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hey..im a 14/f and i want to start playing hockey..if anyone can give me a good site that will give me some tips and tell me the rules and positions and stuff...or if you could just tell me a basic understanding of ice hockey..thatd be great...thanks!

Here are a few websites!: http://www.momsguide.com/icehockey/ih1.html, http://www.sportsrules101.com/m2.html, and http://www.usahockey.com! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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Okay,I'm goin out with this guy.And im starting to get sick of him pickin on me insted of loving me.Like the other day at a game he was like hittin my leg,i know hes just kidding.But its getting on my nerves..

Just talk to him and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you want him to stop picking on you. If you're sick of him then you should just dump him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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What ages do most people with Cerebral Palsy die??

- Thanks....

Well there is no exact age because it depends on how bad your Cerebral Palsy is. They can live to be the age of when "normal" people die. It just all depends on their body. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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well i guess this is a random weirdo but now its starting to bother me really BAD!!! anyway you know on MTV they have those commercials with that girl karen and she says stuff about tv show or like celebrities?? does anyone no who the heck that is because its been constantly bothering me all day

I know, I've always wanted to know that too. It's weird because my name is Karen too and Karen's aren't used that often on TV. Maybe if you go to http://www.mtv.com and you can search for it on there? Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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Okay this is a question for guys and girls. im a 15 year old girl and i like this kid and he said that he likes me to but he doesn't want a girlfriend. im confused though cause we have like 45 min conversations on the phone and talk alot. what does that all mean?

It means that he just isn't ready for a girlfriend at this moment. Just keep on talking to him because like he said, he likes you too. He'll eventually start liking you and will ask you out; just stay in touch with him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I am in 7th grade and am guy-hopeless. I get all shy around guys! Any advice?

Talk to a few guys! Flirt with them and just be confident in yourself. Guys love confidence but being shy is such a turn off! Don't worry about, you'll find a guy some day; you just have to think positive. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I am in 7th grade and am guy-hopeless. I get all shy around guys! Any advice?
~guyhopeless

Just be confident in yourself. Guys love confidence but being shy is such a turn off! Don't worry about, you'll find a guy some day; you just have to think positive. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I hardly see my mom and she goes to work at 5:30 in th morning and if I don't say goodbye to her befor she leaves I cry for an hour! I don't usally cry but I have been lately but only if I don't say goodbye to her. What is wrong with me?! Am I a baby or is something else going on with me?Please help me!

Hey, don't worry, it's normal. You just want your mom to around you because you need her. Talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. Maybe she can wake you up before she leaves so you can say "bye" to her? Or maybe she can start writing morning notes to you? Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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There is this guy at my school that I really really like. and he likes me to. But he does pot and I am totally against drugs. what should I do?

If you're against drugs, then don't go out with this guy. Or you could go out with him but then tell that if he doesn't stop doing pot that you'll dump because there's no point in doing it. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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everybody tells me that i am very pretty. guys notice, but they are so hung up on the popular snobby girls. i hate it. its like all they want is to be popular. they don't even care about personality. what should i do!?!?!?! please help!
guys are wierd! i've already asked some people for help!! please help me asap!

Try going to a club, the mall, a sports place, a dance, and other places to meet some guys. Find a guy who doesn't go for snobby popular girls but go for a girl's personality. Don't worry, you'll find the right guy some day. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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im not really good at dancing. i have school dances and such but i dont know how to dance. can someone tlel me any sites that show how to dance in hip hop or any movies that have great dance moves

I've tried searching the web but I didn't have any luck :( But you can watch Honey or You Got Served to watch and learn some dance moves. Sign up for a hip hop dance class. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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my computer has a porn virus and it says uninstall so i click it and it STILL pops up and it wont ever uninstall. so can any one help me to get rid of this disgusting porn virus

If you have virus scan, run it and then find out where it's located and then delete it. If it's a program of some sort, just go to your control panel and then to add/remove programs and delete that way too. Also, install a pop up blocker; I use Yahoo! Companion Toolbar and it has a pop up blocker. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I used to cut myself. Don't worry I don't do it anymore but I was wondering if any one knew how to cover up or get rid or the scars. Because one day while I was in school this kid Joe saw them and started making fun of me. I can't help what I did and i'm tired of him saying things to me , and for me to always having to hide them from everyone in fear that people will thing im weird. Thank you in advance! xoxo - KrIsSy*

There are scar removers that come in a lotion type form and you can get them at a pharmacy. Or you could jsut put regular concealer on them until they fade away. Also, you can wear bracelets too. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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Im 14 and i broke up with my boyfriend two weeks ago. His best friend likes me alot and we went out before but broke up because i had to move but i moved back here again. An i like him extreamly alot also!! But my x boyfriend likes me sooo much and i dont like him and he knows that... So shuld i go out with his bestfriend even though my x likes me alot.. or shuld i just be single? Please help me =/

Just follow your heart! Since you like his best friend likes you and you like him, I think you should go out with him. But since your ex-boyfriend likes you still, tell him that you don't like him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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Ok ive always kind hav been a ladies man... well latly ive been seeing guys in different ways... im afraid to tell anyone but i really think im starting to like a guy...PLEASE HELP ME

I don't you're gay but you are probably just confused or curious of the same sex. Don't worry about it, being gay isn't a bad thing. If you still like this guy after a few weeks, than you may be gay. Why are you afraid of telling anyone? Do you think your friends or going to freak out when they hear that? Just tell them! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I am freaking out after we finished sex ed and looked at pictures I started getting cravings and having dreams of having sex. (With guys) It felt so real and good. Does this make me sick? I also started getting craving to hump stuff around me. Am I a total sicko? I'm only 13 help!

Hey, don't worry, this is normal. Your hormones are just acting really crazy now! You're not a sicko! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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ok i met this guy off buddypic a while back and hes got a salute and a lot of pictures so i know its him for sure and we talk on the phone and stuff....well he wants to meet me next weekened and hes already talking about fucking me in the car next weekend....hes like oh well have SO much fun....i have a boyfriend though of 5 months...and we promised to NEVER cheat on eachother..and me and my boyfriend havent even fucked..should i do this??

Definitely DO NOT meet him. Have you ever considered that he could be a rapist? Lets just say that you did meet him, were you going to have sex with him? Don't meet a boy just because he wants to have sex. Just don't meet this guy because you don't even know him that well, since you've only been talking to him on the phone. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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Hi everyone...im just wondering..I had a few pimples a little while ago like a month ant there is like a little reddish spot where they were. Is there any cream or wash that it make it back to my normal skin color, because the pimple isn't there anymore and i want it to be my normal skin color again..Thanks.

Hey, those spots will go away, don't worry about it. Try washing your face with daily face wash from Neutrogena or Clean n Clear. Proactive helps too but it is expensive. Or you could just use concealer or cover up. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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When I started Junior High, I noticed this guy and he seemed pretty cool. At first I kind of thought he was weird because of the way he looked (long hair,converse high-tops..etc) but then I got to know him and sort of developed a crush on him. By the end of 7th grade I became OBSESSED and one night with a box cutter, I just carved his name into my arm. He never noticed. It seemed like he had a crush on me too for a while, he would call me things like "cutie" and "sweetie" . The beginning of the year he seemed like he liked me still, and I hadn't told him about my scar. I needed to get it off my chest, so I told my friend who has him 6th period to tell him and she did. After school he looked scared and luckily he didn't see me. The next few days he would look at me and the stare at the ground. He supposedly said he "hated me" because I carved his name into my arm. It doesn't make sense, how could he change his feelings that quickly? Now he thinks I'm this weirdo. What should I do? I still have major feelings for him, even though I don't show it. Because I feel like I can't. Please help me.

Ok sweetie, guys get freaked out if you do something like that. Why would you cut yourself, especially carving someone's name into your arm? Now this guy knows that you are obsessed with him and obsession can lead to many problems. You need to talk to him one on one and tell him why you did this. Tell him that you aren't weird and you didn't mean to. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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Hey, Im 13, and my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a couple months. And he asked me if he could finger me. I want him to, but will it hurt? I hurd that it does, but im not really sure. And then he asked me later in the future (a month or so from now) if we could have sex. I want to but im scared it will hurt to much or i'll get pregnent. XoXO **AmberO**

Nope, getting fingered won't hurt. It will hurt if he uses more than one finger and if you are tight "down there". DO NOT have sex with your boyfriend because you will regret and if you are asking this questions to us, it means that you are worried and you aren't ready. You have to be ready and inlove with your boyfriend to have sex (that's what I think). It will hurt but once your boyfriend fingers you, you'll be looser "down there". If you go on birth control, it will help not get you pregnant. Also, if he wears a condom, you won't get pregnant, unless it breaks. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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