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Im doing a spanish project and I need to know what kind of cultural foods do people in guatemala eat for breakfast? (link)
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Is there any websites that have pictures of shorthair styles? I've tried searching but all I get is these sites with a billion pop ups and it freezes my computer. (link)
http://www.hairfinder.com/short_hairstyles.htm
http://results.about.com/short_hair_cuts/
http://www.1001-hairstyles.com/short-cuts.htm


There is a guy who i've just recently became really good friends with this year. Last year he was in one of my classes and we barely talked, but this year we ended up being in four classes together and became really good friends. Plus I found out he lived three houses away from me and we hung out once in a while.

He has a crush on one of my friends, a cheerleader who told me she wasn't interested in him at all and thought he was annoying. He told me she was sending mixed signals, flirting with him then ignoring him. She wanted to hook him up with someone else so he would leave her alone. But she was too nice to tell him that, so she wanted me to hook up with him or at least find someone else to. I was like, wtf? I thought that she was being a little rude when she said that, especially trying to push my friend on me just because she didn't want him liking her.

The next day, he was asking me whether or not he had a chance with her and i debated between telling the truth or saying I had no idea, because on one hand, if i told the truth, he might move on and she wouldnt complain so much , but then I might hurt his feelings. But I finally told him to "get over it" because she thought his actions were annoying and she wanted to hook him up with someone else.

Is what I did right? He seemed a little upset when he heard that she wanted him to go out with someone else, but got over it quickly. I'm afraid I might have hurt his feelings though he didn't say it. Was what i did right? Or was I just meddling in someone else's business? Because if I didn't do anything about it, she would have been too nice to tell him to his face that she didnt like him and keep leading him on. (link)
Sometimes the truth hurts. I think you did the right thing.


ok well theres this boy i like alot and well he likes this other girl but last year he told me i am hot so than i started to like him but now he told the other girl he likes her and she doesnt like him but about every 2 month he says it hoping it will change but she not going to change her mind every time he says i like you to her i get so mad/sad cause in those 2 month i try to get him to like me my question is should i get over him or keep trying and if its keep trying what should i do. (link)
Listen to yourself. He is only causing heartache and pain. Is that what you want for yourself?

MOVE ON!!!


Do you ever read a question, roll your eyes and think, "Yeah right, somebody so just made that up"?

If so, what do you do about it? Just not answer or answer it seriously anyways just 'cause it might be real? (link)
If I think that a question is fake I most of the time don't answer it but sometimes I answer it anways because there is always a chance of it being true.


13/f okay so i have this girl that i was friends with last year then we kind of stopped talking...well a few days ago i found out she made a myspace pretending to be me and said all this personal stuff about me...and admittd it was her...i havent confronted her cuz i dont wat to say....i wana know should i confront her? should i telll anyone? and if i confront her waht should i say?
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First, you should make sure that all of this is true, give her myspace a visit because you don't want to cause a big seen over nothing. (This is if you haven't done so already)

Second,you should definitely confront her. Let her know that you don't want her or anyone else pretending to be you. Speak your mind.

Third, you should pick up a dictionary or give dictionary.com a trip.


If i do 30 sit ups today and each week increase by 5 how fast will i have a flat stomach? im 140 ilbs. and im 5'0..and if it will take long then what should i do.. (link)
How fast your stomach flatens depends on your body. Keep in mind that it isn't healthy to loose more than 2-3 pounds a week.
Here are some websites that should help you out.

http://www.annecollins.com/teen-weight-loss-advice.htm
http://www.annecollins.com/weight_loss_tips.htm
http://www.kidzworld.com/site/p2954.htm


ok im 16/f and i think that im starting to like a guy that i work with! he's really sweet and we work a lot together, and i know for a fact that our managers and the owner dont care if we date eachother. the only problem is that he's a junior and know i dont think i have a chance with him...does anyone have any ways to help me be more outgoing or to give him hints that i like him!

ps we work together on thursday so no stupid answers will get 5s! (link)
I think you might have a chance and then again you might not. It depends on his personality.

I think you shouldn't try to be outgoing, simply be yourself. If he doesn't like you for who you are then he isn't worth it.


Hi guys,

The reason that I named the subject "my guy =(" is because the name of the man whom I love is Guy. I went out with him shortly before Christmas break and broke up with him the same day because my friends told me repeatedly that he was gay. He is now going out with a girl named Angela, and I'm realizing that everything my friends said was untrue, and that I made a huge mistake. I am mourning my loss right now, and he really loved me, and I don't know if I'm ever going to get him back. Could someone please help me?

-just call me BLUE (link)
I think you should let him know how you feel. Imagine yourself in his position. Would you let someone back into your life after being dumped by them all because of some false statements that they heard from their friends? I'm pretty sure the answer is no, if not then you are a really forgiving person.
Give him some time, but don't expect for him to come back to you immediately after your talk. It will probably take some time.


One of my close male friends and I email each other. We are just friends, but he sent me an email that made me think that he may like me more. Well I told him in an email that I got 8 inches cut off my hair, and that is was really short now.
He sent me an email back and said " I can hardly WAIT to see your new look, and now you can show off you sexy neck".
Do you think this means he likes me more than a friends? (link)
I honestly doubt him liking you. He said your neck was sexy, that doesn't give off to many vibes showing him having feelings for you.


I do realize you will probably give me the goodle search box, but I've googled far and wide and have not found my lyrics.

Some of the song lyric goes "Oh, is it love?" and "I like where you sleep, when you sleep next to me, I like where you sleep, here"

I do believe this song is by Hellogoodbye, but still I am unable to find the exact song.

Can anyone help? (link)
I applaud you for actually attempting to google it so this should help you

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/hellogoodbye/ohitislove.html



I want to become a nicer person and stop judging people and gossiping about them behind their backs. I constantly find myself doing these things even after I promised my self that I wouldn't. I've lost friends because of me being like this, and I want to be someone others can trust and be someone they can call a good friend. Do you guys have any tips on how to become that type of person? (link)
Here is a tip
STOP DOING EVERYTHING THAT YOU DID BEFORE!!!


okay im 13/f and for a while now i've really really liked this boy, Jimmy, and he did like me but since he found out i liked him so much different things amd problems have been happening. I've got rid of all of them but now there's a new one. My friend ask his friend, mitch why jimmy wouldn't go out with me. All he said was that he thinks he won't go out with me cause all i'll do is f*** him an then leave him! But that's totally not true! Since last year i've been known as a sl*t and I hate it! It's not true! But now so many boys are believeing the rumers that go around about me. I want to tell Jimmy that i wouldn't do that and i really like him but how would i go about doing that?

also if it helps he may not still like me but he plays hard to get.

Thank you! (link)
Use some common sense!!!

If he is willing to listen to rumors then he's not worth your time.

Get over him.




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