Hi hey how do I get over a xbf, when I still am in love with him and he sorta likes me??? Thanks PLZ help , My life will be ruined if I dont get It. PLZ HELP THANKS
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NEed help gurl
Awww I can totally relate!Getting over an ex is really really hard,especially if you really loved the guy! :( Just know that it's not the end of the world,no matter how much it may feel like it.But at first,allow yourself to cry and be sappy.Watch some sappy lovey dovey movies and pig out on ice cream!!Then it's time to start movin on!!Box up anything that reminds you of him,gifts,any of his shirts,any mix CD's you burned for each other,whatever!!Blast some I don't need you,kinda anthem music!HeeHee!I recommend people like Pink,Avril Lavigne,Mya,etc.!!Surround yourself with your friends and have fun!You'll find that the more you keep yourself busy and havin fun,the less you think about him.If you start to think about him,maybe even remind yourself of all his negative qualities,and all the times he pissed you off,that usually does the trick to stop thinkin all sappy!;)Just keep yourself busy and surrounded by your friends and family,and before you know it, a really great guy just might come along and make you forget about that ex COMPLETELY!!;) Hope I helped some,if you need ANYTHING at all you write me back and I'll give you my AIM name!!!
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hey ok there's this kid that i met a lil while during the summer. he's really kool... but there's a biggg age difference. he's 18 and im 14. he's really nice and i like him a lot , but i kno that he would never like me like that cuz i'm waaaayy to young... wat do i do..... im reallly confused!
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meee
Well,even tho I know it's not what you wanna hear,it probably isn't a good idea to pursue this.It may not seem like that big of a deal to you now,but believe me there's a BIG change in you between the ages of 14-18!! By the time I turned 18 I was sooooo different than I was at 14!!You guys just wouldn't have a lot in common,and it would be one hassle after another,since it is after all,illegal!!Go for a cute sweet boy closer to your age,I'm sure there's plenty!And it's not wrong to keep the 18-yr-old as a distant,unatanable crush!Sometimes it's fun to have just a crush to just daydream about!!;)
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yo i broke up wit my gf for another girl 1 year ago... we dated for 1 year... well today i called her and asked her if i could borrow a movie of mine... she sounded normal when she answered and then her voice changed to a really mellow soft voice, a sort of sad tone... that voice brough up so many feelings and the weird thing is she changed her tone when she realized it was actually me... we ended pretty nastily... any girl know if the voice might be a sign for attention and if she might still have feelings for me 1 year later? i mean we were so in love... but for some reason i was dumb and started seeing this fine fine fine fine girl instead... neways hit me up wit response...
Well,it sounds to me like she might still be hurtin and kinda angry about what happened.Just how you said the tone in her voice brought back a lot of memories,hearing your voice probably brought back a lot of memories and emotions for her,and took her by surprise.Maybe try talkin with her calmly,and as friends,and see if she might feel the same.The question is,do YOU still feel the same for her??Write me back and let me know what happened!!! Oh and PS You might wanna tell her that bit about how you were dumb and made a mistake,girls like a guy who can admit when he's done wrong!!;)
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Okay well there is this girl Regina and a while ago before i met her me and her bf Ben was reallie close friends and i told him taht i dunt tink u two are going to last and then ben told her now and me and ben havent talked for two months or so and now regina is gunna tell tyler something and tyler said he would never break up with me and all:-\and yea he tells me he loves me with everything and I reallie dont think he will believe her but regina told me I was a horriable person and that I backstabbed her by saying that and that is before I evening knew her so what do you think I should do?Should I keep trying to call my boyfriend and get to him before she gets to him and start a story or what.Im reallie confused and need help!Please help me!Thanxs!
x0x0-baBee
Well I can't really understand why you said that when you didn't even know her.But if I were you,I would first inform your boyfriend of what's going on,kinda give him the heads up,ya know??And then I would try to reason with her,woman to woman.Apologize for getting off on the wrong foot and say hey let's start over again,maybe we can be friends??Ya never know where you'll find friends!!!
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me n my gf always have nothing to do any ideas where we could go together we r gettin bored of movies, bowlin, n playin pool wut else can we do together?
Sure,there are always ways of making a boring situation fun when all else fails!!Hehe You could go to an arcade or laser tag type place,since it's summer now,go swimmin together,camp out under the stars a night,go for a good romantic walk together!!You could always stay in and rent movies together,maybe make dinner for her or you 2 could bake something together(sounds really cheesy but it can actually be a lot of fun,ever seen those movies where they end up throwin flour on each other??lol)!I hope that helps some!!! :)
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hi, ummm well I was just wondering how you get to be such an outgoing person cos I'm really shy (you don't know how hard it is to write this lol) and its hard for me to talk to people. I'm 17 and never had a gf, do you have any advice on how to be more confident?
I totally understand!I am a shy person too,I was always SOOOO terribly shy,I'd never dare tell someone I liked them!I eventually learned to use my sense of humor,I realized hey if I joke,they laugh!!LOL But any of my friends would tell you I'm outgoing but if I don't know you,I'm kinda shy until I do.Well,I can just go by what I like in a guy!I think it really is confidence,but NOT cockiness!!Remind yourself of all your good qualities,and all the things you're good at!Most of all,just enjoy yourself!!Allow yourself to have a good time and laugh and joke with your buddies!!!Girls take notice to that!And contrary to popular belief,there's nothing wrong with being the nice guy!In the end,you'll win out over the bad boys,cuz the bad boys attract a girl,keep her attention for a while,then hurt her,and it's over!A good guy will be able to keep a girls heart.If there's a girl you're interested in,don't be afraid to be yourself around her!That's the number 1 thing,be yourself!!And have fun!!!!!!
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My name is maria and my ex boyfriend and me were going out 4 quite some time..Then he had cutme on feb.8 for the excuse "He wanted to be single" But then he still wanted to mess with me.I told him no.Then he liked me again.Then he used me.Then he hated me.Then he was my friend.Then he liked me.Then he wasnt talking to me.And Yesterday he called and said He still liked me.I dont know what to do..I dont know if he is lien.I dont know.Im so confused..What should i do?
Sounds to me like this guy wants you at his every beck and call.He seems to be one of those people that enjoy playing mind games!He just wants you when HE wants you,on HIS terms.Sounds like you already know he's a user,but it's just hard to let go.I understand,cuz I've been there,but hunnie you're worth so much more.You deserve a guy that will cherish you and take care of you,and truly enjoy having you in his life ALL the time,not just at his convenience!I think it's high time you give him his walkin papers girl!!!
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alrighty i need as many people as possible to answer this question for me alright so my bf said he'd call me back and its now 10:36 and he said he would call back at like 9:40 he said... well being that he is at his cousins with like adam, shaun, and nate i think hes just havin fun so thats prolly why he didnt call or something but ... i did kinda be mean when we said goodbye 2 phone calls ago and he said you did sound kind of mean why you said goodbye you were kinda like K bye when i asked him and he said hey can i call you back and thats when this sit. came up but i was like yeah and is like k bye... i was thinkin... smart@$$... but i didnt say that.. that'd be out of line i think... just help me out... should i also send a text to him saying hey just wanted to say goodnight and ill see you later love you (name) alrighty.. plz help
Sounds to me like just a case of a little spat!No biggie.I would write him that text message and also say hey sorry if I was a little snippy with you earlier.Everything should be fine.If you have any more problems please feel free to write me back anytime!!!
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Ok, I was just wondering about handjobs. What are some things that drive guys crazy? What are some things that really turn guys on? And, when you have sex for the first time, how much does it honestly hurt (I know it differs for every woman)? Also, what are some ways to bring up the birth control issue with your mom? Please help!
Well,just like it differs for girls,it differs for guys.Every guy will like something different.I think it's more of a situation where when you're in the moment just kinda let things happen,let him show you and teach you what he likes,and you do the same.I will say this:teasing is always a good way to get anybody goin,hehehe!!As far as how bad it hurts,you're right it is different for every girl.It depends on a lot of things,like how big the guy is,and how big the female is down there.It will hurt you a little but it's not like horrible blinding pain.Don't be scared if you go to the restroom afterward and see a little blood on your undies or when you wipe,that's totally normal.If you're thinking it's time and you need to get on the pill,it's important to have a good connection and open communication with your mom.It really all depends on how close you are to your mom.Please write me back,and let me know what your relationship is like with your mom and how old you are.Hope to hear from you soon.
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it goes like this theres this guy and i saw him places and some of his pix over the internetshowed my friend well its been a while and now he has a site and now me and him actually talk its kind of weird though because he lives in a state and now hes in the sate i live in...out of no where well just now they both got off the comp at the same time and hes not on when my friends not home? ive told him to call so that i can see if its my friend or not.Could this be my friend poseing as him? hes going to a party tonight at 8 and my friend going somewhere at 8 with her mom and dad?HELP -signed a helpless person!
Well,what makes you think your friend would want to pose as him to fool you?What leads you to believe she is interested in him??You should sit down and talk with your friend about this.And maybe have a talk with the guy as well!
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to start..im 17! i feel so different from my family...im the youngest of 4!! i just dont wanna be around them anymore..my friends even tell me im wayyyy different from them!! i get sooo aggrivated with them over nothing! i really dont know what to do! i want to move out...im trying to save money but im between jobs now!:-/
Well,in what ways do you feel different from them?Looks?The things you like? The way you act? Maybe instead of running from the problem you should face it head on.Sit down with your family and let them know how you're feeling.Maybe they didn't realize how you've been feeling,they only see that you get angry with them very easily.You're only 17,trust me,you will clash with your family,especially your parents!We all have days where we wish we could just pack up our stuff and take off,but that's not going to solve anything.Family is a special bond,they will always be there.Cherish them,because it's too late when they're gone.
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I have this friend, and she says that she is my best friend but she is always calling me names and stuff, what should i do?
Well,you should sit her down and talk with her.Let her know that the names she's calling you and the things she's saying really hurt you,and don't make you feel like her best friend.If she continues to bad mouth you,or can't understand what you're saying and where you're coming from,then she was never a real friend at all.You should find a friend who will love you and who you can have fun with and relax around,not constantly worry what is she gonna say about me? You're worth so much more than that!
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i just lost The Big V acouple of days ago to the man i love and hope to be with for the rest of my life he hasn't returned my phone calls and he seems busy lately. did he use me for sex or does he really love me?
Wow I'm sorry to say this,but it sounds like he did use you.The fact that he isn't returning your calls and always seems convienently "busy" when you try and get in touch with him,shows that he is trying his best to avoid you.I don't mean to hurt you but that's the reality of it from my point of view.I know it hurts you terribly,but I would move on and find a man who truly cares about you and your feelings,not you and what's in your pants!
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Every time I try to do my homework, it takes like forty times longer then it has to. And it's not because I'm a perfectionist, not really. But when it comes to certain things I am. I just want everything to look good, and if you do a horrible job you won't get a good grade anyways. But that's not the problem. You see, I'm an expert procrastonator. Even when I'm actually doing the work (which is rare) I take my time. I can't think when I'm writing and I end up making fancy little letters, as if it would help me think. Or erasing a thousand times. It's like everytime I even think about homework my brain shuts down, and my time management skills, any type of skill, goes down to nothing. I just can't help it, and I don't understand it. I don't have ADD or anything...it's just weird, and it's making my grades go way down in the dumps, even though I'm not stupid...I don't think. I mean I can pass all the tests and quizzes. Just not the classes.
You remind me a lot of myself.Sounds like you are a true perfectionist,you feel that you have to get everything just perfect or else it's not even worth doing or turning in.Try and think of ways to make what you're studying interesting,or more desirable to work on.That way you will really start to enjoy what you're studying.Think of the outcome,think of how great it will be when you have the work done,and you have done a good job on it.Who knows,it may turn out to be the field of work you go into someday!!!Also,think of the fact that the sooner you sit down and get the work done,the more time you have to hang out and chill,worry free!!Hope this helps!!Oh,also maybe a study buddy would help you to focus and get more done!!
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ok im almost 15 and i only have a 34A... i hate it. I heard that if you sleep with no bra on at night your boobs will grow faster because the bra isnt there... but i dont know... and i also herad that moving your arms in circular motion everyday will also increase the size... my mom has big boobs.. why cant i!!!!?
Hahahaha,unfortunately,none of those old wives tales we all hear work!!There are no miracle creams or exercises!You're simply dealt what you're dealt!You're only 15,and a womans breasts don't stop growing until somewhere between the ages of 21-24,so you still have plenty of time.Different people will tell you different ages when you should supposedly have reached as big as you're gonna get,but truth be told,it varies.Some people are early bloomers,and some are late.As far as your mom,just because she has large breasts doesn't necessarily mean you will!You may take after the women on your father's side of the family or something.But the real trick?Being happy with what you've got,accepting yourself,seeing your own beauty,and realizing it's not all about the outside!I know,I sound like a Hallmark card or a really bad after school special here,lol,but it's the truth!!:)
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i always here ppl talk about a dildos, condoms, vibraters, blow jobs, hand jobs... what is all that stuff??
Hehehehe....well,the only real way I can think to answer this is to try and define each term!Hahaha!
1)Doldos & Vibrators~ Those are sex toys for girls,they're used simply so a girl can "pleasure herself" as they say!
2)Condoms~ Become very familiar with that word!!Haha! That's what guys wear for protection.It's a latex material that blocks semen from entering a girls body during sex.
3)Blow Jobs~ That's just a slang term for sucking a guys penis!You're gonna hear about a million and one terms used to reffer to that!!And just as many jokes!
4)Hand Jobs~ All that is is basically,getting a guy off.Masturbating for him,should I say!Hehehe!
Hope that helped,that's sort of a difficult question to answer,because of figuring out the best and least vulgar way to word it!Hahahaha! ;)
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well this past weekend, me and my friend snuck out. these two guys pciked us up. one which was her bf and this guy that i use to haev a crush on but we're jsut rfiends. he's going to be a senior and im goign to be a sophmore.well they were'nt suppsoe to pick us up it was suppsoe to be my exboyfriend nad his friend. but it turned out the other way well we went to the seniors house and we ended up hooking up i really like him now thougha dnwe're still talking.. he broke up with his gf. and were hanign out and talking ot he phone. but my ex found out and he acts likeit's nothing but hes pissed, especially since me and him use to be "hook up" buddies.. but i'm so confused. i fell bad b.c the senior had a gf. when we hooked up and shes sweet. and my hook up buddy idk i like him too..i guess i like them both. but i really dont kno what to do.. we're all in deiffernt grades. and idk im' soo lost.
Hmmm..well first of all I'd be a little cautious of this Senior guys intentions.Especially since your relationship began as a random hook up and not a friendship or a real mutual liking.You said yourself,it just ended up happening.Also,you say you feel bad for his ex,well,then think to yourself;if he did this to her,who's to say he won't do it to me??Would you want to end up being the one who's hurt?Sit him down and ask him what his intentions and feelings are.As far as choosing between the 2,think about it based on other factors such as how he treats you outside of the bed,who makes you happier,who makes you laugh,who is supportive and there for you,who shows true concern for your feelings.This decision shouldn't be based on sex alone.And no relationship should be only about sex unless that's what the 2 of you agreed upon that that's all you wanted.Always be sure that thru all of this,you're being safe and using protection!!!Best of luck!
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i am 14 and i am a female. i was wondering if i am only making matters worse . i have been helping my crush feel better about the fact that his crush doesnt like him. and at the same time i am trying to make his crush like him. she has a boyfriend. i am doing this bc i thougt maybe if i talk to him more and help him, maybe it will click that he likes me bc i am such a helpful person. should i keep up with my plan or stop it completely?
I think it's time you let him know how you feel!Maybe during a time when you're comforting him,remind him of all his great qualities,and how lucky any girl would be to have him,and maybe say something like "There's probably a million girls out there who really like you a lot and care for you...hey,one of them might even be sitting right here talking to you,just as afraid of her crush on you as you are of your crush on someone else".And kinda give him "a look" ya know what I mean?I can't think of any more brazen way of saying it short of hiring a sky-writer to write it in the sky for him!!!Hehehehe!Good luck darlin',write me back,I wanna hear ALL about it! :)
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ok ima be a freshman this year n im afraid i wont fit in!!! i was 1 of da most popular girl in middle skool but now its high skool!!! i have friends in h.s but i dunno im just afraid! like the reason i got to were i was, was bcuz of my ex-boyfriend..(the typical bad-ass,hot populat guy)well im afraid of losing everything i have right now cuz like ima be in LA, NY n puero rico for da rest of da summa n i wont be able to be with my friends n stuff.... wut should i be prepared for in h.s?
High School is basically a bigger version of Jr.High!!! It really is!Expect all the usual gossip,rumors,cliques,couples,nasty cafeteria food,annoying teachers,and entirely too big assingments!Hahaha!I was slightly afraid when I became a Freshman too,but really it's not as big and scary as it seems now from a distance.Don't worry about your popularity,I'm sure that it will hold up into this school year,and you'll get a chance to meet all kinds of new people,that maybe you wouldn't have ever been exposed to before!There will always be the meanies and the jerks,hehe,but keep your head held high,do your best in school,and just be your charming self!Hehehe ;) You'll be just fine hunnie!
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This girl Deanna R. always give me an attitude, but today i got really fed up. she started givin me an attitude because i had a qupte in my profile that she didnt like. So she starts threatining me to take it off. so i did. cuz i kno if u get her pisst off she'll throw a hissy fit and get a whole bunch of her friends to try to make my life shit. and i hate it. what should i do. i try as much as i can to avoid her, and ignore her rude comments but it really bugs me.
-nicole g
It's pretty obvious that this girl needs something better to do with her time!You shouldn't have to change or alter your life in any way at all,just to please or apease someone else.Especially someone like that!!Block her from your AIM,and if she uses other SN's,simply reject the messages from those SN's.If need be,get a new SN and only let your friends and the people you trust have the name.If she's calling you,on a home phone you can block her out,but on a cell phone unfortunately,your only option is to get a new number.But you shouldn't let this girl get to you.You know who you are and you should be secure in that.Eventually this girl and her friends will get tired of annoying you,and move onto someone else.Just remember-you're better than that,so don't stoop to her level!!
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