bitterxsweet answered Saturday September 2 2006, 8:45 pm: hey i kno what you mean. my best guy friend liked me and i liked him too and he wanted to ask me out for a while but i thought it would be weird goin out and i didnt wanna ruin the friendship or anything, so i made it clear that i wanted to stay single for a while. but i decided that i might as well give it a shot.. so i ended up askin HIM out, and honestly, its the BEST relationship ive ever been in and were both crazy about each other. so i think you should give it a shot, but just tell him that if anything happens, he still means a lot to you as a friend and you dont want to lose that. good luck! [ bitterxsweet's advice column | Ask bitterxsweet A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Saturday September 2 2006, 1:13 am: Well, you said you THINK it would be weird going out. Just whenever he asks you out, talk to him about it. Just be like,"____, I do really like you and I would love to go out with you, it's just I'm afraid since we've been friends for awhile if we start dating it might become weird. Can we just make a promise if we ever do break up, we'll stay friends? Because I don't want to lose that." So even if you do feel weirded out by dating him, you can always just explain it to him and try and just go back to being friends. But at least give it a chance, you never know. It might not feel weird at all, and you could be missing out on an awseome boyfriend. I hope I helped. [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
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