Okay so my sister lost her virginity last year, she said she bled alot, and it was big, and it hurt sooo much, she almost cried. well last night she went to her boyfriend's house and they were going to sleep together, well he got like half way in, and his was bigger so it hurt so much more, she started crying and made him go out, we know she may be tight, but is there anything else that could be wrong with her?
laynemayhem answered Thursday November 5 2009, 7:05 pm: tightness is an issue, and on top of that, every girl is different. it hurt me my first 4 or 5 times...and this one girl i know said it hurt her first 15 times.
plus, how often you do it is an issue, as well. if you have sex one day, and then do it again a few weeks later, your vagina will have closed a bit again, causing it to most likely hurt again.
tell her to try stretching to exorcise the tissue down there. and also, if hes using a condom, get a lubricant that is safe on condoms so it goes in easier. she needs to make sure shes plenty moist down there, or it will hurt, especially if hes dry. [ laynemayhem's advice column | Ask laynemayhem A Question ]
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