Hello. I don't claim to be a specialist and I don't claim to know what I'm talking about--unless I do. I'm not going to fill your head with a bunch of bull just becuase I don't know what I'm talking about, I will refer you to someone else. Feel free to contact me by messenger, i'm usually logged onto them via cell phone but will hop on a computer if possible. Anything else, ask
E-mail: jeanine0408@yahoo.com
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hi does toothpaste rellay work on pimples/zits?!
KLG (link)
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I've never heard that.. maybe u could try it. I mean.. it never really hurts to try. If it dont work.. then u know not to do it again.. if it does work.. let me know LOL
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I went to the beach today and I got burnt on my chest, lower back and thighs. Its not burned too badly but its sore and I can;t put lotion on my skin feels like its burning off and it blisters then scabs over. What are some thing I can do to help get rid of the pain?? (link)
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Theres a sun burn lotion called "Ocean Potion" Its like Aloe Vera, but its better. It cools off the sunburn really fast and helps it heal. If u have blisters, then it might burn a little when u first put it on, but only for a minute. My sister had a burn this summer that was like 2nd degree i think, and her best friend told her to put that on it, and it REALLY helped!
Hope I helped!! If u need anything else, just drop one in the inbox!!
** Jeanine **
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okay well i've knownone of my friends sence the 6th grade and she was so sweet before and in the 7th she beganacting a little kinda slutty but now in the 8th she doesn't even much talk to me when she's around her group of friends that don't like me y don't they like me i dunno i never did anything to them but thats a PI (personal issue)so i wont get into that but ya she doesnt even talk to me no more and meand her were so close but now its like she will let boiz touch up on her and she just turned 13 and her bf is 22 or 21 i think.I don't like that at all i told her and she is like okay wutever and im trying to watch her back but she's just a LITTLE gurl and that guy is in his 20's he expects things and im trying to get her to understand but apperntly im the only one that cares cause her friends that don't like me agree with the relationship and i dunno wut do 4get about our friendship or keep on nagging her about it cause i do get tired trying to watch her back but i dont wannasee her suffer .so i dunno wut i can do and i wish that the old her came out but everytime i bring that up she gets offended and assumes that im just JELOUS (im not i dunno where she gets that idea from?!?!?!)plz help me!!! (link)
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Don't nag your friend, but be there for her. If u think something is wrong in her relationship, talk to an adult. Let them know whats going on so they can talk to her. This guy is a lil old for her, but Its up to her who she dates. If they have sex tho, he can go to jail for Statatory rape (spelling?) for having sex with a minor. I know guys that that has happened to. Just watch her back for her. And the moment u think something is really wrong, TALK TO SOMEONE. Thats about all u can do for her since she wont listen to u.
Hope I helped!! If u need anything else, just drop one in the inbox!!
** Jeanine **
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ok......i'm 16 and theres this guy who's 20 that i like alot. he has been wanting to go out with me but my dad wont let me bcuz he says hes to old for me. well my friends keep tellin me i should just dont let my dad find out. what should i do? is there a way to get my dad to let? please help (link)
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Try to prove to ur dad that the guy is trustworthy. Your dad is probably worried this guy will pressure u into something. Have your dad know him and get to know him a little better. If your dad knows him better and is able to trust him, maybe he will at least let u 2 hang out together at ur house. Then eventually he will probably let u go out on dates with this guy.
Hope I helped!! If u need anything else, just drop one in the inbox!!
** Jeanine **
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Hey! I'm 15 year old female and I will be a freshman this year. Does anyone have some simple things that I could do to my hair but would look great?? I wanna really stand out this year! Thanks so much (link)
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Maybe u could go out and buy some temporary hair dye. I just put bright red streaks in my hair that will wash out in a few weeks. Thats something that people usually notice. Its usually the drastic things people notice.. so i usually dont do anything simple with my hair. LOL i do something that im SURE everyone will notice.
Hope I helped! If u need anything else.. drop one in the inbox!!
** Jeanine **
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Do any girls know of anything I can do to get rid of cramps? Im having them really severely and its hard to move. Thanks. (link)
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I usually take IBUprofen. Its the only thing that really helps me. Also, even if it hurts, move around a lil bit. It does help a lil. Maybe try taking Tylenol would help too. Thats the only way I know how to get rid of them.
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I'm sorry this might sound strange but my friend is very nervous about her first time.
Any guys and girls that could reply to this would be awesome!
Do girls have to shave before they do it the first time? And if they do...how so? (link)
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you dont have to.. some guys prefer it tho. if u do.. then its basically like shaving ur legs.
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is wearin a thong slutty? like the purpose is so you dont have pantylines but sumtimes liek if usmones thong shows people think she's a slut. i was just wondering what evryone else htought (link)
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Hell no it dont make u a slut!! I wear thongs all the time and i aint no slut! your right.. the purpose of them is so u dont have pantylines when u wanna look sexy. if u let them totally hang out tho.. it is kinda slutty.. unless u cant help it or whatever. but if ur pullin the strings and the back up for ppl to see.. then its slutty.
Thats just what i think tho...
Hope I helped!! If you need anything else.. just drop one in the inbox!
** Jeanine **
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the only way i can get a cell phone is if i pay for it, and i was just wondering how many ppl felt that it would be worth it? (link)
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Get a Prepaid Cellfone. Then u can just buy minutes as u need them without having to be tied with a contract. Thats what I have. I would recomend Verizon Prepaid tho. Go to a verizon wireless carrier and get one. The actual Tracfone brand of fones.. really suck!! They are SOO expensive. For like $80 u get the same amount of minutes u get from verizon for $45. I have Tracfone and my sister has Verizon. I would DEFINITLY recomend Verizon over any other prepaid plan.
Hope I helped!! If u need anything else.. just drop one in the inbox!!
** Jeanine **
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is it alright to wear a tampon during cheer practice?...are tampons supposed to stick out like 2 centimeters?...and well i was @ cheer practice, and we were doin jumping jacks..and after wards..i didnt fil it in me any more!..and i found out that i was juss layin in my panties!..can u help?! (link)
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U didnt put it in far enuff. First of all.. u shouldnt have been able to feel it in the first place. Also, it shouldnt stick out. Try putting it closer to the whole and then pushing it in. U shouldnt be able to feel it AT ALL if uve got it in far enuff.
Hope I helped!! If u need anything else.. just drop one in the inbox!!
** Jeanine **
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okay people..im ready to tell my BF i love him..and i would juss like to hear a few of ur guys times when u first told ur BF/GF u loved em..i wanna hear the REALLY cute stories that juss make ur heart melt.. (link)
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heres my story:
I snuck out one night just to be with him. We were laying in his friend's bedroom floor cuddling and talking. Out of no where, he leaned over me, kissed me long and soft, and then was like.. "baby, I love u soo much and u mean so much to me. I never wanna loose u." it was just one of those cheesy moments couples have. We're still together. 2 months on the 20th!! its a long distance relationship now tho. :(
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after u eat ALOT is it bad to make ur self throw up just one time ?? i know i wont get like obsessed, but it it bad for just 1 time? (link)
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YES!! If u do it.. u might get hooked on doing it. Just doing it one time is dangerous. Ur body could react and like make u do it. DONT DO IT. IT ISNT HEALTHY!!
Hope I helped!! If u need anything else.. just drop one in the inbox!!
** Jeanine **
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I met this guy at the movies..we had been talkin for quite awhile on the internet. He goes to a different school and my best friend knows him. Well i think he is interested in me but i dont know..how do i find out if he likes me or not? (link)
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Just tell him u like him and ask if he likes u. Its the easiest way to find out something like that. If u want it done.. u gotta do it!!
Hope I helped!! If u need anything else, just drop one in the inbox!! Im always here to help!!
** Jeanine **
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ok I love my friends so much but I get tired of sum like Jake Yves Chantal I don't they're cool but most of them they get on my nerves I'm going to high school and I know alot of pplz there but I don't want to ditch Chantal and Jake the closest ones I have what sh0ould I do?....I need new friend other then sum (link)
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Just keep ur old friends while making new. Who knows, maybe ur old friends will be easier to get along with if u dont spend as much time with them. If u spend time with them and other people, u will prolly get along better since ur not seeing as much of each other and getting tired of each other.
Hope I helped!! If u need anything else, just drop one in the inbox!! Im always here to help!!
** Jeanine **
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I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do? (link)
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Ignore the things u find wrong with them and look at the things u like. U will soon learn to put the positive in front of the negative
Hope I helped! if u need anything else, drop one in the inbox! Im always here to help!!
** Jeanine **
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umm im 14 and im only a 36A nd all my firends are a yr younger nd the same size as me!!i think that im done growing is there ne way that i can tell if i am or not?? thnnx (link)
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For some girls, they can tell cause their boobs hurt when they grow. But other girls dont experience the pain. Its kinda hard to tell really. Unless u get the growing pains (they suck!) u prolly cant tell.
Hope I helped! if u need anything else, drop one in the inbox! Im always here to help!!
** Jeanine **
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This was to guy but I guess girls could answer too.lol.But what do you guys think of girls making the first move?I mean i've kinda been seein this guy and we've only been dating for like two weeks but we haven't done really anything accept hold hands and like kiss.And no tongue in those kisses either!Well I'm 14 and I guess I wanna make a move on doin more since he's to shy too..Cuz he is kinda shy.So what should i do?Go for it?Or wait till he does...Plz help. THanks! (link)
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If u want it done... DO IT!! Just go in for the kiss.
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ok well when I get mad I tend to cut myself very badly my parents found out and sent me to the doctor but he didn't do anything to help me stop cutting he just asked me questions like did your parents abuse you and stuff like that and I still cut myself more and more I get mad I don't know why am I mental do I have an illness I need help plz I'm scared I might kill myself one day (link)
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Your not mental. You just dont know how to control ur pain. I went through this a year ago and my councilor helped me soo much!! Try this:
When u get mad, dont grab for your knife or w/e it is u use to cut. Keep a rubber band around ur wrist. When u get mad.. snap the rubber band onto ur wrist as many times as it takes to relieve ur stress. It starts to hurt after a while and u feel better without actually hurting urself. Also, try getting one of them stress balls and keep by ur bed or where ever u spend the most time. Squeeze it as much as u can when u get stressed. It may sound dumb, but it really does help.
Hope I helped! if u need anything else, drop one in the inbox! Im always here to help!!
** Jeanine **
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My girlfriend is moving three states over for 6 months because of family problems but will for sure be back by then. She says she wants to continue dating while shes gone but i dont know if i can do that. We would only beable to talk on the phone and maybe i could drive over a few times. Anyone else had a long distance relationship? Whats it like, what do you have to do to make it work? (link)
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Im involved in a long distance relationship right now.. he's only been gone for like 2 weeks, but i miss him soo much already. They are really hard to make work. even tho u might get to see each other, it takes alot of work to keep ur love strong. After a while of not seeing them, u start to wonder if its really worth all the work.
To make them work, u both have to trust the other. Without trust, u have nothing. Also, don't call so much she thinks your checkin on her, but call enuff so she knows u care.
Thats all I can really tell u about them. GOOD LUCK!!
If u need anything else, drop one in the inbox! Im always here to help!!
** Jeanine **
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I am a 14 year old guy and I like a 10 year old girl, is this ok?? (link)
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Well... if u like her yes.. but its kinda weird. if u both were a lil older... like u were 17 and she was 13 or something.. but with her being only 10... its a lil wrong. Its ok to have feelings for her.. just dont like date her or anything.. it might make both ur parents mad
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