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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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oookayy so i have dark eyebrows and my mom thinks i should buy bleach and make them lighter.. they dont really bother me but i have no problem making them lighter. but i dont really want to do it myself bc i dont want to mess them up even more. what should i do?

hey, if your okay iwht the color then dont bleach them. but if you want to ask a friend or your mom to bleach them for you. that way you dont have to do them yourself. cait♥

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hey i want a haircut
1.that makes my head appear bigger and that emphasizes my jawline and cheekbones.

2.that looks good curly or straight , straight mainly

3.that looks good in a ponytail at the front and the back

4. where the overall length to just goes past my shoulders.

has anyone got any pictures or suggestions to how i should have it cut?
thanku luv rach xxx

hey, i think i could be of help if you told me what shape face that you have. do you have round, oval, heart, or square? if you could tell me at my inbox that would be great! cait♥

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i was wondering if anyone has used the veet bladeless razor set and if they have does it work and were u statisfied with it?

hey, it works but i wasnt satisfied with it. it gave me this big red rash that itched and hurt for like 2 days. cait♥

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i got this pink green and white tote bag at aeropastale, and i was just wondering if it would look retarted if i used it with clothes that didnt match it. does it matter ? i mean, its just a bag, right?
thanks xo*

hey, i think it would be best to match it. i mean you cant match your bag always but i would try to. cait♥

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So okay i guess you could say me and my friend are somewhat pretty except shes skinny and im a little more normal and maybe a little bit bigger but not big i dont think..it seems as though she gets all these guys andim not jelous im happy for her i just dont see why i cant..does it have to do with my weight?i dont think im fat at all but apparently not skinny to the eyes of guys...
so is it the fact im overweight, or mayb ejust not talkative becasue i am a shy person who i guess seems boring..i guess im just depressed cuz i always put myself down

hey, i dont think its because of your weight. you ned more self confidence. when your arent self confident people sense it and that doesnt attract them. be talkative. join clubs or sports. cait♥

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im 13/f and ive been getting really close with this guy in my grade, like friend ship close. and hes been opening up to me and told me he cuts and i cut to. so weve been talking and im really afraid and i want to stop him from cutting but i dont know what to do.. any suggestions??

oo and theres another problem with this guy.. people have been telling me that we should go out because we talk on the phone for hours and we know each other inside and out, but hes hung up on this one girl like really really hung up on her but shes totally wrong for him and we both know that. is there any way i can help him get over her?

hey, i dont think that you should be worrying about making him stop cutting himself if your cutting yourself too! there are other ays of dealing with pain then cutting. if you only feel like your friendship close and not ready to become a couple then tell him and everyone else. if your ready then take the plunge and ask him out or wait for him to ask you. you cant make him not like a girl. he has to do it himself. maybe if you show hima good time hell forget about her. cait♥

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I've benn trying to find a girlfreind for ever and when I'm almost sure that the girl I'm trying to get involved in a relationship backs out. most girls i know and treid to get a relationship with only see me as a realy good friend. why? what am i doing wrong?
Help me please...
I'm 17 and never had a girlfreind before!

hey, maybe its because when you approach a girl you do it in a friendly way. because you may do that, that could easily cause a girl to think of you as a "best friend" instead of a boyfriend. if you really want to get into a relationship with someone try approaching them flirty instead of friendly. cait♥

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Okay, so here's the story: I left my backpack in my mom's car. She threatened to take it to work the next day (today). She always makes empty threats and never follows through. She bugged me about my backpack, and I told her not to nag me. When people nag me, I tune them out. So I fell asleep and forgot about my backpack. It's with my mom at work, and I can't go to school now becuase I don't have anything and all of my grades would drop for things that I didn't have//couldn't turn in. Do you think it was right for her to take my backpack?

I mean, I know that I should have taken it out of her car. But do you think it was right for her to take it?

She took out half of my other stuff, but she left my backpack.

And it sucks.

Opinions?

hey, i think it was the right thing for her to do. not taking in your backpack is prob. one of your habits that you do alot. even if it isnt she told you that she was going to take it to work. shes trying to teach you a lesson. you have to take the responiblity of taking in your backpack after school. cait♥

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Is it possible to block a call from a Verizon Wireless cell phone?

hey, yes it is! dial *67 before the number. example *67(1781)123-4567. cait♥ EDIT: CALLED VERISON FOR HELP.

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ok everyday i wake up about like 4:00 in the morning but after i go to sleep suddenly after like 10 to 20 minutes my whole body becomes paralized,i cant move i cant speak,can open my eyes i cant even open my mouth until like 10 seconds then it goes away!..this started once everytwo weeks then went on to once every other day now it happens everyday!...people say its stress but i dont know yes im going through alot more then any 14 yearold can ever imagine other people should thank the Lord they dont go through what i go through...but i dont know what it is its killing me i learned how to beat it now i just have to take control over my body again but its scary i dont even like goin to bed anymore! please help me!!

hey, you NEED to see a doctor ASAP. this could be some type of an anxity attack. just see the doctor to make sure. cait♥

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well i have asked a question on how i can be more outgoing cause its affecting my ability to be able to make friends. well i try to be interesting but no one seems to like me. like i see people in the halls at school saying "want to come over my house" or "Want to go bike riding" no one ever asks me that, is it because i'm boring? what can i do to make people want me as their friend? and how can i keep friend? i am really desperate for help. :( i have like one kind of best friend and she never even asks me to do stuff! she doesnt even invite me to her parties! and please dont say "why dont you ask THEM"

hey, i think your just shy. join clubs or join sports programs. do afterschool activities. be very social. talk alot. about your "best friend". she isnt your best friend if she doesnt invite you anywhere and invites others places. cait♥

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I am asking this question for a friend... Here is the scenario. Paris is absolutely gorgeous and incredibly smart. She had an ex-boyfriend who was a multi-billionaire and let her live the jet set life, bought her gorgeous items, and let her relax and ride horses, film festivals and hang out on yachts. However, even though she loved him very much, he was a very unstable person in terms of committment and threw her out one day. In the meantime she was accostomed to living the highlife and spend tens of thousands of dollars on credit cards and has hundreds of thousands of dollars in loans (Not kidding). In the last month she has met a very nice guy she knew from University who has always loved her. They speak on the phone every night even though he is an investment banker in another state, and there is serious potential for a committed good relationship and possibly marriage and kids. He's not as wealthy as the other however. Now the problem is the ex wants her back and has offered to pay off all her loans and credit cards but is not offering marriage or any serious committment other than going back to basically being a "kept woman". She has no place to live and all this debt. She's also used to living the high life and might not even be happy with the new guy. If she went with the new guy they might have financial troubles hanging over their heads for a very long time and who's to say it should even work out, but she might find true love. What to do? Live with a man,who you love but might not love or respect you as much adn would never marry you, for money and the high life or take a risk on love and being broke for life?

hey, well she may be used to living "the high life" but if your lving like that with a man that could possibly not even love you then that means nothing. what she needs is true love. bills are a part of life and she may struggle to pay them off. maybe her new love with help a little. but she needs to get out of that rich mans life. cait♥

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how do you tell if a guy is leading you on or if he really likes you?

hey, sometimes its very hard to tell whether a guy really wants you or not. think about the situation. does this guy invite you places? does he call you? does he talk to you on AIM? does he only talk to you a CERTAIN time of day? does he ignore you in front of his friends? ask yourself those questions. those questions will help you get an answer but the best way to know is to ask him yourself. you dont have to ask him in person. you could ask him by AIM or by phone. if you have enough confidence ask him in person! another way you could do this is to have one of your friends find out for you. doing that is sometimes risky. because information can get misinterperted so easily. you could even do both if you wanted. cait♥ ps- if you have any other questions about this dont hesitate to leave something in my inbox!

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I'm still in love with my exboyfriend but I know he doesn't like me anymore but the thing is i CAN'T get over him! I've been trying for over 6 months and I just burst into tears when we had this conversation on the computer...

him: i hav a question
me: yess?
me: whats your question?
him: i love u but here is my question can we put clip art on our project
me: lmao yeah
him: not love love but u no
me: lmao yeah

WHAT SHOULD i DO!? PLEASE HELP ME!

hey, it would be best if you didnt tlak to him for awhile. lay-low with yoru friendship for a few. cait♥

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Prom is coming up! And I am not starting to break out! How can I get these pimples gone quickly?

hey, pro-activ is the best thing for it. its usually quite expensive. fi you cant afford it then use clearasil. cait♥

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A kind of shy kid who's a grade younger than I am supposedly has a crush on me. BUT, I heard this from someone I don't really know...well, he knew me but I didn't know him. Anyways, he told me that the shy kid told them that he liked me. I thought maybe he was lying, so I asked the shy kid's friend and he said "I'm not going to tell you anything.". Wouldn't he just say no if it wasn't true? So I asked my friend to ask him if he likes me, just b/c I am curious. But he kind of shrugged her off. I'm dying to know. From what you've heard, do you think he does or doesn't? And, what should I do...b/c I don't really want to ask him myself, especially if he says yes,b/c I don't really like him like that, and that would be so mean, hehe!

hey, theres no real way to find otu unless you ask him yourself. you dont haev to do it in person. try asking by AIM or by phone. cait♥

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there is this song i have been searching for everywhere but i dont know the name only bits and pieces of it.

it says..

"even when your hustlin baby... and all those gold diggen women"

i know not much of a help!

hey, im not sure but it could be "gold digger" by kayne west. cait♥

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Ok so I have a great bf and weve been going out for about 7 months I'm straight and most of my friends are bi or les. But there one of my friends and keeps kinda getting a lil too far with me like today on the bus she was in top of me and and her head was like on my breast i dont really tell her anything cuz the bad thing is that sometimes I kinda feel like going along with it and sometimes I really want to but I dont know those this mean that I'm bi too????

plz HELP ME!!!

hey, if you want to go along with it then chances are your bisexual. its not a bad thing to be that way. its normal and some people are like that. cait♥

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my school does assigned seating for lunch period. somehow, the past two times they've assigned new table groups, i've sat with one of the same girls. the entire time ive had lunch period with her, i've never seen her eat more than an apple, or occasionaly she nibbles on one of those 100 calorie packets. when i've asked her about it, she always said she's already eaten, or she's not hungry. she isn't a skinny girl, and she doesn't seem to be losing any weight. still, this doesn't seem healty. i'm not sure what to do, or if i should do anything at all. please help!

hey, she just prob. feels embarrased to eat in front of people. dont do anything and let her be. its the best thing for her. shes prob. sensitive about it. cait♥

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i have a problem reading school materials, i cannot read when i want to (there is a specific time i can read effectively like in the morning) and i cannot read for a long time. 1 or 2 things happen when i read, i either get distract and cannot continue to read due to the lack of concentration or when i read it for a long time nothing seems to come into my head and basically i read nothing even though i did.

So how do i get myself to read effectively and for a very long time? especially with biology and chemistry i know there are a lot of readings to do but then i cannot continue to read after 1 hour or 2. I need help bad because im falling behind and need to catch up with all this reading

hey, talk to your teachers about this. let them know that you struggle. also ask your parents if you could maybe get some sort of help. what to do when you have to read alot is this. read paragraph by paragraph and sum up each paragraph. take notes for them and thats how you can study the material. cait♥

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