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did he lose interest in me already?
)Ok, heres the story... I work with this guy at a restaurant. we have known eachother for 3 years now and have been friends ever since. Until recently, he showed interest in me. I have always been some what aware of him developing a crush on me over the past few months but i never acted on it.. I myself, have had feelings for him for a long time so hearing of this news pleased me. we started dating and hanging out.. he introduced me to his parents, took me to a fancy dinner, and slept over just to cuddle with me.. its been about a month now and something has changed in him, for example.. he doesnt call as much.. used to text me goodnight all the time and now i dont hear from him.. used to ask me to hang out more, and was a gentleman. Now, its like he lost interest.. he told me that he was looking for a relationship and that i was the perfect girl for him. he told people at wrk that we were dating and he seemed proud of it. now every time we hang out, its like we're friends again except we kiss.. it used to be special and exciting at first. i felt that he was super interested and now im not sure.. is this just in my head or is something up? what should i do? how do i react when i get no reply from him?
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after a relationship goes on for a while, the other person gets used to having you around and you may feel a little let down. when the relationship is fresh, they'll be trying to please you and treat you special. rest assured, he hasn't lost interest. he's just more used to you now and doesnt feel like he needs to bend over backwards to be the perfect boyfriend. try telling him how you feel, and he'll probably say something along the lines of what i just told you. :)
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Give him a chance he could be busy if you don't hear anything from him i'd confront him about it and ask if he'd like to hang out with you maybe then he'd tell you why he's been acting different
you and him kissing is a advantage i don't think he lost interest in you if you don't get a reply from him then i'd still try and talk to him and see what's up i don't think he'd abandon you seeing as you've been through some things together :)
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