FlaWlessMonoLith's advice column

well i like this kid i hang out with, its totally obvious. when i go camping we hang out, theres like 8 of us, and like 5 boys, and i like the one. and well i was singing a song with this other kid, and he realllyy likes me, and well it was a romantic duet, and we kissed at the end, and the kid i like acted like he didnt know it was supposed to go down like that. it was really confusing. and just incase your wondering, we were singing because we do it for events over the week and stuff..

what was the ?

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Is it normal to have a little bit of hair and many little and big bumps around the area of the nipple? The other day i thought it was an acne bump so i pinched it and some stuff came out, just a little though, but i think it was mainly blood, LOL. So someone please help me..or tell me what a normal nipple area should be like??! Thanks alot. xOxO--am

i think your infected i haven ever heard of anything like that

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i havent had sex yet what should i do?

have an orgy

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 11 months in 2 weeks. Well I dont see him as much as i used to and as much as i liked to. cuz i moved. So its hard but we manage to see eachother at least once every 2 weeks. But this has been going on sense oct. But we see eachother almost every mon. for about 10 min. cuz i run into town. Anyways he told me tonight he is a bit depressed but he wont spill why. Im his gf.. shouldnt he tell? I know its hard.. but he was there through everything for me. He also told me when he was over at his friends house he could have gotten high but when he was offered he said he kind of wanted to but didnt. He asked if i would be mad if he did. He isnt a stoner.. so.. I dont know. I know that might be like apart of him being a bit down. i dont know what to do like how to react.. its confusing i dont get why he is bottling it up inside when i always let him in on what was going on in my mind. At the end of the convo he said that he would tell me if he could. So im hoping its not that bad he cant tell someone. Should I write him a letter? like what should i say in it because i dont want to seem pushy.

tell him he can tell you anything he wants even if you wouldnt like it tell him that you will listen to him no matter what

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I never got a chance. He never game me one. For 3 years i begged for him to want me, even for one day. His name is Drew and he is a year older than me. When i was in 7th grade, and him in 8th, I fell head over heels for the cute and innocent, yet devilish boy. I never expected much from the crush, maybe a week of staring and pining for this boy. But instead I got 3 years of heartbreak, because in my heart I knew he would never want me. He has had plenty of girlfriends over the past 3 years, none of which was me. Although I have been strong over the years, last night he told me that I need to get over him because he never liked me and he never will. How do I just move on with my life? I built my world around one boy, and that one buy tore my world apart. How do I move on? I need as much advice as I can get. Please Please Please HELP ME... Love Kelsey

become a writer this sounded more like a poem than a ? asking for advice

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ok,
there is tons of girls that like me at my school and they all want to go out with me, so i need to know if i should become a "player" and go out with all of them at once or let them take turns?

let them take turns what kinda fag are you

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Well,
First off i am 13 years old and i am a girl. i just switched to cheerleading from gymnastics and i am on a coed team. There is this guy who i really like (since last week) and i see him 3 days a week. He is in 9 grade and i am in 7 grade. but tonoght (thrusday) when we had practice this senior in HS was like making out with or something and sort of flirts with me all the time!! Know since i saw them making out i can not get him off my mind! i dont know what to do! i really have like a totall crush on him but now since i saw him with the other girl i am second guessing him! i am so trying to get him off my mind that the more i think of him! i really need help and i am seeing him agian saturday! but please dont tell me that i should go up to him and tell him how i feel becuase i know i wont! and how will i be able to tell if he flirting with me?

~cOnfused abOut lOve~

a freshman will not go out with a seventh grader unless he is desprite and i would suggest that you forgethim and try your own age

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what do i do if i think my boyfriend is lying to me? PLEASE HELP ~Emma~

use one of those things that tell you when your are lying and when you are teling the truth (lie detecter)

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how do i make people laugh... how can i becomea comocal person?

read my advice

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For health class i have to pick an anti-drug..like yeah kno...sports.. my anti-drug, but i can't think of any. I don't wanna use sports cuz sum1 already has it? does any1 hav some ideas? thnx

playing guitar!!!!!!!!

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how do you get a guyy to ask you out??

you dont they ask you out on their own

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I rate high....

Well me and this guy are friends I like him and stuff well he wants to go to the movies this weekend but my mom said I cant date until im 17. I told her its just as friends but she still says no. Just because she iddnt start dating until she was 17 doesnt mean she had to do that to me. What should I do? I really realllly wanna go with him.

say you are going with some girlfriends too

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I want to get a cat 2 weeks from now. I know that I will be a responsible owner and that I'm old enough to make my own decisions (20). So even if I know that my mom wouldn't allow me to get a cat (because for her it is a "waste of time and money"), Iam getting one! by adoption..

How can I make her less mad when I surprise her with my adopted cat?

haha you are already dead i think that she will be soo pissed she will end up shooting the cat i dont like cats any ways try a puppy

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I am turning 15 in less than a month and lately ive been looking up information about female masturbation. I masturbated the 1st of march for the first time ever. Well i dont know if sticking a magic marker in your vagina is masturbating...but anyway. Today i worked up the nerve to finger myself. It felt weird. Yesterday when i first ever masturbated i thought it felt really good...and i really want to have an orgasm...i just dont know how. I'm not comfertable with large objects in my vagina, only the size of my index finger. So my first question is " How do i get an orgasm with nothing bigger than a magic marker or my finger?" and my second question is "how come the morning after the first time i masturbated i felt really sick?"
Sorry this is so long...but i really need to know. Thanks everyone.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! a magic marker im sorry but magic markers arent really magic

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ok I like this guy and he is like omg hott i went on rides with him at fairs and stuff but he said he ddoesn tlike me but wen i am flirting with other guys he us all like what are you doing to the guy i am flrting with so should I ask him out ( e is soo HOTT!) PLEASE HELP ME BI!

Ur BI!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

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okay i don't understnad when people say or its on an icon or something what dose it mean when they say its ther Anti drug?

it means thats what they do instead of drugs dont you watch tv?

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Lately I cant constritate on my school work. My grades are slipping and I hate all my teachers. One teacher really hates me and never wants to help me. My parents think I`m doing super super great and if I get a lower then a B on my report card I would get in trouble. I`m having other problems right now and school is just my last thing to worry about. We are having a huge test Thursday and if we fail this we fail the grade. By the way I`m 13/f. I need to do really good on this test and what is the best way to constratrate on studying and doing good on this test? Thanks!

i hate my teachers too they are all pregnant sluts even tho they are all like 30 and 40 lmao

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i wanna smoke some weed because it look like it can be something to try . my brother said he tryed at my age hes 19 im 13 so do I and will i be able to stop

my friend did it once and wasnt addicted to it if i were you id try it once and see how it goes but its your choice not anyone elses

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hey what are some totally awesome rock/metal/deathmetal/punk songs? i listen to music along the lines of HIM, dead kennedys, nirvana, pearl jam, rolling stones, killswitch engage, lamb of god, cradle of filth, in flames, pink floyd

i could go on and on and on IM me and ill send u a whole list of songs

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