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shyguy
hi, ummm well I was just wondering how you get to be such an outgoing person cos I'm really shy (you don't know how hard it is to write this lol) and its hard for me to talk to people. I'm 17 and never had a gf, do you have any advice on how to be more confident?
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I totally understand!I am a shy person too,I was always SOOOO terribly shy,I'd never dare tell someone I liked them!I eventually learned to use my sense of humor,I realized hey if I joke,they laugh!!LOL But any of my friends would tell you I'm outgoing but if I don't know you,I'm kinda shy until I do.Well,I can just go by what I like in a guy!I think it really is confidence,but NOT cockiness!!Remind yourself of all your good qualities,and all the things you're good at!Most of all,just enjoy yourself!!Allow yourself to have a good time and laugh and joke with your buddies!!!Girls take notice to that!And contrary to popular belief,there's nothing wrong with being the nice guy!In the end,you'll win out over the bad boys,cuz the bad boys attract a girl,keep her attention for a while,then hurt her,and it's over!A good guy will be able to keep a girls heart.If there's a girl you're interested in,don't be afraid to be yourself around her!That's the number 1 thing,be yourself!!And have fun!!!!!!
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