad but it hurt so bad excpecially because i never talked about him. What do you think I should do?

I definetely think you should sit your mom down and just tell her "Mom I've lived 16 years of pain w/out a real father and I need to know about him. Now please...talk to me" Just tell her what you told us...Also yea,I think it would be good to arrange a meeting between you and ur dad. That would be a nice little reunion! Good Luck!Tell me what happens k?

xOxO-tasha

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Hey I'm going to be a sophmore this year and I met this guy Scott at summer skool before freshmen year. He's not that hott but hes cute, and hes nice I guess and he's been asking me out ever since I met him but I always said no because I had a boyfriend well my boyfriend broke up with me and ever since then i've felt soo lonely that now i wanna go out with Scott! But I dont know if I just want a boyfriend or if I really like him. I'm thinking maybe when I go out with scott I'll start liking him? Idk I need help!

Maybe you should just go out w/ him to see how it is...cuz right now you know him on friendship standards...and if you go out w/ him you'll start to know him romantically. GOOD LUCK!

xO-tasha

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Hey..
I like this guy n i think he likes me too. Im scared to ask him out cuz my friends will maybe b mad at me well i hope it will all work out and im really scared..thank u!

Well ifyour friends will be mad at u for askin out someone u like then ig uess there not really friends..:-/. So take a chance and talk to the guy. If he doesn't like you then his loss.Theres pleNTY of other guys! GOOD LUCK! tell me what happens k?

.::tasha::.

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ok well there is this girl, but she has a boyfriend named who knows what. and yet i am totlly in love with her and i don^t know the right words that will influence her to wanna have second thoughts about this guy. i know it is wierd but i am basiclly in love with her. but i am nbot scared to tell her i have told her and it seems that she just kinda well moves subjects when i talk to her.

so i need a way to sit her down and tell her how strong my feelings are for her. cause when i tr all i get is somthin like. " what do u wanna do know" so it is startin to annoy me in a way but the more i see her or talk to her the more love i have for her.

if anyone can help it would be great.

ciao

and thnx

Hey!It seems like you REALLY are in love w/ her. If you've tried talking to her and that didn't work than I don't really know what to say. If its really meant to be maybe you should just be patient and see what happens. She'll come to you. And its not like they will be together forever!So just be patient. True love can wait! GOOD LUCK! tell me how things work out..

xOxO tasha

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The year I decided to try out for volleyball. Before the tryouts, we had 3 days of practice to get us ready. The 3 practice days are over, and they were pretty rigorous. After every practice, my wrists and legs would hurt for hours. It hurts to walk. Before practice, we run a few laps around the track and run up stairs to warm up. Tryouts are on Tuesday. Is there anything I can do to stop the pain from coming after practice? Or is it just because I'm not used to working out this hard and I'll get used to it after a while?

Hey!Its probaly because you are not used to working out that hard. Thats how i was when I first started playing all my sports at once (2 basketball teams,volleyball,and softball,and dance too) Put Ice on your sore spots. It helps if you sleep w/ ice on it and stuff. GOOD LUCK! I hope you make the team!!

xOxO tasha {tell me if u do make it k?or what happens!}

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well i really need help ..well theres this boy nd lets call him "carl" so i started likin this guy nd i told him nd i found out he felt the same way but longer for him so we talked nd he was so great so we finaly wen out nd omg he was so great nd i realized i was fallin for him nd then a rmor went around that he had cheated nd he said it wasnt tru but all the signs are right there nd im pretty sure he did it but i think he relaized it was worng nd didnt want to hurt me nd then the day i found out i was cryin in skool for the rest of the day .. so i call ready to break up nd he gave me this crap bout bout he didnt do it nd i sorta beleived him nd it took a while to put it together but that same day i found out .. this girl had been tellin him i had been flirtin wit other guys .. but i didnt .. i got him to beleive me then his firned told him i broke up wit ihm nd he beleived it .. we atill talk nd he tells me how much he loves me nd he wants me bac nd then one of my friend kary was akin if he was goin to ask me out nd if he did i dont kno wat to say .. i really love him but theres one problem .. i moved nd he lives 15 minutes away which isnt that long away but we go to different skool nd i dont kno wat to do if he does cuase i really love him wit all my heart .. please help me ..

i rate goood!!

Hey!I had the same prob...What I did is I just broke up w/ him because I think that it would be hard to NOT flirt w/ other girls and vice versa. I did it for him and for me. I also don't think i REALLY loved him though. If you REALLY love him i do think it can work. So do what your heart tells you and not what your FRIENDS tell you. GOOD LUCK! i hope it all works out. tell me what the turn-out is k?

xOxO tasha

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