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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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ok so like 3 days ago i was with this boy and we somewhat had sex but he didnt really stick it in. i mean i didnt want him to get hard cause we had no protection so he didnt and he barely stuck it in. we left. then yesterday there was a couple dots of blood down there and this is that time of the month for me. then i put a pad on and i have not leaked i mean its clean. completely. everyone keeps asking me if im pregnant and i say no but i dont know what to do.

If it was your first time, he probally popped your "cherry" (hymen). If he "came" inside then there`s a higher chance you can get pregnant because it`s around the time of the month-when your ovalating. Hope I helped. ♥

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whats that song that goes "she is everything you want shes everything you need, she is everything inside of you that you wish you could be, she says all the right things & exactly..etc" lol i dont even know if those are the right words but me and my friend were singing that in art the other day and i was wondering what it was called lol
thanks

Vertical Horizon's - Everything You Want. ♥

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I started my first period when i was 15 years old and i am now 18 and in between those time periods, i have only had at least 5-6 periodd. but during the early years it was very heavy. The only thing that I think that may cause the delay is me being overweight. what is wrong with me? and what can i do?

Yes it could be. You should go to a gyno and have them check it out. ♥

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ok this is going to be long..
but one night i met a boy and we really clicked.
then we hung out like everyday since..and i told him how i really felt and he said he wanted to be a part of my life. i have been acting different because my brother has been hanging out with us and i cant go streeking or anything in front of him. and the guy i like gets aton of girls. because he gorgeous. and last night i was like kicking in my sleep and bla because i was having a bad dream about him and he thought yeah nvm.
but idk if he likes me
pleaseee help

Yes he probally most likely likes you. Just be careful he isn`t a player with all those girls. If he really does like you then he will tell you. Have fun. ♥

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Is it normal for the thought of touching your own vagina to gross you out?

Lol your starting to hit puberty, your hormones are going crazy. When you do it, it`s called masterbation. It`s normal for alot of teens. ♥

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ok so I am 14 years old, going into 9th grade. I've been going out with this guy for almost 2 weeks now, and like we have this problem with talking, we usually only call eachother when we're with friends. and also, i know this is kinda sad but sometimes i'm afraid to call him and i have to like 3-way call him with a friend! so i dont know if maybe i shouldnt even like have a bf if im gonna be that scared or ahh i just dont know. PLEASE i need some advice!!

We`ll your just nervous, take it slow. Even if you don`t feel comfortable on the phone, try maybe the internet? Or try hanging out together and then maybe you`ll open up and he will. I wish you luck. =] ♥

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my cousin aleshia started smoking I know that since she is 18 she's considered an adult and can smoke if she wants to and iam afraid if I tell somebody she will get at me in fact she said she would what should I do?Iam really worried.Iam only 17 and I don't know what to do.

Your cousins old enough, i wouldn`t rat her out. She knows the consequences if she gets caught or continues to smoke. ♥

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I'm almost 15, and I want to get a summer job this summer. Any companies that hire at 15?

either a grocery store or fast food resturant. but you should take up something like babysitting, mowing lawns, washing cars, ect. ♥

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I'm in my first serious relationship with an amazing guy. My family & friends all like him, and of course I like him very much. The problem is, since him and I have been together, I've spent less time with friends. They have been trying to hangout with me, but for some reason I have more fun with my boyfriend. I feel like a horrible friend because these girls are great friends. Is it so wrong that I'd rather be with my boyfriend at this point in my life? (17/F)

I seriously hate when friends do this. They're just jealous. Girls do it all the time. Tell them your sorry you haven't spent time with them, maybe make plans like to have a big sleepover or something. They're just being immature, and they'll get over it. =D ♥

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sorry if this is long...

okay i'm 14 and i like this boy alot. i went out with him before and we had a really good relationship. but then we broke up because my parents didnt like him. he'd gotten in trouble for stuff and they didnt like the idea of that. since they didn't approve i was never really allowed me to see him except for school. so i broke up with him but i still liked him and i felt really bad about it and i wanted him back. but my best friend told me it was for the best and that i would get over him. she said not to go back out with him and that we would end of breaking up agian for the same reasons. its been almost 4 months since him and i broke up. he's changed since then. he says he really cares about me, knows how to make me laugh, and i always end up thinking about him. i still like him alot and really want to go back out with him. but i know my parents wont approve of it. i dont know how to explain to them that i really like him and that he's different now.
ahh help!

Just tell your parents you want to talk to them about (w.e his name is). Tell them he has changed and blah blah. At the end tell them you understand if they say no and respect them. Usually they'll agree. Also try to invite him over for dinner one night, so they can see the new him. Hope i helped ♥

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okay well first off i am female and 14...me and my boyfriend were playing this game...and i asked one girl he could do..who would it be..and it was some1's mom and he didnt say me so i got mad and tried getting him mad by saying i would do his brother...but it didn't work..but now me and him are in this huge fight..and i have no clue what to do..help me please?

Tell him your sorry first, then tell him why you got mad. And that you were just jealous that he said that, and you went out of porportion and you don't want to fight anymore. I`m sure he'll forgive you! ♥ Good luck.

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ok well, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a couple of weeks and so far ive done sooo many stupid things. and some of them he seems to just make fun of me for but i got realle drunk ((and he doesnt like when people drink)) and we just got caught somewhere we werent supposed to be and almost got arrested and hes grounded for a long time, so am i. and i no hes not mad at me but im just scared that hes gonna get sick of me doing all this stupid stuff. i dont no, maybe im over reacting.

Just tell him your sorry you did something stupid. If you really want to keep him your just gonna have to stop doing the things that make him mad. Just promise him you will stop doing bad things. ♥

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allright here we go again..
do you think its weird if someone likes you that is like 2 years younger than you and you might have feelings for them too? because im going into 11th grade and this guy is goin into 9th grade and hes really nice and everything! its just the age difference i just dont know. i shouldnt let it get to me but i just find it maybe weird or like i cant get anyone else but someone yougner than me? and people might think i look desperate or something

I know exactly how you feel. Age doesn't matter. If you really like him just go for it. Don't care what people think or say. ♥

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Ohh boy, i just turned 15..had sex for my first time, didnt use a condom, im so stupid and im so scared now :( im stressing out so much and i dont know what to know, i had sex like exactly a week ago now, and i dont know if im bloaded or what but my stomach is starting to get big and ive gained 3 pounds-ive also been noticing im eating A LOT latly :-/ should i go get checked out..or take a pregnancy test? ohh lord help me!!

Take a pregnancy test just to be sure, but stressing might cause you to eat more and make you think that you are pregnant. ♥

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I am 14 years old and a girl. I really like this boy, and I think he might like me back. The only problem is that he's kind of a player. He tells a girl he likes them, and then he leads them on for about 2 weeks, then tells them it would be better if they were just friends. He hasn't done that to me, but I'm worried that he's going to cheat on me. Should I go out with him or not?

No you shouldn't go out with him, if you have heard numerous stories about him. Don't trust him. Maybe if he likes you, he'll come after you. ♥

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im going to warn you now it might be pretty long soo please bare with me.. and i promise to rate high

ok. i have liked this guy for 3 years
we really wansnt that close of friends and well we went out.. for 1 month then we broke up because he didnt love me as much as i loved him
then we went out again.. for 2 more months and i was mad at him alot and he was mad at me alot and we also made-out and did sexual things to much we went on 2 breaks to stop it. and we ended the break really early and we got into a fight on the 18th and.. then we made up it was okay and then we kinda go in another one..and then he was like i have to end this relationship ect.. ect.. and he said he can almost guarntee he will ask me back out.. but he said we need to be friends b.c when we went out we really wansnt friends and he said loving me isnt enough and he said if we fix things we can go back out.. so now its the 20th we have hungout with our friend asleast 2 times i have cried both times and we talked bout it the first time we did he said in about 2 weeks he will know ect.. ect.. and yesterday when we did.. we went back out for like 5 mins but i ended it because it didnt feel like we fixed anything. at all and he was saying how he doesnt know how long it will be we have to become friends first and all this crap and he was saying how he does want to be with me and does love me but loving me isnt enough and he said if he knows he doesnt want to be with me or love me after the friends thing he will tell me
but i want to be with him.. some of the shit was kinda my falut becasue after i fight i would come back soo how do i become his friend faster i mean i know we will become friends but i dont want it to take long b.c i want to be with him now.. because everytime im around him im sad
and he mentioned about dating other girls or someshit and i dont want him to until i know he doesnt want to be with me...and on the 30th i think i might ask him back out butt.. i have to be his friend soo help me please i have been crying for the past 2 days.. i want to be with him soo bad........

ill rate high!

Sometimes things don't work out for many reasons. Be friends with him first. If your friends for awhile, he then will then be able to see if he has feelings for you. Wait because he seems like he's confused and doesn't want to ruin your friendship. I don't know if he wants a friends with benefits relationship more than going out. Just try to talk to him about it -after being friends for awhile. If you keep asking him out and vise-versa it might get worse and ruin the relationship.
hope i help. ♥

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So i've been talking to this guy named Greg for about 5 days or so and i think i'm starting to like him. And he likes this other girl because he talked to me about it because he needed someone to talk to and he keeps asking me if he should move on or wait and stuff like that. I dont know what to do because were just friends and i like him and i dont know if i should keep it a secret or tell him...

I've been there, but just be supportive. It's too early to tell him. Tell him he should wait if it doesn't work out with the her, tell him then. ♥

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School ended jus the other day and I'm really upset about it. I wish i still had to go to school and not have summer yet. I think the main reason is because I'm not going to see everyone everyday. What can I do to get over the saddness?

Call or message your friends and try to hang out. I'm sure they will. You can maybe do other things like going to a camp, or just getting a job for the summer like babysitting. ♥

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I'm really nervous that this weekend at the beach I will get my period. My mom hasn't got me tampons yet cause I haven't even had my period for half a year. I can't go in the ocean and stuff though. And I am really scared I will get it over the fourth of July at the beach when MY WHOLE FAMILY is there. I want to perticipate in stuff and not worry about my period. What can I do?

Just tell your mom that you want to be prepared if you get your period. If you think about getting your period, you'll most likely get it. Just relax, you could always wear a pad then chance into a tampon before you go swimming or anything. ♥

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Why are my legs so skinny danm can i get them fatter

Don't try to make them fatter, just excersize alot using your legs. It will tone them up more so they'll look healthier. ♥

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