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is it true that if you run away and leave a note saying that you went with some1 that the police cant come looking for you?
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no thats not true and why are you running away is it over something serious.
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i recently asked a question about what to do about a girl named B asking my boyfriend out .. well now one of her friends is saying that my boyfriend and B hookedup .. i dont know what to do .. if anyone has any idea just please write back and i will give u my screenname and i will send u the message the girl sent me PLEASS PLEASE!! (link)
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is b a b..lol. sorry. id ask him. but if its true i think you need to get a new boyfriend. if he cheated on you hes not worth it
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my boyfriends in jail and we don't know when he'll get out yet it could be anytime from this week til january.i miss him and he got arrested halloween night. lately he's been telling me he expects me to cheat on him although i won't but he expects me to since i'm in the real world and he's in jail. and i told him i won't and i really won't and we don't love eachother. but lately i feel like he doesn't wanna be with me ut im scared to bring it up while we're talking on the phone. i aslso don't know how to bring i up. i need some help with how to start the subject please. (link)
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dis regard this because i read the question wrong
if you dont want to be with him dont be with him and dont let your fears blind you. just tell him say hey i dont think we should be togeather. what more can you say. i understand hes in jail but he put his self there not you so its not your fault and you have nothing to feel guilty over. if something happens afterwards to worsen his situation its still not your fault
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ok so i was drunk at my friends house and so was her brothers friend...we will just call him trav... and we were flirting all night until i went to talk to my friend. she said that she was really protective of him but i just left and when i got inside trav grabbed me and kissed me, several times. we have been talking ever since but my friend doesnt want us to be together because she is protective of him. We want tobe together but neither of us wants to hurt her. and she doesnt like him. What should i do? (link)
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im sorry but its really none of your friends business if you two go out or not. you dont have to get her aproval if you guys want to go out go out and exactly why does he need protecting? your friend will have to get over it because she has no control over either of you
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I found out that my brother smoked pot and I saw that he kept doing it so I told my mom (who doesn't believe me) but now my brother is being a jerk when all I wanted to do was help him what should I do?
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im just going to tell you straight forward ive been around many drug addicted people and its never pretty. just because alot of people do it doesnt mean its ok. i dont know if your brothers dangerous or not but drugs can change people to bad you dont know where he keeps it because then you could secretly show it to your mom. what i dont understand is why your mom wouldnt believe you. maybe you could get him some flyers for getting off drugs seminars or counseling. if he gets alittle bent out of shape then hell get over it. if hes big enough to do drugs then hes big enough to accept the consequences and if your going to push this any further youll have to accept that your brother will be mad at you. hes in the wrong not you but if you do do anything more you will also have to be able to handle and accept the consequences that come to you as wel even though your in the right.
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I know that this is immoral. I also know that this question will make me sound like a selfish, spoilt brat.
I have a consciense, I have a personal faith and I may or may not act on the information you give me.
It's taken me alot of wrangling with myself to even ask this question:
What is the best way to break up a new relationship between a pair of sixteen yearolds without spreading malicious gossip.
Gentle and subtle is what I'm going for here.
I like them both but I can't let this happen because if I don't tell him how I feel I might never see him again after this coming July. I can't tell him while he's going out with her.
Thankyou for any advice you can give me. It's much appreciated.
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ok you have no right to break up any relationship. if the person wanted to be with you then he would. how would you like it if someone did that to you.
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Okay..I Like dis Guy But he dated my friend and my sisters bestfriend and he broke up with her lastnight at the club or whatever so we danced and you know how you get that stupid feeling and that stupid look in your eyes and you all just kiss? well that happened to me but we didnt kiss i told him he dated my friend. and i mean i relly like dis guy but friends are better than any guy but i dunno i mean i like him what do i do? (link)
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just give him a chance. it doesnt matter who he dated i mean what did they lift there leg and mark their territory..no. date him if you like him if you dont end up hiting it off the break up with him. you have a right to be happy.
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I am 26 years old female...My boyfriend is a great guy the best boyfriend ever when he is SOBER....when he drinks hes a different person...hes mean to me and throws me around when i dont wanna deal with him....he has never hit me but he gets real rough with me and hits the door or will smash something...I'm scared i dont know what to do...he always says im the mean one or i hurt him but when hes on top of me i have to push him away he pins me down...i have talked to him about this but i really dont know what to do...i just got a place with him just 3 months ago and now i feel trapped...what should i do...does this happen to anyone else...how can i help him? (link)
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first of all even though you feel trapped your not you have the power to walk out that door and leave him. dont feel trapped because hell use that against you if youve already talked to him about it and hes not changing then he never will. when he tells you you hurt him thats his way of trying to make you feel like the bad guuy but your not so dont fall for it. i grew up with an alcoholic dad and i know how they work. just get out of the relationship maybe you can stay with a friend or relative if your scared to confront him about leaving then wait until hes not home for a while pack upm all of your possesions but dont tell anyone what your going to do unless they are helping you do this. i say dont tell people about leaving him until afterwards because someone might tell him and he could suprise you. if he trys to win you back and says hell change dont buy into it because honest to god thats what they all say and if he hasnt already then he wont get out now and fast. i mean it.
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well i have a crush on this boy and i like him alot hes always flurting with me and playin around with me all my friends know i like him and say he likes me back. so i was going to talk to him but then i found out some one had areaddy told him that i liked him which didnt matter cause he would still flurt with me. Untill i tryed to talk to him about it i was in the hall and i went up to him and told him i needed to talk to him we said he couldnt talk cuz he had to go to class and to tell him the nextday (today) well all day he stayed away from me he didnt even want to cach my eye and to day we had a homecomeing pep rally and someone told me that he has been tell him all his friends that i like him that now thats making me really mad and i want to talk to him even more but if when i wanted to talk to him he ran away im scerd that if i try again that it will make this worce (link)
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maybe hes nervous some people get like that because there afraid of the confrontation even when they know theres nothing to worry about just give him a little time.
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well me and this boy were getting pretty close and i let him kiss me like with tongue. And so one of his friends told him i have a boyfriend and i dont but he wont tlk to me wat do i do (link)
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i think you should falt out confront the person who told him that. then you should confront him about it and if he wont hear you out then hes not worth it.
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There is this guy that I like,he says he likes me too, but the one time i hung out with him he was kinda tipsy, and the second time he WANTED to hang out he was totally drunk so I didn't. but he says he doesn't usually do stuff like that. but I dont know.. should I just forget it...? [btw,I don't drink]
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if you seen him drunk or tipsy more then once then he usually does do that kind of stuff..yes you should forget about it..see the big picture.
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Before anyone gets upset, I only want to boost my metabolism and thats all I expect out of diet pills. I excersize regularly and eat all day long (healthy, whole foods) and keep it down! My only problem is I have a slow metabolism and I'm looking for the healthiest and most effective way to speed it up. I'm curious about things like Stackers and Farenheit, I know they can be addictive, but, if used properly, could they honestly help? If even just a little? If not, what can? (link)
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dont get discouraged by the first sentance. its always better when it come to your body to be natural. pills like stackers and other things will have you hopping around like a rabbit and make you jittery even if you take them in moderation. ive known many people whove tried them. the best thing to do is to stay active. But if your looking for ways to burn calories then adding celery and lettuce to you regular diet and water based foods as well will help with that. so will staying active.
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How can I have confidence...because i want to be able to talk in front of my class and do all the stuff and go t the mall without worrying waat ppl think about me.......my question is How Can i get Confidence????? (link)
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theres a line in a guns n roses song that i like to think about when i feel like that."what does it matter to you?when you got a job to do, you got to do it well. you got to give the other fella hell."-live and let die.
you just need to realize that all these people that your worried about are just people like you. they have just as many weakneses and flaws. your only human.no ones above or below you so just do what you gotta do and dont worry about it.
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hi, well the other day i saw this video on how they kill animals for human consumtion, and i decided to turn vegetarian after seeing it. any tips for me on going about this? and are there any alternatives to meat?because i love my meat (link)
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there are lots of vegetarian soy meat.that arent actual meat just soy imitations of meat. soy burgers soy sausage. e.t.c
not to discourage you but if we didnt kill animals for food then they would over populate and spread disease and not only die but also open up new diseases for humans to contract.but its your choice there are how ever other ways to save the world.
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Judi my friend. is avoiding me. I don't know why. What do I do?
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ask her. she might not even see that shes avoiding you.
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hey iam 17 and in the 11th grade and there's this girl at school who's constantly picking on me she's always picking on me about my clothes and i havn't talked to her about it yet and I don't know what to do iam sick of what should I do please help me? (link)
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dont blow up on the girl because she is weaker then you. thats why she has to result to petty things like that. dont worry about her because as you live your life she wont even matter. shes just another person just like you. she has no authority over you. so dont let it bother you. dont fear her either. if you cant help it think of why its bothering you so much. then rationalize it. who is she but a person. shes not above anyone including yourself. so pretend that shes invicible. i want to say something else but im not sure of profanity policy here so ill say forget her and you can probably guess what i really meant to put instead of forget. if you really feel the need to confront her just straight out ask her without losing your temper keep calm and just ask what is your problem. if she give you an insult or snotty response then that tells you what her brain is capable of. not much. but dont lower your self and name call her. its just highschool and after you graduate youll realize that the things that seem like big deals now wont mean any thing. after you graduate you probably wont even see her if you can even remember her clearly.
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before i begin i would like to say soory for spelling mistakes i cant really think straight at the moment
my friend hannah is the shyest person you could ever meet.i have known her my whole entire life but yet she still holds back her real feelings and or thoughts.I am her bestfriend she only has one other friend besides me because her shyness makes it hard to meet new people.Her other friend is not reallly there for her emotionally.her mom has cancer right now stage 4 and is in the hospital because she was/is pucking up blood her mom has not known she has had cancer for long so it has come as a huge shock hannah has no one else in her family she doesnt/isnt ready for her mom to die i have this horrible feeling she will soon and hannah has not even really said goodbye.I always tell hannah that i am here for her but the fact is in the past year i have changed and that scares hannah i have recently moved back where she lives so i think that helps but how can i help her should i wait for her to bring it up or what if i do wait i am afraid she wont because she will think i dont want to talk about it (link)
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dont bring it up directly to her just let her know that your there for her nomatter what. tell her straight forward if she wants or needs to talk with you about her mom she can. your her best friend so it shouldnt feel weird telling her that.
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I broke up with my bf of nearly 4 years about 3 months ago. He was emotionally and mentally abusive to me. I had been in councelling for a while and I thought I had nearly got over him. Well yesterday I decided to sign up for a dating site. I actually received about 4 responses to my profile. Instead of contacting these guys that wrote me; I got freaked out and deleted my profile. Does anyone know what is wrong with me? (link)
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theres nothing wrong with you unless your subconsciously afraid of your ex. what ever you do dont go back with him. it might take a little bit to readjust to normality. 4 years is along time to put up with bullcrap.i cant believe you lasted that long with him. meeting people online really isnt safe anyways so its probaly better you deleted your profile. you should try meeting people in the real world.
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i have this really good friend. we always used to do everything together and everyone knew we were like the best of friends. ever since this year started she always hangs out with other people and never me. i talked to her about it and she said she still likes me and everything but she just doesn't get it at all. i miss hanging out with her but she obviously doesnt miss hanging out with me, and sometimes i feel like she doesnt even care about me...well it doesnt seem like it...should i try to get her back ? how? or should i forget about her? and how? (link)
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she doesnt get what at all anywaysjust make some more friends or spend time with others it doesnt mean you guys have to quit being best friends just look at it as your chance to branch out
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One of my guy friends likes me...alot. and i like him too but i think it would be strange going out. and he might ask me soon. blahh. (link)
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if he likes you and you like him then go out if it doesnt work out im sure youll still be friends
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