I'm a fourteen year old girl looking to help you people out. Leave me questions and i can try my best to answer them.
I love the Redsox. they make me so happy. lol
Ok, i'm not into that whole bf/gf thing, so unless you really like me or something weird like that, don't ask me those stupid does he like me questions. i can almost garentee you're not going to like your answer.
i'm a little crazy, but for the most part, i'm not going to screw with you guys like with jokes when it comes to advice.
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Location: Boston Ma.
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see every day im home alone for about 10-11 hours and i get really bored have any ideas on how to make the time really fly i rate good!!! (link)
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Well, this is a good start.
Trash TV, AIM, anything on the computer. Eh and go out to lunch, thats always a good time waster to boot.
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hey.. im 12 and 5'0 and i weigh 102 im not sure if thats like fat but i mean im a 14 jeans (girls) and ihave very muscler legs.. sadly and its my stomach like i can suck it in and be fine but the sides like poke out! and all i want it to not have to suck it in! like just breathe out and still be thin! all my friends r! and its sooo not fair i think! plz help me lose my extra weight! ill rate! (link)
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You should be happy with how you look anyway but eh whatever
Stop eating and exercise. Its the only garanteed way to lose weight. Sorry, i know it sucks, but its the truth. I'm 14 and i'm just like you, and so its not like i'm some skinny bitch telling you this.
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alicia i met some guy online and he's really hot, well i didnt meet him online he's my bestfriends cousin but i dun want to meet him in reallife cuz i dont know wat he'll think of me. im pretty but i dont want him to stop talkin to me becuase he thinks im ugly but im not, im just afraid that he'll tink that and never talk to me again
what should i do?? (link)
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Meet him, flirt, have fun. You can't marry him if he never sees you.
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hey..ok me and my friends wanna spend the rest of the summer having soooo much fun. we havent been doing much..cuz we cant think of anything..anyone have any ideas?? (link)
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MOVIE MARAITHONS! Parties, picnics, baseball games, sports outtings, trips to amuzement parks, go out to lunch. Just keep doing random things to keep yourselves entertained.
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hey ok well whenever i log in, it says your being redirected to where you were or w/e. for like a split second, yea, it does take me there but thens sends me back to home. so for me to log in, i have to sign in and quickly click like the part where it says your questions or w/e. why is this? (link)
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Mine does that too. You could just wait and then press the give advice button.
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I had sex 5 days ago, and im still bleeding from it. at first i thought maybe it was just my period, so i treated it as that. my period only lasts for 4 days, so i dont think its that.
Is there something i could have had torn during sex that would cause me to bleed this long? (link)
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Go see your doctor if it doesn't stop soon.
It might just be your period being irregular.
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I've been dating this guy for over a month now. Not very many people know about us because i know they wont accept us. I really want to tell people, but im afraid of their reaction.
Not many ppl like him cause he smokes pot and stuff like that. I was going to tell my older sister, but she said if its something shes not going to like .. dont tell her...
I sneak out a lot at night to see him. I'm talkin about 11:00 pm or midnight until 3 or 4 am. I dont get much sleep at night, and i have to get up EARLY (5:00am) for work.
What should I do? Should we just go ahead and tell people about us? or should we just keep dating "in the dark" Also, is there any other way we could see each other without being "caught" (link)
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You should tell people about him. If you really like him, tell your family that and they'll understand. They know that the heart doesn't know about age, money, race, religon, and status. It doesn't care if he does drugs or not, so why should your parents?
Maybe you can get him some help so he doesn't do drugs anymore. That might make your family feel better too.
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im thinkin i want a guy thats a year or two older than i am because that way hes not so immature and hopefully not as prude... but then again.. i dont wanna be made fun of or called a whore for the stupid things ppl will assume.. so i guess i could go for a guy my age.. but isnt it more important what i want then what my friends think... please help! i rate well! x0x0x ~*a*M*y~ (link)
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Your friends will love you for who you are, not who you date. And besides, why would you care what your friends think if you really love the guy? Don't date anyone for their age either, cuz thats weird. Date them because you love them.
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ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do.. (link)
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Tell him your not ready. What can he do about it if you don't want to.
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hey.im tryin to look for a quick job something easy.im 16f.can anyone give me a few suggetions?that would be really helpful thanx (link)
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Ice cream stand!
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hi im 13/m. i think i am a woamn trapped in a mans body. i want to get a sex change and then date other women. so basically i want to be a gay trans sexual. i also like to do it to animals sometimes. i used them for practice. how do i explain about my sexuality to my family? (link)
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Don't. Wait until your older so you can be sure.
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my "best friend" copies me a lot and it gets on my nerves. But yesterday she bought the same purse that I've had only for like a month when I asked her not to get it. Then she returned it but layed on the guilt and she mae me feel really bad because she said she was jealous of me cuz I have a great life, but i moved to TX from MD last year, and she said that moving wasnt a big deal but it was and so she wants to be fine and friends again but she really pissed me off and I don't really want to be her friend anymore so I don't know what to do now(I am 11 and a girl) (link)
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spread a mean rumor about her around so she won't want to be you friend either. that way you don't have to deal with her.
I'm just kidding, thats not nice.
Tell her she makes you angry and that you just don't think you guys should stay friends.
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Well for the past 5 years my dog and I have been exclusively seeing eachother, but lately he has been acting strange. He barely notices me, and lastnight i was spying on him and saw him sneaking out the doggie door. do you think he is cheating on me, or has decided to leave me for one of his own kind? (link)
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He's decided to leave you for his own kind. It's tough but you'll have to move on.
btw, are you on crack or something? What kind of love life do you have when you exclusively see your dog?????
Sorry, its just kinda funny. you make me laugh kid.
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My best friend likes this one guy, but secretly I like him, and I think he likes me! I read in her diary, which she let me read, trhat she was mad for him! What can i do! (link)
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Nothing. You should call a truse with her and both of you look for other guyz. Do you think she likes him more than you do? If so, you should let them be and try and get over him.
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I am TOTALLY obssed with this boy named brian.He has a girlfriend,which happends to be a very good friend of mine.She told me that i could go out with him.But then she dumped him and now she is going back out with him.She told me she is going out with him because she doesnt wanna make him feel bad.I think thats weird.So i told him.he doesnt belive me OF COURSE!!How should i make them brake up beacuse of that ?
IM me on aim- Andrea8o6 (link)
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How do you know your frined isn't just saying that to make you feel better? You shouldn't try and make them break up because thats not fair to them. What if they're really in love?
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Last yr my bf cheated on me 3 times so i broke up wit him. Yesterday he asked me bak out and i said yes because i have liked him all summer.But i am afraid of him cheating on me again or breaking up wit me way too soon like he used to. Please help me what should i do? (link)
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Well, you shouldn't have started going out with him again in the first place.
If you must stay with him, tell him you don't want him to hurt you because you really like him. Tell him that you are having trouble trusting him again after that.
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My little cousin has down syndrome, and alot of my friends always make fun of people with it and it really can hurt me, i*ve told them before and they say sorry and everything, but they keep saying stuff! What should I tell my friends? Or should I look for new ones? I dunno!! (link)
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If they upset you like that, and the don't seem to notice that you hate when they talk like that tell them for once and for all if you hear them talk about people like that it's going to make you nuts. If they keep on it, ditch them. I mean, its a pretty loosy reason to get rid of your friends, but maybe there not really your type of people anyway.
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Hi i have a gf and her 16th birthday is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get her.. I was thinking like a necklace with a heart on it... Do u have any suggestions? (link)
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If you have money: buy her a tiffany
If you don't have money: buy her a tiffany in China town.
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I got my first period over a year ago, July 2003. I have gotten 4-6 periods when i should have had 12. i go long periods of time without getting a period. Like I got one in December and my next one was in March. I have one like every 3-4 months and what really sux about it is that when i actually do get them its not the same day of the month. My first one was on the 1st but i've gotten them anytime of the month. Im really skinny and some ppl say if u dont have alot of body fat it messes up ur periods.. is that true?
thanx... kt (link)
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No, when you begin your period, its going to be irregular. I've had mine for three years now, and i'm still not getting 12 a year.
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when ever i go into a store some where it seems like everyone stares at me like they want something!! i don't know if it's just me or they rly are!! has this ever happened to u before!!
help!!! i rate good!!!
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Sometimes i get mistaken for someone that works at stores. That might be whats going on with you. Or it might just be you. Maybe you just look familliar to these people, you know. you might have one of those faces that remind people of other people.
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