Ok, my friend Chris and I are TOTALLY weird. We both have shoes, and were like in love with them! We spit polish them, try not to get them into the mud, and admire them. My Baby Phats are sitting next to me right now and I'm admiring them as I type. Anyway, is this normal? I'm just wondering.
signed-
Baby Phat Lover
In my opinion, yes, this is normal because you are only trying to keep them clean by doing out of the ordinary things like spit polishing them and having them close to you. I own a pair of Baby Phats too and I try to keep them clean too, but I don't try that much. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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alright, well me and my boyfriend like to have fun were both 13..and like the other day i was just like rubbing his 'thing' and stuff and then hes like...said all this stuff..but i ended up fingereing my self with out washing my hands is there a chance i can be pregnet?!
please help!!
Well, if he didn't bust and you didn't get cum or pre-cum on your fingers, then no, you aren't pregnant. But if he did cum and you got some on your fingers and then fingered yourself, then yes, you could be pregnant. For now, you aren't, since he didn't bust. Hope I Helped :)
-Karen
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OK so my boyfriend got me a lot for Valentine's day and all I got him was a teddy bear. I cant think of anything else to get him. If anyone has any ideas at all please help me!! Thanx so so so much , I rate high.
You can buy a few DVD's of his favorite movies or you can burn him a CD of is favorite songs! You can buy him a few shirts from his favorite store or you can get him a gift certificate to the mall and put that in a card where you could write a letter, explaining how you feel about him! One last thing, you can also bring him out to dinner and then to a movie. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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My old bff spread rumors that i was cutting myself and had social problems when i was out of school one week beacause i had mono. Everyone believed them and it about ruined my social life i had no friends for about a month then i met my new bff. The old one apologized and we are friends again but she always tries to start little fights between us like i couldnt talk to her crush or ne other boy cuz i have a bf. Wut should i do? friends or not friends?
You definitely need to move on and forget about this so called "your best friend" A best friend wouldn't spread rumors or tell you who to not talk to and control you. She is definitely not your friend, well she's not a trust worthy friend, and you just need to get rid of her. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Well, I'm a 14/f, and I really don't know how to describe this, but I'll give it a try. Randomly I would get these pains right under my right breast near the ribs, and i would get a pain on the are right above my left breast, on the chest, not actually on the breast area. I was just wodnering if anyone might know if this is something to worry about. I know it's not cramps, but I'm not too sure what it might be. If you can help, please do so. Thank you.
Hey, don't worry, this is a sign that means your breasts are just growing. This is normal but then again, you shouldn't be having pains near your ribs. I would talk to a doctor about that but if you don't want to do that, just take Alieve or Advil to help soothe the pain. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ok ive been "going out" with this guy "Adam" for about 3 years now, and i am truelly in love with this kid. You wouldnt believe. He has told me that he loves my, and all that jazz, but the outher day, he told me he waas falling for another girl. Not as hard as he fell for me. he was all like " i just thought you should know, and i still love you more than anything, and i still wanna hang out, because you are the only girl i have fun with" My question is, should i really be woried, and another thing is i dont know how to talk to him about it. I rate high!
You should be worried but then again, you shouldn't. It's good that he told you that he was falling for another girl and not having you find out from another person. You need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel about this and ask him why he likes this girl now. He will tell you and it will make him feel better. Your boyfriend eventually stop liking this girl but you should still be worried about it. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ok, wuts the average age when teens start having sex. I know, it's when your ready for it and all, but i'm jus wondering when is the average age when people start getting together?
Most teenagers start to have sex around the age of 14 so any where between 13-16 years old.
-Karen
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my boyfriend is supposed to hug me on valentines day and it would our first hug ever... but i don't know what to do... this may sound stupid but please helpp.... i love him soo much... also im afraid my arm pits will smell because lately my deoderent hasn't been working... any suggestions on good deoderents and no spray because i have a reaction to it... thanks... 13/f
Try to use a deoderant that is powder based and that are anti-perspirant. Dove and Secret are both great and they smell really good. Don't worry, you aren't going to smell and you just hug him like you would hug someone else. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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i heard that if you jumprope at a fast pace for 5 minutes straight thats equal to running a mile.. is that true?
Yes, it's true that if you jump rope at a fast pace for 5 minutes straight, it equals running a mile. That's what my physical education teacher told me. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you?
You know when a guy is going to break up with you when he starts to avoid you, when he makes up excuses and cancels dates, when he flirts with other girls, when he doesn't call for a few days, and when he hangs out with his friends and not you. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I'm falling for a really good friend of mine, Chris. He likes me also and we talk about dating.. we've kissed and gone on a few dates already. In June I'm moving back home to texas for college and I was wondering if it's really a good idea to date him when I'm leaving in 3-4 months. I think I know the right answer, but I'm torn and curious as to what everyone else thinks.
Thanks, I rate.
It's definitely a good idea to date this guy! What can happen? Only that you are moving will be the worst thing, since he is not moving with you. You two sound like you should be together and when you do move, start a long distance relationship and definitely stay in touch with him! I know most long distance relationships don't work but it could work for you if you just keep on communicating with him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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If you're an advicenators columnist then maybe you've see this question. It was about this girl who is 2-1/2 months pregnant with this guys baby and she claims to want him alot. I wrote to this person that no guy is worth it no matter what his excuses are. (this is assuming the girl is still in high school you understand) I gave her information on where to get more help and advice, including a website and phone number. Was that the right thing to do?? I'm really lost and unsure.
Hey, that was the right thing to do. It's great that you helped her out somehow and I hope she takes that with appreciation. You don't have to be lost and unsure; be glad that you helped someone out!
-Karen
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Hi does anybody know where a 14 year old boy can find a part-time job that isn't a paper round? Cos i really need the money.
I rate 5 for anybody who tries to answer
There aren't too many places to work at, especially at the age of 14, but I know a few guys who work at Dunkin Donuts and at grocery stores, where they bag items. I know you probably don't want to hear this, but if you ask your parents if you can do more chores, you can get more money from them. Most places have increased their minimum employment age to 16 so you can basically only bag groceries and work at fast food joints such as McDonald's, Burger King, Taco Bell, and at pizza resturants like Pizza Hut, Donatos, etc., but you probably wouldn't want to work there. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?
Signed,
Freaked out Friend
Nope, it wouldn't be nosey to drive over there. It shows that you care and are concerned about your friend. I would be freaked out too if my best friend's house was on fire and I didn't know where she was or if she was okay. I hope everything is alright with your friend! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ok well i have a site n this and everything but when i loged in it said next to your questions it had a number so i clicked on it and it was asking a qustion(not to me but asying that i asked it)could someone have my password
If you have recently asked a question, that number next to "Your Questions" represents the number of answers that have been added to the question since you last checked on it. I don't think someone has your password but if you want to change it, click on your "Profile Settings" (http://www.advicenators.com/settings.php). Once you get to that page, at the top of it, where it says "Part I: Stuff that we never show to anyone", type in your password twice in the password section and then scroll down and hit "Submit". Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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how do you change a password\
To change a password, you need to be logged in and then you click on your "Profile Settings" (http://www.advicenators.com/settings.php). Once you get to that page, at the top of it, where it says "Part I: Stuff that we never show to anyone", type in your password twice in the password section and then scroll down and hit "Submit". Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ok theres this one guy at school that i sorta like but i really never se him out of school and he really doesnt liek me like that.
but then theres this other guy hes a grade lower than me and i hang out with him all the time and im starting to like him. should i stop like the guy i go to school with or what? i dont know?!
Well since you like the guy that you don't see often and that doesn't like you, you should stop liking him, since you don't like him that much. You should definitely keep on liking the guy who is a grade below you because you two always hang out and you like him a lot. Who cares if he is a grade below you! A lot of people like other people that are about 2-4 grades above them. The age and grade of a person doesn't matter. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE!
If you see him at school, walk up to him and just say "Hey, how's it going" and then the conversation will start. This guy may just be really shy and online, he can hide that and pretend that he isn't. This guy probably likes you, since he always IM's you online, once you sign on. Just start talking to him more and he will start talking to you at school. Some guys are like this but they usually change, once a girl starts to talk to them more often. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I have this friend and she seems kinda perverted, she's never had a boyfriend or anything. When i go to her house and change into my p.js or swimsuit or something it seems she is always watching. and she ALWAYS talks about how big or small someone's boobs are! I told her to stop talking about stuff like that and that i think she is a pervert, but she thinks i was joking. I just wish she would shut up!
You definitely need to talk to her and tell her that her comments make you feel uncomfortable and that you want her to stop. If she doesn't understand, then you just need to ignore her and when she asks you why you are ignoring, tell her again about how you feel about her comments about girls and how they make you feel uncomfortable around you. If she still doesn't understand, then she isn't a good friend and you need to find a better one. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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alright i am a 13 year old male and i am friends with this one girl. She already has a boyfriend but he goes to a different skool and she doesn't really get to talk to him. And i like the girl sooo much... What should i do ask her out??
Well, if your friend doesn't talk to her boyfriend that much and she doesn't see him that much either, you should definitely ask her out. Just wait until she and her boyfriend break up because she might not want to go out with you if she hasn't broken up with her boyfriend. Why don't you ask her if there could ever be a possibility of you two going out in the future. If she says there could be, then you just have to wait. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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