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Hey
Not to be a creeper, but I have been reading your column and think you give some great advice (especially on relationships)!
I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and I love him to death but the thing is that we are SO comfortable around eachother. I am so comfortable with him to the point where I openly talk about things I would only talk about with my girlfriends, like shaving, smelling bad, etc...things that aren't exactly the sexiest thing to talk about with your man. I don't feel the need to impress him anymore, because I know he will love me no matter what! And even though I am aware that that is a wonderful thing and I am privledged to have him, I kind of enjoyed things before we were dating. I would spend hours getting ready for a dance just to catch his eye and purposefully do cute things when he was around. And it worked (!!!!!!! =D =D =D =D<33), but now I kind of miss that! I guess I just like the chase..? Now I don't get as bubbly when he compliments me. The first time he told me I was pretty ("i think ur really pretty :)) I got up from the computer and proceeded to jump in the air and dance like a lunatic. Now when he tells me how gorgeous and perfect I am my reaction is a lot less bubbly and a little more "meh." Plus its the same for him...he's not as shy as he used to be around me (which is good! and obviously comes along with getting to know someone better) and I miss that. Ack I'm rambling, but I think you get the point. I don't even know what my question is...but any advice would be helpful!
mel 16/f
PS. I am a virgin and plan to be until I am 100% ready, so sexy lingerie for a fun-filled night is not really an option. =P
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Well thanks! thats not creepish at all =]
Ok well your not the only couple to go through this, most people that get into relationships and are together for a long time, just get so comfortable around each other. Most of the time they get so comfortable that they forget the important things, like flirting, and getting that feeling when you are around eachother. So try flirting with him a little bit because when you are together for that long its almost like your more best friends than you are a couple. So flirt go on fun childish dates like roller blading or something that you wouldnt normally do. And talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you love how your relationship is but you need more to it. And tell him to not tell you how perfect or beautiful you are all the time and change it up with things like cutie, or little pet names (unless your one of those people that dont like pet names and if you are im sorry that advice probably wasnt so good) And when you go to dances dress up like you used to even though you know he will love you no matter how good you look, we still love that feeling of dressing up for someone we like =] I hope i helped, and if you have anymore questions feel free to message me again i will be glad to help =] and thanks again for the compliments!
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