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my parents are divorced and i live a hard life....and what really frustrates me is when i see my dad and his gf making out... it makes me sick to the stomach!!!what will make me not feel this way????
♥ indeed2

wow..i kinda have the same feeling, my parents always fought and shit and my dad recently moved out again for a month and he just recently came back 2 weeks ago. my parents are all lovely dovey now out of no where and it does make me sick to my stomach as well. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. I know it wasn't the best but I gave my best shot

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This February vacation (specically Monday) my family was supposed to go for a much deserved vacation to Disney with my aunt uncle and cousins... Well on Sunday their grandmother passed away. Of course that meant they had to cancel their trip with us and we decided it would be disrespectful to go without them. Well this is a very devastating loss for them I haven't heard from them since Sunday and I was wondering how long should I wait to see if they want to reschedule plans? Because I was thinking of going April vacation but I don't want to ask too soon. Any tips on how to bring up the subject and when? How long should I wait?

I don't think April is too soon. Plus I go every year almost to Disney in April the weather is more beautiful in April anyways. Ask your parents maybe they can ask them. It was very kinda of you to wait for them.
God Bless and Have fun when you go on your vacation.

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omg my hair is sooo frizzy and i dont know what to do about it! i've tried many products but nothing seems to work!

please help!

japanesse starighten..i think its called..it works well someone i know had really frizzy thick hair..and she got it done and its really staright just bends a little when she puts it up..byt then again that happens to everyone.

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I got a prom dress for my Senior Promt his year last year when they were on sale. My mom made me get it a size bigger tha I am thinking I would grow into it over the year but I haven't. So I was wondering how much do you think it would cost to get it taken in about a half a inch. thanx for any help

i think it depends on your tailor..if you go to a local one and ask they would probably give you an estimate...sry i know it wasnt the best advice

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okay here's my story, about four months ago i meet this boy named ryan at night with my three best girlfriends, they dared me to go up and start flirting with him because they thought he was like the hottest thing ever (i didnt AT THE TIME lol) anyways so i went up to him and i had a REALLY LONg and sweet convo with him.. we ended up trading sn's and phone numbers and we still end up talking until now... and i dont want to sound stupid or anything but i REALLY liek him and i want to know if he'll like me back but i have a HUGE problem. im NOT allowed to date until im fifteen and im 13 now and turning 14 in AUG. and he;s 15 and turning 16 in july...and one more thing, PLEASe everybody PLEASE dont think im like racist or anything when is ayt his but im not allowed to date\marry anyone who sint jewish.. and Ryan is catholic!!! please help..first of all i wanna know if i should disobey my mom bcuz i REALLy like Ryan and it hink he lieks me back and also is there anyone else out there with the whole mom\dating situation!!?!?!?1 lol PLEASEEEEEE HELP!!
-CONFUSED ONE =)

just tell her that your just friends...? wow.that is kinda messed up though..i kinda have the same issue just i cant date till im 16 n i can date any religion basically since..my mom is catholic n my dad is jewish...so if 2 people are 2 different religion...the important this is that they like them for who they are and who they arent. i know it wasnt the best but i gave my best shot.

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P.S. its your choice to disobey them!

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i am going to an interview because i want to become an actress but i am scared because i dont no who is going to be there and i am frightend that i will throw up or do something humiliating. does any one have experience or advice so i can calm down?

i dont have any experience...just the advice part

the advice part is: TO BE YOURSELF! lol sry but its true...people dont like you for who your not.

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I have really straight dark brown hair..When I blow dry my hair i have little fly aways.. so I straighten it a little... so then my hair is even straighter then what it normally is... But.. I would love to have like wavy curly hair.. is there any products i could use to make this happen without having to get a perm or doing something that will make it that way forever?

when you get out of the shower..keep ur hair in a towel...after a few minutes take it out..even ur part out WITHOUT brushing it..take some moose rub it on your hands and then scrunch your hair..then throw some gel in there as well in the same process with what you did with the moose..then spray it with hair spray for the stuff your didn't get with the gel or the moose..such like bangs or some sort

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I need good websites to find information on Wang Wei for a history project. I'm at school with limited time for research, so answer promptly!

-Tallon

well when i was doing my school research project back last month or 2 or whatever...she told us to use www.mamma.com for research..type in the name and hit enter it and it comes up with a list of sites..i find it more helpful then google

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Alright, my mom is taking me shopping soon, and I was wondering if any girls know maybe where some really good shirts described as these:

1.Long sleeved shirts that are sort of plainish, vintagish.
2.Tommy Hilfigure brand shirts
3.Mainly shirts that are very nice, and has hardley anything on it, and maybe a few idea on where to get a huge choice of jeans

This would be very helpful, high ratings given to those who list.

Kohl's
Macy*s
JCPenney
Forever 21
G+G
abercrombie and fitch?
aeropostale
DOTS

if i think of anymore ill let you know.

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I recently had a boyfriend and i liked him alot and he said he liked me. then 18 days later he broke up with me. he said he wasnt ready for a relationship, but i have been hearing from friends that he thought i took up to much of his time or i was to controlling. he said it had nothin to do with me and still wants to be friends. i like him so much and want more than friendship what do i do?

just wait till the time is right...maybe a month from now you should ask him about havin that "relationship" back again..sry i know it wasnt the best.

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My Friend is going to have sex with a boy this febuary vacation and i want to do it too. but the boy that i want to do it with is my friends X but she is moving do you think i should do it or do you think i should wait until she moves so she wont get mad at me?
Please Help Me.
x o Me o x
Gender- female

u shouldnt have sex just because ur friend is doing it...sheesh...sry but its true

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Ok, I give advice but for once...i don't have an answer. There is this boy at my school and I like him alot, we flirt with eachother alot and talk to eachother all the time. Everybody thinks we would make an awesome couple but It only works if he likes me back. I am a kinda preppy emo gurl and he is a punk. I hang out with alot of punks and emo and skaters... how can I let him know I like him without being pushy or love dovey (haha) please help me! How can I dress or act give me everything you have!!!!! Thanks very much!
Age:13 ( a little young, but love is for everyone)
Gender:female

just act your self!!..i know im in the same spot at the same moment besides...he isnt in my school yet he is a grade younger yet older but anyways...just act urself and maybe hint u like him..like say ask him who he likes..and smile about it if he says no one..or just come out staright and say it...i know it wasnt much help but i tried my best

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Okay here is the problem my friend just turned 12 last week but her room looks a little kiddish with like pink wallpaper,horse models and so on but she wants her room to look like a 12 year old kid's room but her mom will not let her get new furniture or paint her walls.So does anyone have any ideas on how she could make her room look good without getting new furniture and stuff?I will rate fives to anyone who helps with this room emergency no matter if your advice is not very good!!!

move the furniture around...paint the old furniture? maybe sponge the walls with white paint to look kinda coolish...what kind of mother wont let her child re do her room...i must have re done mine like 5 times in 5 years....now im finshed and happy with what i have..

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I got My best friend Nicole a job at the same place i worked. I introduced her to Danny (my crush). She called me the first day of work and told me that she told Danny that i liked hiim. I was so embarrased but i let it go. Some weeks went by and Nicole stoped speaking to me. I expressed my feelings about the situation to another co-worker. And word got around that I thought Nicole was being wierd. Later on that day. I got a Message on my cell phone. It was Nicole calling me all types of nasty names. She told me that i should stop spreading rumors about her. So I *69 her right away. You would never guess who picked up the phone. It was Danny. It was his home telephone #. When i confronted her about the situation she acts like it is all my fault. And i'm making up things. Is my so called best friend playing me for a fool?

your so called best friend isnt yer friend right now she obviously likes him 2 and wants u to stop likeing him just so she can get a chance maybe u should talk to her ...shes being the biggest bitch about it and she seems like a girl who will do wat ever it takes just to get wat she wants DNT LET HER

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Why are Condoms flavored?

so when u suck the guys yeah.... IT TASTE GOOD (lol sry i let my friend answer that and i agree with that)

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If I told you I was almost 15, and my boyfriend was almost 17, and that we want to get married, and have been together for over a year, and we're best friends, what would you say?

whoa...I was gonna say wait till your after college then I notice the additional info stuff...I say wait till your 20, 21, 22...or 23 to get married at the most wait till your 25.

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My roommate has been in the hospital for almost a week now. It started out as a tooth ache, and turned into a ballooned up face. It's something that's usually pretty routine, and fixed by a week or so of penicillin and a root canal, but the penicillin din't work and it only got worse very quickly.

She feels really ugly because of her face, and has been worrying because of her tooth. Instead of just a root canal, they may have to pull the entire tooth, and it's a tooth near the front of her mouth.

I've been to see her off and on, her family has been coming, even as far as a few states over, and her boyfriend has been at the hospital pretty much non-stop so that she isn't alone there.

I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of things that I could do for her to make her feel better.

buy all her favorites thats she allowed to have..all her favorite flowers, stuff animals that she has around the bedroom room, so it will make her feel like she isnt in the hospital. As far as pulling the entire tooth. I'm 14 and I had oral surgery done 2 weeks from yesterday to help one of me teeth to come up since it's there and wouldn't come up, they wound up just pulling my permeant tooth which is on the bottom right side of my mouth, so its not a big deal gettin a tooth pulled, if she is over 16 or 18 and she has stopped growing she will be able to get an implant and have a fake tooth put in replace of her old tooth. I hope she gets well soon.

-EDITED-

-what/how she looks on the outside doesnt matter, its what matters is on whats the inside-
*tell her that and see what she says*

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I came to a new school this year and i hav a couple new friends and i eally miss my old friends and hardly ever hear from some of them. I kind of feel like my new friends are replacing my old ones but i know they're not and they are great friends. Every time we go to the CVS in my old neighborhood i think it would be the coolest thing if i saw them. Someone please help me.

Call them up and see if you can hang out with them..matter of fact one of my friends moved last year a little before the school year ended...the last time I saw her was the last day of school of the year and I didn't get to see her for the 1st time till about 4 weeks ago...we saw each other 2 twice in a 2 week period...and its gettin so insane that we haven't seen each other that we are going to the mall again today and she is staying over....soo call them up and ask them to hang out!!!

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hey, I'm going to Florida in 3 or 4 days and i want to look a little "less" in my bathing suit... like losing 10 pounds. Does anyone have any ideas how to make it work [besides becoming anorexic or bulimic]. thanks so much

sry its kinda impossiable to lose 10 pounds in 3 or 4 days...inless you dont eat and running a lot before you...but the results to show till another few weeks or so.

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I want to plant nice flowers in my backyard does anyone know some mystical flowers i can plant im really spirtual and plant like.

umm try reading books about plants?
sry i dont know much bout gardening

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