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Q: what can i do if i get really bad discharge? some days its like, a puddle in my pants. but thats an exageration.

pantie liners

Q: so my friend likes to give me riddles and this one is coded in numbers and its taking me a long time to do so she gave me a hint and said 38734= There which was the first word of the rest of the riddle. i dont want help with the whole riddle but does anyone have any idea how that can equal there?

wait sorry i thought the last part was how can that equal three sorry never mind i dont know lol

Q: my period is 2 weeks late and i'm scared because it never came this late before of my 4 years of having it. i'm positive im not pregnant because im a virgin. i've been masturbating more than usual though, could this have anything to do with it? why is it so late? is there anything wrong with me?

masturbation cant effect your period
your probably fine, stress can cause it to be late and even though you've never been late, anyones cycle can change at any time so your probably just fine, if your really worried about it consult your doctor

Q: I was wondering after a mother is killed who does her child go to if the biological father has never been involved in the childs life? Can the child go to the mothers boyfriend?

depends on the age of the child, and state/country
usually the first up would be the father, even though he isnt involved in the childs life depending on the situation he would be consulted first most likely and then if he turns down the childs relatives would be consulted, again depends on the situation and living arrangements and age. If the child wants to go with the mothers boyfriend then im sure someone could file a hearing to get custody.. if the person has god parents they would be consulted as well

Q: Is sex when a girl is on her period a complete no?

how bad is it, how bloody does it get? is it really grotesque? does it keep flowing?

if you want to you can..
it really depends on how heavy the girls flow is to determine how bloody it will get ha, just put a towel down first and make sure the guys wearing a condom and it should be to gross.. unless she has a really heavy flow then it could get pretty messy and gross

Q: Hey, i'm 13 and I weigh 178 pounds and i'm 5'2, people say I don't look like it, but I do. I've played almost every sport you can name, soccer, volleyball, and basketball. My stomach looks ok, but its just my legs and thighs. I have alot of friends and stuff, but when they joke around about my weight and I get depressed. Especially when my brother jokes on me. I love excersising, but my also overweight mom always doesn't "feel like" taking me to the gym. I also try to eat healthy, but she stops me from it. I eathier eat what she brings home (Macdonald's, KFC, ect.) or I eat nothing scince there's never anything in the fridge. I tried dangerous ways, but I don't have the gag reflex which sucks. What do I do?

sit down and talk to your mom and say you dont want to die young..and tell her that she needed to stop buying take out and start buying health food

Q: ok my bf suggested we try anal sex, because it can't get me pregnant and we don't really have a way of getting condoms. has anyone on here tried it before? how bad does it actually hurt? can i damage anything inside of me?

it hurts a lot.. depending on the person though and yeah depending on how big his dick is you could rip.. and there is still a chance you could get pregnant with anal sex if it runs down to your vagina.. it does happen sometimes but if you wipe it away quick you should be good

hope that helped

Q: kay, so last fall i had a really bad fall down a hill, and i broke a ton of blood vessels in my butt. you can see the lines. how do i get rid of them. i have this really cute swimsuit and i can't wear it cuz all my vessel things show. plzz help!

try putting coco butter on it

Q: i think i like my best guy friend. and some people say that he likes me because he can always find something wrong with the guy i want to go out with. does he like me or is he trying to protect me?

it could reall be either, the only way to find out for sure is asking him casually

Q: second hand smoke worse then first hand smoke

first hand is a lot worse

Q: ok well im only like 13 and i weigh alot or at least i think. im about 5'2 and i weigh around 145. you can sometimes see where my fat is its mainly in my thighs and stomach. i need ideas on how to lose weight. i play soccer and thats helped a little b ut not to a big level. any ideas?

eating better, maybe doing a morning jog or something. whatever you do dont starve youself most people think if they skip a meal or something then they will lose weight, but that would only be losing water weight and it would come back quick. to lose weight you need to eat more actually, to boost your matabalism, im not saying go out and eat like 4 hamburgers at mcdonalds or anything if you eat small porportion healthy meals like maybe a banana and and apple in the morning and then a couple hours later eat some grapes or something, also you need to exercise while going on this kind of diet, playing soccer will help a lot, but your 13 you shouldnt have to be worrying about this yet.

Q: Im turning 19 this year, december 12th, and it falls on a FRIDAY. what should i do. Its cold out, so I can't go camping or nothing but I want to do something fun and small. Any ideas?

movies
mall
going out to dinner
small party
you could go to an indoor pool, i do that in the winter the rooms are usually heated so its nice

Q: okay im 14 and my boyfriend is 18
my dad smokes illegal mariwana and my mom is an alcoholic, once i turn 16 can i move out legaly into my boyfriends appartment? considering my parents by law cant really support me?

in my state thats leagal.. ct..
but check online for your state laws to see if its legal

and if that doesnt work theres always emancipation but you have to think the through because one you do it, it cant be reversed.

Q: i'm 15 years old and live in cypress, texas.
i know there isn't many places that hire at 15 here.
any suggestions of what i can do to make some money?
i have 3 months of summer & i really really need money!

you can try washing cars
cutting lawns
doing simple things for people
like cleaning out there car or something

you could also go into ans shops that might be where you live and ask if theres anything you can do to help out around, most shops will have you doing simple things like sweeping and washing windows.. watch out for help wanted signs around you and even if you think they wont help you because your too young still ask they could find something for oyu to do you never know.

good luck on the job search !

Q: has anyone here attended the university of pennsylvania, or know someone who has? i would love to go there, but i am well aware that it is one of the most prestigious schools in the country and extremely difficult to get in. i'm at the top of my class and involved in quite a few clubs. unfortunately i havn't done any community service which is most likely a problem. what kind of activities were you involved in during highschool, what were your gpa/class rank and sat scores? my class has about 200 students, so i know i have to keep my class rank up. does having a smaller class make it harder for me to get in? any help will be appreciated, thank you!

i have never attended or no anybody who has but im sure if you go to the schools website most of your answersif not all of them can be answerd. You could contact the school also im sure theres a number and you can ask them what it takes and what classes you should be taking to prepare for school there.

hope that helped a little but?
good luck!

Q: If your good at high jump, what does that mean about you physically? Just wondering, 16/f.

it means... you can jump high? and you have strong legs and probably in shape..?

Q: i dont smoke that much, only about 1-3 cigs a day. my bf smokes too, and he's who i get my cigs from. we always split a pack until the next time i get to see him, with is usually within a week. so yeah.

well i went to the store the other day and got a really good smelling candle and a thing of febreze so i could spray it everytime im done smoking to get rid of the smell of burnt tobacco. and its been working! but my friend told me today that if i keep smoking in my room that im going to get YELLOW STAINS ON MY FRICKEN WALL.

is this true?? cuz no one besides her and my bf and my bf's friend know that i smoke. and if my rents found out they'd KILL ME. so if that IS the case, how would i get rid of the stains...and also even though my little febreze and candle thing is working, does anyone know a really good way to get rid of the smell of cigs??

so i guess my questions are:

A)do i really get yellow stains on my wall?

B)if so, how do i get rid of them?

C)what is a really good product that gets rid of the smell?

thanks for any advice!! :))

P.S. im unemployed and im on a budget, so any ideas that are NICE TO MY WALLET, that'd be dandy, as well. :)

you only get yellow stains if you have like white walls and you smoke like a lot,

open a window when you smoke it helps a lot

Q: i know what sperm is but what does this mean..ejaculates?

its when the guy reaches his climax, like highest point of pleasure and he releases sperm.. witch is called ejaculating

Q: HI i'm 17 years old and I just missed my period its about 5 days past when I should usually get it. I have been sexually active, but all times he wears a condom. I guess i'm probably not 100 percent sure that I am not pregnant.I haven't had any pregnancy symptoms. But I mostly want to know why I missed my period I mean I haven't been overly stressed or gained or lost weight I have been pretty normal. What could it be? Should I be worried? Thank you!

you should wait about another week, if still no period i would suggest buying a pregnancy test and going from there..

Q: what does pre-cum mean?

pre cum is before he gets ready to ejaculate, it cleans out anything thats in the penis its a mixture of urine and most times left over sperm, depending on the last time the guy jacked off or had sex