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What's up? Well, I'm sure like each and every other advice columnist is that, we all enjoy giving advice . I like to keep things real and you'll find out how real when you ask me a question . I absolutely love helping people . Hollah at me sometimes !!! Oh, and yahoo me . Goodness sakes knows that I could do with the mail.
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I feel so idk any more. Every boy i been with has used me for sex but they never got it so they dumped me. I ment this really sweet boy and at his party last weekend we fucked. Were not going out but we tell each other we love one another. I care bout him so much. His house cought on firer and i feel really bad. I care about him so much and i dont think he noes. This last week ive been trying to be with him as much as i can cause he moving this weekend really far. Im gonna miss him and ive been crying so much. Im so scared i might do something that i dont wanna do. What should i do?
Be there for him unconditionally in a way that is intimate , yet not so intimate that it seems that the statement that you're making is I want to fuck again. Show that you're there for him. Give him soothing words and hugs,and tell him verbally how much you love him. But don't say it excessively that he begins to think that you're asking something out of him/from him because that really will make him think that you're conceited. Just be there for him and let him know that you love him so much. Hope I was some help and have a nice day.
Hey everyone, um, i have a really bad problem with looking at porn. the longest i have gone without looking at porn is 1 week. I really honestly think i am losing my faith. I am afraid that i am getting further and futher from God. A lot of bad things have been happening to me and my friends. I cuss a lot more. I do stuff, I look at porn more and more and i cannot stop. Please dont tell me that what i am doing is wrong cuz i know that. I need some really good advice
Just because you look at porn, doesn't make you any less a christian. It's just you being curious about another sexuality and that's quite understandable and healthy (if you're a teenager). What you really have to understand is that you're feeling guilty, and that you're trying to punish yourself. Everyone's not perfect. You have to ask God for forgiveness and with that comes forgiveness of yourself from you. There are millions of people that do things that are 800 times sinful than you do(which really makes your sins seem like child play), and they live with themselves. You just have to ask for forgiveness and try to live a better life. Tell God of your problems, don't repress them. Deal with them. I hope I was some help and I do hope that I made you feel a bit better. Have a good day.
when you go to get a physical.. sumtimes yoou have to pee in a cup right? well can they tell by ur urin if you have smoked weed.. cuz i thought that when you go they get a urin sample to see if you have done drugs?? or maybe im thinking of sumthing else.?? PLEASE I RATE HIGH
if you are not dumb about this i will rate you a 5..
Well yes, I assume when they take urine samples that they do look for drugs, and weed is a drug that is illegal. So naturally, yes, a urine sample will show if you've done any sorts of drugs (weed, crack cocane, ectasy). It's nothing else,AND YOU'RE RIGHT ABOUT THE THEORY YOU CAME UP WITH. Goodluck and have a nice day. Although there are ways to get around from the doctor finding weed in your system. Alright , here's it. Don't intake any sorts of drugs 72 hours before the appointment. Lay off it. If you have vinegar , I know it sounds ridiculous, that'll help cleanse you good, then use it. Don't smoke it any hours less than 72 hours. It would be good if you started it right now. Good luck and I hope I was some sort of help.
Im going to the beach this month, and I have no confidence when it comes to wearing a bikini. I'm pretty skinny everywhere else except my waistline. (I have really huge love handles that are unproportional to the rest of me.) I've been trying to lose it before this summer, but not seen any progress. Im also uncomfortable wearing bikini bottoms for some reason, I know im weird. So i bought some girl swim shorts that go to my knees (like surf shorts.) Do you think that would look stupid for me to wear those and a small tee or tank top when im swimming?
Well. really it depends on your height, the texture of your skin, maybe even the color of your hair or eyes because things like that definitely matter. I don't really think it's stupid I just think that it sends out a signal to those that you're uncomfortable with your physical appearance . The conservative clothing shows this. But then again, this is the U.S.(that's if you dwell in the U.S.) and no one truly cares. Wear it with pride and confidence. It's not the suit that makes you but it's the way you wear the suit that makes you. Therefore you make the suit. Be of pride. I hope I was some help and have a nice day.
I have a friend you always says she's really depressed. At first i really was worried and i belived her to the fullest, but now its like she does it only for attention!! I hate it! She wont even eat anymore! I try to get her too but she refuses to! I dont know how to act around her anymore, cause she always takes everything the wrong way, Please please please help!! I'll rate high i promise!! I just dont know what to do!
You probably need to let her know that you're there for her whenever she needs you. I know that you may think she's doing it for attention, but there may perhaps be the slightest possibility of your friend suffering from depression and it's not uncommon for us teens in this day and age. Letting her know that you absolutely care is one of the best things you can do for her. Also, after you've been there for her and her conditions worsen, then you may need to notify an adult. A doctor perhaps, her parent or guardian. I know that you wouldn't want to put your friendship on a thread like this, but your friends general well being is very important. Physically and mentally and thus it should be taken seriously. If you perhaps cared for her life, even if she is faking it for attention, then she needs help. Obviously, something is wrong. That is only if her conditions don't change. So, I hope I was some sort of help and have a nice day.
I have liked this guy since I was in third grade, (I'm in tenth now) and he told all of my friends that he liked me too. But when my friends told him that he should ask me out, (with out me knowing so i was like incredibly embarresd) he said he wasnt alowwed to date yet. But just last Sunday when i was sitting in his car and we were listening to music (Hollaback Girl) he said it was his girlfriends favorite song! I just brushed it off at first and pretended that i didnt notice, but it really hurt! I dont know how to act around him anymore, cause he still acts like he likes me....Someone help me please!
Well, it might just be a thing that is with guys. Maybe he doesn't like to pursue women who are older than him. Perhaps he feels incredibly intimidated about some quality that you possess. A quality that he may yet adore. You should know, that guys can say and act all sorts of ways. Especially if this particular guy is good when it comes to flirtation. I'm not trying to compare him to others, but I want you to realize that he may have led you on. So, I think you should ask him why he said that he couldn't have a girlfriend when he told you in the car that he does have a girlfriend. If he lies, then he's no good. I don't think you want a liar. Then you'll have to move on . Yeah I know :easier said than done. You just really have to try if he lies . Because believe it or not, you may just deserve better and you're not seeing it. So , I hope I was some sort of help and good luck. You'll never know the full truth if you don't ask him.You're just feeling pressured and a bit insecure. Once you find out the truth though, you should feel and act a lot better around him. Especially when you acknowledge such truth.
ok, i need songs to put on a cd that can get me really pumped for my games-the sports i play are football and basketball. i dont care what kind of music it is, as long as its not classical...lol
"Hollah Back Girl." by Guin Stefanni is a good song to get you crunked for a game .
"Holiday" by Green Day.
"Beverly Hills" by Weezer because I so do love that song and I do think that it would be cool for you.
I would just really try to chose some songs that really appeal to your taste and your soul. So goodluck and have a nice day.
ok i don't really have acne just a few pimples here and there..but when they go away it leaves a red spot behind and they take forever to go away! and my skin is like red and splotchy looking is there any way to get rid of this?
Actually there are a lot of products in stores that you can use as you know. OLAY, CLEAN AND CLEAR, AVEENO(which I prefer you use). But really it's so natural . I wouldn't sweat it too much. But if it means that much to you, I'd purchase the products to help that. Well, I know I wasn't much help, but I do hope I was a little. Have a good day.
I have never smoked and this is my first time smokeing. I smoked 3 full ciggs. Can that make you sick or will I be okay???
You dhould be okay but there may be the possibility of becoming addicted to it. Smoking and you know what it can do to you. But it's your life. Hope I was some help and have a nice day.
Hey. 14.f.
ok so we learned about cutting and stuff in a class in school and how its wrong, but i found it a bit intresting.... so i was really mad one day so i tryed it and it didnt make me feel any better. But, i do have a little cut on my arm. Does this mean that im a cutter even though im not going to do it again?
No, just don't do it again.
ok so i wrote before about this boy that did not text be back and basically loads of people gave me good advice and thank you for that the one that said he wanted to be with me.One of the advice was to phone him so i did and his mum picked up his phone!!! so i just put the phone down.Do you think his mum took his fone away or maybe she now has it please could someone advice me why did his mum pick his phone up?
Perhaps it was a coincidence. Don't freak out. Try again at another time that you'll definitely know that'll be good for him and for you. Since you know him best, you'll have to figure that out. I hope I was some help and good luck with that.
Hi, Im Andrea 15/f Ok, i've basically lost my best friends. I dont know what to do at all. I love them so much and I hate just not talking to them for a DAY so whats it gonna be like the rest of my life? And I mean, I just wish one of them would text me or IM me or try to talk to me because I feel like they don't even miss me. I don't know what to do, and right now I have NOONE to go to because i dont have any friends now. So how can I get them back? And what should I do? AAAA. This is ruining my life. I cry every 10 minutes and I've NEVER cried over friend problems before. I just dont wanna lose them, they mean so much to me. OMG. HELP!
Everything that you're feeling is what you should express verbally when you meet them face to face.It would also be better to give reasons for this. But you should also accept the possibility of them not wanting you to be their friend anymore regardless of how you feel. If they don't want to do this, then I think it's time for you to consider the thought of getting new friends IF they don't want to be your friend anymore. Keep trying and don't give up something that means a lot . Keep fighting for it and don't stop , but accept the possibility . If you don't , you may well be in denial and that only deepens the pain. Cheer up. If they really are your friends, they'll understand and forgive. But not forget. Just try, okay. Have a nice day.
Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.
16 f
I'd really like to believe in this sort of friend if I were in your position, but it's more of the fact that you have to truly have to see all the facts. I'd want to forgive him. and I see the predicament that you're in and I so do understand. If I were in your position, I think that I wouldn't take him back because once a violence such as that happens and a person gets away with it, they might have it in their head that they can do it again. Not an intentional thought, but it's a thought that might occur without that person's knowing. BUT, if I were in your position, I'd consider this person's history. If they are known to be violent, stressfull(stress contributing to violence), then I wouldn't take him back. When it comes to possibilities like this and when you think about love, you really need to forget about it. Your physical and mental well being is far more important than love: especially when you're in a non-marriage relationship. But if his past doesn't involve violence, then give him another chance. But there's a question that you have to ask yourself. The question is IF ARE YOU WILLING TO TAKE THE CHANCE FOR BEING HURT FOR A GUY AND FOR LOVE? IF you are then you know what to do, and if you don't then you'll know what you have to do. You also should think about what you want. I hope I was some help and goodluck with your decision. Use all the wit you can.
Ok, last week my 3 friends and I got in a fight, them vs. me. It kinda sucked cause i was like, definatly on my own and no one coul dback me up on anything, so we arent talking, none of us. And I want to talk to them so bad I just cant because I dont think they even like me anymore. One of those 3 friends was like my friend since 3rd grade so I see her as a BFFFFFFF. And shes the one who doesnt even want to TRY to make it work again. She even told me that we should just give up and that we arent gonna be best friends again. Hmm. what do i DO?
You probably should talk to her and you shouldn't stop for anything. Try saying," we've been friends for too long to let something like this destroy us. Our friendship was long enough to last us from 3rd grade, therefore meaning it's something worth fighting for. And, I am willing to fight for that because I'm really not ready to let that go without a fight."
Don't give up. Make her listen. If after all your other pursuits of trying to convince her to befriend you again fail, you might have to accept the possibility that the friendship wasn't meant to be. But IF it comes out to be this way, then you know something above all. You'll know that it was another hard lesson learned. I really do hope I was some sort of help and I wish you good luck. Have a nice day.
Thank you for your advice. I really wasn't too sure on who I should contact before. Its a long story, but we're trying to find out why it took the ambulance over 20 minutes to respond when we're less than 5 minutes away from a major medical center. They even told my family it took them 5 minutes, but I don't see how thats possible with the info I have. Theres just something really fishy about the whole thing.
Keep digging for answers and keep trying. If they get away with this, not only could it affect you and your family. It could affect the people within your community. You're doing the right thing . Find out why . If you need any more help, I'd gladly help you. Thank you for replying and you're so sweet. Thanx for that and have a nice day. Don't forget, if it's fishy, keep looking and trying. Usually when you scratch enough, you find something beneath the unknown surface.
i dont really know what category to put this under...but does anybody have any good quotes/ sites to find them? i want some for my pro...thanks *i rate
"Whats in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet." said William Shakespere.
" No one can make you feel inferior without your concern." Eleanor Roosevelt.
"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams." Eleanor Roosevelt.
I know that it's not much help, but it's some that I know. I don't know any sites that have any, but I'm sure if you clarify your search blatantly, then you might just find the help you need. Hope I was some help. Good day to you.
I want to ask my guyfriend out because I really like him & there are so many signs he likes me. However, he really likes this other girl & she knows that. What should I do?
Yeah, I was in the same predicament some time ago. I based his "signs" upon his emotional feelings towards me. The fact is that you really shouldn't base it on that. Some people are excellent in flirtation. I'm not trying to bring you down or anything . It's just that you really should talk to this guy and act on it. Or him. When I was in this very same situation, I did nothing of the sort. And now I regret that. But what is lost is lost, and sometimes it can't be regained. You're young. TAKE the chance. And what do you have to lose. We face downfalls and embarrassment every day. Face it this day. Talk to him. And don't worry about the girl. They're not going out , therefore he's not actually committed to the girl. It's really up to you to decide on his feelings about the other girl though. Just try to remember that your comfortability,yourself, and you being content is worth so much more. Good day.
Does anyone know how I can request a transcript or tape from a 911 call? I've searched online but didn't find anything that was useful. Its really important for family purposes. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!!
Well, I don't think that you should try to use the website unless you know a website that is local to the place where you report 911 callings. You should at least look for the 911 service in your town that's local to you(maybe a city or a county where you live). If that doesn't help, then you should maybe go to the police department in your community,or perhaps a court house that may dwell in your community. If you choose to go to either one of these though, you'll have to give a very legitimate excuse to receive a document as such. If I were you, I'd really take some evidence to put great emphasis on your need of the 911 document. And possibly, if you know where the 911 place is, you could receive it possibly with a legitimate excuse. To find out, you probably want to ask a police department, fire department, etc. Otherwise, I know nothing else to do. I hope I was some help and have a nice day. Good luck.
everyone at my school says cheerleading is a sport and some say it isn't a sport..don't answer this question if you are going to write something mean or stupid. so is cheerleading a sport? and if no why is it on espn?
Well, cheerleading is a sport because it involves movements that are difficult and you're physically active when you are doing it. But most people base the issue on whether they like cheerleading or not. So, it's really up to you. Although it's not my sort of thing, I do think that it's a sport. The throwing of people in the air is definitely something I consider as an athletic sport. It's on ESPN because of the competition between popular colleges or high schools , and it's also on there because it's a legitimate excuse for men to watch girls in very short skirts . Basically, it's arousing for them. So it's considered a sport. It's also traditional too. Hope I was some sort of help and have a lovely day.
What do you say to someone you see everyday, have never talked to, you have know what he likes, who is having problems fitting in and whose friends despise you and would not only make fun of you but him too for talking to him? Oh, and did I mention I am madly in love with him?
Try to relax and calm down. I can feel the tension in your question and your tension is-well-unhealthy. Just relax and be you. All you have to worry about is mustering up enough courage to talk to him. Afterwards, go with the flow. If it feels too awkward, then you should try again. BUT if you're really starting to feel too uncomfortable, then you should forget about it.