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My name is Sami.♥ Wherever life takes me, you'll find me with a smile. Feel free to ask me anything, I will give you the best advice that I can :)
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ugh ok so my lips are always bright red and peeling. it never goes away and i can never peel all of it off :[
HOW CAN I GET RID OF THIS?! and make them not red... they never used to be like this.
I also compulsivley put on chapstick ha ha but even went i cut back on chapstick it still didnt go away ...
is it the chapstick? or my lips? or rubbing them together too much? HELP
Well it could be a combination of using too much chapstick and having saliva on your lips a lot from you peeling them. Dont peel them! its really bad and it takes a longer time for them to heal. But they have this stuff called 8 hour cream by Elisabeth Arden and if you put that on before you go to bed then it helps a lot! but its kinda expensive and can only be found in department stores or online. If you dont want to go through that trouble put Vitamin E cream on them or even aloe vera gel but make sure its at night cause it feels gross. Hope i helped =]
My crush Kyle I've liked him a little over a year; when I liked him I'd get so nervious, couldn't speak, sweaty....in Dec. he found out/ I told him he “I just wanna be friends.” then I felt so depressed felt nothing ,but hole in my chest...Last month are communtity service group had a yard sale..when he came in the building & I saw him...My heart jumped back into it's previous state
Well it sounds like you really like this kid. But no one but yourself can tell you if its love or not. But if you feel like that when you see him, and empty when your not talking to him it sounds like what a lot of people describe as love. Now for him i dont know if he likes you i dont know either of you but if your friends see the way he is around you and they say that he likes you i would say that he most likely does. If he makes you feel this way i would start talking to him again and see how things go. Hope i helped =] and good luck!
What are some good tattoo ideas? Just a small one, I mean it'd have to have a personal meaning for me.. so any ideas how I should go about picking something like that?
I would probably get it on my wrist.
Any advice or suggestions will be appreciated. thanks!
I dont know what your into but i really like chinese writing. i think that getting faith or love or some insparational words like that would be really cute =] but some people put hearts and stars on their wrists or you name or last name. hope i helped =]
how do you tease your hair? like without it looking like naughty? wen i do it, it just looks like a huge knot and it doesnt look cute WHAT SO EVER. and my hair is jus so like flat. HELP
I use a round brush. You know the ones with all the sharp bristles on it?? Well i just lift up the very tops of my hair and tease it by the roots, like 6-9 times and then i put it down (it will be standing up) so brush it out slightly with the brush and hairspray. I dont know if this will work for you but it does for me. Hope i helped =]
what are some ways to get someones trust back??? i just lost it and i need to get it back.
Well most of the time if you've had someones trust and you've lost it, its really hard to get it back. Especially if you hurt that someone or lied. Your going to have to do a lot to show "them" that you are trustworthy and that you do care. Prove to them that you wont lie to them or hurt them. And its almost guaranteed you wont get it back right away so be patient. Hope i helped =]
i am having a little trouble with my friends. it seems like they don't like me anymore. i don't know what happened but all of a sudden they didn't want to hang out and has kinda been ignoring me.
help! what should i do?
Talk to them and tell them how you feel. Either they dont realize that they are doing it or they think you did something wrong that pissed them off. It depends on how old you are but in high school you loose a lot of your friends because people change or even because of "Cliques" If you are in high school then this may be the reason and you will find new friends i promis there are so many different people in high school. But if your not then just talk to your friends im sure they will understand =] Hope i helped
Hi! I am looking for a job in the summer. ONLY the summer because I have to focus on school during the school year. I am 16 years old and a girl, and have no work experience. I want to make some money, but I also don't want to spend every single day working..so I was thinking about working only a few times a week (maybe 3-4?)
I was wondering where to start? And where would I go/talk to to get an application or inquire about jobs?
your local recreation center should be hiring about now for summer jobs. But it depends on where you live. Where i live you can choose how many days and hours you want to work a week. They look only for high school students because most of them want to work. I hope i helped and hope you can get a job =] And go to the rec and ask for an application. you dont need any experience unless you life guard =]
So, I have a best friend, and i love him to death he is amazing. He is the only one that truely understands me and i don't know what I'd do without him, but there is one problem. He has a girlfriend, a bad girlfriend. She had cheated on him so many times before, and it makes him so upset almost to the point where he has come to me in tears. He doesn't see that she isn't worth his time because of how bad she hurts him. He just over looks it because he loves her so much. I honestly can't stand it I have tried so many times to tell him that she isn't right for him, without being mean of course. I really don't know what to do, and i always usually do know what to do and thats why this is so hard for me, because I truely do love him and i can't see him get hurt like this. Please help me.
Ok so i know how this is i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and he has cheated on me 3 times that i found out about. And i love the kid with all my heart and i know that he will prabably hurt me again but i cant see that because i love him so much. So many people have tried to do the same thing that you are trying to do for your friend for me and i just cant see it. He is going to have to realize himself that she doesnt care about him, and that he deserves better but until then its really hard to listen to anyone else when your so attached. Im sorry to say but its true. Hope i helped =]
I have a crush on this girl in school, but I no that she doesn't feel the same way about me(she has a boyfriend already). How do I get her to love me instead of him?
For starters it depends on what your willing to go through. If she ends up liking you both you could end up with a broken heart =/ sometimes girls end up liking two people and its really hard to choose between them. It also depends on how long she has been dating him but since your only 13 the relationship shouldnt last that long. So start talking to her, and tell her how you feel and see how she reacts but be careful. Be sweet and understanding that she still has a boyfriend but just put it out there that you are there for her too. Good luck and hope i helped =]
i love my boyfriend so much. and i know he loves me. we were meant for each other. just couple things that make me :/ are....sometimes randomly he brings up something 2 of his exs did. his not comparing me or anything. but its just you know idc care about them i dont want to hear about them. and sometimes he has plans and ill think i get the whole day with him and then he'll tell me like the day before. waht to do. we neverrrr fight. and are relationship is nottt falling apart. its just those thinngs get to me sometimes. i love him. with all my heart.
ok well tell him this bugs you if you guys never fight and everything is good then he should understand. Just tell him that all of that is in the past and you honestly dont care about his exs and he probably doesnt care about your either. So just talk to him he will understand. Plus most guys dont even notice that they are doing it. Hope i helped =]
So I'm turning 18 in May, and I've been wanting a tattoo for so long. I just don't know what to get or where to get it. I want something relatively small, but meaningful. Not just a little heart, r butterfly or something. I wanted to do something maybe with the word faith. Any suggestions? Thank you
Well i like chinese writing and you could get the word faith in chinese small on the back of your neck or wherever you want it and then have something wrapped around it like a rose or something. I dont know prices though im sorry! Hope i helped =]
Ok im getting a bit annoyed with the girl i once liked... i finnaly got over h er about a week and a bit ago i think but of course theres still some little feeling there for her but anyways..
shes constantly changing her facebook and MSN status to stupid things like "im going to sort this out!" or "I hope that doesnt happen again.."
whenever i ask her what shs on about she allways says oh nothing dont worry, i know its not much of buisness asking her why but kmon!! shes obviosuly just trying to grab attention by putting stupid phrases like that to make people wonder whats wrong with her. whats with her? do you do this??? i dont do this!?!! >_<
thanks for ya help good people
Ok a lot of girls will do this for attention to make you look at their page and wonder whats going on, its just a girl thing we want you in our lives and to wonder and worry about us, its just a feeling we like. So if you want her to stop, quit asking her what its about, then she will think "oh well thats not working anymore" and most likely she will quit. Most guys dont do it, thats why its so hard for most guys to understand girls. But i hope i helped and good luck! =]
Not to be a creeper, but I have been reading your column and think you give some great advice (especially on relationships)!
I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and I love him to death but the thing is that we are SO comfortable around eachother. I am so comfortable with him to the point where I openly talk about things I would only talk about with my girlfriends, like shaving, smelling bad, etc...things that aren't exactly the sexiest thing to talk about with your man. I don't feel the need to impress him anymore, because I know he will love me no matter what! And even though I am aware that that is a wonderful thing and I am privledged to have him, I kind of enjoyed things before we were dating. I would spend hours getting ready for a dance just to catch his eye and purposefully do cute things when he was around. And it worked (!!!!!!! =D =D =D =D
Well thanks! thats not creepish at all =]
Ok well your not the only couple to go through this, most people that get into relationships and are together for a long time, just get so comfortable around each other. Most of the time they get so comfortable that they forget the important things, like flirting, and getting that feeling when you are around eachother. So try flirting with him a little bit because when you are together for that long its almost like your more best friends than you are a couple. So flirt go on fun childish dates like roller blading or something that you wouldnt normally do. And talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you love how your relationship is but you need more to it. And tell him to not tell you how perfect or beautiful you are all the time and change it up with things like cutie, or little pet names (unless your one of those people that dont like pet names and if you are im sorry that advice probably wasnt so good) And when you go to dances dress up like you used to even though you know he will love you no matter how good you look, we still love that feeling of dressing up for someone we like =] I hope i helped, and if you have anymore questions feel free to message me again i will be glad to help =] and thanks again for the compliments!
Hi, I was wondering if you knew anything about lyrics to alot of songs, there was this song that i heard on a show called highschool stories on mtv, i love the song but the guy in it is screaming out the words so i can never nderstand what he is saying but i think it goes something like this
" bang your head ahhhhhhh put your head up,put your head upupup." i tried my best to give you an idea and if you dont know it its okay, just trying :) p.s. its like techno slash rock" and the guy is screaming.
Hmmm i searched and searched for it and i cant find it anywhere i found some rap songs with some of those lyrics but that is about it. Im really sorry im usually really good at song lyrics =( see if you remember any of the other lyrics and i will do my best to find it. Hope i can help =]
i usually get my period sometime at the beginning of the month. 31-5 sometime around there. well this month i havent had it so far and im not really sure why. me and my boyfriend havnt had sex. but we do fool around. im kinda getting worried. and im trying not to. and my boyfriend is getting scared and nervous. what should i do and what could it be.
Well dont worry for one, if you worry about not having your period you wont get it. And periods do get off track a lot so i wouldnt worry. I would wait 2 weeks and if it doesnt start them go to the doctors and they can tell you whats wrong. Hope i helped =]
i dont know if its because its getting warmer out, but lately, my eyeliner wears off by like the middle of the day. iapply a black pencil liner to the bottom and while in school it pretty much all wears off during the day. how can i stop my eyeliner from wearing off without reapplying it throughout the day? thanks!
Get a face power light in color and put it under your eyes with a small brush or a Q-tip it stops it from smearing and it lasts longer. Hope i helped =]
Hey, I've got a really serious problem:
I've known this guy since august 2008 and i love him mora than anything, we've been friends, we've go out and boyfriends on and off also and this monday (6 of april of 2009) we were going to clear up things and everything would be just fine BUT he told me from one second to the other "I dont love you anymore, and i like your best friend" I got so mad and sad...and my EX best friend likes him too and they had already kissed tough my bf said she was not going to do anything with him cause she didnt want to hurt me but obviously it wasnt true and they lied to me..i suspected they liked each other but he kept telling me that he only liked me but well...his best friend is my friend too and he told me that this situation was weird because that day (monday) he was talking about me and saying how much he loved me and then he did this,. He thinks someone put the idea in his head that he liked my bff, and convinced him about that...now i hate my best friend and i will never be her friend again and this boy, well i love him ad just cant forget him...the question is : WHAT CAN I DO? i know it's a little annoying to answer but please help me :(
Thanks! :D
Well im just going to be brutally honest here:
He doesnt really love you if he left you for your best friend, and shes really not your best friend if they kissed and she didnt tell you that she liked him let a lone ask if it was ok that they were together. I would move on, there are a lot better people out there who will find out how cool of a person you are and would never do this to you that is a true friend and you will find someone who really loves you, someone who really cares and wouldnt do that to you. Im really sorry this happened to you but good luck! =]
this is me ON THE RIGHT:
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and im debating between this color/style:
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and this one:
and this one:http://i286.photobucket.com/albums/ll119/iscream4bananas/scene.jpg
The first one! it looks more like you and its really in right now! its way cute! and i think it would look really good on you =] Hope i helped
Definition of love?
How do you know when you are in love with somebody?
You will know there is no one who can tell you when your in love, it just depends on how you feel and when you feel it, let the person know. It is a feeling no one can explain and its great =] Hope i helped =]
Today my mom walked in on my boyfriend and I having sex and now she doesn't trust me at all. I'm not allowed to have guys over and I knew that before today. But now it's all awkward between my mom and I and she expects me to feel terrible about what I've done, yet I don't and I can't! I don't think sex is a bad thing and I may be young at 17 but it was my first time and I was safe. I know we'll never see eye to eye on this but I just don't want this to be all messed up anymore. I pretty much feel like an idiot though, and she's making me feel worse. But even though I broke the rules I still don't feel like my decision was that horrible. Help? Anyone? Thanks.
Well she will trust you with time just sit down and talk to her. tell her how you feel and that you guys were safe, it was your first time and your sorry she had to see that. but would she rather you be doing it when your at some party with some random guy because you were stupid and felt like it was right, or would she rather have you do it at your house with protection with someone you care about. Just talk to her most moms will understand and if not dont worry she will get over it. Hope i helped =]