15/f
lately ive been having these weird thoughts, i dont know if it means anything or what but please help and leave your opinion!
-sometimes when im holding a sharp knife and my someones around i think about what would happen if i stabbed them! NOT TAHT I WOULD! I PROMISE it just crosses my mind!
-im on a second story floor, and look down and wonder what would happen if i just hopped over and jumped!I WASNT CONSIDERING IT (oh yea this is when i realized maybe i was becoming suicidal?)
-i was holding my dog and thought what if i dropped him down the stairs(PROMISE I WOUDLNT!!I KNOW IT SOUNDS CRAZY)
-a kid was standing near by me and i wondered what would happen if i grabbed him and ran
OKAY I PROMISE I WASNT CONSIDERING ANY OF THIS IT JUST CROSSED MY MIND AND I DONT KNOW WHY I EVEN THOUGHT OF IT IN THE FIRST PLACE
-even though i wasnt considering any of this i just wanted to know if you think it will effect me in the long run.
pleasepleaseplease any advice is helpful! and maybe if you think its physological problems ask me any questions i really need help on this! please and thankyou soo much!
Well, from the fact that you kept saying that you wont right after your thoughts just proves the fact that you're not suidical at all. Many people have thoughts of "what if.." questions. It's perfectly normal. If there's something that's stressing you, try to seek a friend or a parent to talk to. You're fine. :)
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my friend is really stressed and sad she said handle whats going on with her life right now what can i do or any advice to help make it feel better?
If your friend says she can handle it herself, she needs time alone. Just let her know that you're there for her. She could really use that mental note. You can try to talk to her to see what the problem is and go from there. But other than that, just let her know that you're there for her.
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I have this group of friends that dont go to my school that i love to hang out with. yesterday we all went to the park and got pretty drunk. I ended up making out with this guy for ages. He supposedly had forced this girl to have sex with him quite a while ago and that girl was really angry at me. Now shes still really angry at me for making out with him. Everyone wants to go out in a couple of days and i dont know wheter to go or not because that girl has turned a few people agaisnt me.I really like that group of people and i think this girl is blowing the whole situation out of proportion , when really its nothing. she wasnt dating this guy, infact she hates him because he 'forced' her into sex. I really dont now wheter to go out with them or to just leave that group behind ?!? help. :(
She's blowing it out of proportion and you shouldn't take that under your doing. First, I don't think you should avoid your friends because of her. She's just an obstacle in your life that you have to overcome. Just, be nice, and apologize to her and tell her you're sorry it happened and you were drunk. Tell her if you were sober, you probably wouldn't have done that. If she's still angry, then there's something else bothering her about the whole mishap. Maybe she's jealous that the guy made out with you instead... but doesn't want to blame the guy for the issue because she's attracted to him or some sort. Anyway, someone being "forced" into sex has a lot of self esteem issues, and just being forced into doing something like says a lot about her judgement and character. You know you're better than that and you know your actions were not meant to harm her. Apologize to her, and hang out with your friends.
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when we first started dating my ex gave me a little heart necklace with our names on it. we broke up about a week ago but ill be seeing him today. should i give him it back? do guys take it as an insult? like a side of me wants to keep it to remember my first love but then the other side of me wants to get over him as soon as possible...what should i do?
First, ask yourself the question. "Do you really want to give it back?" If you still want to hold onto the memories, you still can. Of course, if he asks for it back, that's another story. Other than that, I think you should keep it for memories sake. Store it somewhere where you don't see it but can always go back to it whenever you want to :)
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I am looking for a home remedy for scars...
I have a lot on my face, mostly from picking zits and picking at the scabs, therefore causing scars. they arent noticeable with make up but summer is just around the corner and i would love to be able to have people see me without make up, meaning no scars. i've tried maderma but that did not help and made my skin flaky. does any one have any home remedies? any creams? treatments from the dermatologist? ANYTHING?! i am willing to try anything. thank you!!!
Coconut oil is great too :)
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Okay, so I've got Mono. and my doctor said I can't go to school for at least the rest of the week, and I can't do gym or sports for the next TWO MONTHS! but does that include sex? Like is it safe to have sex with Mono or no?
All answers would be greatly appreciated, but please let me know if its a guess or if you know for sure.
Thank you SO much!
Yes mono is contagious so that means no sex. Isn't mono an STD? [not saying that that is how you got it because it can be transmitted virally]. But lay away from having sex and by the time the mono is over you can go back to school and live your life normal again :)
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So my friend is considered a so called "slut" just because she had sex with her boyfriend, i dont care if she did or not. But everyone is telling me she's not innocent. Am i just not looking correctly?? By the way im only 13 n a half and so is my friend.
Yeah, she might not be a "slut" but she is easy to get with. I mean, being 13 and having sex is kind of innappropriate because of the age gap. I wouldn't say she's a slut because its not like she's had sex with multiple guys already. She's your best friend and don't let other people say things to you like that.
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kso,
im 13/f, and i have some acne
i've tryed everyhting
proactive, nutrigina, prescribed medication.
but nothing seems too work.
i want to know how i can get rid of my acne in time for grad.
plase help me
Use the proactiv mask. Clean ur face and apply it at nite very thick and dont wash it off. Leave it on ALL nite.
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hi i have just started mi periods and i dont no how to tell my mum that i have started. im quite embarressed.
please help !
lots of love.....x
Tell your mom that you need to go to the store and get some "girl stuff" :) Hopefully, she understands. If your mom is very friendly about it, she'll probably tease you... like mine did. :\
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16f
I like my guy friend at school, and I'm having trouble figuring out if he likes me back or sees me as just a friend. And I don't plan on telling him that I like him right now, because I'm not ready for that. There are some signs that tell me it's possible but other things are discuraging kindof. So...
1. What are some signs that a guy likes you
2. What are some signs that show he only likes you as a friend
1. He touches your arm from time to time.
2. When you talk to him, he leans towards you.
3. His pupils dialate when he speaks to you [if he has light colored eyes]
4. He genuinely asks about you and your interests.
5. He often finds ways to talk to you no matter how small it is.
If he's just a friend...
He's just a regular dude :)
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I love my best friend, we'll name her Cassie, but she has no problem being a blabbermouth when I tell her things. I've told two of my closest friends and my cousin about how I like my guyfriend from school. Only one of those close friends goes to my school and Cassie is from another school. I promised myself that I wouldn't tell Cassie about this guy if & until I was totally sure he liked me back or if something were to happen between us (the guy does not know I like him, but it's very very possible he likes me). Cassie knew two people I used to like well and blabbed it to them. Even though this guy is someone she doesn't know I feel like if I tell her she could possibly write all over my Facebook wall about it or something like that and it'll ruin everything. I feel like I'm really getting somewhere with this guy. But I really really want to tell Cassie about him, and I feel like a liar everytime she asks "What's new in your life?" and I just say "Nothing really". I could simply avoid any issue just by not telling her but I just feel like a liar and I want to tell her about it. Also she just lost her grandpa, after losing her uncle earlier this year, and she needs good friends. Should I just tell her or wait until I'm totally sure he likes me (if that were to happen)? If you say I should, then how do I tell her without giving too many details away about him and making sure she doesn't ruin it? And don't say she's a horrible friend, you shouldn't be friends with her, if you were me you'd understand why I'm friends with her. I just feel like if I wait until something happens she'll think I've been lying to her about what's going on and she'll be mad. Sorry that this was long.
Ahh, I think you should wait and be sure. Sure, she's a good friend, and she should be able to understand when you explain to her why you didn't tell her. She probably doesn't realize what she's doing to you, and you should eventually tell her. As for the guy, see where it takes you.
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I am in 10th grade biology. I have trouble understanding it, but once someone explains it to me one on one I get it. I am looking for someone who knows biology very well who could occasionally help me with questions.
If you are out of high school I would rather just talk over email
If you are still in high school we could talk over AIM or email.
I would prefer a female, because I am a girl too and it just makes me a lot more comfortable..
Does anyone fit this profile or know of a biology help site?
I'm in AP Biology. I can help. I don't guarantee I'll be the best mentor but I'll try my best. Let me know mmkay :D
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okay well first off thanks so much if you take the time to read this...so yeah..we're in love. but i don't wanna be that annoying clingy girlfriend so can you give me an honest opinion if you think im clingy or any other advice to not be, or what to do on anything...
ok so heres my story:
i've been dating a guy for about 7 months...were both 16. we live in different towns so we see each other usually about twice a week. we spend a huge majority of the weekend together and he has a lot of friends he could be hanging out with but hes always with me..i told him he could go party with his guys but he won't i think because he thinks i would get sorta upset with him...but i understand if he needs a guys night, just like i need a girls night...i introduced him to like all of my friends and we hang out a lot but we never really hang out with his friends and i even told him that id like to, but he doesn't seem to want to...why is that? so do you think im being a bad girlfriend in any way? or any advice on anything i mentioned? thanks soo much.
Maybe there's a reason he doesn't want you around his friends. That's the way I take it. I'm sure he has true feelings for you and knows what's best for you. You should talk to him and ask him what the reason is for him not wanting to hang with his friends while talking to you. He shouldn't have a problem answering. Try that, it's the first step to finding out an answer :D
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v13/f
So I go to a private school so I have to wear a uniform. So i try to express myself by doing my hair crazy cause at school we aren’t allowed to wear dangle earrings, bracelets, ring, any shoes that aren’t sneakers, neckleces, and pretty much anything that can help express yourself. So ill wear my hair really cute and be forced to take it down or not wear it like that again. Anyway i try to express myself because i want to get the attention of the boys in my grade and especially my crushes. I do get some attention but not usually from the boys i want to notice. Their names are Mark/14, Andrew/12, Charles/12. I always get Marks attention because he likes things that stand out. But Andrew and Charles are harder to get a hold of because they are in the other class and I have no classes with Charles but have two classes everyday with Mark and Andrew. How do i get the attention of all 3 of them to go up by like 200%???
Please Help Me!!!!!!
Well, rather than just dressing the part, how about acting it. Sure you have limited classes but once they've noticed you, it wouldn't do much harm to talk to them :D make light conversation. Something's bound to happen.
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(14-f) i kno i am very self conscience wen it comes 2 being around my bf anyway and it seems like acne just makes it worse i've tried any and everything 4 acne but nothing makes it completly go away.and I just need some help,also does anyone kno of somethin i can use 4 my acne. any "home remidies"???
Hm... did you try proactiv? It's pretty good. most acne products are desgined for normal skin. If yours is oily then it would difficult. If that's your issue, try scrubbing your face with a very good facewash. Try not to use any mosturizers unless it's too dry. Proactiv has a really good face mask you can buy at Macy's. At night after washing your face, apply it really thick to your face but do NOT wash it off. Leave it on all night. It will dry out the pimples. :D
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My cat, who recently got back from the vets office, won't stop pooping on my floor. She started doing this awhile ago and all of the sudden she stopped. I took her to the vet to get fixed and now she started pooping on the floor again. I've tried the spray to kill the pet odor enzymes but it doesn't work. I've tried everything and am at my wit's end. I've got 3 litter boxes for 2 cats, I haven't changed the kind of litter she's used recently, her box is cleaned DAILY.....I'm running out of patience and ideas. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
cats are NOT stubborn. i have 6 and they are perfectly trained. give it a few days or take her to the vet. the cat probably has diarrhea from the vet.
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I wasn't sure on what to categorize this as but is making out & french kissing the same thing?
& if their not whats the difference?
It's basically the same except french kissing involves tongue.
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what does it mean to get horizontal with a guy?
to lay on top of one another
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i really wanna kiss a boy. when i do i wanna be ready so how do you kiss a boy like make out? i dont wanna be called a prude
so instructions on kissing please
?
It will happen. Browse internet sites, video sites [youtube].
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15/f
I wasn't so sure what to put this in, so yeaah. Lately, my boobs have been hurting real bad. I'm not sexually active, but my boyfriend does rub them and sometimes sucks on my nipples. They only hurt at like the bottom, closer to where its connected to my body. If I even described that right..haha. And it's kinda hard there, I don't really remember them being hard before, if they weren't. Cause I never really felt my boobs like that until they started hurting. Help? :D
Yeah, usually before your period this happens. Don't worry, once it happens, it will go away in two days or less.
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