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I'm a fourteen year old girl looking to help you people out. Leave me questions and i can try my best to answer them.

I love the Redsox. they make me so happy. lol

Ok, i'm not into that whole bf/gf thing, so unless you really like me or something weird like that, don't ask me those stupid does he like me questions. i can almost garentee you're not going to like your answer.

i'm a little crazy, but for the most part, i'm not going to screw with you guys like with jokes when it comes to advice.
Gender: Female
Location: Boston Ma.
Occupation: Writer Looking to be published
Age: 14
AIM: Tucanfullofholes
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My romantic life has really slowed down in the past couple of months, and I'm having troble meeting guys. Does anyone have any creative places where they have met guys? What's the best way to walk up to a guy and get into conversation? (link)
A bar. A singles club. Dance Clubs. Baseball games. Parks. blah blah blah


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Go to your doctor if you think its even an opption. Don't wait.


I don't really know which category my question will fall under. Does anyone know a good sunscreen for your face that you can wear everyday and it wont feel greasy, oily, shiny, or sticky? Thank you!! (link)
Coppertone. I know, my family does all that skin cancer protection stuff.


Well see I have been working on a book lately and I want it to get published . But I also want my publisher to manufactor the book so I can make money off of its profit . I tried asking morris publishing but they don't do this . Help me . Thanks . (link)
Get an agent. They'll know what to do.


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Everyone says I would make a great model and they say I have all of the perfect features for it..where can I get some info. on this? Thanks! Oh, and by the way..I am a 14 year-old gurl..if this helps at all=) (link)
Look in those little ads in the back of magazines where it says modling agencies.


I need help..fast. My dad told me last night that he hates me and he doesnt care if he ever sees me again..but then now my parents wont let me go anywhere! I want to go with my aunt for a couple days because she invited me there so I could get out of here. But they just wont let me leave! I've been crying forever, I'm thinking about running away..but then..mostly I'm thinking of just ending my life. I've cut before..4 times..and I've taken a knife to my throat and almost cut..but now I'm seriously just thinking of ending it all. Anyone..just please help me!

I have aim if you want to talk on there..MaDaBoUtMaTt07 (link)
Alright, DO NOT KILL YOURSELF! Thats not an opption.


okay, this mite be weird, especially cuz i can't think of all the lyrics and i mite get them messed up, but does ne1 kno this song..

what would u do if ur son was lyin at home all alone cuz he's hungry, and the only way to feed him is to....

im pretty sure i messed up the lyrics, but it's just been drivin me CRAZY!! thanks in advance!! (link)
sleep with a man for a little bit of money, and his daddy's gone . . .

I'm pretty sure its called What would you do!


my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP (link)
Don't do it if it makes you uncomfortable. Forget him if hes putting that kind of pressure on you. Thats just wrong. Thats how a girl gets into trouble.


this year im totally changeing.. im wearing more make up and way more PiNkK.. but does n e one think that i will be made fun of bec im changeing.. thanx i rate (link)
why would you want to change who you are? If i was your friend before you decided to change, i would definately make fun of you. Sorry, but why should you have to change? Your friends loved you for who you where, you don't need to change.


Shew...And I Thought I Was The Only One With Problems Lol!.*=) Some People Tell You That You Can't Fall In Love In A Month!! Message Me Back And Tell Me If You Think That People Can Fall In Love In A Month I Think So..
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*.x-I.Love.Aaron!-x.* (link)
Yes you can, its hard, but if the guy is EXTRA amazing then absolutely.


hey heres my problem...whenever i shave my bikini line i get lots of red bumps every where around the area i shaved, someone told me there ingrown hairs, but what can i do about it? I dont want laser hair removal and i really dont want to go get it waxed. Does anybody have any little tricks they want to share so i dont get these little red bumps? (link)
Nair. It smells REALLY bad, but its worth it.


Im not actually that big... im 5'3 - 5'4 about 135-140 pounds with musclular legs. I just need to loose some waist and thigh fat.

Is there any simple exercises I can do to loose inches in these areas?? (link)
RUNNING!


I, like most people, have a complicated relationship with an ex. We dated in college, split up for a while, then got back together, then split up again, etc. for a grand total of ten years of my dating life. Even though I really truly don't want to get back together with him, I can't seem to stop thinking about him. How do I get over it? (link)
A pint of ben and jerries icecream and a ton of romance movies.


okay i love singing and i sing alot... i think i have a good voice.. and so do most of my friends.. i dunno if i should risk it and try out for a talent show. or sing at a party.. im worried ill mess up>... should i risk it.. or just sing when im just with me and my best budies? (link)
Well, start slow. sing in places where no one knows you, so if you do mess up, who cares because no one knows who you are! Then move up to singing at parties. Save the talent show for last.

Risk it! Life is worth the Risk!


okay i went to this camp acouple weeks ago, and met this totallly awesome guy. we ended up liking eachother. we kept in touch for acouple 2 weeks after camp. but then i went away for another week, and when i came back we just never talked. its okay with me. im way into the "play hard to get" thing. but he finally texted me acouple nights ago. then he IMed me on aim the next day. and theres a church festival tomorrow that we are both going to [we goto the same church]...and i dont know how to make it obvious that im still interested cause im sooo used to not being tha one who makes the hints, etc cause i ALWAYS play hard to get...help =] (link)
FLIRT!!!!

Be the biggest flirt in the whole world. Play with his hair, and hold his hand and stuff. Like i said, flirt uncontrolably.


hey, im 14 (gunna be 15 in February) and i dont have my period...i know u can get it as late as 16 and not to worry but i have boobs and im pretty developed, could there be anyother reason thats harmful for not getting your period, like having a disease or something? pleas help...ill rate ya good!!! thx (link)
Be happy you don't have it yet. I got mine in the fifth grade and it sucks!

Umm, nope probably not. Hell, you might not have any eggs, but your probably about to get it like tomarrow or something. I'm a little older than you, and plenty of my friends haven't gotten theirs yet.


I had sex 5 days ago, and im still bleeding from it. at first i thought maybe it was just my period, so i treated it as that. my period only lasts for 4 days, so i dont think its that.

Is there something i could have had torn during sex that would cause me to bleed this long? (link)
See your doctor, especially if it continues. It might just be an irregular period.


hey im haveing trouble with my boyfriend me and him keep fighting and hes like he loves me but then fights with me can u help me out ?

~diamond~ 17 (link)
find a common ground between the two of you.


do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks

~*a*M*y~ (link)
No, i've done it before, its not a great idea. You don't know if thats really his picture or if he just found it on the internet one day. YOU should really meet this guy before you date him online.


my foster kitten is a biter! ahh!! he does not know what to do with himself if he is not biting something..including me! What can i do to stop him from doing this? (link)
You have a foster kitten? any way,

Love him. Pet him, feed him and love him




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