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Ive been with the same guy for what soon will be 5 years, and i love him with all my heart, he is my first love and i think im his first love too, ive given my all to him, but sometimes i feel he takes me for granted..theirs points were i cant stop crying, cuz its so hard, but truly hes the only one i have, im so in love and so scared to let go yet being with him is driving me crazy and i just dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!! i feel stuck because im so scared of being without him yet it hurts at the same time being with someone who wont commit with me and who will ignore me at times...AHHHH (im 22) (link)
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Tell him you need some time apart, but don't burn your bridges. Let time clear your head some, then consider the relationship. If it is worthwhile, then get back together. If it was a waste of time, be glad you found out.
But more likely than not, it sounds like you should really consider leaving this relationship behind for good.
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some people tell me that i am a nonfashion female...
i am always conscious on what im wearing...
y??... because my brother always tell me that im out of fashion... when i choose what i would like to wear, my mom always contradict me and push through the clothes that i dont want....
can you give me advices on how to have a "proper" outfit???
thanks.... this is my first time to enter this group...... (link)
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The proper outfit is what you look good in and/or feel comfortable in, preferrably both.
Don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. Make your own fashions!
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ok so sometimes at night i cant sleep and im up and i get the munchies i know its not healthy to eat junkie foods especially after like 5 o clock ive tried like nectarines and fruit but it actually leaves an empty feeling in my stomach any ideas? thanks bunches! (link)
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Fruits aren't too filling...
Try yogurt or smoothies. Or a nice glass of chocolate milk.
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okay, so i can figure out what this says.
YO AMOR USTED
ive tried to translate it, but it doesnt work. so i was wondering if anyone could find out, and let me know. I RATE HIGH! (link)
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It is very poor spanish. They are trying to say I love you, but did so in a manner that makes them see like an idiotic gringo. ^^
Properly, it would be Yo te amo. Or simply Te Amo.
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Okay, so I've been doing piano for like 5 years now. When I first got a piano I really wanted to take lessons, but that's when I was like...10? Now it's become insane. It ruins my social life, and I don't practice so my really mean Russian teacher gets really mad! I've asked my mom to let me quit, but she gets so mad whyen I ask and says no! What do I do? I want to quit! (link)
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Find something else you like better, then bring it up with your mom again. So long as you are doing something, your mom is more likely to let you quit.
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ok well i posted before about some guy....i told him how i felt and he just said things like ohh i knew it but hes totally ok with it....now the thing is that i REALLY like him...so now i dont know what to talk 2 him about because online hes usually the quite one..so what should i talk 2 him about...and i wanna talk 2 him about me liking him but i dont wanna really other him..what should i say without him getting annoyed??? ILL RATE HIGH 4 good answers!! THANKS!! (link)
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Just talk about any interests you share. You can also let himknow you'd like to do something together. You know, go see a movie, or hang out or something. Just be yourself!
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Okay so i`m 17 and i was goin out with this 20 yr old boy for about 7 months..but we've been hookin up for almost a year. Then he cheated on me with his ex. so we seperated. Lets pretend this boys name is Bob. So while me and bob were broken up, we still talked and hooked up every once in a while. but not much. So i had a lot of free time for once. Durin the free time i met this other 20 yr old boy. he was so sweet and everything. so we started talkin. We`ll call this boy Joe. So later on, i come to find out that Bob and Joe are like worst enemies. they`ve been beefin` with eachother for YEARS! So then they find out about eachother, which isnt that big of a deal bc im not goin out with either one. but still they were mad and wanted to fight eachother. so Joe got locked up almost 2 weeks ago. And everyone wants me to help get him out. But i currently go out with Bob again, so he doesnt want me to. I mean some times i think i love bob, but i find myself constantly thinkin about Joe. and i miss him a lot. I dont know who would be a better choice for me? and i dont wanna make the wrong one.. I really need help. I dont wanna be lyin to them, so i just want one... plzzzz help .. thanxx (link)
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I say ditch them both. If they are fighting like that, then they are probably the jealous types.
But if you must choose one, then Joe.
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ok, well i really care about someone and have strong feelings for them. I feel like I don't want anyone in the world but him. We dont really talk much, alls i can say to him is "hi" and he'll say "hi" back. He knows i like him but he doesnt like me. I really want to talk to him, but i'm scared mostly of what he'll say back. what should i do? (link)
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Just talk to him! Try to initiate a friendship. WHo knows where that will lead?
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every time i eat, no matter what i eat, i feel really guilty. what is wrong with me? some of my friends say i am anorexic because i skip meals sometimes (not a lot tho) and i am always on a diet. help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You are unfrotunately anorexic. You show all the psychological symptoms.
You are not fat. Try a BMI calculator, and you will see that you are indeed not fat. You may even be underweight! ^^
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okay, even though i give out advice i need it for my room,
my room is being painted blue, and chesnut stained floor, and a mission kind of furnitur, its all dark, like everything, now i neeed things liike a bedspread or something like so, does anyone know here to get things like that??
x0o
brok3n (link)
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Look at domestications.com
They have a variety of bedding, and you'll be sure to find something. ^^
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i need to find a new bedspread. my mom told me to look online but i cant find any i really like. i already looked at www.pbteen.com and all the department stores i can think of. does any one know where i can find a cute bed spread? 15/f (link)
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domestications.com
That is where I get mine. They have a huge variety.
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I'm going to summer school so i have to pack my lunches once again. They don't sell any lunches, unfortunately because i would sometimes buy my lunch so i didn't really face this problem.
?- are there any good substitues to the boring sandwich that i can easily prepare for sack lunches?
thanks! (link)
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Try some sandwiches with pizazz! ^^ Add stuff to them, go all out! ^^
Bagels with cream cheese are good, especially when you use flavored ones.
Chips and a dip are good too!
Or bring leftovers of your favorite food.
Yogurt is good as well.
I personally don't like lunchables.
If you have access to a microwave, you can get soups and such in special microwave containers.
Or you can eat cup ramen. ^^
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hey im a 14 year old girl and im redecorating my room and i want it to be fun and cool my favorit colors are hot pink and blue im open to any fun colors thx (link)
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I'd suggest looking through magazines and such for ideas.
I generally work with theme ideas, so if you want some ideas, just ask! ^^
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Okay, so I have this shirt that is just right lengthwise but the width of it is too wide. do you know any tricks that i can do to the shirt to make a smaller, without sewing. thanks in advance. (link)
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Wear a belt/sash on top of the shirt. If done right, you can make the shirt look smaller, and have a fun new look!
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okay well tomorrow or thursday this guy that i like is gonna come down to my house .. i only have one thing planed and that is watch a movie.. because we won't have to talk because well i won't say he's shy but he's not good at making conversation.. so i realised it would be a good way to just like chill and cuddle :-) but what else can we do because that only takes up like 2 hours or less of the time! any answers would be gladly appreciated.. easy 5 (link)
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Video games are great. A little friendly competition^^
Try cooking together! That can be very fun.
Board games can be fun too.
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Hi, i did have dark brown hair, i bought a blonde hair dye which has turned my hair a horrible ginger colour, how can i get it blonde??? (link)
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You'll have to bleach your hair before dying it. That way, the brown won't affect the new dye.
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What sort of job should i be looking for when i get out of high school, or what should i go to college for? Im not sure what i want to do with my life, and im really good at sports, can you give me something to think about? (link)
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If you are good at sports, try to get a sports scholarship for college.
Go to college for a little while. It may be that college isn't for you. But it is worth a shot.
Study anything that interests you! ^^
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I just got in a huge fight with my sister. It started out as me being jealous of how she looked in her bathing suit. (really good! which I do not look) But then she started being really mean to me anyways. What should I do? And please don't tell me to tell ym sister I am soooo sorry and that I love her because she is not the mushy type at all. Thanks! -twistedsister17 (link)
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Explain why you got angry. She'll feel flattered and not be mand at you anymore.
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do anyone knows how to graph a piecewise function????? just asking..........hey wanna be friend??????????????? (link)
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You graph a piece wise function by graphing all the pieces. For example:
2x, x2
You'd graph 2x up until you reached x=2
Then at x=2 you'd graph the point (2,4)
Then from there, you would continue graphing x^2
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Just got laid off from the best job I've ever had. Thankfully, it's because they don't have enough money. But I won't be able to get another job like this one for a looong time.
What I am asking is for any good pick-me up ideas. thank you for your time (link)
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Video games, chocolate, movies, anything fun.
And who knows! Maybe they'll get some more money and hire you back! ^^
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