Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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I need advice, I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I haven't had sex so I'm still a virgin. We do play with eachother though and he did ejaculate next to me. I fear it may have touched the opening. I'm worried that I may be pregnant as I have missed my period although they were sometimes irregular anyway, I'm still worried. Is it possible for a virgin to fall pregnant? If it is, what are the chances? (link)
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since your period is irregular sometimes, i'd say you had nothing to worry about.
other than that, it is physically and scientifically impossible for a virgin to get pregnant. unless you somehow trick your mind into thinking you are, and therefore your body treats itself as if it were withchild...but thats another story.
you have nothing to worry about. :)
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hey! i posted this question (btw thanks to all who helped!)
i really want to talk to him about this the next time he is home from college. but lets say im afraid to speak up and bring up a awkward topic like an ex girlfriend to him. im a shy spoken girl with stuff like that. and i usually push it off when i do have the chance. i dont want to talk to him about this via videochat, phone or especially aim/text. i feel like if he wanted to avoid making me upset he would lie to me about it or something or make up bullshit excuses.
so next time i see him in person, how should i just start it off? i want to know how i can say it in advance so i dont choke on my words when the moment comes.
and any tips for when the moment would be right? i know not around people, or when were not sober or tired or like out to dinner, any tips on when would be a good time, and how to confront him with this subject? (link)
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when its just you and him, you're alone, its quiet, and you're both in a reasonably good mood, just grab his hand, turn him towards you, and say something along these lines; "honey,(or whichever petname you prefer, if any. if not, just say his name, this lets him know that you want his full attention and that you're serious)i want to talk to you about something thats been kind of bugging me for a while. its nothing bad, and i don't want you to get defensive" and then just say it before you lose confidence.
now, i didn't see your other question, so i don't know what you're going to talk to him about; whether its bad, whether you're talking to him about cheating, or whatever. just just adlib wherever needed, or change whatever. but still say something along those lines. ABOVE ALL: don't get emotional about it. when i bring up a serious topic with my boyfriends, i always make the mistake of getting emotional; crying, yelling, etc. and this will either make them not want to lie to keep you calm, or chase them away. so be cool, be calm, and make sure you're both in a good mood. this is the most important part: keep eye contact and keep your voice even and confident.
i hope i helped, and whatever it is you're going to talk to him about, keep it cool and i hope it works out! :) take care.
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If your a virgin and you masturbate a lot will it still hurt when you have sex? (link)
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its different for everyone. i have some friends who masturbate a lot and it still hurt them, and other friends who don't said it didn't hurt them. and then someone else said it hurt them their first 15 times. i don't masturbate and it hurt me my first few times, but now it doesn't.
like i said, it's different for everybody.
just be sure to use a condom and a condom safe lubricant. i recommend going to kroger and near the condoms they should have some kind of KY lubricant. it works really well.
this is assuming that you're wondering because you're planning to have sex.
hope i helped :)
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Hi! i'm 16, i take yasmin. well, i just went to the bathroom and i noticed my underwear was brown, and no it wasnt from my butt lol. it was from my vagina. i had my period over a week ago. im scared, i do have unprotected sex with my over a year long boyfriend. but i sometimes use condoms. dont yell at me for that, its my choice. what is this all about? please help! xxx (link)
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its normal to have brown-looking discharge after your period. this can last from 1 day after to the next week after you end your cycle.
to put it simply; its just dried menstrual blood mixed with normal discharge. you have nothing to worry about. :)
take care
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im a worrier sooo.. help me hah
well this is what he's like :He's shy to slow dance, but we do. He lays his head on my shoulder while dancing, he he lays his head on my lap, and my shoulder. He says he loves me more when i say "i love you" . He says" i'd take a bullet for you". He calls me cuppy cake, i call him hunny bunny. haha when we text he sometimes says "Hey sexy/hey baby" but he's to shy to get dirty, plus his mom reads his texts. He sometimes pokes and hugs other girls, he's the friendly type. He always makes me feel good, but i sometimes worry i'll lose him. He's like that to. So farr.. he's everything i need in a bf, but i worry so much because i got hurt A LOT in the past, he knows it because i told him. He says he wouldn't hurt me and he's not like other guys. He had sex once before, and thats it. he never pressures me into sex he doesn't talk about it constantly he's not a perv. What do you guys thinkk?
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he sounds perfect...almost too perfect. if i were you, i'd keep my eye on this one. he may just be acting like this because the relationship is fresh and he wants to make you know that he likes you, a lot. but don't be surprised if later on, things aren't as spicy or cliche`.
good luck.
P.S. (i'm not saying that's he's going to turn into a total ass over night, i'm just saying most of the time with guys, they're a lot more "edward-esque" in the beginning because...well i dunno why. that's just the way it is. your guy may actually be like this, i wouldnt know. but all the same, good luck. :))
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I am being drug tested on tuesday (at a lab). I smoked (marijuana) 8 days ago from today. I weigh about 120 and i'm 5'3". I have also not been eating as much because i am taking a new ADD medication (im not sure if that makes any difference). I used to be a frequent user but over the past few months i didn't smoke as often, only 1 to 2 times per week. Also when i did smoke 8 days ago i only smoked one gram. i recently have been drinking excessive amounts of cranberry juice and peeing as much as possible. I also went out and bought QCarbo (a detox drink) that i plan on taking a few hours before the test. I took a home test today to check my own levels (i used readicup) and i tested negative for everything but theres a faint pink line next to THC. i looked it up online and most sites say that it still counts as a negative result so i shouldn't worry. Does anybody have personal experiences that could help me out. Im VERY worried because i really need this job. If you're going to lecture me don't waste your time answerring this question. Smoking is part of my lifestyle i just need to know how to pass this drug test. (link)
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from my past experiences, you're out of luck :\ since you're a pretty casual smoker it won't get out of your system for at least another two weeks. and none of my pothead friends have heard of any way to make the passing of THC in the body go any quicker. i researched this a lot when i had to do a pee test for a job. if anyone tells you about this medicine that you OD on and it "burns" all of the impurities out of your body, DON'T TRY IT. IT DOESNT WORK AND ITS VERY DANGEROUS. what i would do if i were you is just drink a lot of sunnyD and cranberry juice and hope for the best. i dont know anything about the detox drinks, but i've heard they dont work. again, i would just hope for the best.
but just for future reference, if i knew that i was going to try to get a job soon, i wouldnt have smoked. if you fail this, next time, stay clean for at least a month before the piss test.
i really hope it works out, and sorry i couldn't have been of any more help :\
take care.
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heyy 14f
ok, Friday a girl came up to me in study hall (i know this girl, shes a friend of mines friend. dont know her that well) she told me a 7th grader Reagon was flirting with my bf Arizona. There in the same grade, im in 8th. Reagon she flirts with everyone shes not a very good person. Well, my best friend has 8th period with reagon and arizona.My friend said he doesnt even look at her, and when she tried to talk to him one day he rolled his eyes and said "dont talk to me!" So, apparently arizona hates her so my best friend says. Well today a girl im not really friends with asked me on myspace if arizona and i are still dating.i said yes why? She said she just wanted to know how long? I said a while now, were a good couple. Than she got offline? I think taylor and reagon are friends i don't know? Should i be worried?My bf seems like the good type he told me that im the only girl for him. Somone accuse him before of playing the nervous game with a girl, and he almost touched her crouch. That wasn't true apparently because my best friend chris (he's also arizonas bestie) he says he doesnt touch anyone, and if he does its just a hug or something. Arizonas the friendly type lol what do you people think? (link)
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i think you're overthinking it. from what i can tell, everythings normal and some girl just might be a little jealous. girls are like that in your grade.
take care.
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well i made like a whole video on windows movie maker but it won't let me uplode them on youtube...any ideas???
THANKS IN ADVANCE!!! :):):) (link)
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once you're done making a video in windows movie maker, you have to remember to click the "save to computer" link. and then when you're downloading it to youtube, you download the FINISHED video, not the one saved in windows movie maker. i made this same mistake. ^.^
but if you already did this and it still won't upload, make sure it doesnt exceed the time limit or MG limit.
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well you just answered one of my questions about how i was getting sick when i was done giving my ex head but if i was like his frist doing that and like he never had sex when that still change something?? (link)
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do you have any allergies? because if you are, then he could have eaten something that would have made you sick. that sometimes happens with semen.
if that's not it, then i have no idea, sorry. go ask your doctor.
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i have really bad breath, people can smell it for like 2 metres. what is wrong with me? i eat healthy, try to floss, use mouth wash and clean my teeth but it doesnt work! What could be causing this and how do i stop it? :( (link)
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sometimes bad breath germs can harbor on the cheeks and tongue. be sure you're brushing three times a day, after each meal, with a really good toothpaste. floss twice a day, and use mouthwash once a day. and be sure when you brush, you get EACH TOOTH, ON EACH SIDE, rinse your toothbrush, then brush your tongue. rinse it again, and brush the sides of your cheeks. then use the mouthwash. and in between these times, try to chew gum or use breathmints. if you're still having bad breath, check in with your dentist or doctor. they could give you a really good toothpaste that would help.
take care.
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well i gave my ex head since we were chill but like before he came i was prefectly fine not sick or anything later after her lefted my thorat started hurting but i know you can get an sort thorat but now i have a cough and been getting really sick is it a good sgin or bad !! (link)
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obviously, if you're feeling sick, thats a bad sign. you need to ask him if hes been tested for STDs. but when i swallow, sometimes my throat starts burning and stuff, but thats just the affect from swallowing. it goes away after i drink something. but get ahold of him again and ask him if hes had sex with anyone else and if he might have an STD. this could be serious. ask your doctor.
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Hi, I'm 15/f and this is a really random question, but I was just wondering how do you respond to compliments without being cockey & stuck up, but at the same time without making things akward? Also, how do you respond to positive comments someone makes about you without seeming like you care or it really matters to you even if it makes you really happy (so you're not being stuck up)? example: if your friend tells you that all the boys think you're really pretty (in front of other people) (link)
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A) dont act too shocked. even though thats trying to not act cocky, it still is very cocky.
B) give a really sincere smile and say "thanks!"
C) dont play dumb and say "wow, really?"
D) sometimes adding a tiny chuckle is nice. it means that this caught you by surprise, and you're pleased.
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I'm a female in highschool. This might sound kind of stupid but when I makeout with my boyfriend or hookup with guys (when i'm not in a relationship) I want them to like making out with me. Any tips on how to be really good at making out or what to do when making out to make the other person get more into it? (link)
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i assume you know the basics of making out; not too much tongue, long periods of lip-locking, etc. also what you could do, (if you wanna get a little intimate) is keep moving your hands. go from the neck and shoulders, to their back, to massaging the back of their ears, to rubbing their back. i do this with my boyfriend, and from what i can see, he enjoys it A LOT.
have fun :)
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Im going to have to give you guys a bit of history so that you can better understand the situation. I have this friend. A best friend. Weve been friends since 8th grade, and now were seniors about to graduate and weve gone through a lot. we were literally polar opposites on the surface but intellectually we matched perfect. The thing is, I was always the preppy, kinda girlie one, and she was the dark, gothic one. never really cared about her looks. she even called herself manly. In 8th grade that was our style. Weve both changed a great amount since then. I used to be very shy, now I am very outgoing. I am still girlie, but I play soccer and enjoy Spanish music and am very positive and always happy. She changed as well. Her style became girlie, and she did away with all her darkness. But the problem is her changing is influenced by me. which would be fine, except shes adopting not only the style of music and clothes that I like, but also my personality. I don't understand. She sees me do or wear something, and she goes and does the same thing. I cant really say anything i mean it seems very petty but it's becoming more than a superficial thing. She is copying my mannerisms and my reactions, all my tastes and dislikes. She is becoming me. We go to different schools, but when I see people from her school they describe her doing and saying things that sound exactly like me. She doesn't act that way towards me though. And it's really frustrating because I cant say anything, shes going to deny it and say that that's what she would have done regardless. which i know is not true. Literally shes doing EVERYTHING that I am. it's insane. And now she is saying she wants some space between us so she can get her priorities in line, telling me she doesnt really want to talk to anyone for a while, but i see her doing stuff and hanging with other people, dressing and acting like me. I'm going crazy over this what should I do? how can I accept this? (link)
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maybe she sees that how you're acting, you seem to get a positive reaction from other people out of it, and it makes you happy. maybe she wants that, too. and probably the reason she doesnt do it around you is because she knows shes sort of copying you so she lies low when around the source of her changing. but you also have to realize, between junior high and being a senior in highschool is a long period of time. someone can change a lot during then. i was like her in 8th grade, and over the years i've become a lot darker and more tomboyish. i used to be a very girlie goth. so as you can see, people change a lot.
dont see it as annoying, but more of a compliment. meaning she looks up to you and you're probably one of her favourite people on this planet. bask in it! not everyone is a rolemodel amoung their friends. :)
take care
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)Ok, heres the story... I work with this guy at a restaurant. we have known eachother for 3 years now and have been friends ever since. Until recently, he showed interest in me. I have always been some what aware of him developing a crush on me over the past few months but i never acted on it.. I myself, have had feelings for him for a long time so hearing of this news pleased me. we started dating and hanging out.. he introduced me to his parents, took me to a fancy dinner, and slept over just to cuddle with me.. its been about a month now and something has changed in him, for example.. he doesnt call as much.. used to text me goodnight all the time and now i dont hear from him.. used to ask me to hang out more, and was a gentleman. Now, its like he lost interest.. he told me that he was looking for a relationship and that i was the perfect girl for him. he told people at wrk that we were dating and he seemed proud of it. now every time we hang out, its like we're friends again except we kiss.. it used to be special and exciting at first. i felt that he was super interested and now im not sure.. is this just in my head or is something up? what should i do? how do i react when i get no reply from him? (link)
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after a relationship goes on for a while, the other person gets used to having you around and you may feel a little let down. when the relationship is fresh, they'll be trying to please you and treat you special. rest assured, he hasn't lost interest. he's just more used to you now and doesnt feel like he needs to bend over backwards to be the perfect boyfriend. try telling him how you feel, and he'll probably say something along the lines of what i just told you. :)
take care,
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okkkay so I just turned 15 what do i have to do to get my temps in 6 months ? do i have to take any classes help please ? (link)
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are you talking about your learner's permit? if so, to do this, you'll need to get a compulsory document from your school stating that you are in school and making passing grades. you can go to your counselor about this, and then you have to get your principal to sign it.
also, you'll need your birth certificate, and two forms of proof of residence, (ie: a piece of mail that was addressed to you). then you go to your DMV to turn these in, and you take the test. i just got mine today and be aware that waiting to take the test will take most likely, up to an hour. but the test is pretty easy, so its all good. :)
good luck
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Ok yea this may be a stupied question and one I should know but out of curiosity.
What does it men when a guy buck durning sex?
Sorry if this is stupied i'm just a very curious person about alot of things.
Thank you for your time. (link)
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i don't really understand the question. you might wanna try a spell check or something so i could answer for you.
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Hi!!!
My friend todl me about a video called "Two girls two cups" and says i would really like it...... BUT someone at school told me about 2girls1cup and i wish I had never went. (barf) So is this new video like the same thing or is it ok?
thank you! (link)
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it sounds familiar. whoever told you this, i wouldn't trust them. considering i said the same thing to a friend of mine about 2girls1cup ^.^ so yeah. just dont watch it!
take care.
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Okay so my sister lost her virginity last year, she said she bled alot, and it was big, and it hurt sooo much, she almost cried. well last night she went to her boyfriend's house and they were going to sleep together, well he got like half way in, and his was bigger so it hurt so much more, she started crying and made him go out, we know she may be tight, but is there anything else that could be wrong with her? (link)
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tightness is an issue, and on top of that, every girl is different. it hurt me my first 4 or 5 times...and this one girl i know said it hurt her first 15 times.
plus, how often you do it is an issue, as well. if you have sex one day, and then do it again a few weeks later, your vagina will have closed a bit again, causing it to most likely hurt again.
tell her to try stretching to exorcise the tissue down there. and also, if hes using a condom, get a lubricant that is safe on condoms so it goes in easier. she needs to make sure shes plenty moist down there, or it will hurt, especially if hes dry.
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so there is this guy in my school. he is a grade lower then me but he is older. i really like him. he is not the player kidn of guy like he is preppy and all. he flirts with alot of girls but i dont know. like i only have him in one class and that is 7th hour. he flirts with me alot in there but id ont know if he likes me. im not shy around him or anything. but i comment him on myspace saying hey but he never accepts it. he accepts other people but not mine. i dont know why. maybe i never hit the post button but i really did. ughh. idk what to do. i really like him. i dont have his phone number so i cant text him. tell me some advice on what to do. like how to get his number without asking it because that would be akward and how to get him to talk to me and i just want to find out if he likes me or not. ill rate 5 no madder what if you give me advice(: (link)
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well, first off he sounds like a player to me. if he flirts with a lot of girls, including you. second, you'd wanna ask him for his number. it would be way more awkward to randomly text him one day and be all "hey! yeah, i'm (so and so), and we have (such and such) together. i got your number from (so and so)...so whats up?" just try to kind of maneuver it out of him without seeming to weird. like "so i'd like to talk to you sometime, but my internet doesnt really work right now, could i have your number?"
i dont know why he wont accept your comments, and its hard to tell if he likes you, as you've said. so just talk to him in person if you ever get the chance.
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