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Hi, so I'm a high school girl and there's this guy I really like and think he's like the sweetest guy ever and is really gorgeous, but he's like 2 0r 3 years younger than me. Many ppl would normally be like "eeeww that's weird" (and I usually would never consider a younger guy either). But he's actually really mature, like more mature than most of the guys I know my age. Should I still take the chance with him because I like him so much or is it too wrong that he's so young?
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i think you should give it a try if you really like him. it doesnt matter what other people think, they aren't the ones dating him.

& sorry this took so long to reply! i was on vacation.

hope i helped :]
Jess


Im not fat or skinny but i am not fit to fun track next year i am really fast but i just can run that fast right now can some1 help me? (link)
practice and condition. maybe every other day.

perfect practice makes perfect.

-Jess


ok well unfortunately I'm very paranoid of my skin...especially on my face. When i break out i pretty much have a fit. I can't help it. I'm okay with a few zits but lately i'm starting to get them under my nose [above my lip] and it's annoying. and i'm also starting to get zits in random spots on my face i've NEVER gotten pimples before in those areas... is it just because of my period? -i'm not on it but i'm going to soon.

also i have this darkish spot on the lower part of my cheek what is it??

and how do i make my skin smoother and i guess like more radiant [lol] and if anyone knows how to get they're not "Bags" but they're uhm hard to explain like it's a line that goes from the corner of my eye [by my nose] and goes out and it makes me always look tired/sick.
sorry it's so long.

here's the main questions:

how can i clear up zits under my nose?!
am i breaking out just because i'm on my period?
how do i get rid of that blackish spot on my face?
and any ideas on making the line under my eye dissapear? i get almost 8-9 hours of sleep every night and i need a quick way to get rid of it in the mornings.


for everything cheaper products; homemade stuff; diet stuff; anything will be appreciated!!

thanks!! (link)
pro-active is a MUST! i got use it. when i started using it my acne wasnt that bad just like maybe 4 pimples on my face at a time. but i started using it and i am currently pimple free. it also has shrunk (sp) the pores on my face and made my skin way smoother. its a necessity.

jess


What should you do to make sure cuts (like a huge one amlost across the forehead) heal quickly without getting infected and doesn't leave a scar?

Oxygen or no oxygen? (bandage or no bandage) (link)
if its HUGE then i say go to the doctors and check to see if you need stitches. and cover it with gauze and medical bandage tape to make sure bacteria doesnt get into it. neosporin, also.

hope i helped :]
-Jess


Okay me and my friend Jane, need advice, how can we look great and buy stuff cheap??? Give us a list of stores and we'll hit the mall!!...remeber...CHEAP.
-jan and jane (link)
hit the clearence section and the sales.
clearence in abercombie, american eagle and hollister is great, especially hollister.
charlotte russe, rue 21, wet seal, has reasonable prices and cute shirts.
aeropostale has SOME cute stuff, not all of it though, but i always look, just in case.
victoria secret has cute polo's/t-shirts.

but remember you don't always have to be be brand name head to toe, so if you see something in a really expensive store that you want you could probably find something similar and way cheaper in a department store.

hope i helped
-Jess


heyy..im a little bit bigger girl..i absolutly LOVE designer clothes and i can afford them, i dont want to do anything unhealthy to lose weight but iv also tried many diet and exercise plans such as slim fast and seventeen mag. ideas, i can fit into SOME of these clothes but not alot..I NEED HELP!!can i have some good stores that you recommend too, i need a TOTAL wardrobe makeover so they cant be like too expensive beyond control or my parents wont allow it..thanx!!your a life saver!! (link)
lacoste
american eagle
ralph lauren
abercrombie and fitch
hollister
charlotte russe it isnt really a brand name, but they have AH-dorable shirts!
you don't always have to wear name brands. if you see something cute then just buy it, it doesnt matter what the label says.

hope i helped :]
Jess


I cannot afford prada or abercrombie what do i do seriously? (link)
you don't have to wear prada or abercrombie.
wear what you think is cute, you don't have to be like everyone else. be original. i can't stress that enough.
find your own brand to show off. wear what you like not what other people are wearing.

you were born an original, don't die a copy.

charlotte russe, wet seal, rue 21, aeropostal has really cute clothes. and remember you don't always have to be a walking advertisement for a brand.

and iknow that you think you have to dress like everybody else if you want to be friends with them. but its really a personality thing. you have to have a good personality.

hope i helped :]
Jess


im jessica 15 theres a boy in my class that i like a lot and i want to go and talk 2 him but whenever i try to talk to him hes busy with something else. he talks to other girls.. rarely so i dont know what to do. HELP
&heart;
jess (link)
FLIRT!!!
http://www.myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm
don't be shy. and be yourself. don't chase after him, let him chase you.

hope i helped
-Jess


hey,
these 8th grade girls alwys seem to out dress me. i hate it. i have the money and i have the fashion sense but they always seem to be 2 steps ahead of me. and the worst part is that they get all the guys. especially one that i realli like. wut should i do? (link)
guys don't pay attention to labels.
its the short skirt that catches their eye, or the v-neck shirt showing a little bit too much cleavage.
and flirt with the guys. flirt, flirt, flirt.
but don't be too easy. throw a little bit of hard to get in there. guys like a challenge.

http://www.myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm

wonderful site, you should check it out.

hope i helped :]
Jess


What is your fav bathing suit? (link)
i love one peices like these
http://www.polo.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2716530&cp=1760782.1988181

and i think just anything with a cute pattern, like this.
http://www.polo.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2144570&cp=1760782.1988181

and target has the cutest bathing suits everrrr.

hope i helped :]
Jess


What do you do in your spare time? (link)
i play on myspace/facebook. :]
play volleyball with my sister.
excersise videos on fit-tv.
IM/call my friends.
tan.
catch up on my reading [the clique books are greattttttt and i highly recomend them if you are a girly girl!]
play with my dog.
clean. put away clothes, do laundry.
practice soccer.
watch tv.
some of my friends bake, haha. im sure your freinds will love it if you bake them some brownies/cookies :] i know i do.
listen to music
draw.
spin around in circles untill you can't walk anymore.

www.bored.com

hope i helped :]


ok wll i am 5'2 and weigh 90 pounds do u think thats underweight overweight or average ?? (truthfully because i need to know)
if u could tell me that would help A LOT !! (link)
it depends how old you are, like how far you have gone through puberty and stuff.

heres a link to a BMI calculator, i already typed in everything and it says your BMI is 16.459.

http://www.seventeen.com/health-sex-fitness/bmi-calculator/bmi-results/?pounds=90&inches=62&x=66&y=8

look at that and see what it says. :]

hope i helped
Jess


my best friend has great fashion and a TON of money, my mom just quit her job so our money kind of went down and i heart her fashion a lot but my mom is making me have a budget for school shopping and i want to be like her a lot i mean her fashion but under a budget i don't think i can do that but idk what to do. i just really don't know how to acsessorize or anything but i have to say i have a GREAT taste. me and her shop and stores like a&F and stuff like that not designer like you but i wish i could afford that but whateves. i need to know how to be fashionable under a budget.... (link)
for A&F, go to the clearence section.
Hollister co. has great clearence sections in the store. they always have like 3 tables of clearence stuff.
charlotte russe usually has cute shirts [graphic T's, babydolls, tanks] and is not expensive at all.
you can always go to Ross, Plato's closet, and other hand me up stores.

hope i helped :]
Jess


Hey!
I'm not sure if I like the RalphLauren Spring collection What do you think about them? (link)
i just looked, and i don't really like anything from the spring collection except some of the dresses and a pair of shoes. but i thought some of the other stuff was kinda "out there".

-Jess


hey where can you buy LL bean backpacks? like at which stores? thanks i rate 5s (link)
you need to go to an LL bean factory store, usually in outlet malls. or you can order a catalogue and order out of the catalogue. or just online. & i think thats the only way you can get them.

Jess


who are like two of the worlds most famous pro surfers? (link)
i know nothing about surfing and the only name i know is bethany hamilton. idk if she is pro, but shes really famouse from her shark attack that left her with only one arm.

hope i helped :]
Jess


dance is coming up. my friend told me to bend my knees and sway my butt side to side into the guy when i grind. is this sound corrrect? (link)
haha. that sounds funny.
but um i basicly. but theres a little bit more than that i guess.
just watch BET and copy those girls on there.
or go to youtube.com and do a search for how to grind/dance.

hope i helped :]
Jess


im re-doing my room soon. like im painting my walls and getting all new furniture and everything. my room is like all white now and it has wooden floors so i kinda want to get a rug. if anyone has any cute ideas...

i also want to get stuff from pbteen.com
so if theres any cute furniture from there that you think would look good together and match with a rug and other stuff

thanks xoxo (link)
i have no idea what you are looking for. girly, retro, plainish.
but target has REALLY cute bed spreads every now and then.

:]
Jess


if i run like an hour a day, or more like jogish.
could i go from like 140 to 110 like by june.

like im gonna try to losee it over the summer too.

but im also a diabetic, so like i have to eat a certain amount, and like its hard.

but yea so if i ran could i?
or what else could i do that would work really well. (link)
just do 30 min to an hour of excersise 3 times a week. do something different each day. jogging, jumprope, cardio stuff to get your heart rate up.
if you run everyday for an hour you will be sooo sore. promise you that. and the days that you don't do cardio rent a pilates tape or watch it on tv.

hope i helped :]
Jess


I have heard that if you smoke weed it is visible through drug tests for 6 months. Is this true if you only try it once? Also, I am a freshman in high school. Is there and times when it is mandatory to have a physical? I remember when I was going into Jr. High it was mandatory. When they take a urine sample for physicals, what are they testing for? drugs? I also heard if you take Airborne right after you smoke weed, it is invisible to the urine drug test.

Any answers to these questions?
Please no bashing.
Thanks. :) (link)
don't do weed.
it screws up your memory and enables you to learn.
you are a freshman in highschool. you have four more years of school and if you do weed once, you ARE going to do it again.
One study has indicated that an abuser's risk of heart attack more than quadruples in the first hour after smoking marijuana.
Even infrequent abuse can cause burning and stinging of the mouth and throat, often accompanied by a heavy cough.
smoking weed also triples the chances of getting cancer in the head, neck, and lungs.
andd it messes up your immune system.
and it increases depression and anxiety.

plus my uncle sends me a card every year from jail and at the bottom he always says "don't do drugs and don't break the law."

SO JUST DON'T SMOKE WEED!





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