Im 20 years old, I have faced many obstacles and problems that I have had to go through alone with no help and the help I recieved wasn't ever any good. I have faced women problems, friends moving, suicide, killings, deaths, car accidents, sibling rivals, fighting, weird hobbies, my best friends being raped. I have been through a little of everything and I was the one many of them turned to so I like to help out.
Hobbies: I do a lot of work in recording studios, and video/editing studios so I know film pretty well. I am a director/producer. Thats what I am in school for, to further my knowledge of set production for I am a pre production wizard. I read a lot so I have knowledge. And more.
Education: I graduated at the top 15 percent of my class in high school which was college prep, and right now im in my 3rd year od college. I have an AA degree in media arts, a 6 month screen writing certificate from NYFA. I am 11 months from my BA in FILM and HDTV, and I am a semester away from an International Business Degree.
SO if you have any questions im polite and easy to talk with and you can ask me any question you have, I will be honest no matter what.
E-mail: spin18@aol.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Mexico but live in AZ
Occupation: Sudent/Film and TV Producer
Age: 20
AIM: Tightwireprod
Member Since: January 15, 2004
Answers: 446
Last Update: July 6, 2006
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I recently just became boyfriend and girlfriend with this really nice guy. I really like him and I know he likes me, but he doesn't want people to know about us yet. A dance is coming up and I REALLy want to slow dance with him but I also don't want to give him away to all his friends. I also heard him telling someone he doesn't like anyone when i was right there. I respect that he doesn't want people to know...But i do. What should I do? (link)
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I don't mean to be rude but I would dump him. If a girl ever wanted to hide the fact she was dating me I wouldn't want to waste my time because there is no point in being in a relationship that doesnt want to acknowledge our relationship im not going to spend that time hiding my feelings. So I suggest you do the same and find someone who wants to be with you in private and in public.
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Lately my boyfriend is being very cold to me. He doesn't want to hug or hold me, he barelly calls. I try to be very affectionate with him but it hurts when you get no affection back. He constantly thinks that I am either lying or cheating on him, which I am doing neither. I love him very much and I want things to work out between us but I don't know what else to do to show him I am good to him. What should I do? (link)
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Remind him that you care for him, reassure him your are there for him and that you want to be with no one else but him. But it seems as if something is wrong with him something is on his mind talk with him about it let him know if he wants to talk about it you are willing to listen. It may take sometime but he will come around. Just remind him your there. but don't force him or he will pull back further.
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ok, 4-h is having a camp out of town. my grandma is afraid i'll get homesick. and she doesn't trust everybody. Life is such a drag! She says I can't go unless she is a chaperon. My friends get to go. I told her that they get to go. She says I'm the boss and you're gonna listen to what I say. (i live with her) My friends' dads are chaperones and one's mom is a chaperon. I told her that and she said I'll think about letting you go. I askedmyfriend what were the odds of my grandma(who is 63) of becoming a chaperon. She said 0 out of 10. What do I do? Please don't tell me to wait because i already have waited and asked her about every 5 days. She keeps saying I'll think about it. I know that means no. If you have the odds of her becoming a chaperon or even the chances of me going please tell me even if its stupid. Im desperate! If u nowhat i should do tell me that, too. thanks. :) (link)
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odds of her becoming a chaperon is very slim, but if you sit down and talk as as adults and get each others side of the story on why you want to go and why it is so important im sure she will understand. And when I mean sit and talk I mean it no rolling eyes or raising of the voices I mean talk like adults. This might allow her to see your maturity and she might just let you go.
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I've been trying lately to wear nicer clothes to work; more suits and ties and things of that sort. I think it helps me out in meetings. But I worry about what others may think and wonder if I come across as too ambitious or uppity for the job I'm in, which is a scrub helper fresh out of college. Can suits hurt a career or just help it? (link)
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Depends on the job, but in my experience it helps the job rather than huyrt because it shows matuirty and that you do care for yourself, and its a good impression for others.
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hey i need to lose like 10 pounds by the 21 of feb. any ideas?
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Run, and swim. If you have rollerblades, skate for an hour really hard and fast and you can burn up to 1/4 of your food intake
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I need some help. There are some boys at my school that I like to hang out with. They are not the best looking but its whats on the inside that matters. Any good tips to tell if you are in love?
Sincerely,
Mea* (link)
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There is no way for one of us to tell if your in love, and for everyone its different, it could be many things and if your still in Middle school or possibly early Highschool its just a strong crush sorry to tell you that but thats all it is because that time is a trial period.
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ok this site keeps deleting my message all I asked was if mean peopls suck do nice people blow? its a simples question but it get deleted but people can ask gross stuff and the message wont get deleted.
can you please answer boh of my questions please (link)
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Mean people suck and nice people blow is a humorous joke. Didn't you know that? It has nothing to do with reality in general.
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What does asl stand for? (link)
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Age Sex Location
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Does Anyone know any good, free chat rooms to go to to meet people around the teen age? (link)
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What service are you using? Like internet service
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I love this guy, Jace, but he is going out with my so called best friend..... I really want to tell him how i feel.... but i'm really shy about these things....what do i do? (link)
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It is love ask your self that first before you ruin that friendship
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whats a blow job? (link)
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It means to suck a guys penis
Blow
go down on
oil change
suck
give head
those are also other terms and phrases
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what does seduce mean? (link)
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Like sexually attract, stimulate, turn on
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I made really bad choices for my A levels- I took English Lit, History, Welsh and Chemistry. The first two are fine, Chemistry is really difficult and I can't stand Welsh anymore because the teacher is so horrible.
She is always really negative about everything I do which makes it really hard to motivate myself enough to hand stuff in on time. She says that I have an attitude problem and I suppose than in some ways I do- but she isn't helping. I have to pretend to be cheerful in her lessons otherwise it would ruin the atmosphere for the other members of the class.
She sent a letter home to my parents, they got it this morning so I don't know what's in it. I had to go off to school wondering what was in it.
Today we were supposed to go and watch a welsh TV program being filmed - not important for the course but just a bit of fun. I couldn't face the thought of being with her for 11 hours- from 1:30 pm to 12;30 am ( yep on a school night). I decided not to go. I told her that I had rehearsals because I couldn't say that I wasn't going because I hate her. She told me that I'm selfish, rude, lazy and underacheiving.
I had to go and talk to my form tutor and year head, my tutor was sympathetic but my head of year basically said that shit happens, it's my fault that we don't get on and that I just have to deal with it.
Anyone got any ideas on how to resolve this? (link)
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QUIT the class
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I think I'm going to ask the kid I like out...in a note? He was just so cute today...it was like a movie...and he's not that average heartthrob boy either. He's a ghetto white boy. But he's just...i dont know...should I? What should I say? He doesn't know me but it's worth a shot right?
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Girl everything is worth a shot, even if its a shot in the dark. But if you ask me you should ask him face to face not through a note, but thats up to you. So I say go for it taking a chance never hurts.
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Sorry, this is so long but please take the time
to read it.We'll call my friend Trea (not her name)Ok, now Trea is the kind of girl who always tries to do the right thing. This boy hit me(we're still under age so it's not against the law.) He put a bruise on my arm Friday. So on Tuesday I (i'm a girl) tried to get him back. He is a lot quicker and stronger so when I went to hit him he pushed me downand I have a sint arm. Wednesday, (today) I went after him again because he had pushed me down Tuesday. I didn't expect to have everything happen that did. Trea, tried to stop me because he pushed me down and I scraped my elbow Wednesday. I was going after him again. I told her to leave me alone (I was mad) and not to tell anyone.My other friend told her the same thing. I went after him because my friend held Trea back. She secretly went and told the teacher on meand the boy. I had almost caught up with him and Trea grabbed my shirt from behind. I couldn't get loose because I was hurting and didn't bother to fight back. She took me to the teacher and they kept asking me questions. I answered as many as I could. They asked me why I hadn't told anyone about the fights. I didn't want to because they usually don't do anything. I can't talk to the boy or his friend (I like his friend but that's not the point) because the teachers won't let us. I don't usually cause trouble. This is my first time. My real question is, is Trea my true friend or not? (link)
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What the hell do you think? That is a friend that cares enough about you so that you don't get hurt again. I think you need to think who is being stubborn in this whole ordeal. Because its you a guy hurts you and you openly admit it and that he is stronger, I wonder what most people would do, TELL. Yea thats true if you ask me your lucky to have a friend like that because next time you went up to him he could have hit you.
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So... I've been dating my boyfriend for a very long time (going on six years now), and our six year anniversary is coming up. I would like us to have sex for our anniversary. I have all the proper protection and am of proper age (late teens). I'm on the pill and have a secret stash of different kinds of condoms in my bedroom. I'm a virgin, but he's not, so he has been tested. He is clean (meaning no STD's). All good and well, yes?
No. I'm worried about what my friends will say if my boyfriend and I have sex. Should I be? I mean, of course I'm going to tell them. No way around that, because I just can't keep that kind of secret. They are the ONLY people I would ever tell, though, and I trust my boyfriend completely. But I'm just worried about what my friends will think of me. Again, should I be? (link)
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No you shouldn't be worried about what they are going to think, if their your friends they will leave it alone, and if they have had sex before they have no place to criticize you.
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here's the story. im a lesbian, but my family has yet to find out. they have no idea and i want to tell them, but i cant. i know theyll still love me, but i know how much of a disappointment that will be for them(my parents). ive made them happy so many ways, and they said theyre proud to have me as their daughter. and they keep talking about when im going to be a mother some day, and how excited they are because they know theyll be grandparents one day, but thats where i know im going to disappoint them. because theyre not going to get to see their grandchildren.. because.. there wont be any. i REALLY dont want to disappoint them, but i know i will once they find out that the family line ends with me (since i dont have brothers or sisters). so i dont know what to do, i dont want to force myself to be straight, but i dont want to let them down also. i really dont know what to do, ive cried over this situation so much because i can picture their disappointment once they find out. (link)
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Well you are going to have to tell them one day or another. Its better to let them know now so that in the future they already know. If you don't tell them its going to make it a lot harder for them to understand later on, and who knows they might understand no matter what. So tell them the sooner they know the better off all of you are.
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I am 14 turning 15 soon and I am an actress, and I went to a world tour audition called The Lion King On Broadway. Well, at the audition my mom and I were in line, and in front of us was this one mother and her son. And the mother showed my mom and I pictures of her son because he did modeling. I remember he kept on starring at me and flirted with me and I thought he was cute as well. But this was 2 years ago. Well this year 2004 I saw the movie Peter Pan. And after the movie my mom and I said to each other, that boy (Jeremy Sumpter, the boy who played Peter Pan) looks vagely familiar...so later I looked him up and it turns out that he was a model. Do you think I really did meet him??? My other question is...well later in the week I kept on dreaming about him and thinking about him, so, I have four of the Sixth Sences so I can communicate to the angels and I made a bet with myself..."if the light goes on then that means I will someday date Jeremy Sumpter if not..." then the light turned on before I finished my sentence which was (if not the light will not turn on). What do you think that ment? Do you think I did met him, and will someday date him??
Sincerely,
Peter Pan Fan of the Man (link)
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Its possible, because I met Hilary Duff when I was 11 years old. I ran into her at one of her fathers convienient stores and look where she is now. SO im saying its possible
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Alright advice columnists, listen up I NEED ADVICE!
When someone posts a question and the way a guy acts about you and you guys sometimes say that I, You love him but then when someone admits she loves a guy you say "you just had deep feelings for him" WELL!!!! whats the difference? i mean "DEEP" feelings are 'posed to be love right because whats the difference then? im lost i need advice!
signed
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Deep feelings don't mean love. Its like I have deep feelings for my girlfriend right now because we have been together for 5 months and I've known her for 5 years. But I love my bestfriend Jessica because I have known her since I was a baby. Im in love with my x-girlfriend because I know we belong together and will be together in the future. DO you see what I mean its a feeling Deep is just a way of saying the feeling is really strong.
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Okay, today at lunch a guy that's friends with my friend "Tim" asked me out for Tim. Nice, huh? Well, problem is, I don't feel the same way about Tim... I don't wanna say no to him, cuz I'd feel soooo horrible, but I don't wanna date someone when I like this other guy A LOT. One of my best friends said that I should date Tim for a week, and dump him if I don't like him. I think that'd be evil! WHAT SHOULD I DO?! (link)
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Well first if you don't like him its not nice to lead him on, second you have to think could you possibly like this guy after you get to know him better?
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