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can a boy be a virgin

AwW.. yeah.. unless hes had secks

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okay well there was this guy i had liked for about 5 months.. i told him i liked him when i first started to like him and he said that he wanted to wait to go out cuz we went to diff schools.. well the summer comes and he tells me that he likes me and that he thinks were perfect for each other.. then the next week hes going out with another gurl! i was so mad at the time but i got over it and i mean i still have feelings for him but its not the same i use to.. but the problem is when i had liked him he didnt want to be around me.. cause he said he was scared that if we hung out we wudnt have the same connection that we do online and on the phone.. which really made me mad cuz he is like one of my best friends.. and now that he has a g/f he still refuses to see me and now he barely talks to me.. and it really hurts me cuz even if we arent together he said i was still his best friend.. but the other day i saw him and he was actin really weird and wudnt look me in the eye and i thought it was juz me but my friend noticed it too! i tried talkin to him bout it but he said it was nuthin and he juz was ready to leave cuz hed been there for awhile! idk am i over reacting or is he seriously bein weird? i juz dont know wut to do.. i miss my best friend :(.. sorry this is so long but i had to get it all out

i think he feels guilty for goin out with her when you both kno he lyks you.. and since he knos you kno.. then he feels bad for styll bein with his new chik.. and i thynk he is seriously bein weird.. l0l.. cuz he says yall have different connections? well.. i thynk yo0u can do0o better.. BuT sTaY friends with him..

::.:: RaTe mAi AdViCe pLeEzE ::.::

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ok well... i have this really good friend...lets say his name is bob.i'm 13 and he's 14 also.we always talk and i flirt with him... a lot! but he just went through a badbreak up with one of my really good friends...i donno if i should tell him i like him... i donno wat my frinds reaction would be if i asked him out and he said yes...
i dont a wanna ruin my relastionsip with my really good friend and bob.wat should i do?
please help me! thanx bunches!!

UmM.. ChIk... eye thynk you shuudnt tell him how you feel until a little later.. if you tell him at all.. cuz i mean.. tha other chik is ur friend.. and NoBuDdY lyks to have a friend h0okyn up with theyre ex.. TrUsT mE.. thats happened to me and it ruined our friendship..
::.:: RaTe MeE pLeAsE ::.::

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i like this guy 4 9 months... and he keads me on EVERYTIME.. and i try 2 talk 2 him but he duznt want 2 talk... and everyone is tellin me 2 tell him how i feell... but wen i try e wont give me a chnace.. wut do i do?... i kno this is a stupid question but... i want him 2 understand how i feel

EhK.. im sorry bout thys.. but i think that if he is leading you on.. and doesnt give you a chance.. he prolly is just a flirt and doesnt feel the same way.. i think you shuud lae off and if he keeps flirtyn.. then play hard to get..

::.:: RaTe MaI aDvIcE ::.::

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my best friend and i have a "fling" going and his g/f is getting really mad that we hang out ... hes having issues dumping her ... should we do?

EhK.. i understand where his chik is comin from.. i mean.. if yall do have a thang goin on.. which you said you do.. then yall need to lae off till he breaks up with his girlfriend.. and if he doesnt break up with her.. then yall shuudnt be "talkyn"..

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here it goes my friends that are mad at me keep calling me and saying that they gonna make a fool out of me and i noe they will cuz they so friggin mean well do u noe what i should do.

if theyre desperate enough to keep callin you wen theyre mad.. then they aint wurth it.. seriously.. and if they Do.. dO anythyn.. then u need to get evern.. hehe.. sRrY.. but it wurks.. theyll leave u alone..

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my boyfriend just came back from mississippi and we always talked online and he always told me how much he missed me and how much he wanted to see me. we was always saying how much he wanted to see me and he is always saying he loved me and he would never treat me bad and he treats me like SHIZ NIT! my friends tell me to break up with him but i love him too much and i dont know if i should break up with him or not. I mean he hurts me by not answering my phone calls and ignoring me and always ditching me for his friends. I was so mad when i called him and he got home an hour before and he was already with his friends. sometime i think he for gets he has a girlfriend that he soposably cares about. I need advice!
~*~jonelle~*~

i think you need to tell him how you feel or wutever.. but you also need to let him hang with his friends too.. i kno.. if i were to get home.. no matter ho0w mucho i loved sumone.. i would call up mai grliez and we would hang first.. l0l.. but if he treats u lyk poo.. then you shuud BrEaK uP wItH hIm!

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what do you do when your friends b/f starts following you between different class periods and your best friend gets mad because she thinks me and her b/f are goin out ,,,,what do i do

tell him to stop followin you.. unless yall r friends... and if yall r.. then tell ur friend not to worry about it..

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I HAVE A REALLY BAD HABIT ;; I SUCK MY THUMB I HAVE ALL MY LIFE AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO TO HELP ME STOP IVE TRIED EVERYTHING NUTHYN SEEMS TO WORK ;; MUCH LOVE KATIE

put a rubberband on ur arm and snap it every tyme you suk ur thumb... when u starts gettin bruises an ur arms.. you miite wanna stop sukin ur thumb..

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I am 14 years old, 15 in 2 weeks.. and I just found out I'm pregnant! I cried for days.. my parents dont know yet and I dont know how to tell them...They said they would ALWAYS support me but I doubt they will now when Im not sure who the father is... how should i bring up the convo with my mom and dad?

AwW.. EyE tHyNk.. you shuud just sit em down and tell them straight up.. tell them you dont kno hoo tha dad is.. and you have no clue wut ur doing.. one of mai friends got preganant.. and thats exactle wut she did.. and yea..her parents were upset.. but they supported her on it.. so i thynk you shuud just tell them..

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this year, our my grade got a new student. he sat at the table next to mine in lunch. The second i saw him, i felt like i knew him and i felt like i needed to be friends with him. He is on my bus also and i found many times he would turn around and look at me. Then we started talking on AIM and eventually he would turn around in lunch and sit at my lunch table. Recently this summer, he asked me to hang out with him and he even ditched the girl he liked to hang out with me all day and then he told her he had fun with me and my other friend. He talks to me more now and he told me to call him once to make plans to hang out. Why did i feel like i need to be his friend so much since i saw him, and what does this all mean? I dont feel like i like him or any thing but im confused with what direction our friendship is goin in because sometimes we talk alot and then sometimes we dont talk at all. Im confused...

EyE ThInK.. you shuud just tell the poor kid you only lyk him as a friend... (if thats really the case).... i mean.. dont lead him on if you dont lyk him.. and tell him that you wanna be his FrIeNd! and yea... the reason you wanted to be his friend was cuz you thought he was hot.. YeAh! l0l.. idk.. maybe...

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ok u see i love my b/f i will do nething in the world for him but right now hes at his moms which is 2 hours south from me ok there was this party n u know no girl is gonna turn down a party my boyfriend wasnt supposed to be home till the next morning. at the girl boy party we were playing spin the bottle it was my turn so i spined it then it landed on my ex n i wasnt gonna turn it down so i went 4 the cheek then he turn his head n stuck his tounge in my mouth every1 thinks i did it to him then at the same moment in time in comes my b/f!!!!?!?!?! wat do i do??

o0o DaNg! EhK.. srry sweetie.. but if you didnt want tha makyn out to happyn.. then you could have stpped it... seriously.. Im SoOoO not tryin to ne mean.. but i thynk that you got busted.. and thats tha best excuse you came up with.. SrReE! i wouldnt blame your boyfriend if he got pissed off

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i am trying to get my guy friend to notice me, i always hang around him and hold his hand. i try to let him know that i am into him as more than just a friend, but it feels like everytime i try to get close to him he pushes me away. i have kissed him before and he acts like he wants me, but then it seems like he doesnt. i am confused on how to get him to want me as more than just the friend that i have always been to him.. if anyone could give me some advice on what to do that would be great! hopefully, a guy and a girl could answer this just so i get both sides of it. thx.

just tell him what you thynk about him.. and make sure you tell him that if he doesnt feel tha same way.. then you styll wanna be buds..

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ok i went out with this guy lets say his name is bob...so bob and i were really good friends (and we both have the same friends) but when he asked me out i said yea so then the next day my friend lets say bobby is just rushing our relationship like in the morning he told him to put his arm around me (i was ok with that) then at lunch he wanted me to hold his hand (FYI: My hands are really dry so i said no)then he told me to tell bob that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him!! ( i didnt tell him that) so then the next day i broke up with bob. even though i still like him!! so he broke up with his gf and i dont knko if i should go back out with him. should i?!?! thanx!!

is bobby and bob the same person???

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i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but im shy and really afraid to ask him out.he always stares at me and blows kisses to me can some one help

haha.. if he blows kisses.. you shuud 5get about him.. he sounds lyk a gay guy..
SrRy If ThAt sOuNdS mEaN!

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god ok my mom is s0o0o overprotective and doesnt trust me worth crap cuz im 13 and we already start havin bfs and my mom just thinks were all out to have sex and were all sluts n stuff and she wont let me go to the mall w/out a parent and she wont let me up past a certain time ((its the fricken summer! hullo! lol)) and then she wont let me go tanning cuz she says its taking a risk of gettin skin cancer since my brother had cancer and now shes waaaaaay to overprotective cuz of that and im sick of it! and shes always finding notes.. and she goes thru my backpack all the time and so now all im doing is hiding stuff from her and seriously its like im in jail and she says the next time she finds a bad note or finds out im doing stuff w/ guyz n stuff shes gonna like be around me 24/7 and i have to have a room next to her and im rilly scared thats wuts gonna happen.. wut should i do?

EhK.. everyones mum is overprotective.. seriously.. and tha backpack thyng sound totally familiar.. just make it so that she isnt fyndin anything.. i mean.. not by hydin it.. i mean by tellin ur friends ur situation.. and tell em not to write bad noted cuz ur mum will make ur lyk miserable.. and about tha bed tyme.. wow.. well.. just see bout gettyn a computer in ur room or wutever or just watch tv in there or sumthyn till u fall asleep.. Or!! just stay at ur friends houses all summer long.. so that wae you dont have to be around her.. hehe.. YeAh!

P.s.. eye LuV mai mum.. l0l..

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i think i am fat.. (i weigh 130 and i'm 5'6"). i have tried to diet by eating healty and i still do but it isn't working. also, i excercise all the time by playing baseball, running, working out, and playing with my neighbors. i keep trying but i just can't lose weight! does anyone have any suggestions?

chik.. if u do all that.. then all that weight prolly isnt fat.. its prolly muscle.. SeRiOuSlY!!!

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I have really big breasts and a really big behind and guys at school and even guys that are old enough to be my grandfather keep checking me out and saying stuff to me, that its kinda annoying. when a guy at school says it, i dont mind, cuz guys at my school are fine, but when a man says it, i feel like slapping him! does anybody know any good "comebacks" that i can say to those guys?

be lyk.. " what? you cant git sumone your own age so your lookyn at sumone young lyk me? thats pretty weird... " and yeeaa.. thats lyk tha GaYeSt comebak ever.. but TrUsT mE!! it wurks..

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ok, one of my bbf's and I are going 2 start a babysitting busniss together, because we don't think we could take care of kids alone, but together we would be perfect for the job. The thing is, we don't know what kind of advertisment a parent would get to hire a kid to babysit. so, what would parents go for?

p.s. we both took a course of red cross babysitting

putt signs up at ur parents wurk begging.. l0l.. and putt that youve had training and are responcible or wutevr and it miite wurk.. thats how i got mai job.. l0l.. all i put was...
13 years old.. needs money.. can wurk all tha tyme.. needs money.. and lyk 3 people called in lyk a dae..

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wat does this mean:

AwW.. l0l.. its a hart stupid..

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