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I'm a med student, so health related questions I can usually answer pretty well. I also like to think I'm somewhat decent at giving advice. I can also give you an honest opinion.




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I've been trying to masturbate lately, but not having much success. I was given some good advice to look up techniques online, which I would like to do. However I'm afraid that my parents will look at my internet history and be angry. I've heard had an encounter with them looking at my history before, but something makes me nervous about it. Is it wrong to be researching for that sort of thing? My parents aren't overly religious or extremely strict. But I do know they both expect me to wait to have sex until marriage, but I don't think that ties into masturbating because its not "giving myself" away too soon, or putting me at risk of STDs and pregnancy.

Also, I was wondering if anyone had some website suggestions for this sort of thing?

Thanks in advance!

if you wanna look it up and not worry about them seeing it, you can just go to "view" on the top of your computer then "explorer bar" then "history" and you can right click the URL on the side and click delete. it's not really wrong, if you want to do it then go for it, it's your body so it's all up to you.

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Definition of love?
How do you know when you are in love with somebody?

the definition of love is different for everyone.
alls i can tell ya is if you've been with a person for a long time and you still get that impossible to describe "feeling" everytime you're with them, its love.

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I like this guy, and it turned out that he likes me too, but I found out from my friends, and I didn't believe it. Also he's the shy type so we never talk, its been a while and I think that he dosen't like me anymore, But I want to give him a hint that I still like him. What should I do!

you should start talking to him. smiling alot and complimenting him will do it. if he smiles and flirts back, you'll know ;)

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this dude i use 2 go with our relationship was on and off u knw but we still have sex and he nuts inside me but he told me that he cant have kids what should i do bout it

tell him not to "nut" inside you, or pull out and wear a condom, or else he'll most likely end up with kids.


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i don't care if you rate me a one, i'll get over it. but that's what you do to lower the chances of getting pregnant, or just stop having sex with him. i didn't know exactly what you were asking, unless he doesn't want to have kids and you do?

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What's that song at the start of Kingdom Hearts One?

Thanks.
xx

Simple And Clean - Utada Hikaru

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I read an article recently suggesting that lucid dreaming can help someone suffering from nightmares cope. Is there anything you can do to encourage lucid dreaming in yourself? I had a nightmare about a week ago in which I realized what was happening couldn't be happening, and then the dream took a sudden turn for the better. Does that sound like a lucid dream?

it possibly sounds like it.
i'm taking psychology this year and the steps i learned to catch or lucid dream are:
1. remind yourself throughout the day that you're going to catc/lucid dream.
2. remind yourself again before you go to bed
3. keep a pen/paper beside you and when you wake up write down your dream.

just keep doing this and soon enough you'll be able to control your dreams pretty much all of the time, it worked on me :)

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ok so i like it when guys kiss me neck when we makeout and i got a new boyfriend how do i get him to kiss my neck without telling him to?

try kissing his neck first then he will probably try it on you. or you can hint it like when you guys are watching a movie and the guys kissing the girls neck you can say something like "i love when guys do that"

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Well on my Palm Centro, i was texting my boyfriend, and he doesnt get any messages from me. Then he said he was trying to text me, but i never got one message. And its just the same with everyone else that i text or that text me. But then i noticed that where my bars are of how much service i have, theres this wierd triangular shape above it? anyone know whats wrong with my phone? HELP!

this happens to my phone sometimes. the weird triangular shape i think is suppose to be there so its fine. try shutting the phone off, taking out the battery then putting it back in and turning on your phone.

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please canu give me advice how do i give my boyfriend head ?

i've never done it before so i don't really have experience sorry. alls i can tell you is to just treat it like a handjob only with your mouth. and obviously don't use your teeth. i'm sure once your in the moment you can get creative ;) haha.

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ok yu gave me good advice before about my summer crush issue so im going to ask you another question.
ok so im 13/f and im in 7th grade. im really good friends with this eighth grader named jake and i have this HUGE crush on him. like a huge crush. should i flirt with him or not?
im kinda confused and i dont want to freak him out.
thankss

sure, go for it. just make sure you don't over-do it. let him say something to you first and make hints that you like him without making it too obvious. smiling, laughing at his jokes, and complimenting him is your best bet. don't act act clingy or dumb because you'll probably freak him out a bit. hope it goes well :)

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kso,
im 13/f, and i have some acne
i've tryed everyhting
proactive, nutrigina, prescribed medication.
but nothing seems too work.

i want to know how i can get rid of my acne in time for grad.

plase help me

i've gone through alot of acne medicine too, proactive, nutriginia, acne creams and pills- you name it.. and honestly, what did it for me was clean & clear continuous ance clenser. it's purple and you can get it at any drugstore. sometimes the simpliest things work best.

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I need some unique ideas on ways to ask a girl to prom! Please help ASAP!

i know a guy that decorated her parking spot and wrote in chalk "will you go to prom with me?" and decorated it with flowers and stuff, i thought it was really cute :)

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Hey, i want to get my cartilage pierced...

On my left ear, i have 2 holes on my lobe
On my right ear, i have 3 holes on my lobe

which ear should i get the cartilage done on? and also...does it hurt? because i barely even felt the piercing on my lobe so yeah...THANK YOU

this probably isn't what you want to hear but yeah mine hurt and it was a pain to sleep for the healing process without laying on it, but i got mine done at an ear piercing place so i recommend that you go to a piercing/tattoo place to get it done because they do a better job. oh and i would go with the left ear :)

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i like being there for my friends, ill try to listen and give advice when my friends are in trouble. but the thing is im not good at advice because im more of a listener so its not really helping my friends so i feel really bad when it wont solve their problem,people say i dont need to fix their problem i know that, but i wanna at least know what to say when they're in trouble how can i be better at giving advices?

advice on how to give advice? haha nice. well you can practice answering questions on here :) and i find it better to go home and think about the situation after a friend tells me the problem so i can give them the best possible advice i can think of, instead of just saying the first thing that comes to mind. try putting yourself in their situation and thinking of what YOU would do.

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i have this boy in my class and he likes me but not my friend and wont go out with me until shes not my friend any more. I am 15 and female. U.S.A.

well did you ask him why he won't go out with you until you break off the friendship with her? you need to ask yourself what you want more, to keep the friendship, or have him as a boyfriend. honestly, if she's a good friend and he has a bad reason to dislike her, then he's not worth it.

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Last year at this summer camp i go to (im 13/f) i fell for this coach at my camp. obviously i couldnt get up the guts to talk to him. but i made it pretty obvious that i liked him. when he smiled around me i collapsed once. anyways the last week of camp it was really awkward around him. i mean REALLY baddddd. i have to go back this year and since its been awhile since we've even seen each other im afraid it'll be worse.

any suggestions on how to deal with this ??


just be chill with it :) say things like "hey it's been awhile, how've you been?", the best way to not make things awkward is to be talkative and friendly. being quiet just makes everything an awkward mystery. have funn :)

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Okay. Here is the deal.

I am currently a sophomore. Last year I took chemistry, this year I am taking biology.

Next year and the year after that I have to choose between AP Bio, AP Environmental Science, AP Physics, Environmental Science and Physics. I can take two of them. I have not taken a physics class because we tok physics in 8th grade and that doesn't count and apparently you need physics for colleges and I don't know what to do...

WHICH ONES SHOULD I TAKE? I want to take AP Bio next year but I don't know what to do after that or should I even take AP Bio? I feel like the transition will be better


I want to be an orthodontist or dentist!! =D

i think the best thing would be AP bio. i'm planning on going into the medical field and i know that biology's a major course you need to have experience with. good luck getting into college! :)

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Mkay..
Well i dont know if this is in the right catagory but i need help.!

Mkay..
my hair has been greesy alot..
like i would wait a week to wash it and the next two days its greesy again..
like i take a shower everynight like wash my body but i heard that the longer you wait the longer it will not get greesy!
like my sister and my moms hair is just normal i never see theirs greesy but its really starting to get on my nerves..


please help me!
(:

i wash my hair every day just because i'm a clean freak haha and my hair has never been greasy so try washing it every day or at least every other day. and if you're looking to try a new shampoo/conditioner, aussie is my fav :)

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When does summer start? I know it offically start the 21st of June but when do most schools get out for summer break?

yeah it depends where you live but in new england most schools get out beginning-mid june. my last day is june 17th :)

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Hi all, I want to first say thankyou so much for reading this, and I'd just like to hear your opinions, personal experiences, etc. I know this may be a little awkward, so sorry! I'm usually not this open about my personal life but I need advice and words of other people.

Okay, I'm 16/f and my boyfriend is 15/m. We are in the same grade and have been happily dating for 7 months.

Well, recently my boyfriend has been getting a little frisky when we're together. However, I have yet to expose myself to him because of some feeling I've been having:

A.) I feel like that when I do expose myself to him (removing my bra, etc..), I'll have lost a part of my innocence. I know that when he starts getting frisky, I tell him to wait, and he really respects that and says okay (we're both "goodie goodies", if you will lol) and I am so beyond thankful for that. But obviously I know that he won't wait forever, but I know that feeling of my losing innocence will still linger. I don't know why I feel this way, I mean, I care for him beyond belief, I'd risk my life to save his. I'm not ashamed of my body, I guess maybe it's because I'm afraid of what he'll think? I'm not sure, have any girls ever had this feeling before?

B.) I'm not IN love with him, or I don't believe I am, but I do love him as a person and a boyfriend and I know he likes me so much (I asked him how much he liked me and he responded "to the moon and back" so I took that as a very good sign), however, we still haven't told each other that we have love for one another. I really want him to say it, because I can't just fully unclothe myself to someone who doesn't feel the way I feel about them. I'm a pretty moral person, and that'd be 100% going againt what I believe. So what should I do to try and provoke him to say it? Should I ask him? I don't want him to say it if he doesn't mean it, but I just want to know before I do anything with him. He's a really really good kid, as am I, but this is our first real relationship and I just would like the aspects of other people.

Thank you soooo much in advance! This truly means a lot to me, so thank you for taking the time to read it :)

well let me start off with i'm your age, my boyfriends a good guy like you said yours was, and i'm alot like you with the morals and goodie-two shoes haha. i've been in your A situation before, just a few months ago where i felt weird about exposing myself to him but let me tell you, i felt so much more comfortable when the lights were really dim (or out) cause then you can't see every detail you know? and i felt like i was losing my innocence but once you actually get in the moment, and you're in love with the guy, its actually amazing :)

for part B, just to be sure, i wouldn't do anything with him until he says he's in love with you or something of that matter because when you're doing things with him and you know he's in love with you, it makes it soo much better. i wouldn't ask him if he loves you, but maybe throw in some hints (like when you're watching a romantic movie or you can be like aww he really loves her) stuff like that you know?

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