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hey. well, school will be starting in a few weeks, and i'm kinda scared. i'm scared about my classes, the work, and people. first, my classes. i got my school inrolment packet and can't figure out my classes at all! they have them all screwed up because it looks like they are just in random order of semesters. my middle school class schedule was easy. but now i have more classes on my schedule. and i'm scared about not knowing where my where my classes are. and on my middle school schedule it told my locker number and comonation. but it doesn't tell that on the high school one. next, i'm scared about the homework. i've never really been to great at school. i mean, i get a's and b's, but i just find it really hard. and i know that the work in high school will be much harder, and i'll have more of it. and i'm sooo scared of failing. what if i don't undestand it, or don't get it in on time? i can't fail, i just can't. and then people. i hate having so many older kids in one school. and i don't want them to make fun of me. i try not to care what people think of me, but somehow i can never overcome it. and i don't want rumors or anything to be made about me. but probably out of all of those, the thing i'm scared most about is eaither finding my classes and knowing where to go, or the homework. can anyone give me tips on what i can do to overcome some of these things??? i would like advice out of all of these pleaseeee. thank you so much! (link)
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well first of all if your school has a registration or orientation they should give you a completed schedule there...or they'll mail one before school starts...if not talk to your counselor...they'll be able to help. about finding your classes...ask a teacher...they'll always point you in the right direction...don't ask a student...chances are they'll tell you wrong just to confuse you and make you late for class. You'll most likely get your locker and combination on the first day...they don't hand them out ahead of time like middle school. The homework isn't so hard freshman year...1st semester they tend to go a little easy on the freshman because they are just coming out of an easier middle school environment...but 2nd semester be prepared to work harder. about people making fun of you just try to stay out of sticky situations. It might seem hard to stay out of drama...and it's impossible to not have any at all but you can stay as drama free as possible...join lots of clubs and let people get to know the real you...they'll all have similar interests so they wont make fun of you and wont start a lot of drama...plus its a great way to make new friends...just make sure you do stuff you really like. and you can overcome rumors...high school is the time to grow up and grow out of our childish habits we had as kids...in time you'll learn to shake it off. high school is great...enjoy them...the good and the bad...in the end you'll laugh about it later.
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ok there's these 3 girls. one of them is two faced so when its just me and her we're friends but when she's around the other two shes a bitch. a long time ago one of the other girls spread a rumor about me and thats how i stopped being friends with her. the third one i'll get to in a minute. alright here's a little backround on the first two. girl number one, the two faced one has made out with 3 guys in one week and doesnt realize they don't want relationships with her because, well she's easy. the second girl has never had a boyfriend...ever but she's done everything except vaginal sex with several guys. a few months ago i gave my best guy friend a hand job because we were friends with benefits i guess. the third girl is his ex girlfriend but they're still best friends i guess. this was the first time i did anything with a guy who wasn't my boyfriend. normally i won't even kiss a guy unless im going out with them. alright so i told my best friend about it. back in february this guy also felt me up and i told one of the slutty girls about it back when we were friends. she thought i lied about it because the guy denied it so she spread this huge rumor that got around to the entire school that im a liar. i lost a lot of friends because of it, but i never lied. anyway my best friend was defending me against this slutty girl who spread the rumors and she told her that i gave this guy a hand job. of course now that got around to everyone and those three girls are telling people im a whore. how do i get called a whore for being with one guy and they're just normal for being with a ton of guys? i want to say something to them that's really going to shut them up. slowly i've been telling people the real story and getting them back on my side so i've been getting more and more friends against them but i really want to say something to them. what should i say? i want it to be harsh, witty and something that says "dont mess with me", i don't have a threatening appearance so it cant be like "im gonna kick ur a$$" because they know i wouldnt be able to do it. so help me please!!! (link)
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you cant fight fire with fire...you can only fight fire with ice...ignore them...sure they'll start rumors but the fun dies when they find that it doesn't upset you...trust me...these 2 girls at my school started a really nasty rumor about me and at first it really bothered me...people kind of exiled me...but I started ignoring it...they tried making up new stuff but I never showed that it got to me...they stopped doing it because they saw that they weren't making my life as miserable as they were hoping to...the people who left me out in the cold I realized weren't my friends to begin with or they would have stood by my side and I made all new friends who always have my back. the same will happen for you...your best friend was there for you thus proving her loyalty as a great friend...it's those who stood behind you the whole way you need to hold on to. ignore the rest...give it a little time and it will stop...no matter how much it bothers you don't show them it bothers you and it will all be fine
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XD Ok so there is a similer question about this. But mines kinda different...
Ok, I want my room to be...like something that just says me, you know? I love the colors red, blue, certain shades of pink, silver, green and black. I want my room to be sorta those colors...but not black. I want to choose a blue color...but so far, everytime I look for a shade, it either looks to dark of a blue, or way to light. And I would like something in the middle...do any of you have an idea on what you would do with your room if you loved those colors?(And I want to put stuff in my room that match with the colors I put above)
Thanks so much! ^^ (link)
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well I'm re-doing my room with some of the same colors...what I'm doing is making one wall this chartreuse green color...the other walls are this cadet blue color..it's kind of a grayish blue and the ceiling is going to be a darker bluish gray shade...it matches my carpet and my bed spread...it would be really cool (i think personally) if you went with more of a bright cerulean blue or maybe an aqua or teal...that will blend a few of the colors you like together...but I don't know that I would do the room in all one color...but you can get any stuff to put in your room at pbteen.com or ikea...they have great stuff for great prices
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Do you think it's a big deal for an 18 year old girl to go out with a 26 year old guy? Is that too much of an age difference? (link)
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well your 18...your legal...you can date whoever you want...if you fall in love with an 80 year old...no one can do anything about it...it's 8 years...and right now...with you just being 18 I'd say it's a bit of a big age difference...when your younger the differences seem bigger...but if your 20 and going out with a 28 year old it doesn't sound as bad...get what I'm saying...but if you really like him go out with him...no one can stop you.
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i just switched to tampons, because i don't like pads at all. so i'm kind of confused about them. today my flow is regular, and at 11:30 this morning i put in a Playtex plastic regular flow tampon. so until what time should i keep it in for? i'm scared about TSS because i don't want to keep it in too long. thanks! (link)
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any time over four hours is what puts you at risk for TSS...I always change mine every 3...but thats just me...it's really up to you...just don't leave it in over 4.
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this is going to sound really stupid but how do you make a bun with your hair? i wrap it around the ponytail once then make the bun, but it always falls out when i run no matter what kind of hair tie i use. i have normal (kinda on the thick side) hair. ahh how do i do it? thanks so much. (link)
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you need to put bobby pins in it to keep it up...it's not that your not doing the bun right...you just can't keep it up by having it in a ponytail holder...bobby pin it to your scalp...it will stay in place...and put some in the bun too to help with loose pieces...and use some strong hairspray to keep it all together
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has anybody ever used witch hazel as a toner?
like put it on a cotton ball and wipe it over your face?
did it work for your acne? (link)
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I live by it..it's amazing...but the smell is something to get used too...but it really clears up acne great!
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I am a virgin. My period stopped 2 days before I was fingered. I dont know if he had pre-cum on his fingers..If he did, it would not be a lot at all.... but what are my chances of getting pregnant? I am so scared.!! (link)
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well right after your period is not peak fertility time...its 7-14 days after your period...the chances aren't high...but if your truly concerned get a pregnancy test...but I highly doubt you are
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alright whenever im sitting down im always fidgety and i can never sit still. does this sound like add or what and how can i control it because its starting to become a problem for me to sit for a long time like in school and church and whatever (link)
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It sounds like you could have ADD...you might want to go to a doctor and explain your symptoms and get a proper diagnosis...and if you do have ADD they can get you some medicine to help control it.
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does sex hurt? (link)
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the first time it will be sort of painful and uncomfortable...but you get used to it and it does become pleasurable...but usually the first couple of times aren't really pleasurable...they're a little more on the painful side.
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I'm wondering when you guys think it's appropiate to give & receive gifts or anything for anniversarys. (link)
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I think it depends upon the couple...everyone looks at anniversaries different...some people do it for the first month and then don't really give each other anything until the 6th month...others do it every month...and some wait a whole year in the grand tradition of anniversaries...it really just depends upon what you all think is appropriate...since its just a little over 3 months if your going to do a gift I wouldn't do too much...but whatever you do is at your discretion.
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The reason you got a 2 was because you didn't answer my question. I asked what would be good things to eat when you're hungry. I've lost 30 lbs total, so my eating habits are fine. No need to be rude about it either. What would be good snacks to eat? (link)
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I'm not trying to be rude about it..I'm just telling you that the way your doing it isn't healthy...I wouldn't eat graham crackers just because they aren't healthy for you...snack on some veggies with some low fat ranch dip or dressing..it's healthy and really filling...and don't eat too many fruits during the day...eating too much of one thing can be bad for you too..no matter how healthy it is...certain fruits (bananas especially) break down into fatty sugars so watch for foods like bananas and strawberries that might seem harmless but really aren't...go for grapefruit, oranges, or grapes when you are eating fruit...they break down into healthy sugars...but try snacking on some veggies...or if you haven't gotten enough dairy try having a couple of slices of white cheese on some unsalted crackers or an egg...however you like it...they're great weight reduction foods
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Is bi curious another word for homosexual?
I mean can a man like dick and still be straight?
I personally believe it's for people who are just afraid to admit they are gay in the first place. (link)
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bi curious just means that you might be interested in the same sex as well as the opposite...bi-sexual means that you are actually interested in both..and homosexual just means you are interested in the same sex...I used to believe what you believe...but one of my best friends truly is bi-sexual...he likes girls...a lot...but he likes boys too...and I know that he really does...I don't feel that way anymore...but it took a great friend to make me realize it...maybe thats what it will take you too.
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how do you make someone like you?
I mean i'm not ugly, over-weight or anything just he doesn't like me, I know it's not all about looks but I have been told I have a great personality too, heres a few pictures of me.
http://i17.tinypic.com/6atuarn.jpg
http://i15.tinypic.com/4yhyl2r.jpg
http://i12.tinypic.com/52onkmv.jpg
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everyone is different...you can't make him like you...you can try...but in the end your only hurting yourself by becoming someone your not just for a guy...(trust me...I've been there). Being yourself is all you can do...if he doesn't like you for who you are then he's not worth your time...or your heart...he might be looking for something completely different...so find someone who's looking for someone like you.
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What are you supposed to eat when you're hungry?? I usually eat 3 meals, but they most likely are light. Lately they haven't been because there has been parties, but I'm going back to my diet tomorrow. If my dinner is at 4 or 5, by 9 pm I'm hungry. Do I hold myself off until breakfast or eat something small?? I thought it might be a bad idea to wait for breakfast because it would've been 12+ hours without eating. I usually eat grahm crackers when I feel hungry. Is that okay or should I be eating something else?? I rather not eat fruit at night because I have that during the day sometimes. Thanks!! (link)
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truth be told you're going about this whole small portioned dieting thing completely wrong...if you really want to see results eat 5 smaller portioned meals a day...anything you want...it helps keep your appetite down and will help even more with weight loss...doing that instead of 3 smaller portioned meals a day is not only healthier but it will actually help you see results faster..I do it and I don't find myself hungry all the time...just make sure you space out your meals by 4 or 5 hours
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not exactly sure how I got a 2...I lost 25 lbs in a month and a half by doing it that way...celebrities even do it that way...its healthier...I'm sorry that your more into starving yourself for 12 hours or better...starvation has been proved to cause bloating and make you look fatter...but hey...it's not my life...but don't ask for advice if you can't take it
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I don't know why, but my discharge has blood in it. It's not anything like my period is usually, and im not expecting my period for about a week, anyway. I'm really worried about it, though. I've been really tired lately, and i'm just paranoid that the bleeding might have something to do with it. Every once in a while I feel a pain down there, too. I'm worried, what could be wrong? (link)
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your just getting ready to start your period...it can take up to 4 years before a period gets into a fully regular cycle though...wear pantie liners for now. it's perfectly normal so don't worry about it
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ok well i ended my period on june 14 and i had sex near the end of june i had unprotected sex and well i had signs of being pregnant 2 weeks after wards but thinking it was just nerves and well i had my period july 1 and that is only like 17 days since my last period the weird thing was though is my period would stop for one day and then come again the next it was weird and light at times it came really short and didn't last very long at all and i read on the internet is that after you have sex if you get pregnant then you will bleed about 10-14 days after wards because that is the egg atacting to the uterious or whatever and it was 11 days after wards that i had my period but it said also that it could seem like a period but isn't and well now i feel sick and my stomach feels weird and im really sleepy
could any of this mean that i am pregnant i need advice fast (link)
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you could be..you might be spotting...go to a drugstore and get a pregnancy test...if it's positive go to a gynecologist and see if it was normal bleeding or if you were spotting
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To make a long story short, I really want to write my own songs. The lyrics are not much of a problem, however, the melody is a different story. I've been playing the piano for seven years, but I can't seem to figure out how to put chords together well. Does anyone have any tips on how to write a melody? I'm a little overwhelmed.
15/f if that helps. (link)
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I write music myself and I find that the easiest way to get a melody is to get a sound in your head and kind of play around with it on the piano until it sounds right...I know it seems odd I guess but it really is the best way to get the melody you're looking for...
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Okay I have a couple of blisters on my nose fom a sun burn. Will they leave scars? Is there anything I can do to make them go away? (link)
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they work kind of like zits..they wont leave scars unless you try to pop them or mess with them to get rid of them...leave them alone...put some aloe vera gel(go to walgreens and look in the sunscreen section if you don't know what I'm talking about) it will cool them...but they really just have to go down on their own
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Ok, well I'm going in to modeling and I have that band of fat type thing underneath my belly button what ways can i loose that and take inches off my waist??
please helpppp
i rate (link)
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do some core exercises (there are tons of instructions online...just google it) that work on targeting your abs and obliques...don't lose too much weight or inches...because as much as it might be the trend in hollywood...no one likes a girl that is just super skinny...in fact it's pretty gross looking if you ask me
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