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is it ok to try new ways to masturbate? I am having trouble reaching orgasm now. :(
I've been trying to masturbate lately, but not having much success. I was given some good advice to look up techniques online, which I would like to do. However I'm afraid that my parents will look at my internet history and be angry. I've heard had an encounter with them looking at my history before, but something makes me nervous about it. Is it wrong to be researching for that sort of thing? My parents aren't overly religious or extremely strict. But I do know they both expect me to wait to have sex until marriage, but I don't think that ties into masturbating because its not "giving myself" away too soon, or putting me at risk of STDs and pregnancy.
Also, I was wondering if anyone had some website suggestions for this sort of thing?
Thanks in advance!
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i don't know your parents to know how religious they are. my guess from how you speak is they want a few things. they don't want you pregnant at too early of an age. they also would want you to know that you're special and that you shouldn't throw away your virginity. i don't think that's necessarily a religious belief. they just want the best for you. your first time should be special and you shouldn't regret losing it. i would assume that your parents would assume that you will masturbate. it's very much assumed that boys will. your parents can't be from the stone age. i'm sure they know you will reach a time where you are curious and have desires. it could be awkward for your parents to find out that you were on a site like that. i'd say to just use a proxy site. there are tons of them. most people will use them to go onto myspace and similar sites from school. but what would show up in the history would be the proxy site and not the actual tip site. i think it would save both you and your family some grief. all you'd have to do is go on the proxy site, put in google, then once on google look for what you want. moms are normally better at handling this stuff than fathers so if worse came to worse you could have a talk with her and just let her know you are at this stage.
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i believe that masturbation is a great way to please yourself expecially since your waiting to have sex. its not actual sex its just a way to help you keep your abstinence. it it not putting you at risk of std's but make sure your the only one doing that to yourself. if you have any kind of sex like anal, oral, etc. that can give you std's so be careful. i dont have exact websites but on google just look up anything any wording something would come up.
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if you wanna look it up and not worry about them seeing it, you can just go to "view" on the top of your computer then "explorer bar" then "history" and you can right click the URL on the side and click delete. it's not really wrong, if you want to do it then go for it, it's your body so it's all up to you.
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Go to this site [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
That won't look bad on your history and it has
a lot of good things on it. Look it over while you are there. If parents question you tell them you
were looking something up from one of the hundreds of other topics.
Click on sex & it will take you to a page where
there is a list of things. Masturbation is a few
topics up from the bottom. Click on the blue lettering that is for women and it will take you
to a "how to masturbate for women" page.
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