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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D

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heyy guyss im almost 16 and want to get my belly button pierced um does it hurt? does it get infected easily and does it look good right when you get it done? any other information i kno nothing about it really would be helpful thanks in advance!!

it doesnt hurt much. a bee sting i think and i have it done twice. it does get infected easily, touching it to much will cause it to get infected. the only thing you should touch it is when your putting cream on it. dont go swimming in like a lake or river. hmm.. dont change the ring to soon. i did that and it got infected.. lol.. and it looks good, but like not as good as it will be. it'll be red. remember dont touch it to much. its okay like 5 times a day. twice to clean it and the other three to twist the ring. oh, and dont use rubbing alchole to clean it, esp, if it gets infected, it eats the skin. any more questions, just ask me. hope i helped

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My boyfriend is black, and i am white. he wants to hang out over the summer, but my parents are extremely racist and would NEVER let me go anywhere with him. i have told him that but i am afraid that he will break up with me if we dont see eachother all summer. ahh help me please !!!

just meet him somewhere besides your house.. im not with the lying thing, but tell your parents your going somewhere else and go to his house?. movies?.. dinner?.. maybe just bring him over to your house adn tell your parents?.. hope i helped

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My boyfriend and I just broke up and I heard there are 4 dirty low down tricks to getting him back..... someone out there has got to be able to help me I want him back....but how?

make out with his best friend in front of him..haha

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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]

I'm 16, and i lost mine when i was 14. i dated this guy for about a couple months, and we did it.. we stayed together for about a month after. He was a man whore, and i dont really regret it, but i wish it wasnt with him.

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my friend wants to know if she is overweight
she is about 5'8 5'9 and 173 pounds
is she overweight?

depends on if she has a stomach?..
my sister is tall like that, and maybe around that weight, but shes not fat. she is stong for a girl. i;'m the same, but 5'5 145lbs. im not fat, at all, but im in sports and im one of the strongest girls i know. so, if she has a stomach, and doesnt do sports, then she might be. but if shes in sports, skinny, then im sure shes fine!!

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14/f.
Im getting my ears pierced for the first time tomorrow and I just wanna be prepared for how much it's going to hurt, so can someone tell me how much it hurt for them? This is just for a first piercing nothing more, so i only want to hear about that not cartilage or anything.

thanks :)

it doesnt hurt. its like a REALLY strong pinching feelings, or bee sting. i have mine done 13 times, and everytime i did it, it didnt hurt. they will sting after tho, when you try to sleep try not to lay on your ears, so lay your head on your arms, making a hole like thing for your ears. dont touch them a lot. only whenever you clean them. twist them when you do that. hope i helped

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My boyfriend's sister's graduation party is this Sunday. He and I have been together for about a year and a half so I know his sister pretty well. Its not like we're best friends or anything but we'll say hi at school and joke around when we're together and stuff. So she wants me to come. Im trying to think if I should just get her a card or should I get her a present? Even people's friends get eachother cards so i dont know if there's a need to get her a present. Any suggestions as for a yes or no, or even ideas for a present are appreciated =]

get her a card and money. that way she can get whatever she wants with it. hope i helped

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ok this is going to be long. well, my mother was on drugs for a while and she has me and my baby brither and my kid sister. Well she left us one day in a beat up apartment. So i have kind of been a parent to them (im 18 and a half btw) Me boyfriend and i both have jobs and we finished high school and everything. He and I bought a small apartment and we take care of the kids together. I schedule doctor appointments, dentist appts, bring my sister to school, etc. And i mean my boyfriend is like a father to them and i love him so much and he pitches in, helps out our financial situtation, and just helps with the kids. Me and my siblings have been from foster home to foster home and we kept getting split up and now i feel like we finally have a real life. Can i adopt my siblings and sort of be like a mother to them? How would i do this? and is there any assistance for like paying the bills from the government?

your story is just like one that was on lifetime, just the same. what she did is asked the person that cared for her and her siblings if she can care for them. ask the foster ppl if this is possible. they then will have someone check in on you every month and so on. so go to a court house or the foster ppl and ask. hope everything turns out good

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my best freind haley is going out with a great guy named steeve but shes so weird with him she will be in love withhim then she will break up with him or cheat on him and liek idk i feel really bad bc i tlka to steve al the time adn he used to love her like relally love her but the worse their relaionship gets the less he caresadn that scares me bc my best freind is starting to give up her player ways for him.. for example he always used to call her and tlak to her every night as long as he could now he avoids her cals and alwaysd calls me .. also when hes on the phone with me he only tlaks shit about her to me .. thne when they are with eachother if she isnt hoooking up with him enough then he will just leve and be pissed at her .. and im always the one stuck in the middle
ANY ADVICE?

your friend is a whore, and he should break up with her. if he is amazing like you say, then he needs to get a girlfriend that wont cheat on him. and shes "starting" to give up her playa ways doesnt mean shit, she should of stoped them the minute they started dating, ew i hate whores. shes low, and you need to tell her that she is a whore and needs to stop now, or go to steve and tell him to dump her ass

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why do when some of your close friend knows that your moving away soon and they starting to keep their distance,wont really talk to you and doesnt wanna get close to you that much?

bc it will make it less harder on them.. i did that too, but now my friend isnt moving and we're not close and it sucks cause its summer...

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people on this site think they are so mature and know everything but they don't know shit. (some do, most dont.) first of all, alot of people on this site believe that if they live a simple life and dont care about electronics and huge houses that they are better than people who care about their appearence and want nice things. just because i have some designer stuff doesnt mean im not a good person right?!! i shop at all of the expensive stores but its because i LIKE the clothes. if you like walmart thats good for you but i dont. and i dont give a f*** what the "popular" kids think. i do what i want and just because i want nice stuff and care about my looks doesnt mean im immature. alot of people on this site are prejudice. and prejudice means PRE JUDGING. you guys are pre judging teenagers just because they give a care about how they look or what they buy. and usually its the adults who critisize teenagers. but if you havent noticed alot of teenagers are smart and they dont always follow the crowd... these uninformed people give us teenagers sterotypes when they havent even met all of us. i say i shop at abercrombie and fitch and suddenly i have all these people calling me a follower. i know how i am and i dont follow. i lead. wow, so i like the same stores as other people. BIG DEAL. i dont smoke and drink and im not a slut. i just CARE about my appearence. deal with it! stop judging the teens on this site wrong and calling them whiny bitches because its not us, it's YOU.

opinions please. =)

hahaha your so right!!!.. i myself havent had an "adult" tell me anything, but your so right!!. i care about what i look like to, and i LOVE hollister, as for my name =-p. but, what happened?. what made you say this?

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what does "DRY" mean? "DRY SEX?" "DRY HUMPIng?"
i thought SEX was SEX.

when a girl and a guy hump each other with cloths, underwear, on. without the penis going into the girl. dry sex, i dont know why they call it that..

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Alright. Long story short. My boyfriend cheated on me by having sex with another girl. It has been a couple of months and I really thought that I would be able to move past it and that our relationship could start over, and maybe even be stronger. But for some reason I cant seem to get past it. Please, how can I move on from this. I want to.

Also I feel like my boyfriend doesnt understand how badly this hurt me and how much it still is. I want him to be punished in some way. I just dont know how. How do I get him to realize that this is NOT okay? I mean I took him back once after he cheated. What if he has in his head that he could get away with it again?

it is for sure in his head he can get away with it. hunny, get out of the relationship, only way to get over it, really. if he cheated on you, esp. by having sex. then he doesnt need your time of day!.. if you wanna get him back, then break up with him.. make him feel bad about it. hope i helped and i hope you get over him

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i really need to lose 30 pounds this summer..
but i have no idea how.
i no i should excercise, and eat healthy but can someone explain
what exercises i should do, how long, how many of them.
what foods i should eat, how much of it, how often.
things like that would REALLLY help.
thanks so much!

crunches dont help, they push all the fat to the bottom ab, making it harder to get rid of it. but going running, that is the best, add extra steps in your day. like take the longer way to a friends house if your walking, and such.

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i've been saving up A LOT of money for years... it's all payed off. i now have about $350 ishh.

i really want to spend it because i've done some thinking and its my decision. but i dont know HOW to spend it. i want to do it wisely and not regret it.

i want to spend some money on clothes. i shop at a&f, hco, & ae but i dont buy the most expensive stuff. =)

and some other random stuff i want
-sidekick ID ($99.99)
-digital camera (i already have one but its crappy)
-coach purse ($179)
-some other electronic stuff

i already have an ipod and i have a good phone but a sidekick would make texting much easier.

how should i spend my money? i dont kbow what to get! any new electronics that are pretty cheap? ideas are all apreciated.

maybe get a make over?.. new hair cut, or go get a facial, and get your nails done, toes, the whole works!..

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its an older song sung by a guy and it goes something like "just turn up the beat..oh my god" anyone know what im talking about?

is it country, r&b?.. what, maybe then i can help you.. im kinda a music freak.. lol

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how do u do eye make up like this:
http://i17.tinypic.com/4m7dso0.jpg

and how can i get a haircut / style like this:
http://i18.tinypic.com/4t8rixi.jpg

i really like both.
so help if u noe how?
thanks :D

make up, the girl below me got that covered..
hair, it looks like she has straight bangs, their not at an angle, and their just pushed over and it seems that her hair is short and it one length.. just that the picture to a stylest and ask them to do that. hope i helped

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I am so vain, shallow, and pathetic. But I realized this a long time ago and cannot change it. My whole mood depends on how good I look. I skip school when I look bad (when I havn't waxed my disgusting excesive facial hair..im a girl, it unfair, i hate that i have it!) and when im forced to school, i get in fights and lots of trouble.. I fail tests.. etc etc etc.
When Im in a good mood, i get good grades, make friends, help people - all is good.

Problem is.. im getting more and more vain every day. I hate my huge nose, my excessive hair ALL OVER MY BODY, my tiny eyes, my small lips, my uneven skin. I get more and more depressed everyday. I've looked in to surgery but they refuse to do it on someone my age..too young.

Help me please.

im the same way, i just always try to be happy, no matter what. even if im dressed like a bum, just try to be nice. i have acne, kinda bad too, but i dont let that bring me down, i just always re apply my make up, so ppl cant see it. wear eye make up that seems to open your eyes and take ppl's attention away from your nose, dont get it pierced, that will be attention. Buy one of those little pen looking things that shave off hair and carry it with you. yeah your not suppose to shave your hair, but if you always do it, and never let it grow back bad, no one will ever now. hope i helped

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what do they mean when they say i "dry Humped" or i had "Dry sex"?!?? what is DRY? i thought sex was sex.

if your a girl, its when you hump a guy with cloths on, same with dry sex. hope i helped

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sorry if this isnt in the right category but..
i get acne often, not alot of it just maybe two big zits or something.

what really really works on acne?
and what makes acne clear up overnight? or as quick as possible?
please lemmi no? thanks a bunch =]

proactive has a face mask you can put on and it helps A LOT!.. over night, i love it, i like it better then the regular proactive.. haha.. so maybe order proactive, become a member and after that you can just buy the mask if you like it better.. hope i helped

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