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Q: okay this is pretty gross but necessary, if i guy were to eat me out, what would happen? how would i act? should i shave down there? should i not? heeelp

its not really gross but..
what do you mean what would happen? he would
lick/suck you?
you would react how ever your body responds to it, if the does it right, then it will be a really good feeling. Yes you should shave 'down there'

Q: i like this kid and he likes me, and we have kissed once before. i need to know how to french kiss for next time we do more than a peck

this website tells you how:
http://www.wikihow.com/French-Kiss

Q: i have been with this kid for almost two years and all we have done is make out. i need to know how to give a hand job so when the time comes, i will be prepared. please help

i cant go into description really but this site will tell you, but the pictures are a little graphic just to warn you: http://www.wikiafterdark.com/index.php/Give_a_Guy_a_Hand_Job

Q: ok so im 16 and i recently have realized that the thin hairs on my butt cheeks have been growing exceptionally long. i don't shave or wax my butt area (i didn't really think anybody did) so i don't kno what could be causing this sudden growth. i told my friend about this seeking advice, and she called me a freak and compared me to a hairy baboon! i'm so embarrassed because i'm going to the beach for memorial day and i tried on my bathing suit and you can TOTALLY SEE THE HAIR! it's kinda gross. i don't know what to do! HELP ME

everyone has it haha its normal, if you think its really that noticeable you could try shaving it ? maybe not the best idea or some hair removal products or even waxing, but its normal hah

Q: Why do boys like boobs?

why is the sky blue?
why is the grass green?
why do guys like boobies?

thats just the way it is

Q: Can you get pregnant from giving a guy a blow job?

how would that even be possible?
obviously not

Q: so im 13 & i want a boyfriend and all the guys that like me are ugly but thats my opion but yeah i really do want a boyfriend yett theres no one that really catches my interest really so what do i do ? and i want a guy to ask me out because to me its wierd for girls to ask guys out lol so yeahh HELPPPPPPPPP
please :)

if all the guys that like you are "ugly" and you want a boyfriend then theres really nothing you can do except not be shallow and try one of those guys..or you could try and meet new people and if you see a guy that catches your eye give it a shot, some guys are shy so they might want you to make the first move

Q: well, im 13 years old and i want a summer job but i still cant find one. ill work 3 times a week, no weekends. but the trouble is i cant find a job anywhere since im too young. i am in sunset park in brooklyn. do u know if there are any jobs around there that a 13 year old can work in?

i live in ny, but not the city when i was your age i tried for baby sitting and pet sitting for families you can try that or some shops might hire you for sweeping or something if there are any help wanted signs anywhere look for those even if you dont think they would hire you because of your age just check it out they might find something for you to be able to do

goodluck!

Q: Hi. I'm 15 and I still haven't gotten my period. Should I be worried? What's the oldest I can be before I should start worrying? I know that all girls' bodies are different, but what's the average or normal age is all I want to know?

im pretty sure the average age is 12-13 but my mom didnt get it till she was 17, so your probably fine but if you dont get it in the next year or so and are worried about it, have it check out

but in the meantime you should be very thankful you havent gotten it, you really do not want it hahaha

goodluck!

Q: 17/m

I get complimented on my eyes pretty often, and I just want to know what to say to the complimenter when this happens. I feel like a jackass just saying thank you.

Any advice is appreciated.

you could try complimenting them back or something, if you dont like saying thank you

Q: my friends birthday is comming up and shes into the word faith and ohm stuff and i still dont know what to get her. shes turning 16

does she wear jewelry?
some jewelry has words scribed in them you could look for something with the word faith on it..
or clothes every 16 year old likes clothes
you could be like everyone else and give her money?

Q: Can anyone tell me where I can find an analysis of Paul Revere's Ride by Henry W. Longfellow? I am curious to what it really means!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_Revere's_Ride

i think this is what your looking for?

Q: sometimes i get a random bump like.. right at the tip of my vagina. what is it?

i could be a number of things..
are you sexually active? do you no your partners history? could it be an std? nobody on this site can really diagnose you, your best bet if your really worried about it would be to go to the doctor

Q: so i am like.. in love with my best guy friend. we are both 15 years old. we had liked each other about 2 months ago but he also liked another girl. him and i hooked up and stuff but after a while he started to like the other girl more. it was confusing on how they got together but he wasnt trying to be a jerk to me. now him and her are broken up because she was a jerk to him. should i make a move on him? im scared to do anything with him because i dont want to get hurt and he doesnt know that i like him still. half of me doesnt want him to know anyway.
helpppp:(

well the only advice i can give you is, you should think about both sides before you make a decision on what to do.. are you willing to take the risk of getting hurt again? if so then i would just casually start talking to him a little bit and then see how it goes from there, and if hes interested.

Q: soo the guy i've been crazy over...well we arent really friends...and well i like him...we arent friends because we arent getting along and we went out three times...all times hes ended it. well we might become friends now and i would really like that!!!! but i mean i know to be myself and to talk and communicate and to be there when he needs a friend, and to respect him and if he wants his time to be alone then i respectt. but i know what to do and how to be a friend...but then again in the same way i ma completely CLUELESS!!!!!!!!!!! i mean this saturday my choir is going to kings island and hes going to go to...but i wont really see him...he isnt in my group...but if i see him what do i do...i mean we arent really at the talking stage, or looking at eachother while the other person knows it (but catch him doing it) :]
but i dont let him know i know....what do i do...do i wait for him to approach me...should i accidently bump into him..idk when it comes to him!!!

well if this is really someone you want to be friends with, you can either wait for him to come to you witch could take a long time because he could be waiting for you to do the same thing.. or go to him and brake the ice thats the first step, compliment him casually and then walk away and see his reaction.. is he looking at you? trying to make conversation back? if he is then thats good thats the first thing you have to do if you want to be friends with someone brake the ice and start making conversation

Q: i am about to turn 15 and i want a summer job

thanks for sharing?

whats your question?

Q: Okay i really want it and how do you get and how much is it? I really love making pictures stand out and i think thats the way to goo.
Help.
Thankss

you can get it at a lot of places
walmar-best buy- target-
pretty much anywhere they cell computer stuff
as for the price it depends where you go and witch kind you get my brother has adobe photoshop from best buy and it was 150$

Q: well there is this guy i like and he happens to be a good friend of mine.he likes me back but hasnt asked me out.we kissed once because a dare but he wanted to before that so i know its not just because of the dare.he always flirts with me but im not gonna be innocent and say i dont flirt back because trust me i do majorly lol.well i thought at first he didnt want show other people he liked me but today he kinda proved he didnt care infront of 1 his ex 2 who is still his friend and last 3 the girl who has the biggest mouth.i think its a sign but i dont know and i only think it is because he used to NEVER flirt with me infront of other people besides a few so ya.i dont know what to do so what do you think i should do about him?

i think if you really like him, and you no he likes you then you should maybe ask him out, it could be he wants you to make the first move

Q: I dont know how to break up with this guy! My friend dared me to date him, but it got out of hand... and i dont know what to do!
Should i tell him it was just a dare?
HELP!!!!!!
HELP!!!!!! he is driving me nuts and i dont know what to do about it
I dont want to hurt him
but i dont really like him...at all.in fact i hate him! i dont no how to break up!
i am leaving on may 20 so should i just stick it out until i leave?
once agian, HELP!!!!

just say you dont think its working out and you would rather be friends.. haha i wouldnt tell him the truth but thats just me.

Q: My best friend has been dating a guy for almost two months now. Most of her friends, including myself, get a "creep" vibe from him. He comes off as a guy who just wants to get in her pants. Plus, he's really controlling over her. Sometimes I do think he genuinely cares for her but I'm not sold on it.

So, he told her that he'd quit smoking pot when they first started going out, but one day he came to pick her up (she was too drunk to really function).. AND THE DUDE WAS HIGH!!! after he told her he quit smoking! my friend told her about it, and now he hates the girl! For telling on him..

Anyways, I saw him yesterday and he was stoned off his ass again.

My question is: SHOULD I TELL HER OR NOT???

I'm concerned because if he's lying about this and can't keep a promise, who knows what else he could be keeping from her? I don't want to be a tattle-tale because she will tell him that I saw. then he'll hate me. ugh. Plus, it's not my business, but I care about her. The last guy she was with screwed her over too. She's a really naive girl.

My concern is that we'll be roommates next year and I don't want her bf and I to have problems. That could compromise our friendship.

So.. should I tell her or not?

well if she drinks till she cant function as you said why cant he smoke pot??

i say its nobody's busyness if she has such a problem with it she will talk to him about it.

i think you should tell her if you want to.. its not really a big deal though .... in my opinion